No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)

We tackle listener questions today from a wife who doesn't even want to want sex, a woman wanting to know how to prepare for her wedding night and marriage, and a wife who can't seem to get all the way there with orgasm.

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From the Bible

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

Resources

• Episode 209: Pursuing Sexual Growth
• Intimacy Mentoring - Honeycomb & Spice
• Email Chris about Intimacy Mentoring
• Episode 191: What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?
• Build True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time by Dan Drake, Joanna Raabsmith, and Matthew Raabsmith
• The Intimacy Pyramid
• Sensate Focus Therapy | Cornell Health
• Everything You Need to Know About Sensate Focus Touch by Linda Weiner, LCSW | YouTube
• Sexual Clarity for Christian Women • Strong Wives
• Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery
• God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery
• Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Dr. Carol Tanksley
• Why Isn't Sex Like What You See in Movies? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 146: The Spectrum of Sexual Desire - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay – ONLY $5!
• Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
• Episode 231: Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
• Virgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns
• Preparing for the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Wedding Night Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Sex for the Clueless Bride - The Marriage Bed
• Sex for the Clueless Groom - The Marriage Bed
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