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February 23, 2023 44 mins

Identity & Adoption

Episode Description:
In this episode, we dive into the complex topic of identity and how it intersects with adoption. We discuss how adoption severs connections to identity, the disconnection adoptees feel, the complications of biological family searches, and the struggle to reconcile our identities with the information we discover.

This episode covers:
(00:49) How adoptees define identity and the struggle of reclaiming it
(02:17) The impact of finding out you were adopted on identity and self-esteem
(05:37) The feeling of disconnection and not having a clear sense of identity
(09:50) Reunion journeys, DNA testing, and the search for answers
(18:51) How others label adoptees and the difficulty of being fluid in identity
(24:36) The power dynamics in identity decisions and how society shapes them
(32:12) The harmful impact of altered birth certificates and erasure of identity

Call To Action:
Website: adopteescrossinglines.com
Instagram: @adopteescrossinglines
BlueSky: adopteecrossing.bsky.social
TikTok: @adopteescrossinglines_
Substack: Adoptees Crossing Lines Substack

Resource:
Peer Support Space - A free global online peer support group for those who survived the system as kids. Register here.

Work With Me:
Email: adopteescrossinglines@gmail.com for brand partnerships and business inquiries.

Editing by Samuel Oyedele:
Special thanks to Samuel Oyedele for editing our podcast. Support his work on Instagram or email him at Drumaboyiglobal@gmail.com.

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