Episode 20: Deconstruction-Starting Over

Deconstruction-the act of breaking down a larger meaning by looking at the constructs upon which that meaning is based.  Commonly, this term applies to literature, but it can be used in a variety of ways.  Today, I share the story of my own personal deconstruction.  It was a dark time in my life, right before my 23rd birthday, when I was lost and very much alone in life.  The life I had started to build for myself had fallen apart, and I was at a crossroads in life.  The choices I made during these very difficult days change my life forever. So many of us come to these types of crossroads during our journey along life's path.  We find ourselves lost, almost certain that nobody else could possibly understand us or what we need at that time.  Some of us stay the course and follow the path of least resistance, and yet others forge a new path.  We venture into parts unknown and push ourselves to become something different.  We dare to grow and to achieve, Today, I share with you the time in my life where I became disenfranchised with my career and my overall direction in life.  I share with you the tale of my broken compass that had led me so far astray. We explore as the pillars I had built my life around fell away and I finally took that chance to start over.  I swallowed my pride, moved back home, and refocused my life.  I redefined what I wanted for myself, and set a path to reach that new goal. Deconstruction is healthy and can be a very effective tool at any point in life.  We do not exist in a vacuum.  The word around us constantly evolves, and as a result, constantly changes.  Just like the world, we constantly grow and evolve as well!  This process is natural, and healthy!  It is vitally important!  Embracing change is essential to a happy and productive life.  We grow, and since we grow, we change! As always, thanks for being a part of the journey!  I am super happy to be able to share these 20 episodes with you!  I look forward to sharing the next 20 with you as well!  Thanks for listening, for sharing!  Check back on July 15th for Episode 21!