Eggs, Chainsaws, & Gym Jitters 🎧

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Balancing humor and honesty, this episode navigates the complexities of relationships and everyday challenges couples face. From a Valentine's Day spending spree to the tension surrounding gym friendships, discussions reveal insecurities, trust, and the journey of maintaining love amidst chaos.

• Valentine’s Day spending impacting relationships 
• Light-hearted conversations about raising chickens 
• Thoughts on flirty gym friendships and jealousy 
• Navigating trust and loyalty in marriage 

Episode Transcript

Wes (00:00):
Like I'm a firm believer of like yo, if I'm hanging out
with the homies, the only reasonmy wife would be there is if
they have their you know, theirpartners with them, their women
with them.
If it's just me and the homies,I'm sorry.
Nah, it's just not gonna happen.
Not gonna happen, everybody.

(00:20):
Welcome to another episode ofthe Court in the West podcast.

DeLaw (00:22):
As always, we got D-Law here you have D-Law, the
assistant coach of a team thatgets blown up by 20.
Jeez, louise, and you got me.

Wes (00:38):
And you got me Wes fresh off a spending spree on
Valentine's Day, Like fresh,fresh, Very angry with myself,
but hey, I'll maintain I'm not.
Uh, I ain't doing strange shitfor eggs yet, but uh, I'm close.

DeLaw (00:59):
I'm close.

Wes (01:01):
It was $6.99 yesterday I was like yo get the fuck out of
here, man, $6.99.

DeLaw (01:06):
$6.99?
.

Wes (01:08):
Hell yeah For like an 18.

DeLaw (01:10):
I went to.
We went to Giant.
That shit was $10.99.
Oh yo, I told my wife we don'tneed no money.
Yo Yo, we might as well go getone of those fertilized eggs
from Trader Joe's.

Wes (01:23):
I'm going to go buy me a chicken.
I'm going to go buy me a couplechickens.
I don't know how you'resupposed to keep them in the
wintertime, but yo, that's whatit's about to turn into.
Go get me some chickens.
Yeah, they're going to be outthere, they're going to be in
the back, listen.

DeLaw (01:41):
You thinking about it?

Wes (01:43):
No, I'm seriously thinking about it.
The next goals for thehomestead not the homestead but
the house and shit probablywidening the driveway in the
back because I want another carand putting a fence Once that
fence comes through.
I ain't even got to talk mywife into some chickens.
She's going to be like I'm nothandling it.

(02:03):
I'm like, fine, I'll buy mesome chickens.
They gonna give us a coupleeggs a day and we gonna keep it
pushing.
I don't give a fuck what myneighbors got to say about oh
the chickens loud, this, thisand that, blah, blah, blah, blah
, blah.
Because they play music alltimes of the day in the
summertime when I'm working fromhome.
So I don't wanna hear that shit.
I'm letting them knowsubconsciously, quietly, but I

(02:25):
will get loud now I'm buyingthem chickens.
I don't want to hear shit.
Motherfucker, yo, speaking ofneighbors, fucking neighbor
diagonally across from me forsome reason at nine o'clock at
night the other day, like justchainsawing and I'm like, is he
cutting up about body over?
there I'm talking aboutchainsawing.
I'm like yo Like maybe in frontof his house because it's, you

(02:49):
know, diagonal from me, we inthe living room watching, I feel
, like on HGTV or something,just chainsawing away.
I'm just like, yeah.
So, yeah, I'm buying themchickens.
Yeah, and I'm going to chickens.
Yeah, and I'm gonna sell theeggs why not?

(03:09):
All I gotta do is feed them,right, I think you gotta make a
chicken coop for them.

DeLaw (03:15):
Yeah, I can do that.
I can buy that from predators.

Wes (03:18):
I'm gonna have a fence at that time, that's not a problem.
And the deer keep shitting inmy yard.

DeLaw (03:22):
That's a thing too you gotta make sure that things are
small enough where they won't gogoing through it or some
predators get through there.

Wes (03:29):
You know what I'm saying?
You got to feed them thechicken feed.

DeLaw (03:38):
You know, let them free range.
You know, let them free range.
They can't fly.
So you know.
And then, when you let them eat, turn around and say I'll get
back in this chicken coop.
What the hell wrong with that?

Wes (03:49):
I think I can handle that, and also I'm tired of the deer
shitting in my yard Stone.

DeLaw (03:54):
Cold.
Steve Austin has.

Wes (03:55):
it has some chickens, well, he also has a ranch, the Broken
Saddle Ranch.
He also has a ranch, and he hasa cat that manages the ranch as
well.
Pancho, I think that's his name.

DeLaw (04:12):
But yeah, man, but that's Stone Cold Steve Austin, the
baddest SOB in the world.

Wes (04:18):
Yeah, I had seen a clip where I had my undertaker
fucking drinking wine and shit.
She was just calling yeah, shitwas just common Drinking wine.
Yeah, on the podcast.

DeLaw (04:30):
Where did he drink wine?
It might have been on thesecond episode.
I know on his very firstepisode he had on the Broken
Skull podcast he had theUndertaker and they were
drinking Jack Daniels.

Wes (04:41):
Oh, they were definitely.
This was a clip, but they weredefinitely drinking wine because
he was saying something likethey was definitely.
Well, I didn't, I didn't, thiswas a clip, but they was
definitely drinking wine becausehe was saying something like
they was both swirling aroundand he was on like at legs.

DeLaw (04:51):
That was in that episode too, oh, okay.
Like we were, because he waslike yeah, you know, my wife got
me drinking wine and so, youknow, I think we're just
supposed to pour it in the cupwine, and so you know I think
we're just supposed to pour itin the cups for it around.
And you know, and look, and bothof them, as they were drinking
a wine, looked like they wantedto chug it.

(05:12):
Yeah, yeah, because if matterof fact wasn't the same, it
might have been the second timehe did.
Uh, it might have been thesecond time that he uh had the
undertaker on here, but it was.
It was funny.
They swirled around.
I think my boy sent me the memefor it, that's, but it was
funny, they swirling around.
I think my boy sent me the memefor it, that's what it was.
He sent me the meme.
He said man, this is us now.
We went from drinking tequilaand Jack Daniels to swirling

(05:34):
wine around in our cups.

Wes (05:35):
Oh no, the benefit of being getting older is you can do it
all.
You can appreciate the tequilaand the Jack Daniels, but you
can also appreciate the wine.
When it's time for the wine,here I am drinking a fucking
Heineken.
I can appreciate it all, and Inormally buy wine and vodka.

DeLaw (05:52):
I'm about to say Heineken .
A 40 to 50-year-old man drink.

Wes (05:55):
Hey, I'm getting there.
I am getting there.
So how was Valentine's day foryou?

DeLaw (06:07):
it was fine how was it?

Wes (06:08):
are your pockets, uh, are they?

DeLaw (06:12):
are they good?
We won't talk about my pocketsbecause she ain't paid for shit
why not who else listen.

Wes (06:18):
We can't talk.
We can't talk about our pockets.
Why else?
We might as well just talkabout it amongst ourselves look,
I ain't got no more pockets.

DeLaw (06:25):
Shit's ripped open.
And she was like, oh, I'm goingto buy his dinner tomorrow.
So she brought his dinneryesterday and she was like yeah,
I got you some Popeyes.
Yo, that's it.
You got me a five piece ofPopeyes, that's some shit my
wife would do.

Wes (06:43):
That's some shit my wife would do.
I'm like, come on, man, whatdid I just go do?

DeLaw (06:48):
And you tell me what's on the fucking?
Some Popeyes.
I had a coupon for $10.99.
And I was like, oh Lord, listen, she's like I'm broke because I
paid for a cruise for myselfand now I ain't got no money.
I'm like why the fuck you payfor a cruise?

Wes (07:07):
for myself.
And now I ain't got no money.
I'm like why the fuck you payfor a cruise by yourself?
Listen, this is what you shouldhave hit her with.
You knew what day Valentine'sDay was coming.
Because I got hit with that onetime.
You know, my birthday is thesame day every year and I'm like
you're right, I should havejust had some money aside for

(07:29):
whatever, whatever, whatever.
My wife might never say that tome, but a woman has said that
shit to me before.
I'm like yeah, yeah, you'reright, you're right, you're
right.
But, um, I should just off.
The humble was, uh, it wasdecent, I ain't gonna lie.
But it's just, you know, likeyour pay, your pay weeks kind of
sometimes don't align for thestuff that you got planned and
shit like that.
And February is always trickybecause it's kind of like you've

(07:53):
been getting one in thebeginning of the month.
You know it's always thebeginning and the very tail end
or it's the.
You kind of feel like you'regetting two checks in the middle
.
That wasn't my situationbeginning in the very end, that
wasn't my situation Beginning inthe very end of the month.
I'm just like God damn man.
So between mortgage and fuckingdumbass eggs and shit and all

(08:16):
the other shit that I want to do.
I was just man.
We went to Alamo Draft House inCrystal City.
She ain't in Crystal City, sheain't never been.
She ain't never been to like amovie theater I don't know the
Draft House movie theater chain.
And so she was ordering up astorm.
You know what I mean.
Like give me the loaded fries,give me this type of drink, let

(08:38):
me get a.
What the fuck?
She order a burger, some othershit, this, this and that
popcorn, and that shit was like70.
That whole day was 70 minus thegifts and shit.
And I said a little prayerbecause we parking and shit.
I'm already gone.
And she was like what a valetparking closer to the.

(09:01):
We had to walk.
And shit, a valet parking closeto the garage near the theater.
And I'm like fuck.
So me being me, I'm just tryingto get there on time.
So we walk like a block or twoto the thing, cause I couldn't
quite figure out where it was at.
And she tells me that all lastminute the garage.
We in that shit say $20 for twohours.

(09:23):
I said get the fuck out of here.
So mad as shit, $20 for twohours.
I said get the fuck out of here.
So mad as shit already becauseI'm like, oh, this is about to
be a $100 night and we ain'teven done this is the beginning.
I'm like fuck, so we get inthere.
True story we get in there, wesit down and shit.
She ordered her shit and I waslike Lord, please, let the

(09:45):
fucking uh.
I said Lord, please, let the uh, the gate be broken when we
come back so I can just gothrough that bitch.
I literally said that.
My wife laughed and guess whathappened?
Lord bless me.
Gate was fucking broken, but itwas the gate to, you know,
entry, not exit.
It was not one gate to entry,not exit, it was not one gate.

(10:06):
So I had to go hurry up and gothrough the entry gate because
that was broken.
I know people be mad around thistime Like I'm not paying this
shit.
Somebody broke it.
This shit was laying on theside.
I'm like, bet we going throughthe entrance as I'm trying to go
up the entrance, fucking Jeepcomes down.
I'm like, come on man, you seewhat I'm trying to do.
He politely moves out.

(10:27):
The way I get the fuck up outof there Saved me about $30
because we was there longer thantwo, two hours.
So, hey, thanks to the manabove, never doubt his blessings
and his glory.
Hallelujah, praise the Lord,thank you, jesus had a good
night from that never doubt hisblessings and his glory.

DeLaw (10:44):
Hallelujah, praise the lord.

Wes (10:44):
Thank you Jesus had a good night from that point on, yes,
as I sip my beer.
Yes, lord, so my pockets are.
You know.
I was able to save a little bitof money.

(11:06):
I ain't mad at it.
Well, you went to go get sushiyeah, she.

DeLaw (11:19):
Yeah, we went to go get sushi, that was.
That was a struggle in itselfbecause she got mad on Sunday no
Monday, she canceled ouroriginal reservation.
Then she canceled our summerreservations to wherever to
Myrtle Beach, then got her.
She's like I'm going on a solocruise for my birthday.
I'm just looking at her likeokay.

Wes (11:43):
Like Royal Caribbean type cruise, yeah.
I just looked at her like, okay, like Royal Caribbean type
cruise, yeah.

DeLaw (11:48):
I just looked at her like okay, she's like you ain't
bothering.
I'm like how much did you spend?
I mean like $1,200.
And I'm just looking at herlike clearly, you could have
paid for our Valentine's anyway,right $1,200 off the.
Humble.
I'm like like I think she usedher credit cards, so she was

(12:10):
like so then it turned into ohwell, you know, I just, I just
kind of want to do a solo, asolo trip.
I felt like the safest way todo it was going on a cruise.
I'm like I'm pretty sure that'snot the safest, but okay,
whatever.

Wes (12:26):
But I'm like, so you get mad and book a cruise and you
got mad at you and booked acruise, or just got mad at life
honestly, really, I think whatshe really, what it really was,
was she just wanted to go on atrip by herself.

DeLaw (12:41):
She didn't want me to go with her.
And and I'm like to me, I'mlike I don't know why you want
to go on a solo cruise.
What are you going to drinkmore than normal, like because I
ain't there?
Then you're going to be likeman, I'm bored.
I mean me knowing my wife.

Wes (12:57):
She's going to be trying to contact you and call you and
email you and text you and shit.

DeLaw (13:01):
Or text me all day.
What you up to Nothing.
Ain't you on a cruise?
You want me to go?
Bye, nigga.
I mean it would have beenfunner if you were here, maybe
it would have.
But you got it.
You decided to do something,whatever, because I knew for
sure I wasn't about to do nocruise.
That shit expensive and,depending on how you do it, if

(13:22):
you don't go through thetimeshare stuff we have, it
ain't per person, it's not perroom, it's per person.
At that point, you know whatI'm saying.
Very true, you, you did allthat well, and then I got a
flight and I'm staying in tampafor one night and then I'm going
to the crew.
Okay, I guess you thought itwas supposed to make me mad.
I'm like you, burning yourmoney and your time off.

Wes (13:50):
But what I'm hearing is that this is a blessing in
disguise.
It's time for you to go on anall-boys trip, all-guys trip?
Yeah, sure, I want that.
Mine don't either.
But guess where we going?
Guess where we're going.
We're going to Columbia.

(14:10):
We're going to Columbia.
We're going to Columbia.

DeLaw (14:17):
That's an off-the-podcast .
I can set that up.
I said that's anoff-the-podcast.
Oh, yeah, it could be off therecord.
Look, if the women knew whathappened in Columbia for real,
we'd be divorced as soon as wesay we're going.

Wes (14:32):
They know, they know, Listen, we can say we're going
to Arkansas and they'd probablybe like the fuck is in Arkansas.

DeLaw (14:44):
No matter what, it's the fact that we're going to
Arkansas and they'd probably belike the fuck is in.

Wes (14:48):
Arkansas.
It's the fact that we're goingas a group.
Can we set that up you?

DeLaw (14:54):
can set that up.

Wes (14:55):
I'm due for one of those anyway.

DeLaw (14:56):
The funny part is I don't think women understand how much
fun guys have going on trips bythemselves, like I was.
Like if I went on a cruise bymyself without my wife and all I
had to do was and probablywouldn't get no excursions I got
everything there, my drinkthing, whatever I just go to the
little floating bar at thatpoint I'm just gonna stand in

(15:20):
the bar chilling and get to thewake up.
Shit man, like my wife, youknow I was like, oh, like she.
And then you know my wife, thepaid person she is.
Well, you know when.
You know when we're leaving forMyrtle Beach, I'll just be
getting back from my cruise.
Okay, you gotta remind me everyother day that you're going on

(15:44):
a cruise.

Wes (15:45):
That sounds like you need to go ahead and you know me and
Wes was talking and you know wecould probably do a guys trip
and this, this and that, andwe're trying to decide where
we're going to go.
Don't even throw Columbia outthere right away.

DeLaw (15:58):
Hey, look, if we were going to do any trip, I'd be
like, I mean, I have to figureout how I will finesse the
points.
Oh no, I got another point.
I could use points fromsomewhere else.
Nah, we good.
I'd be like, hey, wes.
Look, look, I found out, all weneed to pay is $400 for a week

(16:18):
to go to this place.
We just gotta pay for ourairfare and shit, we out there,
we out there, we out there, weout there, we out there.
See my wife, she looking at our,she be looking at the Wyndham
points, because that's the freeshit.
You know you put in some pointsand you know you don't pay
nothing.
But if I go use my RCI pointsthrough mass and nothing, I'd be
like, hey, look, we can splitthat shit three ways.

(16:40):
Me, you, me, you and D.
$400 just for the place, evenif it was somewhere close.
Let's say we was like let'sjust go to Chicago.
You know what I'm saying.
I meet y'all up there.
You know what I'm saying Getthere.
We split that three ways.
We all came out of our pocketand bought $130 for a week.

(17:03):
A week, A week.

Wes (17:06):
Easy money Shit, because all our extra curriculums and
stuff is going to be when we'rethere.
If we're going to go this place, that place, do this, this and
that.

DeLaw (17:16):
You know us, we like to save money.

Wes (17:18):
Yeah, we ain't got to worry about wifey saying, oh, I want
to do this or I want to do thisquality of this.
Wifey saying, oh, I want to dothis or I want to do this
quality of this, and you be likeman I'm good with, just fucking
go get in a fucking hamburgersomewhere, just for some
sustenance.
Right, quick, like I ain'ttrying to.
You know what I mean.
Like it's just like.

DeLaw (17:33):
It be well, look at y'all drink All right.
Well, I drink this, I drinkthis.

Wes (17:37):
All right, cool, everybody just bring whatever you want.

DeLaw (17:42):
Seven days, everybody bring two bottles and six
bottles.
We good If we got to buyanother bottle while we down
there.
That's something different.
We already started with sixbottles for three niggas.

Wes (17:56):
Shit man Listen.
Like I said, I'm overdue formine.

DeLaw (18:02):
I figured out a way for us to finesse it, even if we
were like, let's go to Panama orwhatever, it still would only
cost no more than $400 or $500for the week.
Anyway, it's just the flight.
That is the kicker.
I might not have to pay for myflight because I could do it

(18:23):
through all my other shit, butas far as the place in general,
I say not to try to get you introuble.

Wes (18:30):
I say just float that idea out there and see what you say
look, she will be all for it.

DeLaw (18:37):
She was blaming me the other day.
She was like you told me to goget a life.
I said I didn't tell you to goget no damn life, what you mean?
You told her go get a life.
I said I didn't tell you to goget no damn life.
What truth made you?
You told her go get a life.
No, she thought that I wastrying to get a life.
I was like well, I said youmoved all the way out to Laurel.
When you left Bladesburg I wasstill in Prince George's County.

(18:59):
So when I moved with you, Imoved away from everybody, so I
didn't have nothing to do.
So when I moved with you, Imoved away from everybody, so I
didn't have nothing to do.
So either I was going back downto Prince George's to go do
shit Right, right, right, rightor I didn't do shit.
And so now we're out here inGlen Burnie and everything in
Prince George's is closed downLike the Fridays the Applebee's,
the Chili's, the On the Borders, All that shit closed down.
Yeah, everything.

(19:20):
The only thing thing that's outin Bowie now is Jerry's and
Smokey Bones.
I'm surprised.
Have you ever?

Wes (19:27):
been to that new lounge that's sitting there.
What lounge it's?
By you?

DeLaw (19:37):
mean by the Walmart, that hookah lounge.

Wes (19:40):
That's what that is.

DeLaw (19:42):
That one over by the Walmart I don't frequent that
area.

Wes (19:46):
I just seen the joint on Instagram.

DeLaw (19:47):
A little real that's a hookah lounge like the upscale
hookah lounge.

Wes (19:52):
It's like an upscale.
They were selling food.

DeLaw (19:53):
I don't even know if it's upscale, like so, if we're
talking about the same place.
So you know, in Bowie, wherethe food, where the giant is,
and the Walmart, all that is,yeah, yeah, where the 7 and the
Walmart, all that is when the7-Eleven.
Matter of fact, it used to beacross the street from where the
Applebee's was, and all thatbefore they made it.
There's a lounge over there,but it's like a hookah bar.

Wes (20:17):
When I went, through there that day.
I thought it was where theBowie Town Center was at and
that shopping center.

DeLaw (20:24):
Oh, I don't know, it might be, you know what?

Wes (20:27):
Yeah, I don't either.
I don't either.
I don't know the activities,some of the activities and what
comes with, like as a marriedman being out.
It's not that I'm afraid oftemptation, I don't, I'm not
even actually afraid oftemptation.
It's the stupidness to comewith it that I just be like you
know what I mean, like I don'tfeel like doing this shit, you

(20:48):
know what I mean, or whatever,whatever, whatever.
So I ain't out there, I'm outthere, and even though my wife
be like yo go do this with blah,blah, blah, blah, blah, I'm
like yo, none of the dudes Ihang out with is on that type of
time.
Yeah, all of us collectively islike yo, we about living

(21:09):
comfortably, our familyproviding and this, this, and
that we definitely have our fun,but we don't have fun like we
did in our early 20s and shitlike that.
That shit was dying down for meat 24.
I was just like I'm done withthis particular part of the
nightlife shit and shit likethat.
That shit was dying down for meat 24.
I was just like, oh, I'm donewith this particular part of the
nightlife shit.

DeLaw (21:28):
Hey look if we decide to really do a trip me, you, d and
one other person I'm going tofind us all inclusive.
We might have to pay a littlebit more money, but we ain't
going to have to pay for shitelse.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Wes (21:45):
Listen, I'm at the point in my life I don't mind.
I said I don't mind, I know howto.
I know how to entertain myselfor keep me entertained with the
having the pocket in mind.
You know what I mean.
My wife don't know how to dothat.
Everything inherently shechooses is expensive.
She don't even know shechoosing expensive shit.
It just like I want to do that.

(22:06):
I'll be like, well, I want thisand I know the price.
She don't know the priceBecause it might be like her
first time doing something oryou know what I mean Her just
not knowing, but inherently sheknows how to spend the most
money ever, just what it is.

DeLaw (22:20):
See, I'm cheap.
Even when we went to Panama andshe was like, oh well, let's go
on this excursion, I was like,why would I go on excursions?

Wes (22:29):
like excursions are cool as long as you ain't really doing
too much.

DeLaw (22:32):
You know what I mean how much we pay for those excursions
, I'm like, alright, it's onething.
If we were like, alright, let's, we're going to the excursion,
we're meeting this person atthis place and we're going to be
trying different foods, in myhead I'm like it's a food tour.

(22:54):
This thing turned into let'swalk all over Old Town, panama,
for an hour and some change.
Walking through a museum wemight have got on the first one,
we got some chocolate andcoffee.
Then we walked to another placewhere she got us a beer.
We walked to another placewhere she got us ceviche.

(23:17):
When we went to the fish market, got some ceviche.
Then we walked around some moreto a old chapel, church, museum
, like where the Pope came, andall that shit.
And then we went to this placethat had some other food.
She was like, okay, well, blah,blah, all right, cool, the
second guy.
He showed up late, so we wentand got some ceviche from

(23:40):
somewhere.
So then he walked us to amuseum.
Then he walked us to a place toget a beer.
Then he walked us and gotmuseum.
Then he wants us to a place toget a beer.
Then he walks us and got us acheese empanada.
Then we just walking around thecity, just just walking around,
and eventually we stop at thisone place, at this place that
was like a little club and he'slike this is where I bid you

(24:00):
adieu and I will buy this and Iwill buy you a shot of
Panamanian rum.
I was like, okay, and that wasit.

Wes (24:12):
So okay, that just sounds like a walking tour.
That's fine, don't call it.

DeLaw (24:16):
It's not, that's what I'm saying.
It was like, and see, I wasn'tthe one who looked at it,
because I didn't look at thething that said what they were
going to do.
I thought it was a food tour.
We want to stop at least atfive different places and get
food, food Whatever.
No, this turned into.

(24:37):
Get 10,000 steps in one sitting.

Wes (24:39):
Listen ain't nothing wrong with that.

DeLaw (24:45):
I guess that's what was needed for the wife to not be
like ready to roll after likethree days.
Because, honestly, I mean itwas first off, it was all
inclusive, and I'm like alright,cool, I mean I didn't pay for
no drinks, I just had to give atip, the food was included,
everything was included.
And she was like, well, yeah,when we were on the things, we

(25:05):
weren't at the hotel the wholetime.
All we did was stay at thehotel.
Then I would have been ready togo.
I'm like, all right, whatever Isaid, that's how I know, dude,
look, I ain't got to go intoPanama City to do shit,
especially if I was same oldshit, all them same women that
was in there.
Don't let us go to St Thomas,man.

(25:31):
Don't let us go to Aruba, man.
Don't let us go to Columbia.
And we were still single.

Wes (25:40):
I don't know.
Luckily, our wives should behappy that we are married to
them and we have more respect.

DeLaw (25:46):
I don't know.
Luckily, our wives should behappy that we are married to
them and we have more respectfor our relationship and our
marriage.
But let us have been single.
Them girlfriends would havebeen mad.

Wes (25:56):
You know how many times I think about like yo, if I was
younger, if I was younger andsingle, with the money I'm
making now, man, I'd be alltypes of fuck boy status man.
It'll be so dangerous for otherpeople.
Let's just put it that way Iwill be dangerous for other

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people.
There's a reason why it took me.
It didn't take me a while, butit took the right amount of time
, Like there was no, there wasno shortcuts for me.
It took the right amount oftime to be where I'm at, because
during my 20s, when I didn'treally give a fuck about a lot
of shit, oh, nah, Nah, nah, nah.
I'm thankful for the journey.

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Literally, I'm thankful for thejourney.

DeLaw (26:41):
If I was making anywhere close to what I was making when
I first got to the governmentand I did it younger, like,
let's say, I was still becausethe thing with me and my ex was
it was like all right, so wewant to get married, cool, well,
how much do I need to be makingfor us to consider?
She's like I think 50,000 is agood number.
If you're making 50, I'm making50.

(27:02):
We could, we can make that work.
Ok, cool, that sounds numberlike.
If you're making 50, I'm making50, we could, we can make that
work.
Okay, cool, that sounds good tome.
You know, I mean, but Icouldn't make the 50s and in my
head I'm like what if I had madethe 50?
You know, let's say, let's sayI got to where I'm at now, like
almost 60, and me and her weretogether, back, still back
together then would we havestayed together?

(27:26):
I don't think so.

Wes (27:31):
I don't think so.
I know, respectfully speaking,during that time I was dealing
with like 20, 22, 23, 24 orwhatever.
If that would have happened tome, shorty would have just been
stayed pregnant.
That's just what it would havebeen, because I know her.
She'd be like oh, this is quote, unquote.

(27:52):
This is a good man, savannah.
She would have been trying tolock my ass down like, nah, you
not going nowhere, and that'swhat it's going to be.

DeLaw (28:00):
See, I would have if it was in my 20s, like when I was
working for the feds, and I,let's say I was working for the
feds, I was done cars, you knowwhatever, and I was with her
More than likely.
More than likely me and herpossibly would have gotten

(28:20):
married.
I give that like a 90% chance.
Now, part of me, honestly partof me, is like I don't know if I
would have wanted to marry her,Only because of all the shit
she had already put me through.
And then you know how, likewomen only want to play the
victim when they're a shittyperson All the time.

Wes (28:40):
Yeah.

DeLaw (28:40):
So she was like I remember when she told me
because I think I told you shecheated on me a couple of times
I lied to you and in thescenario did I cheat on her.
Of course I mean, she don'tknow that, but yeah, but she
don't know that.
Right she got caught and feltguilty.
You know what I'm saying.

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I didn't feel guilty.
And the funny part was someonewas like why don't you feel
guilty?
I said, because she started it.
You know what I'm saying?
How we together.

Wes (29:11):
For two weeks you already cheated on me with your ex
here's the thing when it comesto like cheating with guys, we
feel guilty that we shouldn'tprobably be doing that to a
woman that, uh, that's, that's,that's, you know, that has our
best interest at heart, but atthe same time, sometimes those
women gotta understand that weuse that for a mouth like I

(29:31):
don't like her, I don't like her, I like her body, I don't like
her.
But I understand why they don't.
You know, see that I'm notasking them to understand that
it is.
It is.
But for the most part, for men,99.9 percent of the time, it's
like nah, you got I cheated andshe got used for a, uh, a mouth.
Uh, I don't even I don't knowher color.
I don't, I don't know, I don'tknow, don't even I don't know

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her favorite color.

DeLaw (29:53):
I don't know.
I don't know.

Wes (29:54):
I don't know where she work at.
I don't know her last name.

DeLaw (29:58):
She got used for a semen latrine is what she got used for
.

Wes (30:01):
Respectfully, but not really respectfully, but I'm
just saying that's how it is,yeah.

DeLaw (30:07):
But somebody asked me how can you feel guilty?
I said, well, two weeks, sinceshe cheated on me.
Then I don't think I cheated onher during that portion.
So she like broke up with me togo back to her ex-boyfriend.
Then she was like, yeah, thatwhole time we were together, if
he was at the house, honestly wewere messing around.
Or if I said I was at his house, we were messing around, and

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then I said, oh, that makescomplete sense why he was like
stalking your house every time Iwas there and asking what were
we doing, and shit like that, Isaid, oh, okay.
So when we got back together, Ihad no sort of like, uh, what's
a good, not ill will.
I had no sort of uh, I ain'tgiving a shit if I cheated on

(30:51):
him.
You had no sort of I didn'tgive a shit if I cheated on her,
because I'm like you had no.
I had no reason to still behonest and faithful.
Okay, cool.

Wes (31:03):
So you ready to hear something that might ruin your
mood?

DeLaw (31:08):
Hey, you know I'm always ready for mood ruiners.
Should I get me another drink?

Wes (31:14):
I think you should.

DeLaw (31:19):
We'll get me another mini .
I told you I started my minibar, yeah, yeah, so I had to
drink my big shit.
I did find that bottle of blank.
I told you about the bottle ofblanks and, yeah, it cost me
$109.
And I might go get me anotherone this year.

Wes (31:42):
You said $900?
.
$900?

DeLaw (31:44):
$109.

Wes (31:45):
Oh, $109.
I don't know where I get the $9first from.

DeLaw (31:49):
This is some of the most nastiest vodka I've ever had
Wheatly vodka.
I tried to sip it.

Wes (31:57):
That shit was horrible.
It was like drinking rubbingalcohol.

DeLaw (32:01):
If I've ever had rubbing alcohol, that's what that shit
would taste like.
It was that bad.

Wes (32:07):
Listen, they like look Wheatly gets the job done.
It's a utility.

DeLaw (32:13):
Alcohol cleans wounds cleans wounds and everything.
That is exactly what it did.
Alright, so what about the ruinof mood that I had to give me
some more?
So I was on the internet.

Wes (32:28):
Right, I'm always on the internet.
But I was on the internet,right, I'm always on the
internet.
But I was on.
I was on reddit and this oldiebut goodie throwback post came
up and it was am I wrong to makemy husband change his gym?

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And it's a whole story abouthow she feel like she can was.
Am I wrong to make my husbandchange his gym?
And it's a whole story abouthow she feel like she should be
able to propose him changing thegym that he goes to.
Wow, because too many badbitches in there, hey, something
like that.
So it says I am 38.
I'm a 38 female.

(33:13):
I had a fight with my husband,who's 41, last week when I asked
him to change his gym.
He says he's not.
It's not fair to him, but Itold him it was important to me
and he agreed.
As the week has passed, I amnot sure if I did the right
thing and want to get a neutralopinion on this matter.
We we have been married for 12years and have two wonderful

(33:33):
children, two wonderful kids.
My husband and I were intofitness when we got married.
However, life and kids happenedand we slowly stopped going to
the gym and gained weight.
Two years ago my husband justwoke up one day and told me he
wants to start going to the gymagain.
He is very disciplined and notonly did he lose all the excess

(33:54):
weight, but he also startedgaining ton a ton of muscle.
As if the gym was not enough,he started doing crossfit six
months ago.
He goes to crossfit four timesa week.
He goes there early.
He goes there early morning andis generally back before the
kids are up.
He made a lot of friends and hehas generally been in a happy

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mood.
I won't lie, but he looksamazing and I can't believe he
still gives me butterflies evenafter 12 years of marriage.
Two weeks ago, my husbanddecided to invite all his
CrossFit friends for barbecue atour house.

DeLaw (34:33):
Uh-oh, that's where you fucked up at.

Wes (34:37):
Since the weather was getting nicer.
He had around nine friends comeover and it was my first time
seeing this group of friends.
I was mostly in the kitchenworking in prep while he was
grilling outside.
Out of his friends group therewere five girls and four guys
and all are in amazing shape.
Three of the girls joined me inthe kitchen to help me when

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we're having a conversation.
They were giving me a littlehot tea about each other.
I'm sorry they were giving me alittle bit of hot tea about
each of the guests in thebackyard.
From what I gathered, all thepeople in the group have been
between the ages of 35 to 40 andall of them were single.
One of the guys was married andthe other three was.
Another three were single.
I was able to.
I was asking them about theirrelationship status and I

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learned that many of the girlshave slept with one, one or more
of the guys.
The three girls who were thethree girls who were in the back
, the three girls who were inthe kitchen, told me that they
were all divorced and not reallylooking for marriage or a
long-term relationship.
They commented on how guys atCrossFit are hot and discussing

(35:45):
about each other and discussingabout each other I'm sorry and
discussing about how each ofthem was in bed.
Funny stories.
One of the girls asked me how Imet my husband I'm sorry and
discussing about how each ofthem was in bed.
Funny stories.
One of the girls asked me how Imet my husband.
They mostly wanted to know whoapproached who.
I chased him.
Um, hold on, sorry, uh, hold on, sorry, uh uh.

(36:24):
Who chased him?
Who chased who who?
I chased him.
And they were all commenting onhow shy my husband is one of
them.
Let it slip that he iscompletely oblivious when
someone flirts with him.
I asked and learned that thetwo girls standing outside had
at times tried to be very flirtywith him as a fun competition

(36:45):
to see when he will notice.
They all said that it was justa prank and complimenting me on
how awesome and loyal my husbandis.
Why y'all complimenting her?
He needs to be complimented atthe end of the night.

DeLaw (37:00):
You know what happened in that kitchen.
Mrs Smith would have whoopedtheir asses.

Wes (37:04):
The dog walked them at the end of the night.
The dog walked the shit out ofthem.
I was talking to my husband andtold him about my conversation
with the girls.
He told me that these peopleare bonkers but they are fun to
hang around at the gym.
I asked him about the two girls.
I asked him about if the twogirls were really flirting with

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him.
He said he didn't initiallynotice, but then it became too
obvious and he thought that ifhe does not react then they will
stop and move on to their nextvictim.
This all made me very uneasy.
It may be my insecurities aboutmy own body, but I do not want
these girls with amazing bodiesflirting with my husband.

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I know he will.

DeLaw (37:49):
You know why she's all insecure?
It's because she's probably afat white lady that's sitting
there home and going to the gymand them bitches probably bad as
shit.
White, nice ass body.
She probably like you're goingto leave me for one of these
skinny and fit bitches, Probablyso.

Wes (38:05):
I know he will never reciprocate, but I just don't
like, I just don't think theyare.
I just don't think they are agood idea, but I just don't like
, I just don't think they are.
I just don't think they are agood idea.
I talked about this with himand he, him and he and me that
all he cared what Okay, goodworkout, blah, blah, blah.
He's getting a good workout.
All he cares is that he'sgetting a good workout.

(38:25):
I guess he had a fight.
We had a fight when I told himto stop being friends with these
horny, single people or changethe gym.
He did not take it well andstarted resisting it.
I eventually told him this ismy red line and I don't and I do

(38:47):
not want him to hang out withthese girls who are single and
ready to pounce on anybody witha hot body.
We had a big fight buteventually he told me he would
change the gym after a month, atthe end of the month, and it
would be super awkward to go tothis gym and I'll suddenly stop
interacting with people as Ihave calmed down, probably like
weeks later I feel, I feel badto make him do something that he
might resent me for.
Hence I wanted an objectiveopinion.

(39:08):
Am I wrong to make my husbandstop hanging out with these
girls it's not just girls when Iknow for a fact that my husband
will never be this loyal to me?
I know it's my insecurities,but I just don't feel
comfortable to have him aroundhalf-naked beautiful girls who
will be ogling him and flirtingwith him as a game, even after

(39:29):
knowing he has a wife and twokids.

DeLaw (39:32):
You know where she fucked up at.
She should have took herroly-poly ass into the
motherfucking gym too.
Listen, yeah, yeah, don'tcomplain about what you ain't
willing to do.

Wes (39:46):
True, they have children, though.

DeLaw (39:49):
Guess what?
There's been people that havebeen married 20, 30 years, that
get divorced with children.
Yeah, that's true, and Iguarantee you the.
Even though he chose to changegyms to keep the peace, he could
have just been like I ain'tchanging gyms, okay, well, I'm
leaving.
And then guess what?
Them same two in shape, goodlooking bitches would be been

(40:10):
all on his dick.
Probably together they probablyhad a threesome.

Wes (40:18):
Here's the thing.
She definitely is wrong fromtrying to make him or she
already made him switch gyms.
My whole thing is, if that isthe case and you know it's your
insecurities what's wrong withhim going to the gym?
Right, and then you go to thegym and he stays at home and
takes care of the children, soyou get your shit back in order.

(40:39):
I feel like he don't need to goto that gym for that to happen.
He can go to Target and showthat he's going to be in some
yoga pants and this, this andthat in a fucking training
situation and stomach showingand she and this, this and that
in a fucking training situationand stomach showing and she's
like yo, you look good Like it'sgoing to happen.

DeLaw (41:00):
She's insecure because she's with the women she's been
cheated on and her eyes don'tlook good.

Wes (41:09):
I didn't hear that in that story.
She didn't say she's beencheated on.

DeLaw (41:14):
She ain't been cheated on by him, she's been cheated on.
Huh, she's been cheated on byother men.
She didn't say that she didn'thave to.
You can hear it in the story.
You can hear it in the story.
You know what.
You know that women who've beencheated on and it affected them
are insecure.
That there's other pretty womenaround no, no, no, women who

(41:37):
know they bad.
And there's other pretty womenaround know that they secure,
that they man ain't going to doshit.

Wes (41:43):
See, here's where.
Here's where I want to disagreewith you.
It don't matter, it don'tmatter if she's been cheated on
or not.
You know, if it's beautifulwomen and she feels that they
are beautiful and one could be alittle bit more beautiful to
her, or she might got biggertits or her toes might look
better than mine, she's going tofeel a certain type of way that

(42:04):
doesn't it has.
Cheating has nothing to do withit.
She is this is don't fuck withmy man vibes.
That's what it is.
You don't want nobody lookingat him and that's why some women
go for them ugly dudes thinkinglike, oh, they can't.
Like we was just saying likeyou think I don't got no emotion
.
Like, yeah, I got you.
What makes you think you arethe you know, the benefit of the

(42:25):
doubt or whatever.
Whatever.
Like I got something that womenlike because I got you.

DeLaw (42:29):
And this is why women shouldn't be left to their own
devices in their mind, becauseclearly she look, she tripping,
because, like it wasn't eventhat she didn't want him going
to the gym, it was that he sawwhat was at the gym.
So he changes gym and doesCrossFit.
How you know, he's not going tofind two batter, james.

Wes (42:48):
No, he's already doing CrossFit.
Yeah, he's going to go toanother CrossFit gym and it's
going to be the same thing.
He might not be friends withthem, but it's going to be the
same thing, it's going to be thesame thing.

DeLaw (42:57):
He's going to still invite them over.
And where he fucked up at is.

Wes (43:02):
I'm not inviting four girls man.
No, I ain't looking.

DeLaw (43:06):
The guys Chicks will be like oh, chicks who be like oh
yeah, we gotta come to yourhouse and I'll be at work.
I'll be like well, I don't mind, but I gotta get you cleared by
Mrs Smith.
And if Mrs Smith says, no, Iain't having no bitches up in
here, ain't no bitches up inhere?
The only way that you can getbitches up in here is if you
come to the house and you sayyou with the nigga, that's here

(43:27):
that I invited.
That's the only way you comingin this motherfucker.
That's the only way you comingin this motherfucker.
Other than that, no, sir.

Wes (43:38):
Yeah, Because I kind of be the same way Like ain't no
niggas coming over my door, Likewho?

DeLaw (43:43):
the fuck I might be like.
Oh, my friend coming over, myfriend Dion, oh okay, and a
whole nigga walking.
Who the fuck is?

Wes (43:52):
Yeah.

DeLaw (43:54):
Or she's like can my friend Dion come through?
Alright?
Well, Dion, that's a chick, Nah, that's a dude.
Hell, no.

Wes (43:59):
Yeah, he messed up by inviting a fucking woman over.
I would never have done thatand, um, I just would never have
done it.
That's just like yo.
Like you know how you try, likeas a man.
Like what in a relationship ingeneral?
You just like yo, how do I stopfuture arguments?
Well, how do I stop future?

(44:20):
You know how?
Like you, like you know, isinnocent or whatever.
But it's like I don't even feellike convincing my woman that
this is innocent, cause she'snot going to believe me.
Well, I don't care, cause she'snot going to believe me.
Well, I don't care becauseshe's not going to believe me.
Like the whole flirting, likegetting flirted with and him not
knowing, that's something thatme and my wife have not an
argument but a conversationabout all the time, because

(44:41):
sometimes it's done right infront of her or in a weird way
and I'm just like, hmm, you know, not paying attention and she
knows I'm not paying attentionand that's why I don't go.
No, it don't go no further thanthat bitch was flirting with
you and I'm like, huh, like, asyou're explaining to me, I'm
like I guess, but I'm like yousee, the fuck, I got on like I

(45:02):
ain't got nothing on that.
That's a pill and she was likeshe liked what she saw and I'm
like all right, man, I wouldhave never done hell.
Not fit women.
You bring a fit single womaninto your house, but then again
it's kind of tricky too.
Could you bring a fit singledudes in your house as well?
They leave the house, don'tcome home.

(45:23):
Take the kids to the park.
I'm going to be entertaining theguys.
I'm still not bringing themover.
I'm entertaining the guys.
You know this, this and that.
I'm still not bringing themover.
But I'm entertaining the guys.
You know this, this and that,like.
I'm a firm believer of, like yo, if I'm hanging out with the
homies, the only reason my wifewould be there is if they have
their, you know, their partnerswith them, their women with them

(45:44):
.
If it's just me and the homies,I'm sorry, it's just not gonna
happen.
Not gonna happen, not gonnahappen.
But yeah, she wrong man.
Listen the flirting the flirtingcan happen anywhere.
That's just the first step ofnow.
I don't want you going to thatgrocery store.
I don't want you going to thatJiffy Lube or something stupid.

(46:06):
You know what I mean.
Like it start, that's how thatshit starts.
Change your gym.
Change my gym.
Like come on, man, the gym isfull of hot people.

DeLaw (46:17):
That's just what it is.

Wes (46:18):
That is just what it is.
And when I go to the gym, itgets even hotter.
That is just what it is.
There's no way.
There's no way.

DeLaw (46:32):
Man, listen when way man man, man man.

Wes (46:35):
Miss Smith told you to do that.
You think Miss Smith would everask you to do that?

DeLaw (46:39):
No, I mean she'd been to the gym when I was gone and seen
the chicks in there.
She is secure enough that sheknow I ain't going to do nothing
crazy.
Yeah, I'm going there gettingmy work out and I'm only.

Wes (46:54):
I'm only there for 30, 40 minutes I ain't like you're
there longer than 40 minutes,man I'll be there for 30, 40
minutes and I'm out I roll.
Oh my god, she know, she know Iain't ain't much, so much I'm
gonna do in that time you know,I was telling my homie, like the
gym I used to go to, likesometimes I'll be on a treadmill
or an elliptical or whatever,like they lined up in front of

(47:16):
each other.
I was like the best motivationis when a big booty joint like,
get up on that treadmill, startrunning.
And that motherfucker, justlike bow, bow, bow, bow, damn,
they're clapping while she'srunning and shit.
I'd be like God damn, let meturned this Pastor Troy down.
I know I hear you, yo, ithappens.
Like what you want me to do,like what you want me to do.

(47:39):
Hey, Yo, it be that way.
But listen, the gym ain't him.
Switching gyms ain't going tosave you.
Obviously, your mind is a goodcatch.

DeLaw (47:51):
Yeah, and obviously she need to get in the gym or do
something to tighten it up.

Wes (47:55):
Yeah, because even if you on like, even if that was the
case, like you feeling like,let's just say, the gym shit is
an insecurity for her.
Once you on level playing fieldwith all the other fit bitches,
they still gonna flirt like youon level playing field.
So now you still got to standout.
Even you know what I mean.

DeLaw (48:15):
Because now you're going to have dudes flirting with you.
So now?

Wes (48:18):
Nah, it's not even that.
You on the level playing fieldwith other women.
That's not you being fit ain'tgoing to stop them from doing
that.
That's what I'm getting at.

DeLaw (48:28):
They knew he was married.
They just wanted to see if hewas going to fuck around.
That's probably why thembitches divorced.

Wes (48:33):
Might be, that might be.

DeLaw (48:37):
I asked my wife today it's off topic Most deaf or?

Wes (48:49):
child quality as a musician .

DeLaw (48:55):
Just well, I broke it down to as a pure lyricist.
You know lyrics, no music, andit was their song qualities that
they put out and then just whenthey're on tracks together, who
was better?
So it was three differentthings.
So it was three differentthings.

(49:15):
So I said most deaf lyricallyis better than Talib Kweli, not
by a large margin, but lyricallyhe's better.
Now, as far as song musicquality, talib Kweli, hands down
, has some of the better songs.
Like you can listen to moreTalon Kweli songs than you could

(49:36):
most deaf songs and not be like, all right, you're not.
The song lyrically is good, butthe beat Talon Kweli's beats
that he gets they they justbring you in a little bit more.
As far as them being on trackstogether, whether it's on the
most deaf track or Talon trackor when they were Blackstar, I
feel like Most Def ate them upevery time, every time.

(49:58):
But you can see that Most Deflyrically on tracks he can get
it done.
That's just me personally, yeah.

Wes (50:12):
I ain't gonna lie.
I don't have an answer for that.
I don't gonna lie.
I don't have an answer for that.
I don't know.
I it's a tough one yeah and it'salso one of those things where
for me to accurately sayanything to either one, I would

(50:34):
have to listen.
I would have to go back andlisten to a lot.
I haven't listened to eitherone.
I would have to listen.
I have to go back and listen toa lot.
I haven't listened to eitherone of them in years.
I'm not saying years, I meanyears.
It's kind of like me and Lupe.
It's just the frame of mind orthe frame of where I've been at,
not in my life, but just ingeneral.
I have not listened to, I stillgot them in my phone or in the

(50:57):
shit in the car and shit likethat.

DeLaw (51:01):
I still listen to Lupe.
I just got a Samurai album.
His stuff is good.
It's funny because when we wentto go see we went to see Robert
Glasper and Carmen and Lupewere put together Well last year
and she was like, well, why doyou like Lupe?

(51:23):
I said I never really listenedto Common.
I think Common has hits andCommon is good, common has bars.
But I just feel like Lupe.
I mean, even though Common isthe bigger star, he's the bigger
star because of what he's doneand what he does on the movie
screen and everything else andhe's more of a recognizable face
.
He got the sound, he got theflow.

(51:43):
He's good.
But I feel like Lupe when itcomes down to him, because
there's two differentgenerations of artists.
Yeah, I feel like Lupe to me ishas is a better lyric, not a
better lyricist.
He's not the better lyricist,he has the better songs.
Because his songs they reallydo, they really drag you in.

(52:06):
You can see the story in common.
When he did stuff you couldreally see the story.
But I think he's just a betterlyricist, like he had a better
flow, because he can't make outwhere you gotta compete with
your flow.
You don't compete with yoursong, you complete with your,
you compete with your flow yeah,I've always felt that there's
uh two different commons yeah,there definitely is, oh about

(52:28):
doing after, yeah, I mean yes,yes, uh, yeah, I knew that.

Wes (52:32):
Um, so I I dibbled and dabbled in that after Erica,
which was like B, the album, bonwards, and kind of dibbled and
dabbled in before.
So I've never really, frombeginning to end, you know how
you go through the wholediscography and be like I can't

(52:53):
pinpoint lyrics from Common.
The only thing that I can'tpinpoint lyrics from Common.
The only thing that I canpinpoint and that's because this
was a while ago that I waslooking into this shit was when
he was beefing with Ice Cube andI feel Common won that beef.

DeLaw (53:07):
He did.

Wes (53:07):
Yeah.

DeLaw (53:10):
I didn't know it was with Ice Cube.
I thought it was with Mac 10.
No, no, it was with Ice Cube,and Mac 10 in the them was like
yo.
When we see him it's on site.
I remember that beef.

Wes (53:21):
Yeah, and it was just like the album I see the bitch in you
.
It was just kind of like, Imean the song I see the bitch in
you.

DeLaw (53:28):
I was like.
But also by that time Ice Cubewasn't that sensitive.
No more, he was past his primewhen NWA, no Vaseline type shit,
you know what I'm saying.
So Common got him on that one.
He won that one.
I mean, think about it Everyone, who you think would win the

(53:49):
battle?
Jay-z and Nas?
You know what I'm saying.
Jay-z came out smoking and thenNas shut it down.
You know what I'm saying.
Jay-z came out smoking and thenNas shut it down.
You know what I mean.
You kind of see, but you know,it's just really just a sport.
That's why a lot of them arecool now.
Ice Cube and Common are cool.
They might not be kicking itnext to each other, high, high
hand, but you know they cool.

Wes (54:11):
They are kicking.
You said Ice Cube and Common.
Yeah, I don't know.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, probably younever know.

DeLaw (54:16):
Nah, because, matter of fact, the only reason I even
remember the beef was because Ihad seen a snip with Fat Joe and
Fat Joe said he was in thestudio with Mac-10, and Common
was coming to the same studioand Mac-10 was like, oh, that's
that nigga Common.
Nah, it's on site.

(54:36):
Hell, yeah, we about to killthis nigga.
And Fat Joe was like whoa, whoa, whoa Common.
He said let me go talk first,so he go out there and tell
Common, like you might not wantto come in here because you know
he was like well, I'm fromChicago, you know we get down.
He's like look, just pack it upand go home, they might kill
you.

Wes (54:54):
And he, fat Joe, got stories for days.
Man.

DeLaw (54:57):
But that's how you know Fat Joe a real nigga.
Fat Joe is the only nigga Ikeep forgetting that he's old.

Wes (55:03):
He's been around for a long ass time.

DeLaw (55:07):
When you started listening to Joe, Joe has
started.
Not Joe, but Fat Joe.
When you started listening toFat Joe, Fat Joe had been around
10 years at that point.

Wes (55:15):
Yeah, I think the first time I started listening to was
Jealous One.
Still Envy, yeah, or Jose, yeah, that was the first and I think
he was already worried.

DeLaw (55:24):
He was already on because he did Jealous One Envy.
He did Joe, then he did Jose.
It was like two back-to-backalbums and people didn't realize
that when Pun came out, Pundidn't necessarily put Joe on
the map.
Joe was on the map hard in NewYork, but it just brought it to
the forefront of everywhere else.

(55:44):
There's Big Pun and Fat Joe,and now you know who Fat Joe is.
Fat Joe is pretty much the king.
I know you're a Drake fan.
Now you know who Fat Joe is.
Fat Joe is pretty much the king, you know.
So I know you're a Drake fan.
Did you hear Drake's new album?

Wes (56:03):
Yo Listen, yeah, I'm a Drake and Kendrick fan for the
reasons that Kendrick stated Nah, no bullshit, no bullshit.
I mean that's.
I'm not even trying to bepolitically correct.
The reason why I am a Drake fanis because some of the reasons

(56:23):
that Kendrick stated Not thefake, tough shit, all the other
shit.
He makes good songs and evenwhen he's rapping and it's just
about regular shit, it'd be good.
It's just kind of shit, it'd begood.
Yeah, it was just kind of like.
Um, like I was telling, I wastelling somebody, I was like, uh
, the album is dope, it is notwhat I expected.

DeLaw (56:46):
Uh, I think everybody expected a response.

Wes (56:50):
No, I didn't, I didn't, I didn't.
He responded to some things andsome songs, but I didn't, I
actually didn't, I didn't, Ididn't.
He he responded to some thingsand some songs, but I didn't.
I actually didn't expect aresponse.
I expected a different type ofproduction when it came from a P
and D and the and the beatchoice and shit.
P and D to me sounded too muchlike future when it came to
certain songs and I was like allright, because it was doing it.

(57:12):
When I was listening to it Iwas like yo, I could see future
P and D and Drake and like doinga group and just doing some
stupid.
Not some stupid shit, but somelike other boy, fuck boy, type,
you know, whatever, I'm partyingtype shit like that would be
dope.
But when I kept listening to itI was like all right, well, p
and D not sounding like future.

(57:32):
He's not doing auto tone likefuture.
P&d not sounding like Future.
He's not doing auto-tone likeFuture, but how he decides to I
don't want to say sing, but rapand sing on these beats.
It kind of reminds me ofsomething that Future would do
or could do.
I did not like the productionall too well.
I didn't like the writing.
It was Drake heavy and notnecessarily P&D and Drake

(57:58):
sharing, because if you listento P&D's last album you had the
stripper on the joint.
I forget the name of the song.
I mean, I forget the name ofthe album, but I feel like it
should have been more P&D.
It's too much Drake.
They have to afford to be ajoint album.
Does that make sense?
And it wasn't.

(58:18):
And it was in the.
It was kind of just in the vibeof like um like for little, like
for teenage girls, like forcollege girls or whatever have
you, even though he's stillliving that life of being in the
club and this, this and thatthat nigga's our age.
So it's kind of like at somepoint I'm not saying you got to

(58:39):
sound like Chris Brown residuals, you know what I mean, I'm not
saying that.
But I was expecting, like yo,there is another limit, there's
another height that you canreach, and it was like okay,
this is how you do that samething at my age and it resonates
.
I know it resonated with people.

(59:01):
It just didn't resonate with meall too well, cause I'm not.
You know what I mean.
Like love is love and sex issex, drugs is drugs.
You know what I mean, but notthe way that I do it.

DeLaw (59:13):
You know what I mean.
See, I couldn't listen to thewhole thing.
So my thing is, I've neverreally been a Drake fan.
Okay, I think I take Drake as a, like how Jay-Z said he made it
a hot line, you made it a hotline, I made it a hot song.
I kind of look at Drake in thatway of like you got some hot
bars some days, you got some hotbars some days, you got some

(59:34):
hot songs some days.
But really you just not.
You just not my cup of tea.
No, I get for real, for realyou know what?
I'm saying and you, you know youtake some people's stuff and
you make it sound a littlebetter, but I'm not, I'm not, I
don't like, really like too manysingers unless you were single
for real.
Like I like trey songs he asinger.
I like chris brown, you know hea singer.

(59:54):
You know music soul child, he asinger.
But it's kind of like how wesaid when um with chicks either
you got to have bomb man's pussyor bomb man's head.
You can't just be.
I ate at both of them.
That's how I feel drake is whenit comes to his music.
He I, he ain't really a singer.
He I, he ain't really a singer.
He ain't really a rapper, youjust kind of in the middle.

Wes (01:00:17):
But neither is Future, and it works.

DeLaw (01:00:19):
No Future identifies as a rapper.

Wes (01:00:24):
He don't identify he ain't come out there.

DeLaw (01:00:27):
If you're worried about where I've been or who I saw, he
ain't doing that.
He might drag his words out andsay, but he's still rapping.
You know what I'm saying.
But don't worry, I got Drake'ssongs that started from the
bottom.
Hey, I fucks with that.
Zero to 100.
Yeah, I fuck with that.

(01:00:48):
Jay Energy, I fucks with it.
There's stuff I fuck with thathe did.
I'm like, yeah, nah, I canswith it.
There's stuff I fuck with thathe did.
I'm like I can rock with this,because you actually got bars.
It ain't tough guy bars, itain't.
I'm about to kill all theseniggas in the game.
You rapping Cool, I'm cool withthat.
Even when he was beefing withMeek Mill and he dropped back to

(01:01:11):
back, I thought back to backwas mediocre.
I'm like, come on.

Wes (01:01:15):
Once Mill and he dropped Back to Back I thought Back to
Back was mediocre.
I'm like come on Once againwith that whole beef.
Every time I talked to somebodyI was like he only won because
Meek borderline retarded andwouldn't stay on Twitter.
I stay firm to that becauseevery other beef he kind of lost
.

DeLaw (01:01:29):
Because everyone was like , oh no, drake won that.
I said honestly, if you reallylook at the songs that were put
out, so Drake really only putout one official diss song and
that was back to back.
Because I'm turnt up youcouldn't tell if it was a diss
or a lullaby, you didn't knowwhat the fuck it was.
And anybody in the game isthinking about it like why am I

(01:01:49):
responding to that?
Like I'm responding to whathell?
Nah, get the fuck out of here.
Now, when he did Back to Backand then he did, you know, then
Meek Mill did the song where hehad the little Undertaker thing
in the front I was like, alright, you ain't focused, you're on
tour and you're trying to put asong out.
But when he put out Warpain.

Wes (01:02:06):
Yeah.

DeLaw (01:02:08):
Yeah, that is what you should have put out.
That would would have ended allthat, because that was a diss
song.
You went in and I was like, ifyou put these songs side by side
, you know whatever Meek Mill,song-wise, won that.
But because it took so long forhim to get focused and actually
do it, Drake walked away as thedefault winner.

(01:02:29):
You know what I'm saying.
And I was telling my wife.
I said, even for the Super Bowlthing, I said you know, when
you think about who would havereally been the person who would
have performed at the SuperBowl halftime show, Drake should
not have taken the MC Shanapproach.
You know what I'm saying.
How else do we know aboutKRS-One?
Mc Shan had to respond, right,he had to respond.

(01:02:53):
South Bronx, the bridge is over.
Krs-one is now one of the bestlyricists in the world.
You know what I'm saying, Oneof the best artists in the world
.
At this point, All becausesomebody responded, All Drake
had to do was just keep hismouth closed and we wouldn't be
talking about no Super Bowlhalftime performance at all.
We might have seen Madonna.

(01:03:13):
We might have actually sawWayne.

Wes (01:03:18):
Nah, I think Wayne got a bigger issue.
When I say bigger issue,probably just drugs.

DeLaw (01:03:25):
I don't think they thought he could keep it clean.

Wes (01:03:28):
Nah, I don't think that.
I think Wayne has a drugproblem.

DeLaw (01:03:33):
Yeah, I mean, the last time I seen Wayne, besides
Louisiana, that was when the HotBoys reunion.
But when he was at WrestleManiahe came out and did a milli for
Jey Uso.
Part of the song he didn't singand he kind of missed some
words.
And and I'm like, let's say,lil Wayne did perform at the

(01:03:56):
halftime show, which I wouldn'thave been opposed to.
I wouldn't have been opposed to, but it would have had to have
been this thing like hey, wayne,look, I get it, you got about a
million songs.
You can't remember all the words, but we're going to need you to
at least do about 70% of thewords.
It shouldn't be.
You say about four words andthen ten of them you don't know

(01:04:19):
and the crowd's singing it.
I get that.
That word's good for anenclosed place where you know,
everybody knows.
But it's the Super Bowl.
There's going to be a lot ofwhite folk that don't know who
the hell you are.
There's going to be a lot ofKKK motherfuckers looking at you
like who the fuck is, lookingat you like who the fuck is this
nigga?
You know what I'm saying.
You need to say your words, youknow.
So, like I told my wife, I saidthe only reason Drake is up

(01:04:39):
there, not Drake, that KendrickLamar is at the Super Bowl, is
because Drake couldn't keep hismouth closed.
He thought he could get awaywith saying what he did with
Pusha T Meek Mill blah, blah,blah.
And Kendrick gave him a warning.
He said don't talk about myfamily, keep this shit on wax
and keep the shit about themusic, because I got my shit Now

(01:05:00):
you got they.
Not like us.
You got to turn the TV off, yougot to wobble up.
You go out there.
You say that he abused his wife, his wife's cheating, and all
this other shit.
He says oh Baby, I rememberthis.

Wes (01:05:18):
He says oh hey, drake, I heard you like him I think that
was a highlight of the wholeperformance.

DeLaw (01:05:30):
Don't get me wrong.
When I've gone back and lookedat that performance and seen all
this stuff even when it's thewrong and seen all this stuff,
he went and said, wrong way, allthis stuff in the crowd, the
song, song ways and how it isthe political behind it.
But when he went up there andsaid, say Drake, with the smile
on his face, I like it betternever go to cell, block one.
I would look in my head.

(01:05:52):
I thought they were going tostop.
Once he said hit the body likeJohn Stockton and it has that
little cut there.
I'm like it's not going to sayyou got pop out as show niggas
certified boogeyman, he ain'tgoing to do all that, he's going
to stop there and then he'sgoing to go into TV or no.
He kept going.
I was like, oh, he's stillgoing.
And he said it.

(01:06:15):
And then I'm like, wow, Iwonder what the white
motherfuckers think right now.
I wonder what canadian thinksright now is damn, they talk he
talking about drake on nationaltv.
Like anyone who didn't knowkendrick lamar that night or
knew that that song was out orthat he was saying this about
drake.
Whether you watch the grammarsor not, they knew kendrick
theyar.

(01:06:35):
They know now Because that wasbroadcast across the world.
Yeah, Because you got Americansacross the whole world, so
they're broadcasting iteverywhere.
So if you were living under arock somewhere and you knew
Kendrick Lamar, as you knewabout the beef or you didn't,

(01:06:56):
and you're just an older folkwho didn't, who just don't got
your ear to the streets, youfound out.
Then you know who he is now.
Yeah, all I can do is if I wasKendrick.
Thank you, drake, for notkeeping your fucking mouth
closed.
You should delight Jake Coleand bow the fuck out.

Wes (01:07:16):
On that note, d-law's not going with his light-skinned
brother, he's going against him.

DeLaw (01:07:22):
Hey look, he's not my light-skinned brother.
He's from Canada, he's fromCanada.

Wes (01:07:28):
Thank you everybody for tuning in.

DeLaw (01:07:30):
He's from Canada.
He ain't my brother.
See you next time.
He's not my brother See younext time.
He not like me.