The Dark Side of Inclusivity: OG YouTuber Arielle Scarcella joins us to discuss the toxic political shift and intolerance of difference of thought in the LGBTQ+ community. Arielle opens up about being canceled 5 times and why she's labeled transphobic for applying common sense. We cover everything from voting for Trump and Gen Z's emotional regulation to how she deals with hate and intolerance.
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Timestamps:
1:31 - Arielle's YouTube Start in 2009: After an abusive relationship
3:37 - Why she started: There was no LGB education online
5:25 - Opinion on trans women in sports
6:44 - First video title: "Lesbian Cougar"
9:24 - Being Canceled 5 Times
12:48 - The Left Left Me: Staying a classic liberal
14:42 - Drag shows for children are creepy and hurt the gay community
15:39 - Dating pool is horrible: Everyone is non-binary
17:34 - Wearing a Rainbow MAGA hat at Pride
18:17 - The most hateful people interviewed were white (White Guilt)
18:59 - People of color listened because they "know what it's like not being heard"
19:46 - Gen Z lacks socialization and social development skills
20:51 - We need debate classes to learn how to disagree and still get along
21:39 - The left loves diversity, except diversity of thought
23:23 - The shift was people publicly ostracizing her for disagreement
30:11 - Confronting haters: They "don't say sh!t" because they lack the social skills
31:18 - Voting for Trump as a lesbian
36:01 - Content is now a moderate/classic liberal view
36:45 - Queer activists converting to Islam
38:59 - Gen Z has lost the plot and doesn't know how to deal with emotions
40:46 - Nostalgia reminds you of "who you are before the world f*cked you up"
42:09 - Street interviews: Confronting haters who "talk sh!t"
43:22 - Today's definition of transphobia: Disagreeing with anything they say
43:57 - You don't need gender dysphoria to be trans in NYC now45:54 - Managing the hate: Knowing who you are makes you manipulation-proof
48:11 - The "Duper’s Delight" Smirk (Smug, powerful, specific to woke activists)
52:02 - They tried to prevent her from entering Australia in 2020
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