You said what needed to be said—but somehow, you still feel miles apart.This video unpacks the real reason most relationships fall apart—and it’s not what you think. It’s not yelling, cheating, or even the argument itself. It’s the emotional disconnection after conflict that slowly erodes intimacy and trust.
If you’ve ever felt like you're walking on eggshells, repeating the same fight, or wondering why your partner always shuts down—this is for you.We’ll break down the Four Horsemen of communication, how to stop the cycle of emotional withdrawal, and what it actually takes to build emotional safety in relationships.
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🔺Key Timestamps
00:00 - The Real Danger in Relationships
04:03 - Conflict Isn’t the Problem, Emotional Safety Is
06:10 - The 4 Relationship Killers (Gottman’s Horsemen)
11:02 - How to Bring Up Tough Conversations Without Drama
15:20 - What to Do When You’re the Defensive One
22:37 - A Weekly Ritual That Could Save Your Relationship
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