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September 16, 2025 47 mins

Welcome back to Becoming: HER everybody! I am so excited to introduce this week's guest who is one of my closest friends, Rachel Kipnis. This is actually going to be a three part series because we have multiple things to talk about within the same category. 


Rachel is a powerhouse family law attorney who specializes in high net worth prenups, post-nups, divorces, and parenting plans. She has seen it ALLL when it comes to love, marriage, and what happens when things don’t go as planned. Rachel is here today to give us the knowledge, tools, and the confidence to navigate these often intimidating conversations. 


Over the next three episodes we are breaking it down; Part One - How to approach a prenup with clarity and confidence, Part Two - How to choose the right attorney if you are facing a divorce, and Part Three - Speciality clauses like NDAs, infidelity clauses, and more, what they mean and why they matter. This series is about empowerment, awareness, and protecting yourself without losing sight of love. Lets dive in!





In this episode… 

  • Clarity
  • Prenups 
  • Privacy  
  • Mindset 
  • Knowing what it looks like when you leave 
  • Financial disclosure 
  • Business of marriage 
  • Energy exchange 
  • Study the documents 




Quotes


“I knew what I was doing was important work, but I didn't feel like my soul was satisfied by it.” - Rachel Kipnis 


“Prenups can be kind.” - Rachel Kipnis 


“There have been successful men who have built their success on the backs of women.” - Nikki Spo




Timestamps:

0:00 - 3:05 | Intro

3:05 - 4:40 | Clarity 

4:40 - 11:15 | Prenups 

11:15 - 17:50 | Mindset shift 

17:50 - 18:45 | Financials 

18:45 - 22:15 | Breaking the document stigma 

22:15 - 31:40 | Red flags in a prenup  

31:40 - 36:25 | Key provisions to include in a prenup

36:25 - 38:45 | Homemakers  

38:45 - 42:40 | How to ensure both parties do what they are supposed to 

42:40 - 46:00 | Myths to debunk about prenups 

46:00 - 47:41 | Outro 







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Connect with Rachel 

@thesplitstrategist 






Connect with Nikki 

www.nikkispo.com  

@nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her 





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