Second Date Update

Episode Transcript

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It's the second date update Mojo inthe morning. All right, why are
you not getting a call back afteryou went on a date? We're going
to find out right now. Mandyis getting ghosted by a girl that she
went on a date with. Firstoff, where was the date, Mandy?
Well, we usually hang out afterwork we're not working, but it
was at her house. Okay,So you guys ended up going to her

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house and the date was at herhouse. And I understand that. You
guys what just did a little cookingand kind of hung out and had dinner.
Yeah, like it was like twoweeks ago. I made her dinner
at her house. But I thoughtwe had a good time. And I
haven't heard that mar So you wentover to her house, you made her
dinner, and now she is ghostingyou. Yeah, what's the story?

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We're going to find out right now. Claire is on the phone with us.
Claire, are you okay with yourvoice on the radio? Yeah,
that's fun. So Claire say hito Mandy. Hi, Hey, what's
the story Claire? You guys didn'thave a good time with each other?

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Or why would all of a suddenyou not be calling her back? Well,
she came over to make me dinner, and dinner was nice, but
she declined my Venmo request for payingfor her half of the meal. She

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left a giant mess in my kitchen, and she took all of the leftovers.
I just I can just tell it'skind of rude. Wait, oh,
so you paid for all of thegroceries and all the ingredients for the
meal. Yeah, and then Icleaned up after everything in my kitchen was

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used, and you sent a Venmorequest to get what did you want half
of it paid for? Or doyou want all of it paid for?
Yeah? No, just have Okay, So Mandy, Yeah, what's the
story. I just said, that'skind of I think that's kind of rude,
though, to ask me for halfof it. I mean, I

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cooked the whole thing, and youguys didn't talk about splitting the cost beforehand.
I assume no, not at all. So you so you did the
cooking, she provided the food,she asked you to pay for half of
it. You just completely blew thatoff. But also she paid for the
food. Did you really pack upthe stuff and bring it all home with
you? Yeah? Because I thinkI made it to take our tupperward too,

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and neither half your for half lineor you know, like it just
seems really immature and rude, andI just I just can't deal what what
went on besides the making of thedinner? So you got go over you
hang out Mandy? Do you guysdo you guys get romantic with each other

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at all? Do you guys?Cass hole? You know, Yeah,
we had a good time. Wewatched a movie afterwards. I mean,
we had a good time. Ithought it was a good time. I
left it feeling good. I hopeshe did, but like so she when
when she left, When Mandy left, Claire, you felt good about the
date until I got into the kitchenand realized that everything was a complete mess

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and then had to clean up.And I don't know, it was just
like it didn't but feel like aneven split of anything. And I like,
I'm an older sibling and I justfelt like I was cleaning up after
my younger siblings. But here's thething, Like I cook, you clean

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Like that's fifty fifty you guys,I have already been married for a time.
I know, well, you expectme to come over, cook everything,
clean everything? Yeah? Yeah,Why do I feel like this is
not an episode of Second date update, But am I the a hole right
now? And asking the question?Is Mandy the a hole for for what

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she's uh she's doing? I wantto ask the listeners this question. Eight
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You just heard their story layout.Mandy went over to Claire's place on a
first date to make food for herthat Claire purchased, but Mandy took the
left over his home and didn't cleanup after herself. I do think though

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she is in the wrong for notpaying her share of the Venmo, Like
if someone Venmo requests you and youdecline it, I feel like that is
so rude that yeah, that's kindof spitty. But Claire, I feel
like you could have also spoken up, like you knew your kitchen was a
mess unless you live in a mansionand you don't, and you don't pass
it on the way out the door, and you also saw her take the

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tupperware, if you didn't speak upand say, wait, I want half
of that or that's my stuff oryou know, I feel like that part
is on you. Maybe I don'tfeel like I should have to say,
hey, can you leave me halfof the food that I paid all of
it for you. But if youare still thinking about it today and it

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upset you that much, you sawher work out the door with it,
what I'm just saying is, whydidn't you just say to her like,
hey, can you leave half?Can you leave half for me? Like?
I don't think that's bad to say. I think it didn't bother me
as much at first, Like Ididn't realize how much it bothered me until
some time to path. The moreI thought about it, it was like,

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no, that's yeah. I didn'teven get to enjoy any leftovers.
Like Amanda wants to comment on this, Amanda, what are your thoughts?
You don't get to enjoy the leftoversif you don't like her enough to not
worry about it she cooked for you. Go if you like somebody enough that
it doesn't matter what they do,you're gonna like them either way. So

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I think she's just looking for anexcuse. Who's looking for the excuse?
Claire's looking for the excuse? Yes, Claire Claire whose house it was that
was a mess. Interesting, Soyou think if she liked her more,
she would have had no problem witheven pain for the food too. And
if you're inviting somebody over to yourhouse. You're responsible for feeding them,

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not them. Yeah, wow's day. That's interesting. Why Ross, what
are your thoughts? My thoughts areit was it seems like it was the
first date, right, Yes,it was first date. Yeah, so
it should be fifty to fifty.You can't just not pay for anything,
just cook, leave a mess andtake it all. Yeah. So you

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think that Mandy's in the wrong forbasically going over there and all she did
was cook the cook cooking. Reallyreally, it's honestly you that's probably both
participe it in some way. Yeah, that's a lot like seventy five.
I can only imagine by the waythat everything was really nice and romantic.

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At the beginning of the night.You guys are sitting around with wine glasses
while you know, Mandy's doing allthe cooking, and then at the end
of the night you go into thekitchen and so it's a complete mass.
You're like, oh my god,this is horrible. This really is like
an old married couple. Hair.What's up, Daisy? Are you doing?
Hi? How's it going good?What do you think? I genuinely

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a whole situation is a little weird. But like, I don't think that
it was wrong for her to askfor a half because even though she cooked,
like, all the leftovers were takenhome and she had to clean up
the mess. Yeah, the firstmistake was like not cashing out who should
be doing what? Like if theyalready knew she was planning to buy this
up and the other girl was goingto come from it, it sounds to

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me Mandy and Claire. It soundsto me the only thing you guys worked
out was that Claire was gonna orMandy was to be doing the cooking.
Yeah, and that was it.That's pretty Yeah, the leftover part upsets
Charlotte too, Charlotte, what doyou think? So? I definitely feel
like Mandy did kind of pay herpart. She used her own gas to

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make it over to Claire's house,and gases and cheap these days, So
the fact that they decided it wasgoing to be at her house, he
already paid for gas, he alreadymade her way over there, he cooked
the food. The only thing thatI don't like is that she did take
all of the leftovers home without askingif Clare wanted Eddie, if you would
be if you didn't pay for anyof it doesn't make a difference. If
you're the one that put all thework into it and had to pay for

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your gas to go over there,you shouldn't be taking leftovers home. But
is that why you go somebody overleftover? I just don't think. I
definitely don't think they should have beenghosted. You're gonna use gas no matter
where I'll go, though, ButI think that what it was to me
for Claire is it's one thing afterthe other after the other. Yeah,
And like the previous caller said,you know, if she looked at her

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and said she was you know fine, And I don't want to be without
her, you know what I mean, Like there's obviously not an attraction that
you have, right Claire, Yeah, I mean, I just don't want
to have to haggle with someone overyou know, doing stuff like but are
but are you attracted to Mandy?Because if you were attracted to her,

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I would clean their you know,their dirty you know, feet off of
the floor like for them, youknow what I mean, Like I would
do whatever it took. I mean, I'm sorry you're so thirsty, but
all right, maybe that is aproblem with me. All right, Well,
but I'm saying, if you're attractedto somebody, you put up with

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a lot of crap before you allof a sudden say no, way right,
yeah, but I think I hitmy limits. Okay, all right.
By the way, what did youmake Mandy because of let's see,
let's see if it was worth it? What kind of meal did you make?
It? Totally worth it? Itwas a roast with roast potatoes and

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carrot. It was awesome. Youmade her clean the crock pot. I'm
the other girl's side. No,you got to you got to work,
all right. Second Date updates,A whole with a Dirty on the thirty,
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