Sex in Marriage Bonus 2: He’s Not Asking—Now What?

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One of the quietest but most painful dynamics I hear from women is this: “He says he wants sex… but he never actually asks.”

It leaves you feeling invisible, unwanted, and confused. And for him? Silence can feel safer than facing rejection, insecurity, or the shame that often hides beneath the surface.

In my latest bonus episode, “He’s Not Asking—Now What?” I explore what might really be happening when your spouse longs for intimacy but doesn’t initiate. We’ll look at:

• Why silence often feels safer than asking
• How years of “learned dynamics” can quietly create disconnection
• The role insecurity and shame play in holding him back
• How to start courageous conversations that open the door to honesty and reconnection

This episode will help you see the silence in a new light—not as a dead end, but as an invitation to understanding and deeper intimacy.

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