5 Steps To Growing Your Leadership Empathy

In this episode of The Lazy CEO Podcast, host Jim Schleckser welcomes Rob Volpe, author of the book "Tell Me More About That." The discussion centers around empathy, a crucial trait for great leaders. The podcast explores how empathy is often misunderstood and considered a soft skill that leaders might struggle with. However, Rob highlights that empathy is about connecting with another person's perspective or feelings as they experience them to foster better understanding and relationships.

The conversation revolves around the five elements of empathy that can help leaders develop this essential skill. The first element is dismantling judgment, which involves recognizing and overcoming biases and preconceived notions. Rob encourages self-awareness and practicing curiosity to understand where judgments originate. He suggests keeping a judgment journal to become more aware of biases and stereotypes.

The second element is asking good questions. Leaders should employ open-ended, exploratory questions to gain deeper insights into people's perspectives and feelings. Rob advises reframing questions using "who, what, where, when, and how" instead of "why," as "why" can put people on the defensive.

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