Consistency vs. Persistence: What Works for the ADHD Brain?

Welcome back to Authentically ADHD, where we explore the realities of living with ADHD—the science, struggles, and strengths. Host Carmen Irace delves into the debate of Consistency vs. Persistence, examining why one is more suited to ADHD brains than the other. This episode challenges conventional productivity wisdom and offers practical insights for sustainable success.

The Expectation of Consistency: Consistency is often touted as key to success, yet for ADHD individuals, it can feel unattainable. Scientific insights reveal how ADHD brains navigate motivation and effort differently, highlighting the disconnect between traditional expectations and neurological reality.

Redefining Success Through Persistence: Shifting focus to persistence, Irace explains why this approach aligns better with ADHD traits. Persistence allows for flexibility, embracing the natural ebb and flow of motivation without the guilt of perceived failures. Scientific studies underscore the effectiveness of this mindset in achieving long-term goals.

Real-Life Examples of Persistence Over Consistency: Irace provides practical examples—from exercise routines to work productivity and relationships—illustrating how embracing persistence leads to sustained progress. Each scenario emphasizes adapting habits to individual rhythms rather than adhering to rigid schedules.

How to Build Persistence (Without Pressure): The episode concludes with six science-backed strategies to cultivate persistence in daily life. These include leveraging micro-wins, using external structures like alarms and accountability partners, and fostering self-compassion to navigate setbacks effectively.

Closing Thoughts: Consistency may be overrated, but persistence is ADHD-friendly and sustainable. Irace encourages listeners to embrace this mindset, emphasizing that success lies in resilience rather than unattainable perfection.

This episode resonates with anyone who has struggled with maintaining routines or habits, offering a refreshing perspective that celebrates the unique strengths of ADHD. Join Carmen Irace next time as she continues to explore topics essential to thriving with ADHD.

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Show Notes:

INTRODUCTION

HOST (Carmen Irace): Hey everyone! Welcome back to Authentically ADHD, the podcast where we dive deep into the realities of living with ADHD—the science, the struggles, and the strengths. I’m your host, Carmen Irace, and today, we’re tackling a topic that I know so many of us wrestle with: Consistency vs. Persistence—and why one of these works way better for ADHD brains than the other.

I want you to take a second and think about these two words. Consistency. Persistence. Which one makes you feel empowered? And which one makes you feel exhausted just thinking about it?

For most of us with ADHD, "consistency" feels like this impossible standard that we just can’t live up to. We’re told that success comes from doing the same thing, the same way, over and over—but our brains just don’t work that way. And that’s okay.

Today, we’re breaking it all down. We’ll explore:

* The perception of these words and why consistency feels unattainable for ADHDers

* The science behind why our brains struggle with consistency but thrive with persistence

* Why persistence is actually the ADHD-friendly approach to long-term success

* And some practical strategies to help you build persistence without pressure

So, if you’ve ever felt frustrated that you "can’t stay consistent" with habits, work, or goals—this episode is for you. Let’s jump in.

THE EXPECTATION OF CONSISTENCY

Let’s start with consistency.

This word is thrown around all the time in productivity culture:

* “The key to success is consistency.”

* “If you’re not consistent, you’re not disciplined.”

* “Success comes from showing up every single day.”

And if you have ADHD, hearing that feels like being asked to run a marathon with no training, no shoes, and no idea where the finish line is. Because consistency is built on predictability—and ADHD is the opposite of predictable.

🔎 Let’s look at the science: