Is your kid a chatterbox or tight-lipped like a vice? No matter how often your son or daughter opens up, one thing is true—they really want you to listen. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to break down why parents should listen to their child.
Why This Matters
Listening well is the key to effective communication between kids and dads.
What Happens When We Listen?
1. You show them their words have value
2. You encourage emotional expression
3. You promote confidence and self-worth
4. You get to hear their needs or concerns
5. It improves their problem solving skills
6. it strengthens their emotional regulation
7. It fosters respect and empathy
8. It prevents miscommunication… sometimes.
Important Episode Timestamps
00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week
00:55 – 02:23 | Who Listens to You? The Power of Feeling Heard
02:23 – 04:00 | Why Dads Struggle to Listen
04:00 – 06:05 | Listening Builds Trust, Connection & Emotional Safety
06:05 – 08:12 | Listening Boosts Confidence & Self-Worth
08:12 – 10:24 | What Active Listening Looks Like
10:24 – 12:17 | Helping Kids Process Emotions Through Listening
12:17 – 14:16 | Teaching Respect, Preventing Miscommunication
14:16 – 15:53 | Playbook Time: 5 Easy Questions to Spark Conversation
APD Pro Move:
Ask your kid some questions this week—fun, serious, curious—and listen intently. Leave us a comment on this episode and share how it went!
Listen Again:
Episode 37 – Have I Taken the Time to Get to Know My Children For Who They Are?
All Pro Dad Resources:
10 Ways to Know You’re Really Listening to Your Kids
Why Becoming a Good Listener Will Make You a Better Dad
Best Conversation Starters For Teenagers
iMOM: Are You Listening to Unders
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