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April 10, 2024 80 mins

What's holding you back from embracing your true self? This week, we're joined by Ben Carlton, aka Brother Ben, author of "I'm Black, I'm a Minister, and I'm Gay." Together, we dive into a journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Explore the power of being true to yourself and navigating challenges on your own terms. Discover how the universe responds to your authentic intentions and how self-reflection shapes your relationships.

Other topics discussed are: 

  • It takes you longer because you’re doing it with integrity 

  • Everything is not for you 

  • It's not taking you longer its taking you exactly how long its supposed to take you 

  • You are not competing against others you are competing with yourself 

  • The people you attract are a mirror of yourself 

  • I was around people who didn't like me because I don't like myself 

  • Strong on the outside and in shambles in the inside 

  • Being just happy enough 

  • An*l play don't make you gay 

  • Where can you find queerness in your chart 

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