He never hit you… so it couldn’t have been abuse, right?
Wrong. And this week, we’re unpacking exactly why.
Joining me is Laura Richards, narcissistic abuse recovery coach, author of Married to a Nice Guy, and host of the podcast That’s Where I’m At. Together, we talk about what it’s really like to be trapped in a relationship with someone who everyone else thinks is “so nice” — while behind closed doors, your sense of self is slowly unraveling.
Verbal abuse doesn’t always leave bruises — but it leaves marks. In this validating and eye-opening episode, Laura helps us break down the subtle yet devastating effects of emotional abuse. We explore how narcissists weaponize charm, how control can hide in plain sight, and what it takes to truly heal.
What to Expect in This Episode:
- What verbal abuse actually looks and feels like — even when they “never hit you”
- How narcissists weaponize kindness and charm to isolate and control
- Red flags you might miss in a “nice guy” relationship
- The unique pain of being disbelieved — and how to validate yourself
- Healing after narcissistic abuse: reclaiming joy, confidence, and yes… enjoying dinner alone again
Whether you’re still in it, fresh out, or deep in healing — this episode will help you feel seen, supported, and strong.
Tune in now for raw truth, expert insight, and reminders that your story matters.
Because your peace is not too much to ask for — and you were never “crazy” for wanting more.
If you or someone you know needs immediate help, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233
LAURA RICHARDS
- LISTEN to her podcast THAT'S WHERE I'M AT: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-where-im-at/id1704083491
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