Big Questions, Short Answers with Sian Jaquet

Why don't diets work?" It's a question many of us have grappled with, and today, we’re tackling it head-on. In this episode of Big Questions, Short Answers, Sian opens up about her lifelong struggle with dieting and her journey through bariatric surgery. You’ll hear firsthand how these experiences have shaped her life, both physically and psychologically. Andy joins in, adding his unique perspective and some unsolici...

Is perfectionism a double-edged sword in your life? In this episode, Sian and Andy explore the complex nature of perfectionism, from its invaluable role in critical fields like brain surgery to the unnecessary stress it creates in our daily routines. We delve into the root causes of perfectionism, dissecting how fear of judgment and the pursuit of an ideal environment can transform into a relentless drive, often leading to 'ti...

What would you do if an old flame suddenly reached out on social media? On this episode of Big Questions, Short Answers, we explore the complexities and potential pitfalls of reconnecting with an ex online, especially when you're currently married with children. Join us as we respond to Cynthia's frantic email about receiving a friend request from an ex-boyfriend. We dissect the anxieties that may bubble up, discuss feeli...

What if you could transform your unfulfilling job into a springboard for personal growth? Join us on Big Questions, Short Answers as we tackle Oliver's dilemma of feeling trapped in a job he despises at a retail distribution company. With financial commitments and few opportunities in sight, Oliver's at a crossroads. Together with Andy, we explore the significance of aligning your work with your core values and offer acti...

What if reconnecting with your past could offer unexpected insights into your present? Join us as we, Sian and Andy, contemplate the emotional rollercoaster of attending a school reunion. Sian shares her heartwarming and sometimes bittersweet experience of reuniting with old classmates after decades apart. We unravel the complex motivations behind such gatherings—whether it's the desire to show off our accomplishments or the y...

What happens when the power dynamic at work transforms into a tool of intimidation and belittlement? Our latest podcast episode tackles the pervasive and often misunderstood issue of workplace bullying. We begin by defining it as a repeated, intentional act designed to harm, distinguishing it from mere managerial directives. We delve into the psychology behind bullying, often rooted in the bully's insecurities and desire for p...

Ever wondered if your attitudes and behaviours might be crossing the line into misogyny? Join us for an eye-opening discussion where Sian Jaquet and Andy dissect the critical differences between misogyny and chauvinism. Misogyny isn't just a simple bias; it's a deep-seated hatred and contempt that actively seeks to demean and control women. On the other hand, chauvinism might endorse male supremacy but doesn't necess...

How does overcommitting at work lead to burnout, and what can you do to prevent it? Join us as we unpack this critical issue, affecting a shocking 73% of workers. We kick off with Sian's eye-opening experience in Youth Justice, illustrating how the constant grind can result in chronic exhaustion and emotional instability. Discover why self-awareness and setting boundaries are essential, and learn the telltale signs of burnout....

What really turns women on? Is it a well-toned forearm or the ability to reverse park like a pro? In this episode of Big Questions, Short Answers, we crack open an article listing 50 random things that women find attractive and dive headfirst into a lighthearted yet insightful exploration of these traits. Andy rolls up his sleeves—literally—and humorously evaluates his own appeal while Sian doesn't hold back on her honest comm...

Can family gatherings really be harmonious, even with a history of dramatic interactions? Join us as Andy and I, Sian, recount a sunny Sunday family gathering that exceeded our expectations. Andy opens up about his initial doubts and fears of potential conflicts, while I paint a picture of the day filled with cherished "Kodak moments." We dive into the delicate balance of managing negative expectations and savouring posit...

What if your deepest fears about yourself are holding you back from the life you truly deserve? Join Sian and Andy on Big Questions. Short Answers as we explore the profound impact that negative beliefs can have on personal growth and success. In this heartfelt episode, Sian bravely opens up about her own struggle with the belief of feeling unintelligent, despite numerous achievements. Together, we unpack how childhood experiences ...

Can empathy really resolve workplace conflicts? This episode of Big Questions, Short Answers with Sian and Andy promises to arm you with the tools to address and manage conflicts effectively, whether you're leading a team or among colleagues. With Andy's wealth of experience in navigating disagreements without legal recourse, you'll gain insights into the power of listening and understanding different perspectives. W...

What kind of mark do you want to leave on this world? Join Sian and her husband Andy as they dive into the profound subject of legacy on this episode of Big Questions, Short Answers. We promise you a thought-provoking conversation that will challenge you to reflect deeply on what truly matters in life. Whether you're in the prime of youth or the wisdom of old age, contemplating your legacy offers invaluable insights into how y...

Can failing to actively listen truly erode trust and disengage younger employees? Discover why being fully present in conversations can transform your relationships and leadership style. In this episode of "Big Questions, Short Answers," we discuss the critical role of active listening in various settings, from personal connections to managerial interactions. Learn how taking a moment to clear your headspace can lead to b...

Ever feel like life's just a series of chaotic pit stops? Join us as we unravel the art of being present in both your personal and professional life. In this episode of Big Questions Short Answers, Sian and her husband Andy dive into the hilarious yet eye-opening reality of balancing family life while genuinely connecting with those around you. Sian, with her background in acting and coaching, spills the beans on how active li...

Why do we really seek self-improvement? Can personal responsibility be the key to lasting change? Join us on "Big Questions. Short Answers." as Sian and Andy, a seasoned coach with 26 years of experience, unravel the mysteries behind self-development. From those who live a life of continuous growth to those who only seek change in moments of crisis, this episode will shed light on what truly motivates people to transform ...

Ever wondered why pronouns matter so much? Prepare to challenge your perspectives as Sian and Andy dive into the nuanced conversation of pronouns and personal identity on Big Questions, Short Answers. Today, we unpack the generational views that shape our understanding of pronouns and why respecting them is more than just a trend—it's a crucial step toward recognizing each individual's right to self-identify. Andy's ...

Can love alone sustain a lifelong partnership? Hear how we, Sian and Andy, navigated the intricacies of our now 35-plus-year relationship starting with critical, sometimes exhausting, conversations. From the moment Andy proposed, we knew that our journey together would require more than just affection—it called for deliberate discussions on our values, responsibilities, and future plans. We share our story of setting the groundwork...

What if your self-confidence was the key to unlocking a more fulfilling life? Discover how personal beliefs and daily choices shape your confidence with Sian and Andy on this episode of Big Questions, Short Answers. We challenge the conventional wisdom surrounding self-confidence and explore its multifaceted nature, from the crippling effects of imposter syndrome to the chaos caused by unwarranted overconfidence. Sian's candid...