Another Major Advantage With Women - SFTS85

=== SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT === Two weeks ago I hypothetically offered to grant you every advantage over me except ONE when it comes to attracting women and relating to them. Well, several of you had a pretty good comeback for that. You hit me with another possible #1 advantage that's not easy to argue with. However, after some deliberation, I'm still reserving the same advantage for myself after all. For sure, the one you suggested is HUGE, and without it you're going to suffer with women big time. But in the end, the advantage I originally suggested will ultimately overcome it. Here's why. https://mountaintoppodcast.com/substack

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Episode Transcript

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You're listening to Snippets from the Summit with your host Scott McKay.
Alright, how's it going gentlemen?
This is your main man Scott McKay coming at you again with another snippet from the summitas part of the mountaintop podcast from X and Y communications.
Now as you know, over the past couple of weeks we've been talking about how I might grantyou every advantage over me when it comes to attracting women and relating to them except

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one.
And spoiler alert, if you haven't listened to the snippet from the summit from two weeksago, go ahead and listen to it right now.
You might want to hit pause.
But if you have already listened to it, want to remind you that that one advantage wasmasculinity as women define it.
In other words, making a woman feel safe and comfortable in my presence.

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And the week following that last week, again, spoiler alert, I changed the big four fromhaving masculinity and making women feel safe and comfortable being two different
components of the big four.
to being one combined as they probably should have been all along.
That left room for another component in the Big Four and I've decided that also all alongit should have been liking women.

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If you actually like women, they're gonna like you back.
Now, some of you guys have come back to me and said over the course of the last coupleweeks, well wait a minute, what about that other factor in the Big Four, namely
confidence?
You guys have been saying to me, let me get this straight, McKay, you're willing to grantme confidence over you as long as you have masculinity as women define it in your favor.

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Well, those of you who've brought that up, you bring up an excellent, excellent point.
What if you do have confidence over me, even if I am masculine in the way women define itand I can attract them that way?
If I don't have confidence, I may shy away, I may stay home, I may not even bother to
even believe women would like me even if they would because I'm masculine as women defineit.

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Without confidence, I don't even get off a top dead center.
I don't even get started.
I think that's a fair point.
But here's the thing.
If I don't have a lot of confidence, I may still accidentally start a conversation with awoman and it goes well.
I may have a woman proactively approach me because I'm so darn masculine in the way womendefine it.

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Whereas if you do indeed have confidence over me, but it isn't backed up with masculinityas women define it, and you know, along with that, maybe that other component of the Big
Four, not liking women while we're at it, right?
Everything you do is going to come up short.

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It's all gonna kind of ring as inauthentic, maybe even shallow or even hollow, okay?
Why?
Because even though you're confident, you're not offering women anything they're actuallyattracted to or looking for beyond that.
Yes, you may walk up to every woman on the street and say, hey, let's go out, or hey,let's have sex, right?

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I'm reminded of the man show bit where they said, if I ask 100 women to have sex with me,chances are one of them will say yes, and they indeed went out on the street and proved
it, right?
Well,
That's why I think I still want masculinity as women define it if I have to choose oneadvantage and give you all the rest.

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Granted, if you're a confident mofo, that is a major advantage for sure.
You're going to appear to run circles around me at first, but you know, withoutmasculinity as women define it, that confidence may turn very quickly to women saying to
you, you know, I just don't feel it or
let's just be friends or like wow you really were bold to come talk to me like that butyou know ultimately ick.

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I'd rather be the clock that's right twice a day without the confidence if I havemasculinity as women define it in my favor rather than going around and trying to sow
confidence everywhere I go and then not reaping anything for all my efforts.
If you disagree with me, want to make a counterpoint?
or indeed want to talk about anything else, email me at scott at mountaintoppodcast.com.

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And by the way, on this topic of confidence, I got a great show with a great guest comingat you on Thursday at midnight.
And I think you're really going to enjoy it.
We'll kind of keep this topic flowing for the rest of the week.
Good stuff coming.
Be good out there.
As always, visit mountaintoppodcast.com for more.