Timeout. Natural consequences. Tap in, tap out. There are a lot of ways to go about disciplining our kids. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about dads’ role in it all.
A child who is not disciplined is a child who grows up without a rudder. Discipline enables kids to thrive. It isn't exactly the most fun part of parenting, but it’s necessary. Even good fathers can struggle to do it well. We give a few options that any dad can try in this episode.
Why This Matters
All kids need to be disciplined, but if it’s not done well, dads can create long-term problems.
Key Takeaways
- Consistency Matters: Discipline loses its effectiveness if it’s not administered consistently
- Strive To Be United With Your Spouse: Differing messages confuse kids
- Staying Calm is Always the Goal: Kids receive information better from a calm parent
- Timeout Loses Effectiveness the Longer it Lasts: Indiana University researchers say timeouts with young children should be limited to three minutes maximum.
Important Episode Timestamps
00:00 - 00:54 | Introduction & Meet the Hosts
00:54 - 02:12 | Big Question: What Are Positive Discipline Techniques?
02:12 - 06:45 | What Parents Get Wrong About Discipline
06:45 - 10:32 | The Power of Connection Before Correction
10:32 - 15:18 | The Role of Natural Consequences in Teaching Responsibility
15:18 - 20:04 | Balancing Grace & Accountability in Parenting
20:04 - 24:33 | Discipline Strategies That Actually Work
24:33 - 29:27 | How to Handle Disrespect & Defiance Without Yelling
29:27 - 32:48 | Teaching Kids Self-Discipline for Long-Term Success
32:48 - 34:57 | Pro Move of the Week
APD Pro Move:
Talk with your wife about which discipline method would help you maintain connection with your kids.
All Pro Dad Resources
How to Discipline Children Without Destroying Them
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