Join Joy in this episode as she delves into her thoughts after the film "Players" on Netflix, exploring the complex themes it unravels about love, relationships, and the challenges that come with being an adult looking for grown folks love.
First, Joy reflects on the societal pressure of feeling like time is running out. As she watches the characters grapple with their own timelines, she shares personal insights and experiences, discussing the expectations placed on individuals in their 30s and the quest for fulfillment.
Internet stalking takes center stage as Joy explores the impact of online presence on modern dating. From oversharing on social media to finding out everything about someone before the first date, she discusses the fine line between curiosity and crossing boundaries in the digital age.
The conversation then shifts to the art of manipulating people when dating—putting on a persona or feigning interests to create a favorable impression. Joy explores the ethical implications of such behavior and shares her thoughts on authenticity in relationships.
Dating your best friend or coworkers can be a tricky endeavor, and Joy unpacks the dynamics at play. Drawing from personal experiences and the film's narrative, she examines the blurred lines between friendship and romance, shedding light on the potential rewards and risks involved.
Players: https://www.netflix.com/title/81034895
Finally, Joy explores the desire for the "finished product" guy—a partner who meets all the criteria on the checklist. She discusses the pitfalls of setting unrealistic standards and the importance of embracing imperfections in the pursuit of genuine connections.
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