File No. 8 | I’m Not Your Donut—Find Your Own Happy

 With Epiphany Files #8, and we’re doing an energy check-in—for real. Inspired by the track “Momentum” (even if I had no clue what it was at first 😂) and a Spiritual AF card that said “Be a badass love beam today,” I had to stop and ask: Is it really my job to make people happy?

Spoiler: It’s not.

This episode is all about self-sourced joy, emotional self-reliance, and that moment when you realize being a kind, radiant human doesn’t mean being a damn vending machine of comfort for others. I share a true story about free boba, divine timing, and how life used to flow effortlessly—before letting the wrong energies in dimmed the light. But now? The sweet life is making a comeback.

We talk:

• The myth of “you complete me”

• Real-life magic in the food court

• 50/50 relationships vs. 100/100 energy

• Why happiness isn’t a group project

• And why I’m not walking around with donuts, bubbles, or guilt

This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt lowkey responsible for everyone else’s vibe. You’re not. Beam your light—but don't drain your battery.

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