September 21, 2024 • 11 mins
What if the words "I love you" held more power than you ever imagined? Join me, Queen, as we explore the deep, intrinsic connection behind these three words in our latest episode of "A Queen's Opinion." We'll unpack how these words can transform relationships, the importance of trust and care, and why love remains eternal, even beyond separation or death. I'll guide you through the real essence of love and the gravity of expressing it with intention.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
the views and opinions expressed on this
podcast or website are those ofthe authors and do not
necessarily reflect the officialpolicy or position of a queen's
opinion.
Any content provided by ourbloggers or authors are their
opinion and are not intended tomalign any religion, ethnic
group, club, organization,company, individual or anyone or
(00:26):
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Welcome to a Queen's Opinion.
My name is Queen, my voice, myopinion and your listening ears.
This episode is called whoLoves you?
Do you know who loves you?
Many people through our lifejourney tell us they love us.
(00:53):
I don't think all of the I loveyou's are real.
Maybe you are doing somethingthe person likes, or they enjoy
seeing you happy, energetic andthey say I love you.
They may even just like thefact you are wearing their
favorite color and say somethinglike I love you.
(01:17):
That color looks so good on you.
People we meet in our walk oflife use the word love in a
generally unwise manner andmaybe in the wrong context.
We need to think about who wesay these words to in our life.
I love you is not a word thatyou should speak so easily from
(01:40):
your mouth.
When you tell someone you lovethem, now you have taken your
friendship, your datingrelationship or any type of
relationship to another level.
Your feelings for that personis now in a whole different
category than before.
You have now bonded them intoyour life, so using this word
(02:05):
the wrong way or at the wrongtime is unwise.
The word love is powerful.
Love comes from the bone marrowthat generates the blood in our
veins which flows to andthrough our organs.
Love is deep in the heart.
(02:27):
Love is encased by trust.
This love is covered by layersof caring wrapped in miles of
feelings.
Instead of hope, love is toppedwith sprinkles of grace and
prayers.
I tell my children don't investtoo much in hope, but pray
(02:52):
instead.
Hope is dangerous, scary, sadand painful.
You see, hope is dangerousbecause you have given others
the power to control yourfeelings and maybe your actions.
Now that leads to being scarybecause you have no control over
(03:12):
your feelings, which is sad.
Your feelings may get hurtdepending on the situation, and
now that hurt becomes painful.
When we invest in hope, thelove is hollow.
So who loves you?
Maybe we need to think aboutwho we tell those words to in
(03:37):
our life.
I believe telling someone youlove them means unlimited access
to your heart.
There is nothing that personcan do to cause you to stop
loving them.
You and that person areconnected, even after death.
Yes, you may have a falling outand never talk again, but the
(04:02):
love is always right there inyour heart.
Time will pass, Days, monthsand years will go by, Children
will grow up, Spouses may passand you may remarry, Old and new
friends will enter your life.
(04:23):
All these things will happen,but love never dies.
Love lives on after separationor death.
Whenever we think about thepeople that may have passed on,
we think about how much we missand love them.
We remember their smiles andlaughter.
(04:46):
We think about how that personmade us feel whenever we were in
their presence.
The person may have made youfeel confident.
They gave us a feeling of joy,happiness and a feeling of love.
We remember the jokes told toeach other.
(05:06):
We remember the silly littlegames we played together or the
silly little stories we toldeach other, which made us laugh
all the time until we were intears.
Honey, we love and miss ourloved ones with our whole heart.
We never forget our loved ones.
(05:28):
My husband reminds me that ourloved ones are with us every day
.
They see what we see, they hearwhat we hear and they feel what
we feel, because we carry themin our hearts.
The words I love you carries somuch weight on our hearts, so
(05:52):
when we get hurt by someone, itcauses pain.
Every time you see a personthat caused the pain, you
remember how much you love them.
You remember the good times youused to have with that person.
You remember all the fun placesyou went together on vacation
or at a weekend get-together.
This brings a smile to yourface with a grin.
(06:16):
You ask yourself why, why youdon't talk to them anymore.
Then the memories begin to flowback into your mind.
You look back at the person,Then the undeniable pain and
hurt is revealed, first in yourmind eye, then moves to your
(06:40):
brain, your body reacts andfinally pain hits your heart.
All this happens in seconds.
I would ask myself sometimes wasthat a good reason not to speak
to that person again?
What if that person is hurt anddies and I never got an
opportunity to mend ourfriendship that was damaged but
(07:04):
never really broken offcompletely?
This would haunt me.
I never want my loved ones tofeel that I never loved them,
want my loved ones to feel thatI never loved them.
Love, deep love, as I statedearlier, is in the bones and
flows through you.
Even when love hurts and cutsand stabs you, it never leaves
(07:29):
your mind, heart or body.
Do you know who loves you?
I hope the people who tell usthey love us truly mean it.
We pray they want to be in ourlives and will always look after
us, never seeking to hurt us inany way, mentally or physically
(07:51):
.
They always want the best forus.
We pray their love is true,honest and forever love.
The people who say they loveyou should always put you first
when they are making decisionsthat involves you.
They put your well-being first.
(08:14):
Do you know who loves you?
I pray that you do know theanswer to this question.
Knowing who loves you gives youthe strength every day to make
it through this world's everydayobstacles.
We have good days and bad days,and the people that love us
(08:37):
will help us make it through anysituation.
They're the ones who are goingto pick us up when we are down,
the ones who are going to pickus up when we are down.
Our loved ones are the onesthat are going to be there to
listen, help us think through asituation and find a solution.
They're going to remind us thatall our help comes from the
(09:02):
Lord.
They're going to be there toremind us that All things Are
possible Through our Lord, JesusChrist, who loves you Only you
know the answer to this questionhere at A Queen's Opinion.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
We're always asking our listeners to contact us by
going to our website,wwwaqueen's Opinion.
We're always asking ourlisteners to contact us by going
to our website,wwwaqueen'sopinioncom and
clicking on Get In Touch toleave your feedback or leave a
question for the Queen.
We realized that many of youare on the go and listen to
podcasts through your phones orin the car, so we wanted to make
contacting the Queen easier.
You can now send a text.
(09:44):
Yes, you can text the showright from your phone.
Try it right now.
Today.
Send your feedback about thisepisode or any episode that you
have listened to over the months.
We can't wait to hear back fromyou.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
A Queen's Opinion is a podcast that allows people,
especially women, to think outloud about life situations and
seek an opinion without beingjudged.
This podcast is supposed tolift you up, encourage you to be
the best person you can be, toinspire you to step out of your
(10:19):
comfort zone and into your queenzone.
I didn't say my opinion willsolve your problems.
I am not saying that I am right.
But what I am saying is I'mgoing to give you another view
of the situation from a distance.
No more thinking or questioninga situation by yourself.
(10:41):
Ask the queen.
Go to our website,wwwaquingsopinioncom and click
on get in touch to leave yourfeedback or leave a question for
the queen.
Don't forget to like uswherever you get your podcast.
Thank you for taking time outof your day.
(11:03):
I hope you join me for our nextepisode.
Until then, goodbye.
the views and opinions expressed on this
podcast or website are those ofthe authors and do not
necessarily reflect the officialpolicy or position of a queen's
opinion.
Any content provided by ourbloggers or authors are their
opinion and are not intended tomalign any religion, ethnic
group, club, organization,company, individual or anyone or
(00:26):
anything.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Welcome to a Queen's Opinion.
My name is Queen, my voice, myopinion and your listening ears.
This episode is called whoLoves you?
Do you know who loves you?
Many people through our lifejourney tell us they love us.
(00:53):
I don't think all of the I loveyou's are real.
Maybe you are doing somethingthe person likes, or they enjoy
seeing you happy, energetic andthey say I love you.
They may even just like thefact you are wearing their
favorite color and say somethinglike I love you.
(01:17):
That color looks so good on you.
People we meet in our walk oflife use the word love in a
generally unwise manner andmaybe in the wrong context.
We need to think about who wesay these words to in our life.
I love you is not a word thatyou should speak so easily from
(01:40):
your mouth.
When you tell someone you lovethem, now you have taken your
friendship, your datingrelationship or any type of
relationship to another level.
Your feelings for that personis now in a whole different
category than before.
You have now bonded them intoyour life, so using this word
(02:05):
the wrong way or at the wrongtime is unwise.
The word love is powerful.
Love comes from the bone marrowthat generates the blood in our
veins which flows to andthrough our organs.
Love is deep in the heart.
(02:27):
Love is encased by trust.
This love is covered by layersof caring wrapped in miles of
feelings.
Instead of hope, love is toppedwith sprinkles of grace and
prayers.
I tell my children don't investtoo much in hope, but pray
(02:52):
instead.
Hope is dangerous, scary, sadand painful.
You see, hope is dangerousbecause you have given others
the power to control yourfeelings and maybe your actions.
Now that leads to being scarybecause you have no control over
(03:12):
your feelings, which is sad.
Your feelings may get hurtdepending on the situation, and
now that hurt becomes painful.
When we invest in hope, thelove is hollow.
So who loves you?
Maybe we need to think aboutwho we tell those words to in
(03:37):
our life.
I believe telling someone youlove them means unlimited access
to your heart.
There is nothing that personcan do to cause you to stop
loving them.
You and that person areconnected, even after death.
Yes, you may have a falling outand never talk again, but the
(04:02):
love is always right there inyour heart.
Time will pass, Days, monthsand years will go by, Children
will grow up, Spouses may passand you may remarry, Old and new
friends will enter your life.
(04:23):
All these things will happen,but love never dies.
Love lives on after separationor death.
Whenever we think about thepeople that may have passed on,
we think about how much we missand love them.
We remember their smiles andlaughter.
(04:46):
We think about how that personmade us feel whenever we were in
their presence.
The person may have made youfeel confident.
They gave us a feeling of joy,happiness and a feeling of love.
We remember the jokes told toeach other.
(05:06):
We remember the silly littlegames we played together or the
silly little stories we toldeach other, which made us laugh
all the time until we were intears.
Honey, we love and miss ourloved ones with our whole heart.
We never forget our loved ones.
(05:28):
My husband reminds me that ourloved ones are with us every day
.
They see what we see, they hearwhat we hear and they feel what
we feel, because we carry themin our hearts.
The words I love you carries somuch weight on our hearts, so
(05:52):
when we get hurt by someone, itcauses pain.
Every time you see a personthat caused the pain, you
remember how much you love them.
You remember the good times youused to have with that person.
You remember all the fun placesyou went together on vacation
or at a weekend get-together.
This brings a smile to yourface with a grin.
(06:16):
You ask yourself why, why youdon't talk to them anymore.
Then the memories begin to flowback into your mind.
You look back at the person,Then the undeniable pain and
hurt is revealed, first in yourmind eye, then moves to your
(06:40):
brain, your body reacts andfinally pain hits your heart.
All this happens in seconds.
I would ask myself sometimes wasthat a good reason not to speak
to that person again?
What if that person is hurt anddies and I never got an
opportunity to mend ourfriendship that was damaged but
(07:04):
never really broken offcompletely?
This would haunt me.
I never want my loved ones tofeel that I never loved them,
want my loved ones to feel thatI never loved them.
Love, deep love, as I statedearlier, is in the bones and
flows through you.
Even when love hurts and cutsand stabs you, it never leaves
(07:29):
your mind, heart or body.
Do you know who loves you?
I hope the people who tell usthey love us truly mean it.
We pray they want to be in ourlives and will always look after
us, never seeking to hurt us inany way, mentally or physically
(07:51):
.
They always want the best forus.
We pray their love is true,honest and forever love.
The people who say they loveyou should always put you first
when they are making decisionsthat involves you.
They put your well-being first.
(08:14):
Do you know who loves you?
I pray that you do know theanswer to this question.
Knowing who loves you gives youthe strength every day to make
it through this world's everydayobstacles.
We have good days and bad days,and the people that love us
(08:37):
will help us make it through anysituation.
They're the ones who are goingto pick us up when we are down,
the ones who are going to pickus up when we are down.
Our loved ones are the onesthat are going to be there to
listen, help us think through asituation and find a solution.
They're going to remind us thatall our help comes from the
(09:02):
Lord.
They're going to be there toremind us that All things Are
possible Through our Lord, JesusChrist, who loves you Only you
know the answer to this questionhere at A Queen's Opinion.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
We're always asking our listeners to contact us by
going to our website,wwwaqueen's Opinion.
We're always asking ourlisteners to contact us by going
to our website,wwwaqueen'sopinioncom and
clicking on Get In Touch toleave your feedback or leave a
question for the Queen.
We realized that many of youare on the go and listen to
podcasts through your phones orin the car, so we wanted to make
contacting the Queen easier.
You can now send a text.
(09:44):
Yes, you can text the showright from your phone.
Try it right now.
Today.
Send your feedback about thisepisode or any episode that you
have listened to over the months.
We can't wait to hear back fromyou.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
A Queen's Opinion is a podcast that allows people,
especially women, to think outloud about life situations and
seek an opinion without beingjudged.
This podcast is supposed tolift you up, encourage you to be
the best person you can be, toinspire you to step out of your
(10:19):
comfort zone and into your queenzone.
I didn't say my opinion willsolve your problems.
I am not saying that I am right.
But what I am saying is I'mgoing to give you another view
of the situation from a distance.
No more thinking or questioninga situation by yourself.
(10:41):
Ask the queen.
Go to our website,wwwaquingsopinioncom and click
on get in touch to leave yourfeedback or leave a question for
the queen.
Don't forget to like uswherever you get your podcast.
Thank you for taking time outof your day.
(11:03):
I hope you join me for our nextepisode.
Until then, goodbye.
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