#81: Dissecting Fear: Understanding the Invisible Force That Shapes Your Game

Fear is the most common force keeping golfers—and people—stuck. 

But here's the truth: you're not actually afraid of missing the putt, chunking the chip, or topping your drive. 

You're afraid of what it means about you. 

• Of being judged. 
• Rejected. 
• No longer welcome. 

In this solo episode, I break down the hidden cost of living in fear and the subtle yet life-changing difference between feeling scared and being fearful. I also discuss timeless wisdom from the Stoics, actionable tools to diffuse fear, and a powerful exercise to help you move forward, on and off the course.

In this episode, you’ll learn…

• Why “fear” is a survival state—and why it’s keeping you stuck
• The difference between being scared and being afraid
• The 3 primal fears that still drive modern-day self-sabotage
• How fear hijacks your imagination and narrows your focus
• Why standing out—even in a Saturday foursome—can trigger intense fear
• How to use action as a tool to break free from fear’s grip
• What Tim Ferriss’ “Fear-Setting” exercise can teach you about worst-case scenarios

Get your pencils ready and start listening. 

Resources Mentioned:

• Dissecting Fear: Understanding the Invisible Force That Shapes Your Game
• Nerves or Readiness? How to Reframe Your Body’s Physical Reaction on (and off) the Golf Course

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High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching

Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential.

He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various in