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July 18, 2023 52 mins

We have one precious life to live and we have no idea how long we get to live it for. Yet some of us really struggle to show up as our whole and authentic selves for some (or even a lot!) of our time on this planet. Today's guest has spent his life rediscovering his relationship with himself and re-defining his relationships with others. All while learning how to advocate for his own wants, needs and desires and stand up and out for those in the LGBTQIA+ community.

Steve is a prominent bisexual & HIV advocate best known for his work promoting bi-visibility and fighting HIV stigma. He has been featured on SBS Insight's Bisexuality episode, he made global headlines when he publicly disclosed his HIV status, and he works in a range of roles in LGBTQIA+ community health, recently being recognised with an ACON Honour award in Health & Wellbeing. From running pegging workshops to consulting Federal MPs, Steve always brings a message of inclusivity and joy.


We chat

  • Challenges of coming out as Bi-sexual or same sex attracted

  • Transforming a monogamous relationship into a polyamorous relationship

  • Deeply knowing yourself to design your life and relationship

  • How including advocacy in your life can make an impact on both you and the world


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Connect with Sammi & Nathan Jaeger 

Website - https://www.fuelcollective.com.au/
Instagram - Date Forever - https://www.instagram.com/dateforever/
Instagram - Fuelled Up Life - https://www.instagram.com/fuelled.up.life/
Instagram - Nath - https://www.instagram.com/nathjaeger/
Instagram - Sammi - https://www.instagram.com/sammisomewhere/


Connect with Steve Spencer

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ssstorven/


Resources Mentioned

ACON - https://www.acon.org.au/
Pegging Workshop - Studio Kink - https://www.studiokink.com/#/sydney-leather-weekend-2023
Bobby Goldsmith Foundation - https://www.bgf.org.au/

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