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July 17, 2025 80 mins

In this episode, we dive into the intricate tapestry of family dynamics and religious expectations with Carly’s cousin-in-law (that’s a thing…promise), Abbie. Abbie shares her personal journey of navigating her upbringing within the church, the challenges of balancing personal beliefs with familial expectations, and the profound impact these experiences have had on her family life. Join us as we explore the complexities of faith, identity, and the courage it takes to forge one's own path. This episode is a testament to the power of storytelling and the resilience found in embracing one's truth.

Through the conversation, Carly, Rob, and Abbie discuss Abbie's journey through faith, family, and personal growth. They explore the complexities of growing up in the church, the challenges of navigating expectations in marriage, integrating expectations when starting and joining a family, and the importance of storytelling in healing. Abbie shares her experiences of questioning experiences related to church during her teenage years, the impact of her mother's illness on their church attendance, and the beauty found in both pain and joy. The conversation highlights the gray areas of belief and the significance of finding one's own path in spirituality.

In this conversation, Abbie, Rob, and Carly explore the complexities of navigating faith transitions, particularly within the context of Mormonism (specifically as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints). They discuss the challenges of having difficult conversations with loved ones, the importance of creating support systems, and the healing that can come from open dialogue.

Abbie shares her personal journey of investigation and the emotional turmoil that often accompanies leaving a faith. They emphasize the need for compassion and understanding in conversations about spirituality and the diverse paths individuals take in their spiritual journeys.

Season two starts in August, and we are so excited to share these new topics with you! Please like, share, comment, rate, and review wherever you end up listening.

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