Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today's episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today's candid and sexually empowered guest!
Key Points From This Episode:
• An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle.
• Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage.
• Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured.
• Rule-setting and the feedback process.
• Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle.
• Why it's essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner.
• Casey's opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job!
• Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty.
• Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters.
• Advice for building confidence while riding your man.
• Why Casey doesn't edit any of her content.
• How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence.
• Tips for women who are hoping to squirt.
• Casey's complex journey into the lifestyle.
• The story behind Casey's four books.
Quotes:
"[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it's hard for people to understand how three people isn't always the same equation. But it really isn't." [0:05:50]
"It's like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed." [0:08:26]
"There's no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It's just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it." [0:19:06]
"A lot of times, people don't want to talk about sex when they're having sex, but that's the best time." [0:30:53]
"If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don't let somebody hurt your body because you don't want to hurt their feelings." [0:31:22]
Links Mentioned in Today's Episode:
Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/
Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/
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