What’s the real difference between a psychiatrist and a therapist — and how do you know which one you need?
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Eric Bender, a psychiatrist, therapist, and media consultant who has worked everywhere from private practice to video game studios. Together we dive into the messy realities of mental health treatment: the truth about psychiatric medication, therapy vs. “med management,” why stigma keeps so many people stuck, and how to know when it’s time to seek help.
Dr. Bender shares his journey from teaching and social work into psychiatry, what it’s really like to balance prescribing with therapy, and how he helps patients navigate shame, fear, and medication side effects. We also explore borderline personality disorder, antidepressant withdrawal, genetic testing, and the art of tailoring treatment to the individual. Plus — his fascinating work consulting on Batman and other characters for media projects.
This conversation is honest, practical, and full of insights to help you better understand yourself and your mental health journey.
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Timestamps (Ask Kati Anything ep. 277)
00:00 – Introduction: Meet Dr. Eric Bender
00:17 – Psychiatry vs. Psychology: What’s the Difference?
02:09 – Dr. Bender’s Unconventional Path to Becoming a Psychiatrist
07:10 – Working with Children & Parents in Therapy
09:01 – Why He Still Does Therapy (Not Just Medication)
13:16 – Conversations Around Medication & Stigma
17:18 – Antidepressant Withdrawal & Side Effects Explained
23:36 – Treating Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
29:48 – Therapy, Medication & Insurance Challenges
35:13 – Should You See a Psychiatrist or a Therapist?
43:47 – Offering Hope & Knowing When to Seek Help
47:31 – Psychiatry Meets Pop Culture: Consulting on Batman & Media
52:14 – How Media Shapes Mental Health Stigma
53:04 – Closing Thoughts
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Connect with Dr. Eric Bender
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.ericbender
Website: http://www.doctorericbender.com/
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