Let’s be real.
Most of us are great at keeping our word to others. You say you’ll show up for your friend? You do. You’ve got a work deadline? You hit it. But when it comes to the promises you make to yourself, like getting up early, eating better, starting that book you bend, you negotiate, or you push it off until “tomorrow.” And tomorrow never comes.
That’s not just a broken to-do list. That’s a broken relationship with your WORD. And it’s the #1 way people leak their power without even realizing it.
In this episode, I pull the curtain back on why your relationship to your word is the foundation of living an unmessablewith life and what to do if you’ve been treating your own promises like they’re optional.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Why self-trust matters more than motivation (and how to build it).
The Non-Negotiable Principle: what shifts when your word stops depending on your mood.
The Small Wins System: the secret to rebuilding trust with yourself without overwhelming yourself.
The Power Pause Protocol: a simple, 10-second practice that saves you from making promises you’ll break.
If you’ve been struggling with overwhelm, burnout, or that sneaky voice of self-doubt, this conversation will wake you up. Because when you can say X and do X consistently, you stop leaking power and start creating the life you actually want.
Download my free guide: Five Daily Practices to Be Unmessablewith – practical steps you can take today.https://beunmessablewith.com/daily-practices-guide/
Join Word Bootcamp: My brand-new 4-week workshop to build the muscle of your word so that your word is law in the universe. This is where your self-trust gets rebuilt from the ground up. Spaces are extremely limited, so grab your spot NOW.
https://beunmessablewith.thrivecart.com/word-bootcamp-january-2026
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