April 21, 2025 • 54 mins
Ever wondered what drives a successful cam performer? British cam girl Amber Rivers joins us to share the passion behind her profession. We explore the nuances of online performance, the connection with audiences, and the dedication it takes. Amber offers a unique look into her world, discussing both the joys and the realities of camming. Plus, stick around for a characteristically playful and candid segment where Amber shares her famous (and frank) cock ratings. Get ready for insights, honesty, and a bit of fun!
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Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
0:46 How Amber Started On Onlyfans
2:47 - Manyvids
10:02 - Using a Free Onlyfans to Drive Traffic To Paid Onlyfans
13:03 - Weird Custom Requests
17:44 - Custom Requests You HAVE TO REFUSE
21:05 - A Day In The Life Of Amber Rivers
30:45 - Obsessive Clients
44:44 - How Do C*ck Ratings Work?
47:23 - Amber Rates MY Wiener
52:02 - Shes On TikTok and I'm Retarded
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Transcript
Episode Transcript
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(00:00):
Excuse me ma'am, can you rate myDick please?
If you want me. To yeah.
Ready. Welcome to Cam Girl Diaries
podcast, your go to podcast for everything in the adult
entertainment industry, mostly camming of course.
(00:23):
Here we deep dive into the fascinating world of camming,
offering insights, inspiring stories, and practical advice to
support and empower content creators.
So let's get into it. So Amber Rivers.
Yes. Yes, that is you, you're on.
So you're on Instagram, obviously, because that's.
Yeah. It's how we found each other.
(00:45):
So how did you start in the business?
It's a funny story really. So I'm married, my husband kept,
this is like 4 years ago before I got married, kept showing me
these articles from Newspapers Online saying oh, how much is
this person's made our only fans.
And I'm like, I don't even know what that is.
So I just left it, left it. We got married and we've just
(01:07):
looked into it and set up a pagefor fun and here we are.
Yeah. It kind of took off without was
really knowing it would really. And then, yeah, I ended up
quitting my job and doing this full time.
So yeah. So, so when you started, you
just like, all right, let me just throw some stuff on only
fans and. Literally, that's it, yeah.
(01:30):
Yeah. Yeah, that's it.
Wow. So yeah, because so you put
stuff on only fans, but like, how did people find you?
Yeah, exactly. So yeah, before everything I had
no social media, not at all. So I had to figure out how to
use everything. Didn't even have a personal
Instagram or anything, didn't have a clue how to use it.
(01:53):
So set up only fans and I was like, right, how do I reach
people? I started on Reddit, got a few
Subs from there, then ended up getting into TikTok and the
whole, whole shabam. Yeah, now it's a lot.
I have a lot of social media accounts now.
So, so is like all of them combined.
Like that's where people, they're finding you everywhere
(02:14):
different. Places here, they're everywhere,
so my main job is coming so I dolive webcam in and then only
fans is like the bit on the side, yeah.
Oh, so you, well what's your what platform do you live Cam
on? Stream a Playboy, many bids,
there's so many. Script chat is my main one
(02:37):
alongside stream a Chaturbate. Yeah, I'm in a lot of sites.
I don't do them all at one at once.
Right. Yeah.
Well, well, yeah, because I saw you have many vids.
So. So like because I'm not from too
familiar with many vids, but youjust basically put your videos
up there and people. Yeah.
And people just. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
(02:59):
It's handy because people like don't.
Some people don't like buying through only fans because it
shows up on the bank statement as only fans.
A lot of people don't want on the bank statement, so you've
just got to find other other resources and how to sell your
videos without that coming up. So but yeah, you can't promote
that shit on only fans though, right?
(03:20):
Can you? No, no, no.
It's all separate. So you've got to like, funnel
them through however you can. Shit, that sounds complicated.
It's very complicated. A lot of my Only Fans
subscribers though come through my campsites, so we'll find me
on Cam and then go and find my Only Fans, so that helps if I'm
too busy to promote on social media and stuff.
(03:42):
Oh, right. All right.
That makes sense. So yeah.
So mostly it's like the live camming is where you can like
push people to like do your other stuff.
Yeah, but you've got to be careful because you're still not
allowed to say go see my Only Fans.
It's not allowed. You're not allowed to promote it
anyway. People just kind of know you're
coming. You've got other sites, you
know. Right.
(04:04):
So, so yeah, so like on your wherever you're live streaming
on, like you have your, your what you use.
Beacons yes, and I do have an all my links as well.
So that's how you know they know.
Click on that and that's where you find all.
Your stuff or I can say go follow me on Instagram and then
(04:25):
they'll see my Instagram bio andthe links there.
So yeah, it's a whole funneling process.
Yeah, Yeah, that's what I mean, because like it's so like, like
I was just saying like it's so complicated.
Like how do you how do you simplify it?
There really isn't a simple way,you've just got to keep
(04:47):
promoting and hope, hope someonejust click something.
You just got to keep it simple. I guess If I'm on A, I'm on a
community like Essex Chat group of girls where we all talk about
all this stuff and we help each other like, oh, this isn't
working, how do I do this? But that's helped massively.
(05:09):
And like just, it's like when you go on, if you see a pair of
shoes scrolling through your Instagram and you click it, you
don't want to be taken to the shop homepage.
You just want that pair of shoesthat you like.
So it's click you want the link there in front of your eyes
rather than having to scroll a load of other links, if that
makes any sense. Oh, it definitely does.
Yeah, because. Yeah, especially with men as
(05:30):
well. They like it simple.
You've got to keep it easy. You get distracted in the
meantime otherwise. Right, Yeah, definitely,
definitely yeah, simplify it. So, so I have all the the live
sites you use like do you have like a favorite or?
Yeah, strip chat I've done pretty consistently for the past
(05:51):
three years. Stream mate I'm on.
More recently I've been doing that a bit more.
Yeah so Stream Mate, Stream Mateand Strip Chat are my 2 main
sites. And what's so special about them
for you? Strip chat is a nice community,
like I've got a a night, like have a room of all the people at
(06:11):
tip you constantly, but I've gotit's like a community like they
all come on and like how your day been.
We always have like a nice little chat about daily life.
It's not just me letting them about doing stuff.
Do you know what I mean? Stream makes a bit different.
You sit there, people come into your room and you wait for them
to take your private. So you'll do a one to one Cam to
(06:33):
Cam show with them whatever theywant to see.
That's more intimate I guess, because you you get to see them
on the other side of the Cam if they want to turn their Cam on.
But yeah, strip chat went a bit quiet because it's like a third
party site. It gets promoted through
xhamster and all the other like porn sites, so you get loads of
(06:54):
freeloaders on there just like great users dormant, sitting
there watching you show for free.
Whereas Stream Mate isn't like that.
You just get big tippers on there that just want to take you
private. They don't haggle on prices,
they just take you. They want to see that boom,
That's it. Oh shit, that sounds good like
that. That sounds like what you want,
right? Yeah, yeah.
(07:16):
Yeah. Oh wow, so so why would you go
to other like if you know like because it seems like you know,
stream mate and strip chat kind of works.
Why? Why go to other ones?
Stream makes my most recent one that I've been on.
I've been up, I've been on that since November.
(07:37):
That's doing really well. So it ain't broke.
Don't try and fix it. Stay on that.
It's like that on strip chat. It got a little bit quiet and I
thought, let's try thinking of I'm going to have to sign up for
something else here because I need that income coming in from
Cam. So yeah, you just sort of move,
move through the, if someone place is quiet, you go somewhere
else, then go back to that place.
(07:58):
And it's just about finding whatworks really.
Because everyone's. Different people do amazing on
strip chat, but then some peoplego quiet, go to another site and
then go back and do amazing on strip chat again.
That makes. Sense fluctuates massively.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That makes sense.
Does. Oh yeah, you just said you just
started a stream mate. But yeah, that's good.
(08:22):
How was your experience on a Chatterbait?
OK, it takes 1, I feel like it takes one person to just come in
and change the room on chat mate.
And loads of people just sittingthere not tipping really.
So I ended up stopping that for a little while.
And you can do ticket shows and stuff as well.
So you'll like set a price, people are joining your show and
(08:43):
the Freeload does quite much. But yeah, I still find Shaft
Debate is my quietest one, right?
But yeah, I used to stream on strip chat and Chatterbait at
the same time, but it was when strip chat was busy, it got too
much. I couldn't cope with everyone
talking at me and the tipping for different things.
I was like, Oh my God, I like tokeep it simple.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's, I mean, that's a good
(09:06):
problem to have, but yeah, you can.
Because like some people think the six sites or even more like
I don't know how they do it mental because I'm not with a
studio either. Sorry.
I'm I don't work with any studios.
I do it all myself. So everything up myself, but
yeah. Yeah, and it seems like it's
(09:28):
going pretty well. You'd say.
Yeah, yeah. So like you have so you have
your your campsites, of course you have the only fans the many
vids like is that so like so like is that the three like
components? Like you got the the live
streaming only fans that many vids is that like?
(09:48):
Yeah, I also have Fansley, Playboy.
I've got nothing. Oh, I have loyal fans as well.
Yeah, I have. I have law.
So I've got 222 only fans accounts.
I've got my page page and my free page. 2 fans leaves.
(10:09):
Yeah. So, yeah, all right.
So with the the free and paid, like what?
Like what's the point of that? To have a free only fans and
paid only fans? My free is another recent thing.
I said my page used to be free, but then I find that I find I
put pay-per-view posts up, but no one's buying them.
So then I thought, right, I change, change my tactic.
(10:32):
I'll go page page and put everything on there, no
pay-per-view. And that works for me.
That's, that's what it's been like for the past three years
since I've been doing it. My price is like $9 a month and
they just, they just see everything on my page.
I just post it and that's it. Free page works differently.
It's like teasers. And if your social media
(10:55):
accounts ever get banned, it's handy to have the only fans
because it's like if you win thestore ever gets banned, you've
got them fans there on your pageready.
Do you know what I mean? Right.
Yeah. Yeah, I just need teasers,
pictures. Say if you want to unlock this
post and unlock it or go to my paid page to see everything.
(11:16):
It's like another little funnel really, before they get to the
paid page. Right, that makes sense.
Yeah, Yeah, because that seems like, I don't know, that seems
better to like money wise, that seems a lot better.
Go to someone's paid page. You get all the content for.
Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
(11:38):
Yeah, yeah, because I don't really understand the
pay-per-view. I mean, I guess it works for
some people and. Yeah, 1000% yeah.
It works a lot, lot for a lot ofcreators.
I know you do pay-per-view and it works really well for them.
Doesn't for me. I don't as well as my I have so
many sites as well that I'm on. I don't have the time to upsell
every single video and every single photo set that makes.
(12:01):
So I find it easier just to do avideo.
I film a lot while someone come as well.
So that'll be a video that goes on my own fans.
So yeah, making making use of all the content I can.
I just find it easy just to stick on my pay-per-view and say
there you go, have it again. Right, Yeah, yeah, makes sense.
So, so like that's what you do. Like if you record a video you
(12:22):
cross you cross posted. Yeah, yeah.
Everywhere, right? Yeah.
Yeah, everywhere. Yeah.
So you don't make like like, I don't know like special thing.
Well, besides like many vids, that's different.
But like you don't make like a special video just for like 1
platform or anything. It's every.
(12:42):
I will make videos, like certainvideos, like a JOY video, and
then I'll post it everywhere. Or customs that aren't exclusive
to that customer, I'll post themas well.
Yeah, I do get people asking me for customs.
I do quite, quite a lot of customs people asking me to post
certain videos and I'll do that.I've got the time.
(13:03):
So what's the weirdest custom request you ever got?
I I do so many. Oh God.
So the only thing I don't do, I've been asked to like throw up
like Deep Throat in a dildo and like be sick all over it.
That's. That's my fault.
I. Can't.
I can't be sick? No, I hate sick.
(13:26):
I've been asked to shit, period.Stuff snot pick my nose and eat
it loads. I could go on like this.
So there's so many, so many stuff like but I don't I don't
mind getting the weird customs. I don't like making feel bad,
(13:49):
making people feel bad for having that fetish.
Some people don't do it, which is fine.
I don't like making people feel bad because they've got a
fetish. I'm all all for telling me, but
I have some nose, you know? Yeah, yeah, you can always find
someone else that'll do it. Yeah, I guess.
I don't know why guys have the weirdest fucking fetishes like
(14:12):
it's so. Yeah, yeah.
So farting is a big one as well.One big big one.
Yeah, I've done a few of those actually.
So. So they just want you to fart on
camera? Yeah, done a video call as well.
I had to watch him fart. It was fucking awful.
Too far. I like getting paid to watch
(14:34):
people fart. Like, come on.
Yeah, that's great. I was.
Like, wow. Yeah, that's amazing, but weird.
Yeah, weird. Yeah, I do.
Do you love the weird ones though?
But for something like that, like how do you like, one, what
(14:54):
do they want? How do they want you to react?
And two, how do you react? Some of them I'll know
beforehand. So this one particular guy tells
me exactly what he wants. Like he wants me to just like
make fun of him and say, Oh my God, did you just hear what he
does? Don't like, I'll know before I
go into whatever I'm doing. I want to know what I'm getting
(15:17):
myself into. So I'll talk about things like
that before before I do it. Oh, that's good, yeah, because.
I'm not too. Surprised.
Yeah, going into that blind. That's a whoa whoa, what the
fuck is going on? I have had that before
especially on calm. Like people will take me private
on stream mate, open their Cam and be doing stuff and I'll just
(15:40):
be sat there like holy shit. Did not, did not expect to see
that right now. Oh, that's probably what they
want too, right? Yeah.
Exactly. Yeah.
So it's like the element of surprise.
I've had I've had a few, I don'tknow if you've ever heard of
sounding what I they'll stick rods up there.
(16:06):
You have to watch that. Inside, yeah.
Why? Yeah, I don't know.
I don't know what it feels like for a man, but it makes my
insides just do this. Make me hurt right now just
thinking about it. Yeah, and.
You have to watch that. Yeah, that was an interesting
(16:28):
one. Another one where I've opened
the Cam and he's had like a massive big black dildo up his
ass. Was not expecting that.
Like all for your king for warn me I'd fall on ass in my face
displayed. OK.
Oh my God, yeah, they're definitely paying for the
(16:51):
reaction. That's the they.
Want. Yeah, Yeah.
Oh. Shit.
I find guys with like massive cocks as well as we'll do that a
lot of the time. I'm allowed to say all this one
here by the way, do I need to? Sure.
No, no, no. We keep it real.
I'm all about the real. Yeah, yeah, fuck.
(17:13):
Like, I mean, language is language, you know, we don't
mean a disrespect. Some guy wants to shove a dildo
up his ass. Hey, that's, that's his
business. Yeah, yeah.
Exactly. And yeah, that's a weird one
because like thinking about it like, yeah, I wonder what like
to get someone's reaction, like,yeah, but to do that by Nah.
(17:34):
Yeah, I know, I know, I know. Yeah, but.
So much stuff I can't. Seem to be pretty upbeat about
it. So you don't like, you know,
like, do you get any, any peoplethat are like, you know, like
dis like, you know, like really actually disrespectful to you
like. Oh yeah, all the time.
Yeah, yeah. So I get a load of race player
(17:55):
requests and that's a hard note for me now, just because I find
them the worst, worst people on a private to just say shit to
me, like say words I can't say on Cam and they'll try and make
me say it, intimidate me to say I'm like, no, I'm not doing
that, thanks. And then I'll just end the call.
But yeah, people I like to thinkthat I'm going to like they want
(18:18):
me to pretend that they're goingto rape me, things like that.
That's that's a hard no. Yeah.
Rape. Doesn't seem fun to me.
No, that's so weird, I know. I know.
See they? That they're doing it on Camden
(18:39):
in real life, but it's just, it's just mental.
Yeah, because like if they want to do that on cameras, like it's
possible, they probably want to do it in real life.
Well, obviously they want to do it in real life.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. The amount of people I've got
banned and looked into as well, like for sending me pictures of
(18:59):
like stuffed with animals. I'm like Oh my God I'm just
going to take this day off afterlike people will just just send
me a picture with no warning. Why?
Would they do that? Someone doing that to an animal,
I'm like, Oh my God, right, let's go offline.
Let's speak to support. It shouldn't be about that boy.
Yeah, man, fuck. Do they, do they just like send
(19:20):
the picture or do they like sendit with like a cat, you know,
saying like, hey, see what I didlast night or, you know,
something like that? It's different all the time.
Some people will like him that they're into that and I'm like,
I'll just ignore them. Or some people will just send
pictures of not OK stuff. For what?
(19:45):
What's the point? What do you think?
I don't know whether they want to get reported and like they
get a kink out of like being reported and being naughty like
that, but I just think. Yeah, because that's not like if
they're trying to impress you, think they're going about it the
wrong way. Banging a dog is not.
Impressive. Like no, that's not OK.
(20:09):
That's crazy, do do you at leastget paid in some way or is it
just like they send you Adm of? Oh no, no, send a picture and
that's it. Don't get paid for that, no.
No, yes, that makes even worse because.
Yeah, it's like on the same level as unsolicited Dick pics.
The amount of the amount of themI get a day is insane.
(20:30):
I don't at least warn me you're going to send me a picture of
your cock, please. Oh shit, yeah.
Because like regular girl, you know, girls that don't even do
anything in this business, they get them all the time.
So yeah, you're supposed to be like.
Yeah. I'm.
Still that nice? You know someone sickening I've
(20:54):
scored for life over a Dick pic.Oh God, is this part of your
day? Like, you know, like you're, you
have to go through like, yeah, how do you do that?
Like do you go through like, like what's like, what's your
day like, for instance, like howlike what's a normal day for
you? I have two kids.
Well, get up, sort them out, take them to school, get ready,
(21:16):
go on Cam like between 10 and two while they're at school.
And it's just mental after that trying to trying to catch up
with like all your social media messages and posting on every
platform. Yeah, as well as trying to be a
mum and a wife and a million after school clubs.
(21:37):
It's just, yeah, it's pretty insane.
Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like a lot.
Yeah, I enjoy them. You enjoy all of it.
All of it, yeah, like it's, I work so many hours, but I
wouldn't, wouldn't go back to a normal job.
No, no normal job. Right.
Yeah, yeah, that makes, yeah, totally makes sense.
(21:58):
But when do you read those DMS? Like, do you, do you just like
go through them and you're like Dick, Dick, Dick.
It's not constant like that. It's not like Ding, Ding, Ding.
I will set like a certain time of the day where I'll go on and
check. I have a few regulars that I
talk to every day. I'll speak to them whenever like
the what I've had. I've got a few people that have
(22:20):
been with me quite a few years like from the since I've started
doing it. So I'll speak to them pretty
much daily and then others I will catch up while I'm on Cam
if it's quiet or when I sit downin bed, which isn't normally
like till 11:00 PM at night. But yeah, in in between bits,
I'll catch up, yeah, whenever I have time.
(22:41):
Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah.
So like you stream like for you,you stream during the day, but
like is that, is it a good time to stream?
I mean, it's in the day for you.It depends.
I guess it depends like where inthe world.
Yeah, so my, like I'm normally still online at this time.
So it's like every Americans, what time is it where you are?
(23:02):
It's 8. 8:30 in the morning. Yeah, there you go.
So all the Americans are just waking up.
So I'm like, I'm here, I'm ready.
They're all, they're all there already.
So yeah, I do get quite a lot ofyou people from the US doing
privates on stream, mate. Yeah, a lot of people on strip
track were from the UK, working from home.
(23:23):
Yeah, that that time works for me.
Doesn't work for some people, but yeah, works.
Yeah, no, that's great. Yeah, it's great if it fits into
your schedule, because having todo this like not on your
schedule kind of brings you down.
Like you said, you you enjoy, you enjoy doing it all.
Yeah, I love it. So it's it's the entire entire
(23:44):
Spock. It's a lot about it's like
people like, oh, you have the easiest job in the world, like I
love you to do my job for a day or two, then tell me the same.
Yeah, like I have 3 Instagrams, a Twitter, 2 Tik Toks and then
all my pages. It's just like you got a post on
(24:05):
them daily. It's like, yeah, it's, it's
more. Yeah, you say so you say yeah, 2
tik toks and all that because I was looking at your your the
link on Instagram, your beacons link.
It doesn't have. It only has certain.
Yeah, I changed that all. The time, yeah, like that's why
I was going to ask like is that on purpose like just those or?
(24:27):
I'm so random sometimes I'm verysporadic like everyone that
knows me knows I'm the most random person ever.
So I'll put my main links on there.
I do have an Instagram which is the same Amber Rivers and then
link at the end that has my all my links on, which has all my
links on. So I'll have all my like
(24:48):
affiliate links. I have an Amazon storefront.
I'm an affiliate for Love Ants and a few other toy toy
companies, Splash blankets, another one.
So yeah, all those links on there as well.
So most of it, yeah. All right.
So they're just random. That's me.
(25:11):
No, it's good. But like, yeah, I was your
Instagram. Like if I like just going to
your Instagram, you wouldn't think that you're a Cam girl.
I mean your Instagram is great like.
Yeah, I'd like it to be better. I've always tried to make it
more aesthetically pleasing. I just can't do it.
Like I'm so unapologetically me.Like what you see now is what
(25:33):
you get on Cam. Any of my sites.
I'm not managed by anyone. I like doing all the reply and
everything by myself and yeah and I make it a point of me
being me everywhere. So like.
I don't like most, now I'm random as fuck.
So this is so so basically your your, your online persona is
(25:58):
you. Yeah, I don't change, no.
Yeah, no. People love me for me.
My personality sells me. Yeah, yeah, no, because like a
like for every, well for anything really, but for like
all girls, like some girls that work like doing a a character or
a persona works for them or. 1000% yeah.
(26:19):
Like, yeah. Being real works for you, Yeah,
yeah. Yeah, I, I hate role play
because I can't can't do it. Like if I'm doing like a daddy's
stepdaughter, someone else askedme to do that for them.
I'm like, yeah, I'll give it a go.
But I get into the thing and I'mlike, I don't know what to say.
It just doesn't come naturally to me, you know what I mean?
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Yeah. Yeah, not like it would anyway
doing that sort of thing, but any, any sort of role play, I
just not very good at it. So yes, I try to stick to the
more normal stuff. Right, What works for you?
Yeah, I do. I do.
I do think I make a point of being authentic is a massive
thing for me. I like to stay authentic and
true to myself and I've always sort of stayed on that path and
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I don't plan on changing so. Yeah, and obviously it seems to
be working for you. Yeah, no, I thought your
Instagram's good. Like to me it looks it looks
professional but like not overlyproduced.
Yeah, I like that. I like how you just destroyed
and that's how I want it. That's how I want it.
Yeah, yeah, like it seems like, I think it fits your, you know,
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your whole, your persona, like it's just yeah, yeah, yeah, you
know, yeah, Looks good, but it's.
You know so much hate on that aswell.
At the minute it's so much hate and I'll tick tock.
For what? Being skinny, having small tits.
Like the amount of comments thatsay eat a meal I do right?
Like stop shaming me. Who cares?
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I don't care if I'm looking at your picture.
I don't care if you're eating ornot.
Fucking why? I don't understand people.
Oh. No, no, I don't either.
I still don't get it. Yeah, it makes no sense.
But also on your Instagram because like like I said, I
can't really tell, can't tell you're a Cam girl or anything,
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especially because like home forlike, are you building a home
for rescued animals? No, I'm I'm not.
That's what I want to do. That's my like, that's my future
dream just to put it on there. But yeah, just save saving up
some money for that, yeah. All right, Yeah.
Oh no, that's a good 'cause to have.
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I can't have a dog. I have two horses.
But yeah, rescuing animals is always what I wanted to do.
Having a farm is the dream. Oh, so that makes sense.
Maybe that's why you're getting those bestiality guys on your
shit, 'cause I saw that you had a picture, a nice picture of
your horse and everything. Maybe some guy saw that.
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I was like, Oh yeah, she's probably into this.
Yeah, yeah. Which is even weirder, because
why would an animal lover want to bang it?
Well, I don't know. I don't get it.
I don't get it. Yeah, because I mean, I didn't
ask the question to other girls,but you're the first one that I
heard that like getting bestiality stuff.
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I mean one of actually was a person with a horse as well, so.
What's it him? I don't got that image in my
mind. Oh, was it the guy?
It was a guy, yeah. So, yeah, so.
So it was probably the guy that sent it to you.
That was him, right? Did he say it was him?
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Like hey. Look at me.
No, no, he didn't say a thing. He got it was an instant block
and report for me. That makes sense.
Yeah, I guess you don't want to engage.
Did you ever engage with any of these people?
Can you imagine? Oh my God, is that you?
Yeah. Because I didn't have questions.
Yeah, so many questions, but maybe for the police station.
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Yeah, yeah, I guess you don't want to get into that.
That's. Not get into that.
Yeah, yeah, I guess that could be bad.
Yeah, because I guess it's like with stalkers, like if you
accidentally interact with them without even knowing and they
fucking like they're obsessed with you and shit.
I guess that's. Yeah.
Because these guys, you don't want to do that.
They'll come to you. You don't.
Oh, shit. Yeah.
Because you'll you know, they'llthey'll remember that you
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blocked them. And then you'll make your, you
know, your animal sanctuary. Yeah.
Yeah. They'll come and rape all your
animals. Teach you a lesson, right?
Yeah, luckily my host is not kept on on my property.
Oh, good, good. That's good at least.
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But yeah, so like, Speaking of like stalkers, yeah, you get
like, obsessive clients. Yeah, never had a stalker like
out and about trying to find me,but online, yeah, I've had a few
that I've had to just step away from all like customers like
constantly telling me, oh, why aren't you replying?
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Why aren't you replying? You're not paying me to reply.
I don't. I reply in my free time.
Yeah, I feel that I've got a little bit obsessive.
Yeah, I just draw it lines, ignore them.
They normally go away, right? Yeah.
Nothing it's got no, it's nothing's got further than that,
but. So like if you see, yeah.
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So like if you see a guy like getting like, you know, you see,
like they're starting to cross aline.
Do you like you put them in their place like right then?
Or I'll tell them, yeah, yeah, they're getting too pushy.
Like, look, if you want my time,you pay to chat.
This isn't a dating site. This is my job.
Yeah, I'll, I will be pretty blunt with them.
Yeah, it seems like a good tactic they take.
(31:49):
Because if you get a. Little you know, you, you stay
off of that shit, they're going to fucking.
They'll pounce on you. Yeah, yeah, keep.
On it right there's. A few people that I trust, I do
trust, like with my life on that, like I've built up a few
good friend friendships from it all.
But people that don't respect medon't really trust, you know
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when you just kind of like a vibe about people, don't you?
So if they start getting pushy, it's a no.
That's good. Yeah.
Yeah. Because I know a lot of girls
that don't they, you know, they just like, fucking leave it.
And it just gets worse and worseand worse.
Yeah, yeah. And then when do you call it a
line? When do you say stop?
Yeah, then they passed the pointof care and that they said stop
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and they just carry it anyway, don't they?
Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then it's it's just easier, quicker.
You fucking pounce on it quicker, it's over.
You fucking move on. You got other shit to do?
Yeah, but there's a few that still pop up that like keep
making another Telegram or a Twitter account.
I'll see their username pop up and like, I've already banned
you three times ago. Yeah, they'll just keep making
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other accounts up just to come back and like just like my posts
for a little bit of a weigh in and out like bye.
And they and they let you know it's them.
They know. I think they know what they're
doing. Yeah, most of them.
Or they'll message me saying, hey, it's me.
I'm like, yeah, I know you were blocked by.
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I just won't reply. They.
Yeah. And no reply is better than
better than anything sometimes. That's fucking weird because
like, just to think about that, like so he, you know, he does
whatever and then you ban him and like he goes out of his way
to make a new fucking thing and be, you know, checking your shit
(33:36):
out and then trying to talk to you and shit like that.
I don't know, that's a. That's a weird way to think.
Yeah, that's when you know they're getting a little bit
obsessive. Yeah.
If you go out your way to set upanother account to come back and
try and I don't know if it's like intimidation, like coming
liking all my posts commenting on them all and I don't know
why. They yeah, they definitely want
(33:58):
your attention, but wow, like, what is their Yeah.
Yeah, that's weird. Maybe it's trying to get a
reaction out of me. I think a lot of a lot of guys
like the reaction thing. Yeah, that's true.
It's just a no, I'll just ignorethem.
Yeah, that sounds like the smartest thing to do.
Ignore that shit, let it go away.
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Because like, that's what they are.
Pretty sure. Like overall, no matter what it
is they want, you know at the top they want your attention,
but for what? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So even if, even if it's just like a message saying I blocked
you, what you're doing back, they love that message.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah, because they they got your
attention. Exactly.
(34:41):
So yeah. All of It's just so weird
because. It is.
Yeah, I wonder what the I don't know, I'm just curious about the
mentality behind that. Like why?
Like why? Why waste your fucking time
doing this? It like it's exciting or what?
I don't know. It's so it's just a waste of
time. It is, yeah, obviously nothing
(35:04):
bad to do. Yeah, yeah.
So like, do you get a lot of that, like in your normal day,
do you deal with a lot of, I don't know, I don't know what a
lot is anyway, but like a lot oflike that type?
Of shit. Or where you got to put people
in their place, you know? No, a lot of my subscribers and
only fans are quiet and they're all pretty awesome really.
(35:27):
And most of them won't even chat.
Like I'll put a message out saying hi and I'll get about two
back out of like, I think I haveabout 180 subscribers at the
minute. But yeah, not none of them
really chat day-to-day, if you will.
I mean, that's not a bad thing because they just join to look
at my content and stay. That's OK with me.
(35:49):
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Those are probably the best customers to have you.
Know, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But no, I mean all, I mean, everyone's different.
They're all subscribing you for different reasons and
everything. So that's.
Understandable. Yeah, Yeah.
Good. So like with the Instagram,
would you, is Instagram your? I'm sorry if I repeat myself.
(36:12):
I'm curious, is Instagram like the main social media where
people are finding you or do youknow, do you know where people
are finding you from? I do, I do run polls on my only
fans quite a lot and I'd say most are from TikTok.
Oh, TikTok. Yeah, my biggest followings on
TikTok, but it's still not it's still not big compared to some
(36:34):
big creators. I have 64,000 on TikTok, but I
think most people find me through there.
A few filter through from Instagram, yeah.
And so you know this because you're asking the question like
I'm your only fans. Yeah, yeah.
Like I'll do polls. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So you can do. I forgot about the calls.
(36:56):
Now you can do links. You can.
What's it called? You can set up links that go
from your only fans and you'll link that to your.
Like the beacons that you're using.
Yeah, it's. Like link tree and all those
kind of things. Yeah, but there's links you can
use that people click on througheither TikTok and it'll that
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link will tell you how many people click through Tik.
T.O.K yeah. Physicals got certain.
I can't think. Of it like Bitly, I use
rebrandly. Yeah, yeah.
Not did that one. Yeah, there's, I think Bitly is
like the one that's been around forever.
There's a bunch of them, but. Yeah, there is.
Yeah, yeah. That's smart.
I mean, I don't really do that. I don't have time to check where
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people are coming from. As long as they're coming from
somewhere, it's OK. Right.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because like, because I talked
about this on other shows too, but it's important to know where
people are coming from that way.Yeah.
You know, You know where they'recoming from.
You can focus, you know. With time or yeah, yeah, I got
that. Yeah, I've recently deleted a
few. I was on fan view.
(38:03):
Admire Me deleted those because they're just not worth the time
putting into it. Like kind of I had a few Subs
there, but it got to about a year and I'm like, no, that's
not worth my time anymore. So you stick to the ones that
are, you stick to the mainstreamones, the ones that are doing
well. That's yes, I'm glad you said
that because that's something important because that will bog
(38:25):
your fucking mind down. Keep, you know, especially like
when you're cross posting and shit to be spending that time on
shit that doesn't work. It's like, you know, as you're
posting, you're like, God, I gotto do this and this and this and
this. Cut that shit out because it's a
waste of time. I used to do it just to think,
oh, just in case anything happens to only fans in the
(38:47):
future, I've got that site. But it just, it's just not worth
it, not worth the time. Yeah, you're so right.
I've been doing, you know, different content creation shit
for years, and I'm still in thathorrible habit of posting on
shit. Just exactly what you said, just
in case, just in. Case, yeah.
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And it infuriate. I infuriate myself and it's
fucking, it burns me out. I'm like fuck, why am I doing
this? I got this.
Shit, you know, Yeah, yeah, you do need Yeah.
Burnout's massive. Like some days I'll just lie
there like, I'm not going to go online today.
I'm not not OK. I just want to just do nothing.
(39:29):
I don't want social media in my head.
And I'll just like, go down the farm or something.
But yeah, you do need that. You do need that time away from
technology and social media sometimes.
Definitely. Yeah.
Burnout. Burnout is fucking real as hell.
Especially like with what you'redoing, like as any kind of
content creator, if you're doingthat shit like you're doing all
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those different things in a really short amount of time and
doing a lot, it burns you out. Like there's it does, yeah,
yeah. Like people don't realize the
how time consuming posting and answering messages is like
behind the scenes what they see on Cam.
They might think oh you're only like do 4 hours on Cam.
But I do more hours offline thanI do online.
(40:12):
It's it's mad. Yeah.
And you, it's tough because obviously I think you enjoy it,
but too much of something, like with anything, too much of
something you enjoy is. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's not good. I don't class it as work, but
it's like too much of like. So say if someone likes golf,
you're not going to do it 24/7, are you?
(40:33):
Because you're going to get bored eventually or need a
little break from golfing. Yeah, you do need that time out.
Yeah, definitely. So like, that's what it sounds
like to me. Like with you is like, you know,
like you streamline your shit. Don't burn yourself out.
I do anyway on my own work anyway.
I can't help it. I'm, I'm like so active.
(40:54):
My brain's always got a million tabs open.
I'm always doing something and it's like just no, just calm
down. Then I get into bed like half 11
at night. I'll go to read my book.
I don't do that a lot, don't do that very often, and I'll just
fall asleep and I get mad because I fell asleep because I
tried to get some time for myself.
I did. I fell asleep.
Yeah, yeah, but you got to enjoyit.
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But I mean, it makes it so much easier when you and love what
you do so. Yeah, yeah.
So yeah, you can't beat that. But I do have, of course, I do
have a couple questions like to ask you.
Well, first, this is completely different from Cam girl.
But big Rick asks what advice would you give to guys who have
(41:40):
severe anxiety talking to girls?How would you want them to
approach you? Oh, that's.
A tough question. That's actually one reason I do
love Only Fans. It's like porn but with the
interaction. So like getting the best of both
worlds like I do. I do have quite a lot of anxious
(42:01):
shy people on my only Fans. And the more the more you talk
and do it, the easier it gets. Like some people now that were
really shy to talk to me at the start are now like my biggest
chatters. I just say start with saying hi
to people, getting to know, getting to know the real
(42:21):
authentic person behind behind it.
Just don't give a fuck. Just go out and do it.
I am. I'm like this person.
I'm so shy in real life. Like if anyone met me in real
life and they're like, oh, hi, Amber.
I literally shit myself when youjust got to do it, you know what
I mean? Everyone's like, how do you do
this job if you're shy? I'm like, I don't know, I guess
(42:44):
it helps because you're behind ascreen.
But yeah, I am really up in reallife.
Just don't give a fuck. Like my husband's brought out so
much confidence in me. I used to be so shy when I first
met him. I used to sit asleep, fully
clothed. I'm not that much relevant.
(43:05):
See I'm I'm an awkward person and like he brought out the best
best in me that I wasn't showingbefore.
You've just got to not give a fuck.
Just go out and do it. Yeah, that's true.
Especially because life is short.
Next thing you know, you're fucking.
You know you're in your 70s and you're dead.
Yeah, yeah. Saying, oh, I wish I did that
when I was this agent. Yeah, just go for it.
(43:27):
The more you do it, the easier it gets I guess as well.
Yeah, yeah. With that, anything really, you
know. Yeah, this is my first podcast
I've ever done before I come online.
I was absolutely ashamed to myself.
Oh no, yeah, that's it's no big deal, man, you know, yeah, see
you did this and fucking now you're like, oh, alright, that's
(43:49):
it's not that bad and. Not bad, It's all right.
I'd do another one. Yeah, Now you do more in fucking
Yeah. Yeah.
It's a lot of fun. I don't know.
I enjoy it. I love hearing about like the
fucking. I like hearing about the crazy
shit that happens, you know? Yeah, yeah.
Because that's, that's what keeps me going, you know,
day-to-day. That's the stuff I love.
(44:10):
Like hearing about different kinks and fantasies.
It like it's so interesting to me.
Like, weird as shit sometimes, but I'm like, yeah, I like that.
What? In what other job do you sit
there and like, talk about farting and stuff?
Do you know what I mean? Making a video for someone?
(44:31):
Yeah, I'm just making a fart video.
Sounds like a great day to me. I mean, shit, just making a fart
video, all right? Yeah, I do a lot of Dick ratings
as well. Oh, oh, yeah.
So for as a shy person, like or do you not give?
(44:55):
Like, do you not give a fuck? You're just like, whatever.
No, I'm all right, actually. Are those I'm quite good at
those. Like so I see some huge cops
sometimes I'm like, Oh my God. Like I think that helps them.
They like, I like, they like theconfidence booster.
I don't know why, because they already know they have a huge
cop. What they're like, they like,
they like hearing it. Yeah.
(45:16):
You got a 10 out of 10 from me because it's just just massive,
you know? So how's that work?
Do they just like, you know, hey, I would like to receive a
Dick rating please and they justsubmit their Dick or do they?
Yeah, but then I'll do an written audio or video, or
they'll do it on Cam. So they'll tip for a cock right
(45:38):
on Cam and then I'll either do it out loud or in a private or
in PMS. Oh, so like live Dick ratings?
Yeah, that's a massive thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh shit. I've had to rate cumshots as
well. Oh, really?
Yeah, yeah, I do that quite a lot.
What? I enjoy it.
(45:58):
I enjoy that so much. So, all right, so that has to be
well, no, I guess it doesn't have to be live.
It could be videos and. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Could be anything. I get quite a few on any fans as
well. Oh shit, that's crazy.
Yeah, too bad you couldn't like,actually like do it live.
(46:20):
Live like on, you know, like sayChaturbate, like do a split
screen and shit. Like for everyone.
Yeah, you can't. You can see someone's can, but
the other users can't see them. Yeah, that would be cooler.
Yeah, but then you'd get the guywould have to be into it that
they'd probably don't. Get They've got to be into it.
(46:40):
They're showing me anyway. Hey random person on the
Internet, rape my cumshot you know?
Yeah, dude, so do you have like a tip menu or some shit like
that so they know they can get that?
Because Oh no, that'd be awkwardto just ask someone.
Excuse me ma'am, can you rape myDick please?
(47:03):
I get that all the time too. You do.
And I'll say check my tip menu, it's OK.
Oh shit. Yeah, yeah.
Oh, I'll see, I just learned something.
Yeah, there you go. All right, So real quick.
So since we're just before we go, could you rate?
(47:25):
Could you rate my Wiener? If you want me to, yeah.
OK all. Right, all right, all right.
Ready. All right.
How is it? I don't know why he's expecting
your real one there. Oh, no, no, that's no, no,
that's the no. That's my thing for my other
(47:47):
thing I I show. I will write your e-mail.
Oh, OK. All right, All right.
Yeah. So how?
Is OK, so let's say it's a little on the thin side, sorry.
The length is good though, it's super smooth, wouldn't mind a
little bit of a bulge at the endbut it's OK.
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It's got a good curve. I'll give it a 7 out of 10.
Oh shit, that sounds good to me,thanks.
You're welcome. Oh, this actually worked out
great. I think.
All right, so that's what they can expect.
It's very, it seemed very professional and and honest.
(48:30):
Yeah, yeah. Oh, I'm always honest.
Yeah. Unless they ask for like an SPH
or like when they say be honest and it's like the size of a tic
Tac. I will be brutal.
Oh. Shit, but what if they don't
want you to tell them? It's small, but if they want,
how do you even know like? I'm a bit small.
I'm going to tell them anyway. Do you know what I mean?
Oh shit dude, be honest after all.
(48:51):
Yeah. Yeah, I have rated some.
I have rated some when I've given like a three or four, I've
said they'd be like what? Really.
I'm like, oh shit, they thought it was big.
But I read it on me like what I like to some people that might
like, they might like the three or 4 inch penis.
Do you know what I mean? Oh, sure, Yeah, that's all
(49:14):
subjective. Well, I can't be.
Honest. Yeah.
That's got to be disappointing for them.
They think they have a big Dick.Go to a non brutal someone who's
not a MILF and likes a good girl.
Well, I guess it could be worse.Well, they get what they want.
(49:35):
They got their Dick rating and that's that.
Exactly. So that's good, except they were
talking about too much Dicks andall that.
I'm feeling gay. So very fucking very endless
before I turn gay or some shit. Don't do that.
Not that there's anything wrong with it, you know.
So just. Yeah, I just.
(49:56):
Like, yes, you're not gay. Yeah, yeah, I love tacos and
shit, so you know. Love a Taco.
Me too. Oh, nice, yeah.
Yeah, I'm bisexual. Oh.
Yes, that's good. So do you because I've seen
sorry we keep going. But I'm curious because unlike
your many vids, I see you do videos with your husband.
(50:19):
Do you, do you do any like, you know, stuff with girls?
I've got a girl. Girl content, yeah.
Oh. Yeah, quite a lot actually.
Yeah, I guess I didn't scroll that far down.
I don't know. That's on my many bits.
It's easier on only fans becauseyou just tag.
You're the creator. Not all creators are on many
bits. Should the people I meet up to
(50:40):
make content with are like they have they have only fans.
Who doesn't these days? But yeah.
Oh, so like like with many vids,you have to have like you have
to get like the person's like consent and you have to like.
Yeah, yeah, unless they're already created that.
But many vids is a little a little bit of extra work if you
(51:00):
want to make the content for that.
But yeah, it's all on. It's all on my only fans.
Oh, that's good. All right, Yeah.
So we'll go check out your Only fans for the Lesbo stuff.
Yeah. Yeah, nice.
All right. It's not better than a lesbo
MILF I suppose. There you go.
All right, Amber, thanks for doing this.
(51:22):
What's your favorite social media that you want everyone to
go to? Oh I'd say probably TikTok.
My I think TikTok is my funnest 1.
All right, TikTok. All right, So yeah, TikTok.
Link is I'm the same username everywhere I'm but under score
rivers with two i's. Oh shit, you can't get that's
that's I love that because you can't make that any easier.
(51:46):
Just just Google that and all your shit will come up.
Yeah, probably a lot more shit than you might have.
Oh shit. No I have friend discount they
take down all my links it leaks.Oh, that's good.
Yeah, that's good. But yeah, so everyone go check
out Amber Rivers. I like her Instagram.
(52:07):
You can check that out first. I think I like that.
But now I got to check out your TikTok because I couldn't find
your TikTok so I'm. Saying username everywhere.
I know I'm not well, no, becauseI'd like to go off of people's
the links, you know, their beacon link or LinkedIn link
and. I think make them talk's on
there though. Shit see maybe I'm a little
retarded. No, I'm sorry if I missed it.
(52:29):
I I'm sorry. Well because I was checking
everything out and I didn't I don't think I've seen the
TikTok. Maybe I'm.
It's not on the, it's not on thebig banner things.
It's like on the little logos atthe top, yeah.
I never click those because I always, I don't know, my eyes
don't whatever my eyes catch, that's why I click on.
Maybe I should change that. See.
(52:50):
For retards like me, see. So maybe I helped you with, but
do you really want retard customers?
I don't know right? Well.
If it's OK if you missed the TikTok, if you end up on the
only fans, that's OK too. Well, yeah, yeah, that's even
better. So the win win city.
With all my only fans. Oh, there you go.
(53:12):
So it's a win win situation no matter what you click.
Yeah. So it's all connected.
It's all connected. That's it.
That's how it should be. Connect all your shit.
All right, Amber, thanks so muchfor doing this.
This was a lot of fun. Thank you guys, had a great
time. Good, good.
Hope we could do it again sometime and go check out, go do
(53:32):
some other podcasts and stuff. You're good at this.
This was this was fun. Yeah, yeah, you seemed
interesting. And luckily it worked out
because you are so, so sometimesit did in the beginning, it that
never worked out because I just didn't work out.
(53:53):
But but so absolutely. All right.
Thanks for doing this. Give me a message.
Oh, 100% yeah, definitely. We'll definitely do this again.
So thanks a lot, Amber. Thank you all.
Right take care bye all right sothat was Amber rivers go check
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So let's get into it. So Amber Rivers.
Yes. Yes, that is you, you're on.
So you're on Instagram, obviously, because that's.
Yeah. It's how we found each other.
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So how did you start in the business?
It's a funny story really. So I'm married, my husband kept,
this is like 4 years ago before I got married, kept showing me
these articles from Newspapers Online saying oh, how much is
this person's made our only fans.
And I'm like, I don't even know what that is.
So I just left it, left it. We got married and we've just
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looked into it and set up a pagefor fun and here we are.
Yeah. It kind of took off without was
really knowing it would really. And then, yeah, I ended up
quitting my job and doing this full time.
So yeah. So, so when you started, you
just like, all right, let me just throw some stuff on only
fans and. Literally, that's it, yeah.
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Yeah. Yeah, that's it.
Wow. So yeah, because so you put
stuff on only fans, but like, how did people find you?
Yeah, exactly. So yeah, before everything I had
no social media, not at all. So I had to figure out how to
use everything. Didn't even have a personal
Instagram or anything, didn't have a clue how to use it.
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So set up only fans and I was like, right, how do I reach
people? I started on Reddit, got a few
Subs from there, then ended up getting into TikTok and the
whole, whole shabam. Yeah, now it's a lot.
I have a lot of social media accounts now.
So, so is like all of them combined.
Like that's where people, they're finding you everywhere
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different. Places here, they're everywhere,
so my main job is coming so I dolive webcam in and then only
fans is like the bit on the side, yeah.
Oh, so you, well what's your what platform do you live Cam
on? Stream a Playboy, many bids,
there's so many. Script chat is my main one
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alongside stream a Chaturbate. Yeah, I'm in a lot of sites.
I don't do them all at one at once.
Right. Yeah.
Well, well, yeah, because I saw you have many vids.
So. So like because I'm not from too
familiar with many vids, but youjust basically put your videos
up there and people. Yeah.
And people just. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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It's handy because people like don't.
Some people don't like buying through only fans because it
shows up on the bank statement as only fans.
A lot of people don't want on the bank statement, so you've
just got to find other other resources and how to sell your
videos without that coming up. So but yeah, you can't promote
that shit on only fans though, right?
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Can you? No, no, no.
It's all separate. So you've got to like, funnel
them through however you can. Shit, that sounds complicated.
It's very complicated. A lot of my Only Fans
subscribers though come through my campsites, so we'll find me
on Cam and then go and find my Only Fans, so that helps if I'm
too busy to promote on social media and stuff.
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Oh, right. All right.
That makes sense. So yeah.
So mostly it's like the live camming is where you can like
push people to like do your other stuff.
Yeah, but you've got to be careful because you're still not
allowed to say go see my Only Fans.
It's not allowed. You're not allowed to promote it
anyway. People just kind of know you're
coming. You've got other sites, you
know. Right.
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So, so yeah, so like on your wherever you're live streaming
on, like you have your, your what you use.
Beacons yes, and I do have an all my links as well.
So that's how you know they know.
Click on that and that's where you find all.
Your stuff or I can say go follow me on Instagram and then
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they'll see my Instagram bio andthe links there.
So yeah, it's a whole funneling process.
Yeah, Yeah, that's what I mean, because like it's so like, like
I was just saying like it's so complicated.
Like how do you how do you simplify it?
There really isn't a simple way,you've just got to keep
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promoting and hope, hope someonejust click something.
You just got to keep it simple. I guess If I'm on A, I'm on a
community like Essex Chat group of girls where we all talk about
all this stuff and we help each other like, oh, this isn't
working, how do I do this? But that's helped massively.
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And like just, it's like when you go on, if you see a pair of
shoes scrolling through your Instagram and you click it, you
don't want to be taken to the shop homepage.
You just want that pair of shoesthat you like.
So it's click you want the link there in front of your eyes
rather than having to scroll a load of other links, if that
makes any sense. Oh, it definitely does.
Yeah, because. Yeah, especially with men as
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well. They like it simple.
You've got to keep it easy. You get distracted in the
meantime otherwise. Right, Yeah, definitely,
definitely yeah, simplify it. So, so I have all the the live
sites you use like do you have like a favorite or?
Yeah, strip chat I've done pretty consistently for the past
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three years. Stream mate I'm on.
More recently I've been doing that a bit more.
Yeah so Stream Mate, Stream Mateand Strip Chat are my 2 main
sites. And what's so special about them
for you? Strip chat is a nice community,
like I've got a a night, like have a room of all the people at
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tip you constantly, but I've gotit's like a community like they
all come on and like how your day been.
We always have like a nice little chat about daily life.
It's not just me letting them about doing stuff.
Do you know what I mean? Stream makes a bit different.
You sit there, people come into your room and you wait for them
to take your private. So you'll do a one to one Cam to
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Cam show with them whatever theywant to see.
That's more intimate I guess, because you you get to see them
on the other side of the Cam if they want to turn their Cam on.
But yeah, strip chat went a bit quiet because it's like a third
party site. It gets promoted through
xhamster and all the other like porn sites, so you get loads of
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freeloaders on there just like great users dormant, sitting
there watching you show for free.
Whereas Stream Mate isn't like that.
You just get big tippers on there that just want to take you
private. They don't haggle on prices,
they just take you. They want to see that boom,
That's it. Oh shit, that sounds good like
that. That sounds like what you want,
right? Yeah, yeah.
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Yeah. Oh wow, so so why would you go
to other like if you know like because it seems like you know,
stream mate and strip chat kind of works.
Why? Why go to other ones?
Stream makes my most recent one that I've been on.
I've been up, I've been on that since November.
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That's doing really well. So it ain't broke.
Don't try and fix it. Stay on that.
It's like that on strip chat. It got a little bit quiet and I
thought, let's try thinking of I'm going to have to sign up for
something else here because I need that income coming in from
Cam. So yeah, you just sort of move,
move through the, if someone place is quiet, you go somewhere
else, then go back to that place.
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And it's just about finding whatworks really.
Because everyone's. Different people do amazing on
strip chat, but then some peoplego quiet, go to another site and
then go back and do amazing on strip chat again.
That makes. Sense fluctuates massively.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That makes sense.
Does. Oh yeah, you just said you just
started a stream mate. But yeah, that's good.
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How was your experience on a Chatterbait?
OK, it takes 1, I feel like it takes one person to just come in
and change the room on chat mate.
And loads of people just sittingthere not tipping really.
So I ended up stopping that for a little while.
And you can do ticket shows and stuff as well.
So you'll like set a price, people are joining your show and
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the Freeload does quite much. But yeah, I still find Shaft
Debate is my quietest one, right?
But yeah, I used to stream on strip chat and Chatterbait at
the same time, but it was when strip chat was busy, it got too
much. I couldn't cope with everyone
talking at me and the tipping for different things.
I was like, Oh my God, I like tokeep it simple.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's, I mean, that's a good
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problem to have, but yeah, you can.
Because like some people think the six sites or even more like
I don't know how they do it mental because I'm not with a
studio either. Sorry.
I'm I don't work with any studios.
I do it all myself. So everything up myself, but
yeah. Yeah, and it seems like it's
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going pretty well. You'd say.
Yeah, yeah. So like you have so you have
your your campsites, of course you have the only fans the many
vids like is that so like so like is that the three like
components? Like you got the the live
streaming only fans that many vids is that like?
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Yeah, I also have Fansley, Playboy.
I've got nothing. Oh, I have loyal fans as well.
Yeah, I have. I have law.
So I've got 222 only fans accounts.
I've got my page page and my free page. 2 fans leaves.
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Yeah. So, yeah, all right.
So with the the free and paid, like what?
Like what's the point of that? To have a free only fans and
paid only fans? My free is another recent thing.
I said my page used to be free, but then I find that I find I
put pay-per-view posts up, but no one's buying them.
So then I thought, right, I change, change my tactic.
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I'll go page page and put everything on there, no
pay-per-view. And that works for me.
That's, that's what it's been like for the past three years
since I've been doing it. My price is like $9 a month and
they just, they just see everything on my page.
I just post it and that's it. Free page works differently.
It's like teasers. And if your social media
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accounts ever get banned, it's handy to have the only fans
because it's like if you win thestore ever gets banned, you've
got them fans there on your pageready.
Do you know what I mean? Right.
Yeah. Yeah, I just need teasers,
pictures. Say if you want to unlock this
post and unlock it or go to my paid page to see everything.
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It's like another little funnel really, before they get to the
paid page. Right, that makes sense.
Yeah, Yeah, because that seems like, I don't know, that seems
better to like money wise, that seems a lot better.
Go to someone's paid page. You get all the content for.
Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, because I don't really understand the
pay-per-view. I mean, I guess it works for
some people and. Yeah, 1000% yeah.
It works a lot, lot for a lot ofcreators.
I know you do pay-per-view and it works really well for them.
Doesn't for me. I don't as well as my I have so
many sites as well that I'm on. I don't have the time to upsell
every single video and every single photo set that makes.
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So I find it easier just to do avideo.
I film a lot while someone come as well.
So that'll be a video that goes on my own fans.
So yeah, making making use of all the content I can.
I just find it easy just to stick on my pay-per-view and say
there you go, have it again. Right, Yeah, yeah, makes sense.
So, so like that's what you do. Like if you record a video you
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cross you cross posted. Yeah, yeah.
Everywhere, right? Yeah.
Yeah, everywhere. Yeah.
So you don't make like like, I don't know like special thing.
Well, besides like many vids, that's different.
But like you don't make like a special video just for like 1
platform or anything. It's every.
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I will make videos, like certainvideos, like a JOY video, and
then I'll post it everywhere. Or customs that aren't exclusive
to that customer, I'll post themas well.
Yeah, I do get people asking me for customs.
I do quite, quite a lot of customs people asking me to post
certain videos and I'll do that.I've got the time.
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So what's the weirdest custom request you ever got?
I I do so many. Oh God.
So the only thing I don't do, I've been asked to like throw up
like Deep Throat in a dildo and like be sick all over it.
That's. That's my fault.
I. Can't.
I can't be sick? No, I hate sick.
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I've been asked to shit, period.Stuff snot pick my nose and eat
it loads. I could go on like this.
So there's so many, so many stuff like but I don't I don't
mind getting the weird customs. I don't like making feel bad,
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making people feel bad for having that fetish.
Some people don't do it, which is fine.
I don't like making people feel bad because they've got a
fetish. I'm all all for telling me, but
I have some nose, you know? Yeah, yeah, you can always find
someone else that'll do it. Yeah, I guess.
I don't know why guys have the weirdest fucking fetishes like
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it's so. Yeah, yeah.
So farting is a big one as well.One big big one.
Yeah, I've done a few of those actually.
So. So they just want you to fart on
camera? Yeah, done a video call as well.
I had to watch him fart. It was fucking awful.
Too far. I like getting paid to watch
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people fart. Like, come on.
Yeah, that's great. I was.
Like, wow. Yeah, that's amazing, but weird.
Yeah, weird. Yeah, I do.
Do you love the weird ones though?
But for something like that, like how do you like, one, what
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do they want? How do they want you to react?
And two, how do you react? Some of them I'll know
beforehand. So this one particular guy tells
me exactly what he wants. Like he wants me to just like
make fun of him and say, Oh my God, did you just hear what he
does? Don't like, I'll know before I
go into whatever I'm doing. I want to know what I'm getting
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myself into. So I'll talk about things like
that before before I do it. Oh, that's good, yeah, because.
I'm not too. Surprised.
Yeah, going into that blind. That's a whoa whoa, what the
fuck is going on? I have had that before
especially on calm. Like people will take me private
on stream mate, open their Cam and be doing stuff and I'll just
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be sat there like holy shit. Did not, did not expect to see
that right now. Oh, that's probably what they
want too, right? Yeah.
Exactly. Yeah.
So it's like the element of surprise.
I've had I've had a few, I don'tknow if you've ever heard of
sounding what I they'll stick rods up there.
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You have to watch that. Inside, yeah.
Why? Yeah, I don't know.
I don't know what it feels like for a man, but it makes my
insides just do this. Make me hurt right now just
thinking about it. Yeah, and.
You have to watch that. Yeah, that was an interesting
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one. Another one where I've opened
the Cam and he's had like a massive big black dildo up his
ass. Was not expecting that.
Like all for your king for warn me I'd fall on ass in my face
displayed. OK.
Oh my God, yeah, they're definitely paying for the
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reaction. That's the they.
Want. Yeah, Yeah.
Oh. Shit.
I find guys with like massive cocks as well as we'll do that a
lot of the time. I'm allowed to say all this one
here by the way, do I need to? Sure.
No, no, no. We keep it real.
I'm all about the real. Yeah, yeah, fuck.
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Like, I mean, language is language, you know, we don't
mean a disrespect. Some guy wants to shove a dildo
up his ass. Hey, that's, that's his
business. Yeah, yeah.
Exactly. And yeah, that's a weird one
because like thinking about it like, yeah, I wonder what like
to get someone's reaction, like,yeah, but to do that by Nah.
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Yeah, I know, I know, I know. Yeah, but.
So much stuff I can't. Seem to be pretty upbeat about
it. So you don't like, you know,
like, do you get any, any peoplethat are like, you know, like
dis like, you know, like really actually disrespectful to you
like. Oh yeah, all the time.
Yeah, yeah. So I get a load of race player
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requests and that's a hard note for me now, just because I find
them the worst, worst people on a private to just say shit to
me, like say words I can't say on Cam and they'll try and make
me say it, intimidate me to say I'm like, no, I'm not doing
that, thanks. And then I'll just end the call.
But yeah, people I like to thinkthat I'm going to like they want
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me to pretend that they're goingto rape me, things like that.
That's that's a hard no. Yeah.
Rape. Doesn't seem fun to me.
No, that's so weird, I know. I know.
See they? That they're doing it on Camden
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in real life, but it's just, it's just mental.
Yeah, because like if they want to do that on cameras, like it's
possible, they probably want to do it in real life.
Well, obviously they want to do it in real life.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. The amount of people I've got
banned and looked into as well, like for sending me pictures of
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like stuffed with animals. I'm like Oh my God I'm just
going to take this day off afterlike people will just just send
me a picture with no warning. Why?
Would they do that? Someone doing that to an animal,
I'm like, Oh my God, right, let's go offline.
Let's speak to support. It shouldn't be about that boy.
Yeah, man, fuck. Do they, do they just like send
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the picture or do they like sendit with like a cat, you know,
saying like, hey, see what I didlast night or, you know,
something like that? It's different all the time.
Some people will like him that they're into that and I'm like,
I'll just ignore them. Or some people will just send
pictures of not OK stuff. For what?
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What's the point? What do you think?
I don't know whether they want to get reported and like they
get a kink out of like being reported and being naughty like
that, but I just think. Yeah, because that's not like if
they're trying to impress you, think they're going about it the
wrong way. Banging a dog is not.
Impressive. Like no, that's not OK.
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That's crazy, do do you at leastget paid in some way or is it
just like they send you Adm of? Oh no, no, send a picture and
that's it. Don't get paid for that, no.
No, yes, that makes even worse because.
Yeah, it's like on the same level as unsolicited Dick pics.
The amount of the amount of themI get a day is insane.
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I don't at least warn me you're going to send me a picture of
your cock, please. Oh shit, yeah.
Because like regular girl, you know, girls that don't even do
anything in this business, they get them all the time.
So yeah, you're supposed to be like.
Yeah. I'm.
Still that nice? You know someone sickening I've
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scored for life over a Dick pic.Oh God, is this part of your
day? Like, you know, like you're, you
have to go through like, yeah, how do you do that?
Like do you go through like, like what's like, what's your
day like, for instance, like howlike what's a normal day for
you? I have two kids.
Well, get up, sort them out, take them to school, get ready,
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go on Cam like between 10 and two while they're at school.
And it's just mental after that trying to trying to catch up
with like all your social media messages and posting on every
platform. Yeah, as well as trying to be a
mum and a wife and a million after school clubs.
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It's just, yeah, it's pretty insane.
Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like a lot.
Yeah, I enjoy them. You enjoy all of it.
All of it, yeah, like it's, I work so many hours, but I
wouldn't, wouldn't go back to a normal job.
No, no normal job. Right.
Yeah, yeah, that makes, yeah, totally makes sense.
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But when do you read those DMS? Like, do you, do you just like
go through them and you're like Dick, Dick, Dick.
It's not constant like that. It's not like Ding, Ding, Ding.
I will set like a certain time of the day where I'll go on and
check. I have a few regulars that I
talk to every day. I'll speak to them whenever like
the what I've had. I've got a few people that have
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been with me quite a few years like from the since I've started
doing it. So I'll speak to them pretty
much daily and then others I will catch up while I'm on Cam
if it's quiet or when I sit downin bed, which isn't normally
like till 11:00 PM at night. But yeah, in in between bits,
I'll catch up, yeah, whenever I have time.
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Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah.
So like you stream like for you,you stream during the day, but
like is that, is it a good time to stream?
I mean, it's in the day for you.It depends.
I guess it depends like where inthe world.
Yeah, so my, like I'm normally still online at this time.
So it's like every Americans, what time is it where you are?
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It's 8. 8:30 in the morning. Yeah, there you go.
So all the Americans are just waking up.
So I'm like, I'm here, I'm ready.
They're all, they're all there already.
So yeah, I do get quite a lot ofyou people from the US doing
privates on stream, mate. Yeah, a lot of people on strip
track were from the UK, working from home.
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Yeah, that that time works for me.
Doesn't work for some people, but yeah, works.
Yeah, no, that's great. Yeah, it's great if it fits into
your schedule, because having todo this like not on your
schedule kind of brings you down.
Like you said, you you enjoy, you enjoy doing it all.
Yeah, I love it. So it's it's the entire entire
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Spock. It's a lot about it's like
people like, oh, you have the easiest job in the world, like I
love you to do my job for a day or two, then tell me the same.
Yeah, like I have 3 Instagrams, a Twitter, 2 Tik Toks and then
all my pages. It's just like you got a post on
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them daily. It's like, yeah, it's, it's
more. Yeah, you say so you say yeah, 2
tik toks and all that because I was looking at your your the
link on Instagram, your beacons link.
It doesn't have. It only has certain.
Yeah, I changed that all. The time, yeah, like that's why
I was going to ask like is that on purpose like just those or?
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I'm so random sometimes I'm verysporadic like everyone that
knows me knows I'm the most random person ever.
So I'll put my main links on there.
I do have an Instagram which is the same Amber Rivers and then
link at the end that has my all my links on, which has all my
links on. So I'll have all my like
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affiliate links. I have an Amazon storefront.
I'm an affiliate for Love Ants and a few other toy toy
companies, Splash blankets, another one.
So yeah, all those links on there as well.
So most of it, yeah. All right.
So they're just random. That's me.
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No, it's good. But like, yeah, I was your
Instagram. Like if I like just going to
your Instagram, you wouldn't think that you're a Cam girl.
I mean your Instagram is great like.
Yeah, I'd like it to be better. I've always tried to make it
more aesthetically pleasing. I just can't do it.
Like I'm so unapologetically me.Like what you see now is what
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you get on Cam. Any of my sites.
I'm not managed by anyone. I like doing all the reply and
everything by myself and yeah and I make it a point of me
being me everywhere. So like.
I don't like most, now I'm random as fuck.
So this is so so basically your your, your online persona is
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you. Yeah, I don't change, no.
Yeah, no. People love me for me.
My personality sells me. Yeah, yeah, no, because like a
like for every, well for anything really, but for like
all girls, like some girls that work like doing a a character or
a persona works for them or. 1000% yeah.
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Like, yeah. Being real works for you, Yeah,
yeah. Yeah, I, I hate role play
because I can't can't do it. Like if I'm doing like a daddy's
stepdaughter, someone else askedme to do that for them.
I'm like, yeah, I'll give it a go.
But I get into the thing and I'mlike, I don't know what to say.
It just doesn't come naturally to me, you know what I mean?
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Yeah. Yeah, not like it would anyway
doing that sort of thing, but any, any sort of role play, I
just not very good at it. So yes, I try to stick to the
more normal stuff. Right, What works for you?
Yeah, I do. I do.
I do think I make a point of being authentic is a massive
thing for me. I like to stay authentic and
true to myself and I've always sort of stayed on that path and
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I don't plan on changing so. Yeah, and obviously it seems to
be working for you. Yeah, no, I thought your
Instagram's good. Like to me it looks it looks
professional but like not overlyproduced.
Yeah, I like that. I like how you just destroyed
and that's how I want it. That's how I want it.
Yeah, yeah, like it seems like, I think it fits your, you know,
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your whole, your persona, like it's just yeah, yeah, yeah, you
know, yeah, Looks good, but it's.
You know so much hate on that aswell.
At the minute it's so much hate and I'll tick tock.
For what? Being skinny, having small tits.
Like the amount of comments thatsay eat a meal I do right?
Like stop shaming me. Who cares?
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I don't care if I'm looking at your picture.
I don't care if you're eating ornot.
Fucking why? I don't understand people.
Oh. No, no, I don't either.
I still don't get it. Yeah, it makes no sense.
But also on your Instagram because like like I said, I
can't really tell, can't tell you're a Cam girl or anything,
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especially because like home forlike, are you building a home
for rescued animals? No, I'm I'm not.
That's what I want to do. That's my like, that's my future
dream just to put it on there. But yeah, just save saving up
some money for that, yeah. All right, Yeah.
Oh no, that's a good 'cause to have.
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I can't have a dog. I have two horses.
But yeah, rescuing animals is always what I wanted to do.
Having a farm is the dream. Oh, so that makes sense.
Maybe that's why you're getting those bestiality guys on your
shit, 'cause I saw that you had a picture, a nice picture of
your horse and everything. Maybe some guy saw that.
(28:52):
I was like, Oh yeah, she's probably into this.
Yeah, yeah. Which is even weirder, because
why would an animal lover want to bang it?
Well, I don't know. I don't get it.
I don't get it. Yeah, because I mean, I didn't
ask the question to other girls,but you're the first one that I
heard that like getting bestiality stuff.
(29:15):
I mean one of actually was a person with a horse as well, so.
What's it him? I don't got that image in my
mind. Oh, was it the guy?
It was a guy, yeah. So, yeah, so.
So it was probably the guy that sent it to you.
That was him, right? Did he say it was him?
(29:35):
Like hey. Look at me.
No, no, he didn't say a thing. He got it was an instant block
and report for me. That makes sense.
Yeah, I guess you don't want to engage.
Did you ever engage with any of these people?
Can you imagine? Oh my God, is that you?
Yeah. Because I didn't have questions.
Yeah, so many questions, but maybe for the police station.
(29:58):
Yeah, yeah, I guess you don't want to get into that.
That's. Not get into that.
Yeah, yeah, I guess that could be bad.
Yeah, because I guess it's like with stalkers, like if you
accidentally interact with them without even knowing and they
fucking like they're obsessed with you and shit.
I guess that's. Yeah.
Because these guys, you don't want to do that.
They'll come to you. You don't.
Oh, shit. Yeah.
Because you'll you know, they'llthey'll remember that you
(30:21):
blocked them. And then you'll make your, you
know, your animal sanctuary. Yeah.
Yeah. They'll come and rape all your
animals. Teach you a lesson, right?
Yeah, luckily my host is not kept on on my property.
Oh, good, good. That's good at least.
(30:43):
But yeah, so like, Speaking of like stalkers, yeah, you get
like, obsessive clients. Yeah, never had a stalker like
out and about trying to find me,but online, yeah, I've had a few
that I've had to just step away from all like customers like
constantly telling me, oh, why aren't you replying?
(31:04):
Why aren't you replying? You're not paying me to reply.
I don't. I reply in my free time.
Yeah, I feel that I've got a little bit obsessive.
Yeah, I just draw it lines, ignore them.
They normally go away, right? Yeah.
Nothing it's got no, it's nothing's got further than that,
but. So like if you see, yeah.
(31:27):
So like if you see a guy like getting like, you know, you see,
like they're starting to cross aline.
Do you like you put them in their place like right then?
Or I'll tell them, yeah, yeah, they're getting too pushy.
Like, look, if you want my time,you pay to chat.
This isn't a dating site. This is my job.
Yeah, I'll, I will be pretty blunt with them.
Yeah, it seems like a good tactic they take.
(31:49):
Because if you get a. Little you know, you, you stay
off of that shit, they're going to fucking.
They'll pounce on you. Yeah, yeah, keep.
On it right there's. A few people that I trust, I do
trust, like with my life on that, like I've built up a few
good friend friendships from it all.
But people that don't respect medon't really trust, you know
(32:10):
when you just kind of like a vibe about people, don't you?
So if they start getting pushy, it's a no.
That's good. Yeah.
Yeah. Because I know a lot of girls
that don't they, you know, they just like, fucking leave it.
And it just gets worse and worseand worse.
Yeah, yeah. And then when do you call it a
line? When do you say stop?
Yeah, then they passed the pointof care and that they said stop
(32:31):
and they just carry it anyway, don't they?
Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then it's it's just easier, quicker.
You fucking pounce on it quicker, it's over.
You fucking move on. You got other shit to do?
Yeah, but there's a few that still pop up that like keep
making another Telegram or a Twitter account.
I'll see their username pop up and like, I've already banned
you three times ago. Yeah, they'll just keep making
(32:54):
other accounts up just to come back and like just like my posts
for a little bit of a weigh in and out like bye.
And they and they let you know it's them.
They know. I think they know what they're
doing. Yeah, most of them.
Or they'll message me saying, hey, it's me.
I'm like, yeah, I know you were blocked by.
(33:15):
I just won't reply. They.
Yeah. And no reply is better than
better than anything sometimes. That's fucking weird because
like, just to think about that, like so he, you know, he does
whatever and then you ban him and like he goes out of his way
to make a new fucking thing and be, you know, checking your shit
(33:36):
out and then trying to talk to you and shit like that.
I don't know, that's a. That's a weird way to think.
Yeah, that's when you know they're getting a little bit
obsessive. Yeah.
If you go out your way to set upanother account to come back and
try and I don't know if it's like intimidation, like coming
liking all my posts commenting on them all and I don't know
why. They yeah, they definitely want
(33:58):
your attention, but wow, like, what is their Yeah.
Yeah, that's weird. Maybe it's trying to get a
reaction out of me. I think a lot of a lot of guys
like the reaction thing. Yeah, that's true.
It's just a no, I'll just ignorethem.
Yeah, that sounds like the smartest thing to do.
Ignore that shit, let it go away.
(34:20):
Because like, that's what they are.
Pretty sure. Like overall, no matter what it
is they want, you know at the top they want your attention,
but for what? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So even if, even if it's just like a message saying I blocked
you, what you're doing back, they love that message.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah, because they they got your
attention. Exactly.
(34:41):
So yeah. All of It's just so weird
because. It is.
Yeah, I wonder what the I don't know, I'm just curious about the
mentality behind that. Like why?
Like why? Why waste your fucking time
doing this? It like it's exciting or what?
I don't know. It's so it's just a waste of
time. It is, yeah, obviously nothing
(35:04):
bad to do. Yeah, yeah.
So like, do you get a lot of that, like in your normal day,
do you deal with a lot of, I don't know, I don't know what a
lot is anyway, but like a lot oflike that type?
Of shit. Or where you got to put people
in their place, you know? No, a lot of my subscribers and
only fans are quiet and they're all pretty awesome really.
(35:27):
And most of them won't even chat.
Like I'll put a message out saying hi and I'll get about two
back out of like, I think I haveabout 180 subscribers at the
minute. But yeah, not none of them
really chat day-to-day, if you will.
I mean, that's not a bad thing because they just join to look
at my content and stay. That's OK with me.
(35:49):
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Those are probably the best customers to have you.
Know, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But no, I mean all, I mean, everyone's different.
They're all subscribing you for different reasons and
everything. So that's.
Understandable. Yeah, Yeah.
Good. So like with the Instagram,
would you, is Instagram your? I'm sorry if I repeat myself.
(36:12):
I'm curious, is Instagram like the main social media where
people are finding you or do youknow, do you know where people
are finding you from? I do, I do run polls on my only
fans quite a lot and I'd say most are from TikTok.
Oh, TikTok. Yeah, my biggest followings on
TikTok, but it's still not it's still not big compared to some
(36:34):
big creators. I have 64,000 on TikTok, but I
think most people find me through there.
A few filter through from Instagram, yeah.
And so you know this because you're asking the question like
I'm your only fans. Yeah, yeah.
Like I'll do polls. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So you can do. I forgot about the calls.
(36:56):
Now you can do links. You can.
What's it called? You can set up links that go
from your only fans and you'll link that to your.
Like the beacons that you're using.
Yeah, it's. Like link tree and all those
kind of things. Yeah, but there's links you can
use that people click on througheither TikTok and it'll that
(37:21):
link will tell you how many people click through Tik.
T.O.K yeah. Physicals got certain.
I can't think. Of it like Bitly, I use
rebrandly. Yeah, yeah.
Not did that one. Yeah, there's, I think Bitly is
like the one that's been around forever.
There's a bunch of them, but. Yeah, there is.
Yeah, yeah. That's smart.
I mean, I don't really do that. I don't have time to check where
(37:43):
people are coming from. As long as they're coming from
somewhere, it's OK. Right.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because like, because I talked
about this on other shows too, but it's important to know where
people are coming from that way.Yeah.
You know, You know where they'recoming from.
You can focus, you know. With time or yeah, yeah, I got
that. Yeah, I've recently deleted a
few. I was on fan view.
(38:03):
Admire Me deleted those because they're just not worth the time
putting into it. Like kind of I had a few Subs
there, but it got to about a year and I'm like, no, that's
not worth my time anymore. So you stick to the ones that
are, you stick to the mainstreamones, the ones that are doing
well. That's yes, I'm glad you said
that because that's something important because that will bog
(38:25):
your fucking mind down. Keep, you know, especially like
when you're cross posting and shit to be spending that time on
shit that doesn't work. It's like, you know, as you're
posting, you're like, God, I gotto do this and this and this and
this. Cut that shit out because it's a
waste of time. I used to do it just to think,
oh, just in case anything happens to only fans in the
(38:47):
future, I've got that site. But it just, it's just not worth
it, not worth the time. Yeah, you're so right.
I've been doing, you know, different content creation shit
for years, and I'm still in thathorrible habit of posting on
shit. Just exactly what you said, just
in case, just in. Case, yeah.
(39:08):
And it infuriate. I infuriate myself and it's
fucking, it burns me out. I'm like fuck, why am I doing
this? I got this.
Shit, you know, Yeah, yeah, you do need Yeah.
Burnout's massive. Like some days I'll just lie
there like, I'm not going to go online today.
I'm not not OK. I just want to just do nothing.
(39:29):
I don't want social media in my head.
And I'll just like, go down the farm or something.
But yeah, you do need that. You do need that time away from
technology and social media sometimes.
Definitely. Yeah.
Burnout. Burnout is fucking real as hell.
Especially like with what you'redoing, like as any kind of
content creator, if you're doingthat shit like you're doing all
(39:50):
those different things in a really short amount of time and
doing a lot, it burns you out. Like there's it does, yeah,
yeah. Like people don't realize the
how time consuming posting and answering messages is like
behind the scenes what they see on Cam.
They might think oh you're only like do 4 hours on Cam.
But I do more hours offline thanI do online.
(40:12):
It's it's mad. Yeah.
And you, it's tough because obviously I think you enjoy it,
but too much of something, like with anything, too much of
something you enjoy is. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's not good. I don't class it as work, but
it's like too much of like. So say if someone likes golf,
you're not going to do it 24/7, are you?
(40:33):
Because you're going to get bored eventually or need a
little break from golfing. Yeah, you do need that time out.
Yeah, definitely. So like, that's what it sounds
like to me. Like with you is like, you know,
like you streamline your shit. Don't burn yourself out.
I do anyway on my own work anyway.
I can't help it. I'm, I'm like so active.
(40:54):
My brain's always got a million tabs open.
I'm always doing something and it's like just no, just calm
down. Then I get into bed like half 11
at night. I'll go to read my book.
I don't do that a lot, don't do that very often, and I'll just
fall asleep and I get mad because I fell asleep because I
tried to get some time for myself.
I did. I fell asleep.
Yeah, yeah, but you got to enjoyit.
(41:16):
But I mean, it makes it so much easier when you and love what
you do so. Yeah, yeah.
So yeah, you can't beat that. But I do have, of course, I do
have a couple questions like to ask you.
Well, first, this is completely different from Cam girl.
But big Rick asks what advice would you give to guys who have
(41:40):
severe anxiety talking to girls?How would you want them to
approach you? Oh, that's.
A tough question. That's actually one reason I do
love Only Fans. It's like porn but with the
interaction. So like getting the best of both
worlds like I do. I do have quite a lot of anxious
(42:01):
shy people on my only Fans. And the more the more you talk
and do it, the easier it gets. Like some people now that were
really shy to talk to me at the start are now like my biggest
chatters. I just say start with saying hi
to people, getting to know, getting to know the real
(42:21):
authentic person behind behind it.
Just don't give a fuck. Just go out and do it.
I am. I'm like this person.
I'm so shy in real life. Like if anyone met me in real
life and they're like, oh, hi, Amber.
I literally shit myself when youjust got to do it, you know what
I mean? Everyone's like, how do you do
this job if you're shy? I'm like, I don't know, I guess
(42:44):
it helps because you're behind ascreen.
But yeah, I am really up in reallife.
Just don't give a fuck. Like my husband's brought out so
much confidence in me. I used to be so shy when I first
met him. I used to sit asleep, fully
clothed. I'm not that much relevant.
(43:05):
See I'm I'm an awkward person and like he brought out the best
best in me that I wasn't showingbefore.
You've just got to not give a fuck.
Just go out and do it. Yeah, that's true.
Especially because life is short.
Next thing you know, you're fucking.
You know you're in your 70s and you're dead.
Yeah, yeah. Saying, oh, I wish I did that
when I was this agent. Yeah, just go for it.
(43:27):
The more you do it, the easier it gets I guess as well.
Yeah, yeah. With that, anything really, you
know. Yeah, this is my first podcast
I've ever done before I come online.
I was absolutely ashamed to myself.
Oh no, yeah, that's it's no big deal, man, you know, yeah, see
you did this and fucking now you're like, oh, alright, that's
(43:49):
it's not that bad and. Not bad, It's all right.
I'd do another one. Yeah, Now you do more in fucking
Yeah. Yeah.
It's a lot of fun. I don't know.
I enjoy it. I love hearing about like the
fucking. I like hearing about the crazy
shit that happens, you know? Yeah, yeah.
Because that's, that's what keeps me going, you know,
day-to-day. That's the stuff I love.
(44:10):
Like hearing about different kinks and fantasies.
It like it's so interesting to me.
Like, weird as shit sometimes, but I'm like, yeah, I like that.
What? In what other job do you sit
there and like, talk about farting and stuff?
Do you know what I mean? Making a video for someone?
(44:31):
Yeah, I'm just making a fart video.
Sounds like a great day to me. I mean, shit, just making a fart
video, all right? Yeah, I do a lot of Dick ratings
as well. Oh, oh, yeah.
So for as a shy person, like or do you not give?
(44:55):
Like, do you not give a fuck? You're just like, whatever.
No, I'm all right, actually. Are those I'm quite good at
those. Like so I see some huge cops
sometimes I'm like, Oh my God. Like I think that helps them.
They like, I like, they like theconfidence booster.
I don't know why, because they already know they have a huge
cop. What they're like, they like,
they like hearing it. Yeah.
(45:16):
You got a 10 out of 10 from me because it's just just massive,
you know? So how's that work?
Do they just like, you know, hey, I would like to receive a
Dick rating please and they justsubmit their Dick or do they?
Yeah, but then I'll do an written audio or video, or
they'll do it on Cam. So they'll tip for a cock right
(45:38):
on Cam and then I'll either do it out loud or in a private or
in PMS. Oh, so like live Dick ratings?
Yeah, that's a massive thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh shit. I've had to rate cumshots as
well. Oh, really?
Yeah, yeah, I do that quite a lot.
What? I enjoy it.
(45:58):
I enjoy that so much. So, all right, so that has to be
well, no, I guess it doesn't have to be live.
It could be videos and. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Could be anything. I get quite a few on any fans as
well. Oh shit, that's crazy.
Yeah, too bad you couldn't like,actually like do it live.
(46:20):
Live like on, you know, like sayChaturbate, like do a split
screen and shit. Like for everyone.
Yeah, you can't. You can see someone's can, but
the other users can't see them. Yeah, that would be cooler.
Yeah, but then you'd get the guywould have to be into it that
they'd probably don't. Get They've got to be into it.
(46:40):
They're showing me anyway. Hey random person on the
Internet, rape my cumshot you know?
Yeah, dude, so do you have like a tip menu or some shit like
that so they know they can get that?
Because Oh no, that'd be awkwardto just ask someone.
Excuse me ma'am, can you rape myDick please?
(47:03):
I get that all the time too. You do.
And I'll say check my tip menu, it's OK.
Oh shit. Yeah, yeah.
Oh, I'll see, I just learned something.
Yeah, there you go. All right, So real quick.
So since we're just before we go, could you rate?
(47:25):
Could you rate my Wiener? If you want me to, yeah.
OK all. Right, all right, all right.
Ready. All right.
How is it? I don't know why he's expecting
your real one there. Oh, no, no, that's no, no,
that's the no. That's my thing for my other
(47:47):
thing I I show. I will write your e-mail.
Oh, OK. All right, All right.
Yeah. So how?
Is OK, so let's say it's a little on the thin side, sorry.
The length is good though, it's super smooth, wouldn't mind a
little bit of a bulge at the endbut it's OK.
(48:09):
It's got a good curve. I'll give it a 7 out of 10.
Oh shit, that sounds good to me,thanks.
You're welcome. Oh, this actually worked out
great. I think.
All right, so that's what they can expect.
It's very, it seemed very professional and and honest.
(48:30):
Yeah, yeah. Oh, I'm always honest.
Yeah. Unless they ask for like an SPH
or like when they say be honest and it's like the size of a tic
Tac. I will be brutal.
Oh. Shit, but what if they don't
want you to tell them? It's small, but if they want,
how do you even know like? I'm a bit small.
I'm going to tell them anyway. Do you know what I mean?
Oh shit dude, be honest after all.
(48:51):
Yeah. Yeah, I have rated some.
I have rated some when I've given like a three or four, I've
said they'd be like what? Really.
I'm like, oh shit, they thought it was big.
But I read it on me like what I like to some people that might
like, they might like the three or 4 inch penis.
Do you know what I mean? Oh, sure, Yeah, that's all
(49:14):
subjective. Well, I can't be.
Honest. Yeah.
That's got to be disappointing for them.
They think they have a big Dick.Go to a non brutal someone who's
not a MILF and likes a good girl.
Well, I guess it could be worse.Well, they get what they want.
(49:35):
They got their Dick rating and that's that.
Exactly. So that's good, except they were
talking about too much Dicks andall that.
I'm feeling gay. So very fucking very endless
before I turn gay or some shit. Don't do that.
Not that there's anything wrong with it, you know.
So just. Yeah, I just.
(49:56):
Like, yes, you're not gay. Yeah, yeah, I love tacos and
shit, so you know. Love a Taco.
Me too. Oh, nice, yeah.
Yeah, I'm bisexual. Oh.
Yes, that's good. So do you because I've seen
sorry we keep going. But I'm curious because unlike
your many vids, I see you do videos with your husband.
(50:19):
Do you, do you do any like, you know, stuff with girls?
I've got a girl. Girl content, yeah.
Oh. Yeah, quite a lot actually.
Yeah, I guess I didn't scroll that far down.
I don't know. That's on my many bits.
It's easier on only fans becauseyou just tag.
You're the creator. Not all creators are on many
bits. Should the people I meet up to
(50:40):
make content with are like they have they have only fans.
Who doesn't these days? But yeah.
Oh, so like like with many vids,you have to have like you have
to get like the person's like consent and you have to like.
Yeah, yeah, unless they're already created that.
But many vids is a little a little bit of extra work if you
(51:00):
want to make the content for that.
But yeah, it's all on. It's all on my only fans.
Oh, that's good. All right, Yeah.
So we'll go check out your Only fans for the Lesbo stuff.
Yeah. Yeah, nice.
All right. It's not better than a lesbo
MILF I suppose. There you go.
All right, Amber, thanks for doing this.
(51:22):
What's your favorite social media that you want everyone to
go to? Oh I'd say probably TikTok.
My I think TikTok is my funnest 1.
All right, TikTok. All right, So yeah, TikTok.
Link is I'm the same username everywhere I'm but under score
rivers with two i's. Oh shit, you can't get that's
that's I love that because you can't make that any easier.
(51:46):
Just just Google that and all your shit will come up.
Yeah, probably a lot more shit than you might have.
Oh shit. No I have friend discount they
take down all my links it leaks.Oh, that's good.
Yeah, that's good. But yeah, so everyone go check
out Amber Rivers. I like her Instagram.
(52:07):
You can check that out first. I think I like that.
But now I got to check out your TikTok because I couldn't find
your TikTok so I'm. Saying username everywhere.
I know I'm not well, no, becauseI'd like to go off of people's
the links, you know, their beacon link or LinkedIn link
and. I think make them talk's on
there though. Shit see maybe I'm a little
retarded. No, I'm sorry if I missed it.
(52:29):
I I'm sorry. Well because I was checking
everything out and I didn't I don't think I've seen the
TikTok. Maybe I'm.
It's not on the, it's not on thebig banner things.
It's like on the little logos atthe top, yeah.
I never click those because I always, I don't know, my eyes
don't whatever my eyes catch, that's why I click on.
Maybe I should change that. See.
(52:50):
For retards like me, see. So maybe I helped you with, but
do you really want retard customers?
I don't know right? Well.
If it's OK if you missed the TikTok, if you end up on the
only fans, that's OK too. Well, yeah, yeah, that's even
better. So the win win city.
With all my only fans. Oh, there you go.
(53:12):
So it's a win win situation no matter what you click.
Yeah. So it's all connected.
It's all connected. That's it.
That's how it should be. Connect all your shit.
All right, Amber, thanks so muchfor doing this.
This was a lot of fun. Thank you guys, had a great
time. Good, good.
Hope we could do it again sometime and go check out, go do
(53:32):
some other podcasts and stuff. You're good at this.
This was this was fun. Yeah, yeah, you seemed
interesting. And luckily it worked out
because you are so, so sometimesit did in the beginning, it that
never worked out because I just didn't work out.
(53:53):
But but so absolutely. All right.
Thanks for doing this. Give me a message.
Oh, 100% yeah, definitely. We'll definitely do this again.
So thanks a lot, Amber. Thank you all.
Right take care bye all right sothat was Amber rivers go check
(54:13):
her out on Instagram TikTok onlyfans all that good stuff and.
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