Sex in Marriage Bonus Episode 1: When Sex Was the Hook

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Have you ever wondered why sex seemed so natural in the beginning, but now feels complicated—or even avoided?

For many couples, sex was the hook that brought them together.

• For her, giving herself felt like the way to keep his attention.
• For him, receiving her felt like proof that he was wanted.

It worked—at least for a while. But over time, that script creates a painful standoff: she pulls back, weary of obligation, knowing that this type of intimacy doesn't feel right, while he feels rejected, confused, and wondering what changed. 

Jeff and I lived this story. I realized I was using sex to keep him interested, and when I stopped, my desire plummeted because it was based on lies. I asked him to start initiating, but what I didn’t know was how insecure he felt doing that. What was meant to bring us closer created a chasm between us.

In this week’s bonus episode, When Sex Was the Hook, I share our journey of untangling this pattern—and how couples can move toward a more honest, holistic intimacy.

If this episode resonates, I’d love for you to share it with a friend or leave a review. It’s one of the most powerful ways to help more couples find hope in their own journey.

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