Episode 6: Second Wave of Grief w/ Carmen Barton

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 Episode 6: Second Wave

Description:
In this heartfelt and transparent episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Comedian Carmen Barton opens up about what she calls the “second wave” of grief — the unexpected emotional surge that can hit long after the initial loss.

After missing last week’s episode due to this wave, Carmen shares what it feels like to experience grief in layers, why the second year can often be the hardest, and how she’s learning to give herself grace through it all. 

As always, Carmen keeps it real and relatable, blending humor and healing through her signature 4Cs and 2Fs segment, focusing on Fashion and Crafts — this week showcasing her custom, hand-blinged hats that celebrate her hometown of St. Louis and honor her late husband, Nick.

She also takes us on a quick trip to the Caribbean, reflecting on how time by the water and sisterhood helped her find a bit of peace in the midst of pain. Plus, there’s a fun unboxing moment from her shopping spree (yes, it was budgeted!) featuring a gorgeous pair of designer shoes.

To wrap up, Carmen shares her excitement about her upcoming television appearances, including promoting Ms. Pat Settles It on BET, interacts live with viewers, and reminds everyone that laughter, even through tears, is part of the healing.

🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• The “Second Wave” of Grief – Why it hits harder than expected and how Carmen is coping.
• Tips for Grievers – Insight from Ashes with Art
  on surviving the second year of loss.
• 4Cs and 2Fs: Fashion & Crafts – Carmen’s St. Louis-inspired blinged hats dedicated to her late husband, Nick.
• Caribbean Reflections – The healing power of water, travel, and friendship.
• Designer Shoe Unboxing – A peek at Carmen’s self-care shopping moment done responsibly.
• Exciting TV News – Upcoming appearances, including Ms. Pat Settles It on BET.
• Live Audience Interaction – Viewers’ comments, love, and laughter in real time.

📌 Mentioned in This Episode:

• Ashes with Art Blog: Reasons the Second Year of Grief Can Be the Worst – Read Here
  Camp Widow – campwidow.org
  Book: Phenomenal: Gurl That’s U! Letters to My Younger Self by Dagne Barton – Purchase Here

Closing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IG

• Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
  
  
• Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
  
  
• Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton

🎤 About Carmen Barton

Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.

🎬 Production Credits:

• Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
• Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton