September 4, 2024 • 20 mins
Welcome to Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence with your host, Nefe Oguntoye. If you've been searching for ways to build unshakable confidence and walk into every situation with assurance and poise, then you've come to the right place.
In today's episode, we explore daily habits to build unshakable confidence. Confidence isn't an innate gift; it's a quality anyone can develop through consistent daily actions and choices. We'll delve into practical, actionable habits that you can incorporate into your routine to enhance your confidence every day.
We'll share inspirational stories, quotes, and reflective questions designed to help you on your journey. Additionally, we'll recommend powerful resources to further your growth. So, grab your notebook, settle in, and let's dive into the daily habits that will transform your confidence from shaky to unshakable.
Join us as we discuss:
- The importance of daily habits in building confidence
- The power of positive self-talk
- Embracing failure as a learning opportunity
- Setting and achieving small, measurable goals
- Surrounding yourself with positive influences
- Practicing gratitude daily
- Investing in self-care
- Learning continuously
By intentionally cultivating positive habits, you set yourself on a path to becoming the most confident version of yourself. Remember, confidence is not a trait you're born with; it's a skill you develop. Apply what you've learned today, and watch as your confidence grows day by day.
Recommended Books to Boost Your Confidence:
-
"The Confidence Code" by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman A deep dive into the science behind confidence, packed with practical strategies.
-
"Mindset: The New Psychology of Success" by Carol S. Dweck Learn how adopting a growth mindset can transform your confidence and success.
-
"Atomic Habits" by James Clear Discover how small, effective habits can lead to lasting personal growth and confidence.
For more insights, visit nefewellness.com/resources.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence. If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit. Stay confident, stay resilient, and keep pushing beyond doubt.
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(00:00):
Hello and welcome to Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence.
I'm your host, Nefe Oguntoye, and I'm thrilled to have you with me today.
If you've been searching for ways to build unshakable confidence,
to walk into every situation with assurance and poise, then you've come to the right place.
Today's episode is all about daily habits to build unshakable confidence.
(00:25):
Confidence isn't an innate gift that a few lucky people are born with.
It's a quality that anyone can develop through consistent daily actions and choices.
We're going to explore practical actionable habits that you can incorporate
into your routine to enhance your confidence every day.
(00:46):
I'll share inspirational stories, quotes and guide you with reflective questions,
designed to help you on your journey.
And of course, I'll also recommend some powerful resources to further your growth.
So grab your notebook, settle in, and let's dive into the daily habits that
(01:07):
will transform your confidence from shaky to unshakable.
Section one, the importance of daily habits in building confidence.
Let's start by discussing why daily habits are so crucial in building confidence.
Confidence is not something that appears suddenly, it's the result of consistent
(01:30):
intentional actions that reinforce your belief in yourself and your abilities over time.
Take the example of Angela Merkel, former Chancellor of Germany.
Merkel is known for her steady, confident leadership during some of the most
challenging times in recent history.
(01:50):
But Merkel didn't become one of the world's most powerful women by accident.
Her confidence was built over years of disciplined daily habits,
habits that included meticulous preparation, continuous learning and an unwavering
commitment to her values.
Merkel once said, I'm always learning from everything I do.
(02:13):
I don't believe in a rigid mindset. The world is constantly changing and I must adapt to it.
Her ability to continuously evolve
combined with her daily practice of
reflection and preparation made her a leader who could stand firm even in the
face of immense pressure ask yourself what daily habits am i currently practicing
(02:39):
that contribute to my confidence and which ones might be undermining it.
How can I begin to shift my daily routine to include habits that empower me rather than hinder me?
Start by identifying the habits that are part of your current routine.
Which of these are helping you move closer to your goals? Which are holding you back?
(03:04):
Making small, deliberate changes to your daily habits can lead to substantial
improvements in your confidence over time.
Section two the power
of positive self-talk one of
the most powerful tools at your disposal for building
confidence is positive self-talk the way
you speak to yourself directly influences your beliefs
(03:27):
your action and ultimately your confidence if your inner dialogue is filled
with doubt and negativity it can severely undermine your confidence but if you
consciously choose to speak to yourself with kindness and encouragement you
can reshape your entire outlook.
(03:48):
Consider the story of Malala Yousafzai, the youngest ever Nobel Prize laureate.
Malala's journey of standing up for girls' education in Pakistan was marked
by incredible challenges, including a life-threatening attack by the Taliban. ban.
(04:08):
Yet, even in the face of such adversity, Malala's inner dialogue was one of
strength and positivity.
She once said, when the world and the whole world is silent,
even one voice becomes powerful.
Malala's belief in her own voice, her ability to remind herself of her purpose
(04:29):
and and strength enabled her to continue her fight with unwavering confidence.
Now, think about your own inner dialogue.
What are the words and phrases I frequently use when I talk to myself?
Are they empowering or limiting?
How can I begin to replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations?
(04:53):
Start by paying attention to your self-talk. When you catch yourself thinking
negatively, pause and reframe the thought into something positive.
For example, if you find yourself thinking, I'm not good enough,
counter it with, I am capable and deserving of success.
(05:14):
Practice this daily and over time, you'll notice a shift in your confidence.
Section three, embracing failure as a learning opportunity.
One of the most transformative habits you can develop for building confidence
is learning to embrace failure not as a defeat but as a stepping stone to growth.
(05:38):
Failure is an inevitable part of any journey especially when you're pushing
yourself to achieve great things.
It's how you respond to failure that determines whether it diminishes your confidence or strengthens it.
Consider the story of Walt Disney. Today, Disney is synonymous with success
(05:59):
and creativity, but Walt Disney's path was far from easy.
Before creating the iconic Disneyland, Disney faced numerous failures,
including bankruptcy of his first animation studio and being fired from a newspaper
for, quote unquote, lacking creativity.
(06:20):
Instead of giving up, Disney used such failure as lesson, refining his ideas and approach.
He famously said, All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and
obstacles have strengthened me.
(06:40):
You may not realise it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best
thing in the world for you.
Disney's ability to learn from failure and persist in his vision was key to his eventual success.
Reflect on this how do
I currently perceive failure do I view it as a final verdict or as a stepping
(07:06):
stone to growth what recent failure can I revisit to extract valuable lessons
and how can I use those lessons to move forward with greater confidence?
When you encounter failure take a moment to reflect on what went wrong and what
you can learn from the experience.
(07:26):
Write down these lessons and think about how you can apply them in the future.
By embracing failure as a learning opportunity you build resilience and a deeper
sense of confidence in your ability to overcome challenges.
Section four, setting and achieving small measurable goals.
(07:49):
Building confidence is often about setting and achieving small measurable goals.
These goals act as a stepping stones that lead to larger accomplishments.
Every time you achieve a small goal you reinforce your belief in your ability
to succeed which in turn builds your confidence.
(08:11):
Let's look at the journey of Japanese author Haruki Marukami.
Known for his deeply philosophical and surreal novels like Norwegian Wood and Kafka on the shore.
Marukimi didn't start out as a writer.
In fact, he didn't write his first novel until he was 29 after a sudden inspiration
(08:37):
struck him during a baseball game.
His journey to becoming a celebrated author was not about rushing towards fame,
but about setting small manageable goals,
writing every day, refining his craft and gradually building his confidence.
(08:58):
Murakami once said, pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
This philosophy of focusing on the process rather than the pressure of immediate
success allowed him to build a career based on consistent,
small victories that eventually led to a global acclaim.
(09:23):
Consider your own goals.
What small, measurable goals can I set today that align with my larger aspirations?
How can I track my progress to ensure
that I'm moving forward and building confidence with
each step choose a goal that
(09:44):
is achievable within the next few days or weeks it could be something as simple
as completing a book starting a new exercise routine or learning a new skill
break it down into smaller tasks and as you complete each one take a moment to acknowledge your
progress.
(10:05):
These small successes will compound, steadily building your confidence over time.
Section five, surrounding yourself with positive influences.
The people you surround yourself with have a profound impact on your confidence.
Positive influences can uplift you, inspire you and help you believe in yourself,
(10:27):
while negative influences can drain your energy and diminish your confidence.
Side note, I've just been watching What We Do In The Shadows,
which is a sitcom, but it's
about vampires and they literally have one guy
and he's called the energy vampire because he's
(10:49):
a day walker but he will literally drain your confidence and drain
your energy and literally I just think that that's a
good metaphor for the influences that you have around you but anyway consider
the story of Richard Branson the founder of the virgin group Branson is also
known for his adventurous spirit and unwavering confidence but he didn't build his empire alone.
(11:16):
Throughout his career Branson has surrounded himself with a team of positive
like-minded individuals who share his vision and drive.
He often credits his success to the supportive people around him.
Branson once said surround yourself with only people who are going going to lift you higher.
(11:37):
By creating an environment filled with positivity and encouragement,
Branson was able to tackle, well to take on bold risks and pursue his ambitious goals with confidence.
Ask yourself, who are the key people in my life and how did they influence my confidence?
(11:57):
What changes can I make to ensure that I'm surrounded by positivity and support?
Evaluate your social circle and consider
whether the people you spend the most time with are lifting you up or pulling
you down it's if necessary make adjustments to spend more time with those who
(12:18):
inspire and support you this simple change can be a dramatic effect on your confidence,
Section six, practicing gratitude daily.
Gratitude is a transformative habit that can significantly enhance your confidence.
When you focus on what you're grateful for, you shift your mindset from lack to one of abundance.
(12:45):
This shift in perspective is crucial because it helps you recognize your strengths
and the positive aspects of your life, reinforcing your self-worth.
Consider the story of actor and comedian Jim Carrey.
Before he became a household name, Carrey faced numerous rejections and financial struggles.
(13:09):
However, he practiced gratitude daily, even when things were tough.
He famously wrote himself a check for $10 million dollars for acting services
rendered and dated it for 1995.
He kept that check in his wallet and it reminded him to be grateful for the
opportunities that were yet to come.
(13:31):
By the time 1995 arrived Carey had landed major roles in films like Dumb and
Dumber and The Mask and he was earning well over 10 million dollars per movie.
Carey's practice of gratitude and positive visualisation played a key role in
building his confidence and ultimately achieving his dreams.
(13:55):
Reflect on this practice. What are three things I'm grateful for today?
How does practicing gratitude change the way I perceive myself and my life?
Start a gratitude journal where you write down three things you're thankful
for every day over time this habit will help you see the positives in your life
(14:18):
more clearly boosting your confidence and overall happiness.
Section 7. Investing in self-care.
Self-care is not a luxury, it's a necessity for building and maintaining confidence.
When you take care of your physical, emotional and mental well-being,
(14:40):
you send a positive message to yourself that you are worth the time and effort.
This self-validation naturally enhances your confidence.
Let's take a look at the life of grammy award winning
singer lizzo i know right now lizzo is
being cancelled for various things but lizzo
(15:00):
is a strong advocate for self-love and self-care and she often speaks about
how these practices have been vital in building her confidence despite facing
criticism about her body and image lizzo prioritizes her well-being through
activities like meditation,
affirmations and regular exercise.
(15:22):
She once said self-care isn't in the little moments when you choose to laugh
instead of cry or when you say no to something you don't want to do.
It's in the positive choices we make every day.
Lizzo's commitment to self-care has helped her cultivate a strong sense of self-worth
(15:43):
and confidence that shines through in her performances and public appearances.
Ask yourself, how often do I prioritise self-care in my daily routine?
What self-care activities make me feel most rejuvenated and confident?
Self-care doesn't need to be complicated. It could be as simple as taking a
(16:07):
few moments each day to relax, practising mindfulness or engaging in a hobby you love.
Whatever it is, make it a priority. your confidence will grow as you constantly
show yourself the care and respect you deserve.
Section 8. Learning continuously. Confidence is deeply tied to your knowledge and skills.
(16:32):
When you commit to continuous learning you're constantly expanding your horizons
which in turn makes you feel more competent and confident in your abilities.
Let's draw inspiration from Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and author of Lean In.
Sandberg is a strong advocate for lifelong learning.
(16:58):
Even as she climbed the corporate ladder, she continuously sought out new knowledge
and experiences to keep herself sharp and adaptable.
She often encourages others us to embrace learning saying we cannot change what
we are not aware of and once we are aware we cannot help but change.
(17:20):
Sandberg's commitment to learning has been a cornerstone of her confidence enabling
her to navigate the challenges of leadership in a rapidly changing industry.
Reflect on your own learning habits. What new skills or knowledge can I acquire
that will boost my confidence?
(17:41):
How can I integrate continuous learning into my daily routine?
Start by dedicating a portion of your day to learning something new.
It could be reading a book, taking an online course or simply exploring a new topic of interest.
The key is to make learning a consistent part of your life.
(18:02):
As you grow in knowledge you'll find that your confidence naturally increases as well.
Recommended resources so before we
close out today's episode i want to leave you with some resources that
can further support your journey towards building on shakable
confidence these books are filled with wisdom and
(18:22):
practical advice that can help you continue to grow
and i'll put links to them in the description number
one the confidence code by katie k and clear
shipman this book is a deep dive into the
science and psychology psychology of
confidence offering actionable strategies to
(18:42):
help you build genuine self-assurance number two mindset the new psychology
of success by carol s dweck carol dweck's exploration of fixed versus growth
mindsets will transform how you approach challenges failures and ultimately your confidence.
And number three Atomic Habits by James Clear
(19:05):
I actually love this book and I think this is one of the
books that I recommend the most if you're
looking to make lasting changes in your life this
book is essential Clear breaks down how
small consistent habits can lead
to momental growth including your confidence
and he's got a story in there about Beyonce and
(19:26):
Beyonce is like my favorite singer so anything with
Beyonce and it's always good for me but for
more resources be sure to visit my resources
page at nefewwellness.com forward slash
resources there you'll find a curated list of tools books and courses that will
help you on your path to unshakable confidence summing up today we've explored
(19:52):
how daily habits can be a powerful for force and building unshakable confidence.
From the way you talk to yourself to how you handle failure to the people you
surround yourself with, every action you take can either build or diminish your confidence.
By intentionally cultivating positive habits, you set yourself up on a path
(20:13):
to becoming the most confident version of yourself.
Remember, confidence is is not
a trait you're born with it's a skill you develop so
take what you've learned today apply it to
your life and watch as your confidence grows day by
day thank you for joining me on this episode of beyond doubt unleashing confidence
(20:33):
if you found this episode valuable don't forget to subscribe leave a review
and share it with others who might benefit I'm your host Nefe Oguntoye and I
can't wait to connect with you in the next episode.
Until then, stay confident, stay resilient and keep pushing beyond doubt. Bye.
Hello and welcome to Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence.
I'm your host, Nefe Oguntoye, and I'm thrilled to have you with me today.
If you've been searching for ways to build unshakable confidence,
to walk into every situation with assurance and poise, then you've come to the right place.
Today's episode is all about daily habits to build unshakable confidence.
(00:25):
Confidence isn't an innate gift that a few lucky people are born with.
It's a quality that anyone can develop through consistent daily actions and choices.
We're going to explore practical actionable habits that you can incorporate
into your routine to enhance your confidence every day.
(00:46):
I'll share inspirational stories, quotes and guide you with reflective questions,
designed to help you on your journey.
And of course, I'll also recommend some powerful resources to further your growth.
So grab your notebook, settle in, and let's dive into the daily habits that
(01:07):
will transform your confidence from shaky to unshakable.
Section one, the importance of daily habits in building confidence.
Let's start by discussing why daily habits are so crucial in building confidence.
Confidence is not something that appears suddenly, it's the result of consistent
(01:30):
intentional actions that reinforce your belief in yourself and your abilities over time.
Take the example of Angela Merkel, former Chancellor of Germany.
Merkel is known for her steady, confident leadership during some of the most
challenging times in recent history.
(01:50):
But Merkel didn't become one of the world's most powerful women by accident.
Her confidence was built over years of disciplined daily habits,
habits that included meticulous preparation, continuous learning and an unwavering
commitment to her values.
Merkel once said, I'm always learning from everything I do.
(02:13):
I don't believe in a rigid mindset. The world is constantly changing and I must adapt to it.
Her ability to continuously evolve
combined with her daily practice of
reflection and preparation made her a leader who could stand firm even in the
face of immense pressure ask yourself what daily habits am i currently practicing
(02:39):
that contribute to my confidence and which ones might be undermining it.
How can I begin to shift my daily routine to include habits that empower me rather than hinder me?
Start by identifying the habits that are part of your current routine.
Which of these are helping you move closer to your goals? Which are holding you back?
(03:04):
Making small, deliberate changes to your daily habits can lead to substantial
improvements in your confidence over time.
Section two the power
of positive self-talk one of
the most powerful tools at your disposal for building
confidence is positive self-talk the way
you speak to yourself directly influences your beliefs
(03:27):
your action and ultimately your confidence if your inner dialogue is filled
with doubt and negativity it can severely undermine your confidence but if you
consciously choose to speak to yourself with kindness and encouragement you
can reshape your entire outlook.
(03:48):
Consider the story of Malala Yousafzai, the youngest ever Nobel Prize laureate.
Malala's journey of standing up for girls' education in Pakistan was marked
by incredible challenges, including a life-threatening attack by the Taliban. ban.
(04:08):
Yet, even in the face of such adversity, Malala's inner dialogue was one of
strength and positivity.
She once said, when the world and the whole world is silent,
even one voice becomes powerful.
Malala's belief in her own voice, her ability to remind herself of her purpose
(04:29):
and and strength enabled her to continue her fight with unwavering confidence.
Now, think about your own inner dialogue.
What are the words and phrases I frequently use when I talk to myself?
Are they empowering or limiting?
How can I begin to replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations?
(04:53):
Start by paying attention to your self-talk. When you catch yourself thinking
negatively, pause and reframe the thought into something positive.
For example, if you find yourself thinking, I'm not good enough,
counter it with, I am capable and deserving of success.
(05:14):
Practice this daily and over time, you'll notice a shift in your confidence.
Section three, embracing failure as a learning opportunity.
One of the most transformative habits you can develop for building confidence
is learning to embrace failure not as a defeat but as a stepping stone to growth.
(05:38):
Failure is an inevitable part of any journey especially when you're pushing
yourself to achieve great things.
It's how you respond to failure that determines whether it diminishes your confidence or strengthens it.
Consider the story of Walt Disney. Today, Disney is synonymous with success
(05:59):
and creativity, but Walt Disney's path was far from easy.
Before creating the iconic Disneyland, Disney faced numerous failures,
including bankruptcy of his first animation studio and being fired from a newspaper
for, quote unquote, lacking creativity.
(06:20):
Instead of giving up, Disney used such failure as lesson, refining his ideas and approach.
He famously said, All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and
obstacles have strengthened me.
(06:40):
You may not realise it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best
thing in the world for you.
Disney's ability to learn from failure and persist in his vision was key to his eventual success.
Reflect on this how do
I currently perceive failure do I view it as a final verdict or as a stepping
(07:06):
stone to growth what recent failure can I revisit to extract valuable lessons
and how can I use those lessons to move forward with greater confidence?
When you encounter failure take a moment to reflect on what went wrong and what
you can learn from the experience.
(07:26):
Write down these lessons and think about how you can apply them in the future.
By embracing failure as a learning opportunity you build resilience and a deeper
sense of confidence in your ability to overcome challenges.
Section four, setting and achieving small measurable goals.
(07:49):
Building confidence is often about setting and achieving small measurable goals.
These goals act as a stepping stones that lead to larger accomplishments.
Every time you achieve a small goal you reinforce your belief in your ability
to succeed which in turn builds your confidence.
(08:11):
Let's look at the journey of Japanese author Haruki Marukami.
Known for his deeply philosophical and surreal novels like Norwegian Wood and Kafka on the shore.
Marukimi didn't start out as a writer.
In fact, he didn't write his first novel until he was 29 after a sudden inspiration
(08:37):
struck him during a baseball game.
His journey to becoming a celebrated author was not about rushing towards fame,
but about setting small manageable goals,
writing every day, refining his craft and gradually building his confidence.
(08:58):
Murakami once said, pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
This philosophy of focusing on the process rather than the pressure of immediate
success allowed him to build a career based on consistent,
small victories that eventually led to a global acclaim.
(09:23):
Consider your own goals.
What small, measurable goals can I set today that align with my larger aspirations?
How can I track my progress to ensure
that I'm moving forward and building confidence with
each step choose a goal that
(09:44):
is achievable within the next few days or weeks it could be something as simple
as completing a book starting a new exercise routine or learning a new skill
break it down into smaller tasks and as you complete each one take a moment to acknowledge your
progress.
(10:05):
These small successes will compound, steadily building your confidence over time.
Section five, surrounding yourself with positive influences.
The people you surround yourself with have a profound impact on your confidence.
Positive influences can uplift you, inspire you and help you believe in yourself,
(10:27):
while negative influences can drain your energy and diminish your confidence.
Side note, I've just been watching What We Do In The Shadows,
which is a sitcom, but it's
about vampires and they literally have one guy
and he's called the energy vampire because he's
(10:49):
a day walker but he will literally drain your confidence and drain
your energy and literally I just think that that's a
good metaphor for the influences that you have around you but anyway consider
the story of Richard Branson the founder of the virgin group Branson is also
known for his adventurous spirit and unwavering confidence but he didn't build his empire alone.
(11:16):
Throughout his career Branson has surrounded himself with a team of positive
like-minded individuals who share his vision and drive.
He often credits his success to the supportive people around him.
Branson once said surround yourself with only people who are going going to lift you higher.
(11:37):
By creating an environment filled with positivity and encouragement,
Branson was able to tackle, well to take on bold risks and pursue his ambitious goals with confidence.
Ask yourself, who are the key people in my life and how did they influence my confidence?
(11:57):
What changes can I make to ensure that I'm surrounded by positivity and support?
Evaluate your social circle and consider
whether the people you spend the most time with are lifting you up or pulling
you down it's if necessary make adjustments to spend more time with those who
(12:18):
inspire and support you this simple change can be a dramatic effect on your confidence,
Section six, practicing gratitude daily.
Gratitude is a transformative habit that can significantly enhance your confidence.
When you focus on what you're grateful for, you shift your mindset from lack to one of abundance.
(12:45):
This shift in perspective is crucial because it helps you recognize your strengths
and the positive aspects of your life, reinforcing your self-worth.
Consider the story of actor and comedian Jim Carrey.
Before he became a household name, Carrey faced numerous rejections and financial struggles.
(13:09):
However, he practiced gratitude daily, even when things were tough.
He famously wrote himself a check for $10 million dollars for acting services
rendered and dated it for 1995.
He kept that check in his wallet and it reminded him to be grateful for the
opportunities that were yet to come.
(13:31):
By the time 1995 arrived Carey had landed major roles in films like Dumb and
Dumber and The Mask and he was earning well over 10 million dollars per movie.
Carey's practice of gratitude and positive visualisation played a key role in
building his confidence and ultimately achieving his dreams.
(13:55):
Reflect on this practice. What are three things I'm grateful for today?
How does practicing gratitude change the way I perceive myself and my life?
Start a gratitude journal where you write down three things you're thankful
for every day over time this habit will help you see the positives in your life
(14:18):
more clearly boosting your confidence and overall happiness.
Section 7. Investing in self-care.
Self-care is not a luxury, it's a necessity for building and maintaining confidence.
When you take care of your physical, emotional and mental well-being,
(14:40):
you send a positive message to yourself that you are worth the time and effort.
This self-validation naturally enhances your confidence.
Let's take a look at the life of grammy award winning
singer lizzo i know right now lizzo is
being cancelled for various things but lizzo
(15:00):
is a strong advocate for self-love and self-care and she often speaks about
how these practices have been vital in building her confidence despite facing
criticism about her body and image lizzo prioritizes her well-being through
activities like meditation,
affirmations and regular exercise.
(15:22):
She once said self-care isn't in the little moments when you choose to laugh
instead of cry or when you say no to something you don't want to do.
It's in the positive choices we make every day.
Lizzo's commitment to self-care has helped her cultivate a strong sense of self-worth
(15:43):
and confidence that shines through in her performances and public appearances.
Ask yourself, how often do I prioritise self-care in my daily routine?
What self-care activities make me feel most rejuvenated and confident?
Self-care doesn't need to be complicated. It could be as simple as taking a
(16:07):
few moments each day to relax, practising mindfulness or engaging in a hobby you love.
Whatever it is, make it a priority. your confidence will grow as you constantly
show yourself the care and respect you deserve.
Section 8. Learning continuously. Confidence is deeply tied to your knowledge and skills.
(16:32):
When you commit to continuous learning you're constantly expanding your horizons
which in turn makes you feel more competent and confident in your abilities.
Let's draw inspiration from Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and author of Lean In.
Sandberg is a strong advocate for lifelong learning.
(16:58):
Even as she climbed the corporate ladder, she continuously sought out new knowledge
and experiences to keep herself sharp and adaptable.
She often encourages others us to embrace learning saying we cannot change what
we are not aware of and once we are aware we cannot help but change.
(17:20):
Sandberg's commitment to learning has been a cornerstone of her confidence enabling
her to navigate the challenges of leadership in a rapidly changing industry.
Reflect on your own learning habits. What new skills or knowledge can I acquire
that will boost my confidence?
(17:41):
How can I integrate continuous learning into my daily routine?
Start by dedicating a portion of your day to learning something new.
It could be reading a book, taking an online course or simply exploring a new topic of interest.
The key is to make learning a consistent part of your life.
(18:02):
As you grow in knowledge you'll find that your confidence naturally increases as well.
Recommended resources so before we
close out today's episode i want to leave you with some resources that
can further support your journey towards building on shakable
confidence these books are filled with wisdom and
(18:22):
practical advice that can help you continue to grow
and i'll put links to them in the description number
one the confidence code by katie k and clear
shipman this book is a deep dive into the
science and psychology psychology of
confidence offering actionable strategies to
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help you build genuine self-assurance number two mindset the new psychology
of success by carol s dweck carol dweck's exploration of fixed versus growth
mindsets will transform how you approach challenges failures and ultimately your confidence.
And number three Atomic Habits by James Clear
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I actually love this book and I think this is one of the
books that I recommend the most if you're
looking to make lasting changes in your life this
book is essential Clear breaks down how
small consistent habits can lead
to momental growth including your confidence
and he's got a story in there about Beyonce and
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Beyonce is like my favorite singer so anything with
Beyonce and it's always good for me but for
more resources be sure to visit my resources
page at nefewwellness.com forward slash
resources there you'll find a curated list of tools books and courses that will
help you on your path to unshakable confidence summing up today we've explored
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how daily habits can be a powerful for force and building unshakable confidence.
From the way you talk to yourself to how you handle failure to the people you
surround yourself with, every action you take can either build or diminish your confidence.
By intentionally cultivating positive habits, you set yourself up on a path
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to becoming the most confident version of yourself.
Remember, confidence is is not
a trait you're born with it's a skill you develop so
take what you've learned today apply it to
your life and watch as your confidence grows day by
day thank you for joining me on this episode of beyond doubt unleashing confidence
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if you found this episode valuable don't forget to subscribe leave a review
and share it with others who might benefit I'm your host Nefe Oguntoye and I
can't wait to connect with you in the next episode.
Until then, stay confident, stay resilient and keep pushing beyond doubt. Bye.
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