You were told being a good man would lead to love, respect, and connection. But if you're honest, all it's brought is resentment, rejection, and feeling like you're never enough.
In this raw conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, we expose the hidden patterns sabotaging high-performing men—especially the covert contracts silently destroying your relationships, sex life, and self-respect.
This isn't about blame. It's about ownership. It's about reclaiming the parts of you you've buried beneath performance and perfection.
Connect with Dr. Robert Glover:Website: https://www.drglover.com/Integration Nation: https://integrationnation.net/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drgloverofficial
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ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHR
I help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.Men who join us report deeper connections, clearer purpose, and the courage to lead from truth within 30 days.
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🔺Key Timestamps
00:02:22 – The crisis that sparked No More Mr. Nice Guy
00:06:30 – Why “nice guys” always finish last in relationships
00:19:29 – Resentment in relationships and the root cause
00:23:07 – “Unexpressed expectations are premeditated resentments”
00:30:13 – Why Nice Guys suck at receiving love and support
00:34:48 – Seeking mommy’s approval vs masculine initiation
00:42:09 – The myth of the lone wolf & male isolation epidemic
00:50:04 – Why Dr. Glover went all-in on helping men at 69
01:08:09 – The ineffable feeling of being seen by other men
01:12:23 – Where to find Dr. Glover & closing thoughts on men’s work
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