Dear Franny

Dear Franny

Welcome to the podcast of uncommon conversations about love. Hosted by love coach, TED speaker and author of the upcoming book, HOW TO FIND TRUE LOVE, Francesca Hogi (@dearfranny). Expect to see love and dating from a brand new perspective.

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October 3, 2025 6 mins

Hey, it's Francesca. This is the final episode of Dear Franny. I am so grateful for every person who ever took the time to listen to our show. Thank you for the amazing reviews and support through the years. I truly hope this show has empowered you to know that even though it's complicated, you can have the love you want. Special thanks to Bex Carlos, who edited every single episode of Dear Franny. Hit her up if you ne...

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This episode was inspired by a @manlydeedspodcast clip where the hosts express their love of the show Love on the Spectrum. It's also Francesca's favorite dating show, and in this discussion Francesca encourages listeners to consider how they can create new dating norms that prioritize authenticity and connection. 

 

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April 8, 2025 19 mins

In this episode, Francesca Hogi celebrates the launch of her first book, How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships. To celebrate, she's giving away prizes that include a Theragun, a signed copy of the book and more on Instagram. No purchase required. Enter before Friday, April 11th @dearfranny!

 

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In this episode, Francesca shares a personal story about a relationship that taught her invaluable lessons about self-love, intuition, and the importance of listening to herself on her dating journey. She shares the need for self-awareness and how learning from painful past experiences makes for better future relationships.

 

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In this episode, Francesca discusses self care, the importance of being present and intentional in love and dating. She breaks down the unhelpful advice to "stop looking and then you'll meet your person" and shares what to do instead.

 

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In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca reflects on the complexities of Valentine's Day and the emotional challenges it can bring. She also talks about the grief associated with letting go of old patterns and the courage required to take your love life to the next level. It's not always easy, but you are worth it! 

 

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Inspired by a memorable quote from a matchmaker that's stuck with her for over a decade, Francesca discusses the importance of us looking out for each other romantically speaking. In this episode, she encourages us to take care of ourselves and each other by embracing a more collective approach to dating, moving away from the isolating nature of modern dating culture. She also introduces her upcoming True Love Class Se...

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January 31, 2025 19 mins

Do you know your love assignment? We are all being called to become more loving, but do you know what that actually means for you right now? This is a can't-miss episode for anyone looking to move past confusion and who's ready to graduate to the next chapter of your love journey. 

 

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Have you ever experienced a powerful dream? Have you ever had an insight or an experience in a dream that helped you in your waking life? This episode is a replay of a True Love Society conversation Francesca had with her friend and dream mentor, Angela Stalcup, on the significance of dreams and the practice of 

dream incubation. Angela breaks down how to use this powerful practice for yourself (starting t...

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January 17, 2025 19 mins

In this episode, Francesca reflects on her connection to Los Angeles amidst recent challenges, announces her upcoming book, and shares insights on setting intentions for romantic love in 2025. She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, compassion, and community support while discussing the evolving dating culture and the potential for positive change in relationships. If romantic love is a priority for you in 20...

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In this conversation, Francesca Hogi and Elle J. discuss the challenges and realizations that come with approaching milestone birthdays, particularly focusing on relationships, self-worth, and the importance of connection. Elle shares her journey of seeking a committed relationship after years of prioritizing her career, the impact of COVID on her social life, and her efforts to engage more with others. They explore th...

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Special guests alert! In this engaging conversation, Francesca is joined by the AstroTwins, Ophira and Tali Edut, about their journey into astrology, their breakthrough IAM system, and how astrology can be a valuable tool for personal development and understanding relationships. 

Be sure to check out their new books, The Astrology Advantage and their 2025 Horoscope guide!

 

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This week Francesca coaches Mary through her personal narratives surrounding her attractivenss, her ability to meet someone, and the impact of societal standards on her confidence and relationships. Mary opens up about her experiences with trauma, the challenges of navigating the dating culture, and her journey towards self-acceptance.

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December 6, 2024 23 mins

In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca Hogi reflects on her previous conversation with Tyler, focusing on the theme of honest communication in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and goals, particularly in the context of dating. Francesca encourages listeners to confront their fears and the potential downsides of vulnerability, highlighting that love and connection requ...

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In this special one-time session, Tyler shares with Franny his journey of navigating self-esteem issues that have impacted his love life. He discusses a new, powerful romantic connection he has formed and his uncertainty about its future.The conversation explores the dynamics of his relationship, including the challenges of non-monogamy and the desire for clarity and alignment in their future together. Tyler reflects o...

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November 15, 2024 25 mins

In this episode, Francesca explores the themes of self-worth, vulnerability, and relationship dynamics. Elaborating on some of the themes from last week's 1-on-1 coaching with Allison in Episode 129, she emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's own value, choosing the right partners, and being aware of the patterns we normalize in our relationships. Francesca encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability as a cou...

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In this special episode, we get a front row seat to a 1-on-1 love coaching session with Franny. Allison joins the show to seek help with her dating challenges, self-perception, and emotional growth. Allison candidly opens up about patterns of abandonment she's struggled with and her desire for a healthier, more balanced romantic relationship. Listen in as Franny helps her gain more clarity and create a plan to break he...

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In this episode, Francesca Hogi dives into the ups and downs of navigating life's transitions, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Ever wonder why you're stuck in the same dating patterns or can't quite connect the way you want? Francesca introduces four relatable dating archetypes—Avoider, Looper, Surfer, and Sailor—designed to help you figure out your dating style and uncover the barriers on your pa...

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In this episode, Francesca Hogi discusses her upcoming book 'How to Find True Love' and emphasizes the importance of the four dimensions of love she discusses in the book — mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset. She critiques the oversimplified dating rules of the past and advocates for a more holistic approach to relationships that includes self-discovery and intuition. Francesca highlights the significance of foll...

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In this episode, Francesca Hogi explores the concept of true love, challenging the notion that it is a rare occurrence reserved for the lucky few. She emphasizes that true love is not just about finding 'the one' but about cultivating a relationship with essential qualities such as respect, emotional intimacy, and joy. Francesca discusses the importance of self-love and personal growth in attracting and maintaining hea...

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