Why the Longest Study on Happiness Says You're Focusing on the Wrong Things

In this uplifting solo episode of the SuperLife podcast, Darin Olien dives into the science and soul of happiness—what it really is, why we’ve misunderstood it, and how we can rewire ourselves for true contentment. Backed by decades of research (including the 85-year Harvard study on happiness), Darin explores the power of relationships, gratitude, movement, nature, and intention-setting as daily tools for thriving.

Whether you're feeling disconnected or just looking for new ways to deepen your joy and resilience, this episode is packed with actionable steps, mindset shifts, and real talk to help you reconnect with what truly matters.

 

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What You’ll Learn:

00:02:15 – The true art and science of happiness in a chaotic world
00:03:45 – How to build resilience by stepping outside the “matrix”
00:04:21 – The #1 predictor of long-term health and happiness
00:06:35 – Harvard’s 85-year study on relationships and longevity
00:08:12 – How close connections protect your brain and body
00:09:48 – Why “social fitness” is just as important as physical fitness
00:11:16 – The surprising benefits of aging: boundaries & positivity
00:12:32 – Meaningful goals vs. meaningless ambition
00:14:10 – Darin’s mindfulness and breathing routines for mental clarity
00:15:46 – Why sleep is the ultimate superpower (and how he gets 8.5 hours)
00:16:13 – Micro-habits that reset your mood instantly
00:17:56 – The ripple effect of small acts of kindness
00:18:16 – Using nature and awe as powerful antidepressants
00:19:46 – Smiling as a nervous system hack
00:20:04 – Reframing negative thoughts and using them for insight
00:21:42 – The power of deliberately scheduling positivity
00:22:25 – Why writing out your “perfect day” can transform your life
00:24:39 – How contentment is your default state (and how to return to it)
00:25:23 – Darin’s upcoming Patreon and the future of SuperLife content

 

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Thank You to Our Sponsor:

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Get More From Darin Olien:

Website: www.darinolien.com
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