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May 12, 2025 18 mins

Teaching kids how to fish. Throwing the baseball in the yard. Helping with homework. Dads do a lot, but there’s more to being a good dad than just offering life lessons and perfectly grilled hot dogs. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by Bobby Lewis to talk about what makes a good dad.

If you’re struggling with finding the right combination of discipline and encouragement, you’re not alone. Dads must wear many hats while raising kids. How do we know if we’re doing it well? Check in with trusted people who will tell you the trust. Who are they? Ted and Bobby discuss. 

Why This Matters
The importance of a dad’s role in the life of his kids can’t be overemphasized. Dad impact every area of their kids’ lives, so being involved matters. 

If you want to know how you’re doing with your kids…

  • Check in with them. 
  • Check in with the people who know you best.
  • Check in with yourself. 
  • Check in with coaches or teachers. 
  • Sometimes, check in with a pro. 

Important Episode Timestamps
00:00 - 00:54 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week

00:54 - 02:34 | A Snapshot of Fatherhood Today

02:34 - 04:11 | Why Dad Involvement Matters—Big Time

04:11 - 07:09 | The Check-In Hack: Asking Your Kids

07:09 - 09:28 | Ask Your Spouse or Trusted Friend for Feedback

09:28 - 11:05 | Self-Check: Journaling, Prayer & Pausing

11:05 - 12:53 | Don't Just Assume You're Crushing It

12:53 - 14:34 | Teachers & Coaches: Valuable Outside Perspective

14:34 - 16:13 | Talk to a Pro: Counseling Is a Power Move

APD Pro Move:
Choose one of the 5 check-ins and get a gauge for where you are as a dad. 

Listen Again:

Episode 24 – Who Do I Ask to Help Me Be a Great Dad?

All Pro Dad Resources:

What Are You Good at as a Dad?

10 Ways to Know You’re a Good Father

How to Be a Good Dad When You Had a Bad Dad

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