You’re probably not 8-foot-11 like Robert Pershing Wadlow, the world’s tallest man, but you are likely taller than your kids. Do they look up to you for any other reasons? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by Bobby Lewis to talk about the things we need to be to become a good dad.
Our goal as dads should be to connect with our children, which can be a challenge sometimes. Our size can make us feel loud, scary, or intimidating to them. How do we get down on their level and truly connect?
Why This Matters
Your size, volume level, and mere presence can help or hurt you as a dad. The goal is to make kids feel comfortable and connected around us.
Key Takeaways
- You probably look really big to your kid. That can feel intimidating.
- Leverage your size to make your kids feel safe, not scared.
Practical Tools for Dads
Among many other things kids need you to be, here are 4 you can start putting into practice today:
1. Be Calm.
2. Be Affectionate.
3. Be Safe.
4. Be Strong.
Important Episode Timestamps
00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week
00:55 – 03:18 | The Power of Presence: How Big Dads Feel to Little Kids
03:18 – 04:49 | Start Here: Be Calm
04:49 – 06:13 | Eye Level & Whisper Mode: Tools for Diffusing Tension
06:13 – 09:14 | Be Affectionate: Wrestle, Hug, and Repeat
09:14 – 10:34 | Hugging Isn't Optional: It's Foundational
10:34 – 13:36 | Be Safe: Your Response Is Their Refuge
13:36 – 16:14 | The Power of Gentle Strength
16:14 – 19:50 | Be Strong: Not Just Physically, But Emotionally
19:50 – 21:14 | Pro Move of the Week
APD Pro Move:
Remember how big you are to your children Leverage that size to make a big, positive impression on your kids.
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