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August 15, 2024 33 mins

Hello Fabulous!

Jen here, and do I have a treat for you today! I just had an absolutely enlightening chat with the fabulous Julie Menanno. If you don’t already know her, she’s a relationship guru specializing in emotionally focused therapy (EFT), attachment theory, and the fine art of turning relationship chaos into secure love.

Discover more at jenhardy.net

Julie broke it down for us: Most of her couples—about 90%—fall into this “anxious-avoidant” tango. One partner’s basically a golden retriever, desperate for constant affection, while the other is a turtle, retreating into their shell to avoid all that emotional messiness. Sound familiar?

Julie also tackled the big, scary jungle that is finding a good therapist. Spoiler alert: It’s like hunting for a unicorn. Emotionally focused therapy is where it’s at, but mastering it is no small feat. Luckily, Julie’s team operates as coaches and tackles issues across state lines (no magic carpet needed).

(more "Anxious to Secure Relationship with Julie Menanno continued on JenHardy.net)

You can find Julie Menanno and her secure relationship advice in the following places:

Julie’s Podcast- The Secure Love Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-secure-love-podcast-with-julie-menanno/id1753342452
Julie’s Nationally Bestselling Book- Secure Love: 
(US Version) https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Secure-Love/Julie-Menanno/9781668012864
(UK Version) https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Love-Create-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/1529902967/?maas=maas_adg_8DB247C73AC7406FC4472B1FB42F4B47_afap_abs&ref_=aa_maas&tag=maas
Website:
https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship/
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