Ep. 149: The Different Decades of Marriage — Every Season Has a Purpose

Marriage is a lifelong journey that evolves with each decade—and every season comes with both its own challenges and its unique purpose. In this episode, Chris & Jamie walk through the different decades of marriage—from the idealistic 20s to the legacy-filled 70s—and share biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for every stage. Whether you’re dreaming big, building hard, questioning what’s next, or leaving a legacy, this episode will help you embrace your season with grace, faith, and intentionality.

 

🧭 What You’ll Learn:

• What characterizes each decade of marriage and the purpose within it
• How to strengthen your relationship through every season—from early dreams to late wisdom
• Why your current season matters and how to fully show up for it
• Biblical encouragement and reflection questions for each stage

 

💡 Episode Highlights:

🧡 The Idealistic Years (20s)
• Time of big dreams, passion, and possibilities
• Don't let others stifle your optimism—dream and plan together

🔨 The Industrious Years (30s)
• The building decade: careers, parenting, responsibilities
• High-stress years—easy to feel like co-workers instead of lovers

🔥 The Intense Years (40s)
• Questions of success, identity, and “Have we done enough?”
• Increased financial and physical stress; watch for resentment

🕊️ The Influential Years (50s & 60s)
• A time of wisdom, mentoring, and dreaming new dreams—together
• Warning: high divorce rate in this age group; stay connected

🌳 The Indelible Years (70s & beyond)
• Storytelling season—your words and life hold deep meaning
• Grandchildren watch how you finish the race

 

💬 Reflection & Encouragement:

• No season is wasted—each one has a God-given purpose
• Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…”
• Talk with your spouse: What season are you in? What do you need most from one another right now?

 

🎯 Call to Action:

• 📥 Download your free resource: Marriage Through the Decades Reflection Guide at https://expeditionmarriage.org/podcast/ep-149-the-different-decades-of-marriage-every-season-has-a-purpose
• 👥 Share this episode with another couple—especially one in a different season than you
• ⭐ Leave a review if this episode encouraged you—it helps more couples find hope
• 🌐 Visit ExpeditionMarriage.org for more free tools, blog posts, and resources

 

Closing Reminder:
A great marriage isn’t found—it’s built. One intentional season at a time.
Until next time—keep showing up, keep leaning in, and keep trusting God with your journey.