Many married couples carry a secret: one of them doesn't like sex—they may even dread it. For years, sex has felt more like obligation than pleasure, and they've quietly believed something must be wrong with them.
This week, we're tackling the unspoken question: "What if I'm married and I don't like sex?"
We'll talk about the real reasons sex can feel difficult or even painful, and call out a few common lies that keep couples stuck.
If you've ever felt confused, disappointed, or alone in your struggles with sex, this conversation offers hope, practical insight, and the reminder you don't have to stay where you are.
Co-host: Hannah Nitz
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