#74: [Inside the Mind] Dr. Joseph Parent: Unconditional Confidence, Remaining on the Offensive, and How to Go Low with the PAR Method

 #74: [Inside the Mind] Dr. Joseph Parent: Unconditional Confidence, Remaining on the Offensive, and How to Go Low with the PAR Method

In this powerful and enlightening episode of The Scratch Golfer’s Mindset Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Joseph Parent, author of Zen Golf and one of the most respected minds in golf psychology. 

Together, we break down the mental collapse Rory McIlroy experienced at Augusta, why players in the lead shift from offensive to defensive mindsets, and how to overcome the urge to “protect” a lead that doesn’t actually exist.

Dr. Parent unpacks the roots of time-traveling thoughts, teaches how to return to presence with the “Love the Way It Leaves” mindset, and shares his proven PAR method: Preparation, Action, and Response to Results. 

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

• Why shifting from offensive to defensive play derails your round
• How “protecting a lead” is a mental trap
• What real focus and commitment look like on a shot
• How to let go of the past (and future) and return to presence
• Why most players collapse in Amen Corner — and how to prevent it
• The PAR method to respond to good and bad shots alike
• How to build unconditional confidence regardless of current performance

Whether you're a 20 handicap or chasing scratch, this episode will radically shift how you view confidence, pressure, and progress.

Get your pencils ready and start listening. 

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More About Dr. Joseph Parent

Dr. Joe Parent is a renowned expert in Performance Psychology and has coached the mental game in golf, business, and life for over 40 years. Dr. Parent has worked with major champions, many other top golf professionals, and amateurs at every level. He has the singular distinction of coaching both a man (Vijay Singh) and a woman (Cristie Kerr) to #1 in the World Golf Ranking. Golf Digest magazine honored Dr. Parent in their list of “Top Mental Game Experts” in the world.

• Learn more about Dr. Joe and purchase “Zen Golf” here.
• Connect with Dr. Joe on Instagram - @drjoeparent.

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Key Takeaways:

• You don’t “have” the lead — you only have your next shot. Treat each one with the same intention.
• Offense wins in golf. Shifting to “protect” a score leads to tentative swings and poor decisions.
• Commitment is clarity. A vague shot plan leads to vague swings. Clear images = clear results.
• Most bad shots stem from mental interference, not swing flaws — especially under pressure.
• Return to presence by letting go. Your body is always here. It’s your mind that time travels.
• “Love the way it leaves.” Focus on your process, not the outcome.
• Unconditional confidence means trusting your skills even when results aren't there yet.

Key Quotes:

• “You’re not holding the lead. You’re just holding onto an idea that doesn’t exist ye