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June 4, 2025 62 mins

Episode 140 examines the deep-seated fears and emotional turmoil experienced by alienated parents when their child decides to change their name. Shelby discusses this complex issue from multiple angles, including the parent's perspective of hurt and rejection, the child's motivations, and the potential psychological impacts on the child. The episode is structured to first address the parent's feelings, then delve into the children's reasoning behind such decisions, and finally offer strategies for parents to cope and maintain emotional stability. Shelby emphasizes understanding, compassion, and focusing on the child's internal struggles as key to navigating this challenging situation.


00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:15 Understanding the Emotional Impact of Name Changes

02:21 The Significance of Names in Identity

05:15 Parental Reactions to Name Changes

14:16 The Role of Parental Alienation in Name Changes

20:04 Reinventing Identity and Seeking Control

31:57 Manipulation by Alienating Parent and Emotional Needs

33:27 Identity and Long-Term Implications

33:54 Personal Story: My Brother's Experience

36:23 Emotional Repercussions of Name Changes

37:15 Guilt, Shame, and Emotional Distress

39:27 Loneliness and Isolation

40:38 Psychological Impact and Identity Confusion

41:42 How to Support Both You & Your Alienated Child

50:50 Respecting Autonomy and Individuality

53:15 Seek Understanding and Compassion

58:58 Focus on Healing and Resilience

01:00:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


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