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Speaker 1 (00:03):
The views and opinions expressed on this
podcast or website are those ofthe authors and do not
necessarily reflect the officialpolicy or position of A Queen's
Opinion.
Any content provided by ourbloggers or authors are of their
opinion and are not intended tomalign any religion, ethnic
group, club, organization,company, individual or anyone or
(00:26):
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Welcome to a Queen's Opinion.
My name is Queen, my voice, myopinion and your listening ears.
My voice, my opinion and yourlistening ears.
This episode we are talkingabout kissing.
Has kissing changed for you?
(00:55):
Kissing, kissing, kissing, likewe used to do back in the day,
you know you would kiss all thetime Kiss on the cheek, kiss on
the neck, kiss on the ear, Kiss,kiss, kiss.
But it's not the same.
(01:16):
These days Kissing is verydifferent.
Some people don't even want tokiss.
They just like the hugging andcuddling and a peck every now
and then on the cheek.
But that passionate kissingdoes not happen often.
(01:46):
You know the first kiss that youwere so nervous about doing to
another person when you were inyour teenage years.
You know it was so exciting tobe kissed and wanting to kiss
someone.
You know you didn't know how totongue kiss your first kiss.
You didn't know how wide you'resupposed to open your mouth or
how much tongue you weresupposed to give someone.
You just wanted to kiss thatperson.
(02:08):
You know, or you thought whenyou kissed that person it was
going to be all good.
And when you did apply thatkiss, you became all tingly and
hot.
Do you remember that first kiss.
Let me give you a few secondsfor that mind to take you on a
(02:31):
flashback of that first kiss.
Oh yes, you remember.
You remember when that youngman pulled you close into your
arms and kissed your lips softly.
Your heart was racing.
Your eyes were open at first,then slowly closed.
(02:53):
The body started feeling warmbetween your legs and fluids
started being produced.
Yes, yes.
And then you both opened yourmouth just a little bit and he
stuck his tongue into your mouthand you followed suit and stuck
your tongue in his mouth.
(03:14):
Both of you exchanged saliva.
It sounds so nasty now when wehear the saliva exchange, but
back in the day, honey, thatdidn't even bother you In the
moment.
Yes, that kiss was everything.
(03:37):
We really didn't know what to dowith our tongue, except for
what we learned from watchingsomeone else.
So you stuck your tongue inthat other person's mouth.
Now y'all tongues may havetouched a little bit and you're
moving it around a little bit,and the more you did that, the
(03:59):
body reacted to the movement.
Your body is thumping, growingwetter.
You know what I'm talking about, right?
Oh, yes, I love to be kissed.
I don't know about you, butkissing is the jump off.
(04:19):
If you do it right, it's thejump off for part two.
You know what I'm saying, right?
Part two taking the clothes offand putting other things in
place.
Yes, kissing is the jump off.
Kissing is the jump off.
(04:40):
Well, as you got older and moreexperienced in kissing, it got
better.
As you got older, after thechildren, the kissing changed.
Now the kissing was strictly onthe cheek, the neck and the
(05:01):
forehead.
You began to ask yourself do Ieven like kissing?
Do I want to kiss anymore?
Now you kiss with a closedmouth and puckered lip.
You open your mouth not to giveor receive a strong, passionate
(05:25):
tongue kiss, but to say thewords I love you.
With closed lips and a puckerkiss, that's all you are getting
right now because you got thosechildren to deal with, working
for the man and coming home tohandle all those requirements
too.
But you want to show him, yes,I'm still engaged in this
(05:49):
relationship, yes, I am still init and, yes, I love you.
Now go on with your businessbecause I have things around the
house to do.
This stage happens over 40.
Every now and then, when youand him want to make some
(06:11):
passionate love, you kiss, likeyou did at the beginning, with
your tongue.
You know, with the tonguekissing, yes, tongue kissing
starts suddenly boom, pop, thatsexy feeling To let each other
know.
I remember the tingle fromkissing.
(06:34):
Yes, kissing tingling.
Yes.
Now, later down the road, yes,once again you change, he
changes and you are back to thekissing on lips closed.
Now kissing is different whenyou're over the age of 50.
Kissing now, over the age of 50, has gone down to kissing for
(07:00):
remembrance and appreciation.
A kiss in the morning withclosed lips, say I remember you.
Yes, I remember this man in mybed and I love him.
Remember this man in my bed andI love him.
A kiss when you leave the houseto go handle your business, to
(07:26):
let him know I'll be back later.
A kiss when you return fromyour daily chores to remind each
other that I'm still here withyou.
A kiss while you're preparingdinner to let each other know
you appreciate all that you dofor each other.
A kiss at bedtime to say I loveyou, good night and I'll see
(07:49):
you in the morning.
Kissing is not the same when youget way past the 40s and 50s.
You now kiss with meaning,purpose and that
death-do-you-part love.
No need for all that tongue andsaliva passing anymore.
(08:12):
It's okay to not want to kiss,or at least not want to tongue
kiss.
I don't want to kiss sometimes,but I do it because kissing
reminds both of us that we'restill in love and we still love
each other and we still feel andlook sexy to each other.
(08:36):
So kissing is a reminder.
You don't have to get all turntup like in the younger days,
because being together is enough.
Looking at his face with thosebeautiful eyes is more than
enough.
You know what I told you aboutthe eyes, right?
(08:58):
If you don't remember, go backto catch that episode.
But the eyes are so beautifuland I love my man's eyes.
Yes, I do, but I don't need thetongue kissing to get me turned
on.
You see, according to thedictionary, kissing is to join
(09:24):
lips in respect, affection, loveand passion.
Kissing is to touch or presswith the lips slightly pursed.
Based on this definition, I amgood.
No tongue required.
(09:45):
Do you still kiss?
Give the queen some feedback.
Shoot me a text, email me orInstagram post.
You can even click the buttonbelow to like this episode.
Share it with your friends.
I can't wait to hear back fromyou.
(10:15):
A Queen's Opinion is a podcastthat allows people, especially
women, to think out loud aboutlife situations and seek an
opinion without being judged up,encourage you to be the best
(10:38):
person you can be, to inspireyou to step out of your comfort
zone and into your queen zone.
I didn't say my opinion willsolve your problems.
I am not saying that I am right, but what I am saying is I'm
going to give you another viewof the situation from a distance
.
No more thinking or questioninga situation by yourself.
(10:59):
Ask the queen.
Go to our website,wwwaquingsopinioncom and click
on.
Get in touch to leave yourfeedback or leave a question for
the queen.
Don't forget to like uswherever you get your podcasts.
Thank you for taking time outof your day.
(11:21):
I hope you join me for our nextepisode.
Until then, goodbye.
The views and opinions expressed on this
podcast or website are those ofthe authors and do not
necessarily reflect the officialpolicy or position of A Queen's
Opinion.
Any content provided by ourbloggers or authors are of their
opinion and are not intended tomalign any religion, ethnic
group, club, organization,company, individual or anyone or
(00:26):
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Welcome to a Queen's Opinion.
My name is Queen, my voice, myopinion and your listening ears.
My voice, my opinion and yourlistening ears.
This episode we are talkingabout kissing.
Has kissing changed for you?
(00:55):
Kissing, kissing, kissing, likewe used to do back in the day,
you know you would kiss all thetime Kiss on the cheek, kiss on
the neck, kiss on the ear, Kiss,kiss, kiss.
But it's not the same.
(01:16):
These days Kissing is verydifferent.
Some people don't even want tokiss.
They just like the hugging andcuddling and a peck every now
and then on the cheek.
But that passionate kissingdoes not happen often.
(01:46):
You know the first kiss that youwere so nervous about doing to
another person when you were inyour teenage years.
You know it was so exciting tobe kissed and wanting to kiss
someone.
You know you didn't know how totongue kiss your first kiss.
You didn't know how wide you'resupposed to open your mouth or
how much tongue you weresupposed to give someone.
You just wanted to kiss thatperson.
(02:08):
You know, or you thought whenyou kissed that person it was
going to be all good.
And when you did apply thatkiss, you became all tingly and
hot.
Do you remember that first kiss.
Let me give you a few secondsfor that mind to take you on a
(02:31):
flashback of that first kiss.
Oh yes, you remember.
You remember when that youngman pulled you close into your
arms and kissed your lips softly.
Your heart was racing.
Your eyes were open at first,then slowly closed.
(02:53):
The body started feeling warmbetween your legs and fluids
started being produced.
Yes, yes.
And then you both opened yourmouth just a little bit and he
stuck his tongue into your mouthand you followed suit and stuck
your tongue in his mouth.
(03:14):
Both of you exchanged saliva.
It sounds so nasty now when wehear the saliva exchange, but
back in the day, honey, thatdidn't even bother you In the
moment.
Yes, that kiss was everything.
(03:37):
We really didn't know what to dowith our tongue, except for
what we learned from watchingsomeone else.
So you stuck your tongue inthat other person's mouth.
Now y'all tongues may havetouched a little bit and you're
moving it around a little bit,and the more you did that, the
(03:59):
body reacted to the movement.
Your body is thumping, growingwetter.
You know what I'm talking about, right?
Oh, yes, I love to be kissed.
I don't know about you, butkissing is the jump off.
(04:19):
If you do it right, it's thejump off for part two.
You know what I'm saying, right?
Part two taking the clothes offand putting other things in
place.
Yes, kissing is the jump off.
Kissing is the jump off.
(04:40):
Well, as you got older and moreexperienced in kissing, it got
better.
As you got older, after thechildren, the kissing changed.
Now the kissing was strictly onthe cheek, the neck and the
(05:01):
forehead.
You began to ask yourself do Ieven like kissing?
Do I want to kiss anymore?
Now you kiss with a closedmouth and puckered lip.
You open your mouth not to giveor receive a strong, passionate
(05:25):
tongue kiss, but to say thewords I love you.
With closed lips and a puckerkiss, that's all you are getting
right now because you got thosechildren to deal with, working
for the man and coming home tohandle all those requirements
too.
But you want to show him, yes,I'm still engaged in this
(05:49):
relationship, yes, I am still init and, yes, I love you.
Now go on with your businessbecause I have things around the
house to do.
This stage happens over 40.
Every now and then, when youand him want to make some
(06:11):
passionate love, you kiss, likeyou did at the beginning, with
your tongue.
You know, with the tonguekissing, yes, tongue kissing
starts suddenly boom, pop, thatsexy feeling To let each other
know.
I remember the tingle fromkissing.
(06:34):
Yes, kissing tingling.
Yes.
Now, later down the road, yes,once again you change, he
changes and you are back to thekissing on lips closed.
Now kissing is different whenyou're over the age of 50.
Kissing now, over the age of 50, has gone down to kissing for
(07:00):
remembrance and appreciation.
A kiss in the morning withclosed lips, say I remember you.
Yes, I remember this man in mybed and I love him.
Remember this man in my bed andI love him.
A kiss when you leave the houseto go handle your business, to
(07:26):
let him know I'll be back later.
A kiss when you return fromyour daily chores to remind each
other that I'm still here withyou.
A kiss while you're preparingdinner to let each other know
you appreciate all that you dofor each other.
A kiss at bedtime to say I loveyou, good night and I'll see
(07:49):
you in the morning.
Kissing is not the same when youget way past the 40s and 50s.
You now kiss with meaning,purpose and that
death-do-you-part love.
No need for all that tongue andsaliva passing anymore.
(08:12):
It's okay to not want to kiss,or at least not want to tongue
kiss.
I don't want to kiss sometimes,but I do it because kissing
reminds both of us that we'restill in love and we still love
each other and we still feel andlook sexy to each other.
(08:36):
So kissing is a reminder.
You don't have to get all turntup like in the younger days,
because being together is enough.
Looking at his face with thosebeautiful eyes is more than
enough.
You know what I told you aboutthe eyes, right?
(08:58):
If you don't remember, go backto catch that episode.
But the eyes are so beautifuland I love my man's eyes.
Yes, I do, but I don't need thetongue kissing to get me turned
on.
You see, according to thedictionary, kissing is to join
(09:24):
lips in respect, affection, loveand passion.
Kissing is to touch or presswith the lips slightly pursed.
Based on this definition, I amgood.
No tongue required.
(09:45):
Do you still kiss?
Give the queen some feedback.
Shoot me a text, email me orInstagram post.
You can even click the buttonbelow to like this episode.
Share it with your friends.
I can't wait to hear back fromyou.
(10:15):
A Queen's Opinion is a podcastthat allows people, especially
women, to think out loud aboutlife situations and seek an
opinion without being judged up,encourage you to be the best
(10:38):
person you can be, to inspireyou to step out of your comfort
zone and into your queen zone.
I didn't say my opinion willsolve your problems.
I am not saying that I am right, but what I am saying is I'm
going to give you another viewof the situation from a distance
.
No more thinking or questioninga situation by yourself.
(10:59):
Ask the queen.
Go to our website,wwwaquingsopinioncom and click
on.
Get in touch to leave yourfeedback or leave a question for
the queen.
Don't forget to like uswherever you get your podcasts.
Thank you for taking time outof your day.
(11:21):
I hope you join me for our nextepisode.
Until then, goodbye.
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