How to Make More Money with 'Bratty' Charm | OnlyFans & Cam Girl Tips w/ Anita Valentina - Cam Girl Diaries

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Thus I want to do that and enjoyit.
You got to let me do it. Are you guys talking about anal?
Yeah, go ahead and start. Let me let me stop taking your
show from you. No, you start.
I'm the fucking sidekick here because I don't know shit.

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He said I'm a sidekick. Hey, what's up everybody, you're
watching Cam girl Diaries. I am a guest Hostess with the
mostess Carrie platinum pussy Anthony.
Maybe you saw my last episode, which is now live on Cam Girl
Diaries, but I'm here to introduce my beautiful,
wonderful girlfriend, wife, collab partner Anita Valentina.

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And of course, the show isn't the show without.
I don't know where he is on the screen, but go ahead.
Oh yeah, I'm just, I'm just a sidekick.
So don't don't pay any attentionto me.
The sidekick of your own show? That's a first.
Yeah, yeah. Oh, I don't mind.
I like being a sidekick. It's fun.

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Do you like being kicked though?Is that that's the question?
No, I don't like any violence against me.
Oh, OK. Gotcha.
Gotcha. Thank you.
If you did you know we could arrange that?
No. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
No thank you. I don't need.
None, no violence if if none's requested.

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So to give you a little back story, Anita and I met in 2023
New Jersey Exotica when I was collecting people from the show
to be in the curvy BBW fashion show.
And Anita, who was just sharing her beautiful bright energy, her
Puerto Rican Princess energy around the show floor, was like,

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yes, I would love to be in the show.
And since then, we've been thickas thieves and rocking together.
And we just came back from Chicago Exotica.
But Anita, say hello to everybody.
Hi, everyone. I'm so happy to be here with you
guys. Thanks for having me.
So, Anita, tell everybody how long you've been in the

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industry. So I've been in the industry for
about four years. But like, I, yeah, like
seriously. But only like 2 years.
Like super seriously. You know what?
Wait a minute, what's the difference between serious and
super serious? Because.
Super serious is like I had, I wasn't really taking, I wasn't

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really taking my online businessseriously.
It was kind of just there for extra money whenever I wanted
to. But when you put time and effort
into something you could, you could do so much better for
yourself, right? So that's like 2 years ago.
I probably sat myself down and Iwas like, this is not for shits
and giggles. You need to sit down and take

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this seriously if you want to keep doing it.
So what did you start out doing?So if you were not taking it
serious back then, what exactly were you doing?
So I would post like once a weekmaybe and just post once a week.
And I would do like some Twitterrounds to get traffic to my
page. So like, I would have new people

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coming in but they weren't staying because I wasn't really
posting. Yeah.
So you were promoting a party, but you weren't showing up.
Yeah. Exactly.
And like, it's like in true Anita fashion, it's like I was
not even, not that I was late tothe party, I just wasn't showing
up to the party. So it's it's very on par for me

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to be late all the time to everything.
I don't know, you did pretty good this weekend.
I had, I had security in the room on my butt, like let's go,
let's go, let's go. OK.
So Anita four years ago and thenAnita now.

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What's changed? Aside from the fact that you
take this more serious, like in terms of confident, like in
myself and in my person, in my body, that's something that like
I really struggled with before. And then getting into sex work
kind of like brought that confidence out in me.

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Because you to do this, you haveto love yourself and you have
to, you have to have already picked yourself apart because
people out there will do it no matter what.
You definitely have to have tough skin more.
Yeah, Yeah, you got to have enough skin because people are
going to find every mole, every piece of Cellulite, every

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stretch mark, every scar. Yeah.
Any imperfection on your body, they're going to find it, and
then they're going to make it a big issue.
So you definitely have to have tough skin.
So let me ask you, one of the reasons why I wanted to have you
on as my first personally invited guest is because you are

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a beast on live cams. Thank you.
Your work ethic is definitely admirable and that was, you
know, being that this is Cam Girl Diaries and a lot of the
people that are on here talking about being live on cams and
broadcasting and whatnot. I thought it was important to
have you on here because the struggle to Cam on multiple

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websites is real. And I was sharing with my Co
host here about how you go live on like 5 or different 5 or 6
different sites at the same time.
So let's talk about that. Let's talk about multicam
streaming first of all. What's your favorite campsite?
Oh, so my favorite campsite right now is like, it's a fight

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between a new site called Sin Party and Chatterbait.
Because I've been doing really well on both of them recently.
And like for Sin Party being new, I was really shocked at
like the amount of like traffic that's already there compared to

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Chatterbait because sometimes Chatterbait is dead.
You know, like there are slow times on every site, you know
that everybody has it, but sometimes it's dead.
And like, then that's why I've run multiple streams at the same
time. So if it's dead somewhere, I'm
not sitting there wasting my time spending on like that one
hour or something. You could be seeing what site is

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popping off at that time. Exactly.
That's good. And that way I can do multiple
hours and not have to switch andnobody has to follow me from
site to site or anything 'cause that that turns into a mess.
I've tried to do the thing whereI'm like, OK, so I'll do an hour
here, then an hour here and an hour here.
And then I'm like, but then like, I'm like, OK, so like I'll

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go on loyal fans for an hour andthen I'll go to SIM party and
then I'll go to Chaturbate and then I'll go to my free cams and
then I'll go to only fans. And then I'm like, that's too
much. And I said nobody is going to
follow me from site to site to site to site like that.
Right, that was smart. Yeah.
That's that's a great strategy. Wait, I wait, wait.

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I got a question though. Like so like when you're doing
all 5 at the same time, like you're so like you're talking
like you talk to someone on SIM party, but like, you know, the
people on like Chaturbate see it.
I guess that doesn't matter, right?
Like nobody is it a? Free chat, I don't really care.
Like if it's free that they don't get an opinion on what I'm

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doing or what I'm saying. If they're not putting money
towards anything, they don't, they don't get an opinion.
But if like if somebody pays forsomething, I can mute the other
sites really quick and like turnmy Cam off on them or something
for a second just so they're notgetting something that they
didn't pay for, right? OK, that meant, yeah.

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Yeah. That's smart because we believe
in no free shows over here. Back.
Back 100%. So let's talk about an Anita
Valentina Cam show. What would you say is something
that sets you apart from other performers?
Like what is something unique that I'm going to get from you
in your show versus the millionsof other people that might be

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broadcasting at the same time? The Anita Valentina Experience
is that I always have a smart mouth on me, no matter what, so
that is uniquely Anita that. I can.
I can attest to that. I can attest to that.
Always have a smart mouth. I always have my spin wheel and

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like that's been really popular actually amongst the guys and I
have heard that I had like I've put different things on it that
like they don't typically see, which is cool because like the
spin wheel, everybody's done thespin wheel, everybody's you
know, you do it for the pictures, the videos, the the

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free something, you know, you just everybody's done it.
So like to stand out it really. So what do you have on your
wheel that's different? Inquiring minds need to know.
Need to know. So recently I put like wax like
candle wax on my spin wheel. I know.

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Are you You like to be waxed like you like the hot wax on
you? Yes, I love that.
And they make one that like is like turns into lotion almost.
It's so lotion. Yeah.
It's like I have to find it for you to send it to you because
it's like they make it with likea lotion.
It's so good for your skin. So essentially, if I liked, if I

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was a guy and I didn't mind a little bit of hot wax I could
use it for. Is that what you're saying?
Maybe I. Wouldn't no, no, no, because
it's still hardens, but like when you go to take it off,
there's like a lotion Y aspect to it.
So you're not like ripping your skin off, you know?
Right, right. OK, you're where?

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Where? Yeah, no, I, yeah.
No disrespect. Where do you put it?
Like you just where you drip it on.
Don't put it on your cooter, Bopdo.
You on. Like, wait a minute, pause for a
second. Anita, what'd you say?
You don't put it on your cooter bop, do you?
Cooter bop? I've never like your mound.

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Your mound. You know what it is, but.
I'm just. I love that that's going to be a
shirt, a cooter bop. But anyways, where do you put
it, Anita? I pretty much put it everywhere
except inside anywhere that could get inside of me OK.
Wow. So you put it on your your lips?
Yeah. Well, I've had it.

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I've had it. I should say.
I've had it there. I've hadn't had to do it there,
but I've had it there before. Oh my.
OK, Warning beast. Trigger warning.
Trigger warning. Shit.
Hard. Recording.
It is no Honestly I will try anything once, maybe even twice
to make sure I don't like it. Oh.

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Really. Yes.
What? Such as I know.
So what is one of the strangest requests you've ever gotten
while you're live? Oh my, can I even say it on
here? Absolutely.
Look, he's like, absolutely. Yes.
Say whatever you want, there's we don't censor.

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We're against that. Oh yeah.
So I don't know if this is the strangest, but one time I had a
guy request that I put specific socks on and then like try to
put my leg around the back of myhead and then take a picture

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like that. And like, I'm a big girl.
I am not flexible like that. Like hello, what are you doing?
OK, there are people that are not big girls that can't do
that, so let's just put that out.
There, so did you do it Stops stops my leg from going.

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So you didn't do it? No, I didn't do it.
The question is, did you try? I did try.
I did try. Did you film trying?
No, I should have I. Would have been great.
I know this was before I realized that I need to be
filming at all times when I'm doing stuff.
Yes, because you never know whenyou're going to get something

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great. I had a similar story.
I had a guy, he didn't want me to put on socks and put my legs
behind my head, but he wanted meto like suck my own toe.
Actually, he wanted me to bite my toenails and I was like,
absolutely not, Sir. And I said, I'll kiss my own big
toe. And it took a, it took a minute,
but I wish I'd have filmed the process because I looked

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hilarious trying to get my and it wasn't that I wasn't limber,
it was just, you have to like, it's not something that you
typically do. So you kind of have to like
shift your body a little bit. But I, I managed to do it in
private also, I'm not going to lie, I also kind of like try to
stretch the time a little bit because, you know, they pay per
minute. So I was like, I just do it

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right away. Then I'm only going to get paid
like $0.50. And I was like, no Sir, we need,
we need to cut, we need at leasta few dollars off of this.
So I was like, and I think he was really more interested in
seeing if I was 1 going to try for real try and two, if I'd be
successful. So watching me struggle, I think
was part of the request. And so once I did it, he left

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and I was like, damn, I wish I'dhave filmed that.
So I feel your struggle, Anita. Is that something like for both
of uses, is that something you guys get?
Like they like people just requesting you to do something?
Yeah, just to see if you'll do it or.
Anything like that? It is very common to get a
request just to see if you'll agree to do it.

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Yeah, almost to see if you're desperate enough for the five
tokens, 5 tokens or whatever. So yeah, I'd have to agree that
most of the the case, it's not even really like technically
they're kink or fetish. It's just kind of like dangling
the carrot to see how far you'rewilling to go to make a a little

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chump change. Yeah.
I would definitely say that's common.
One of the most common requests I get is to fart on command,
which I cannot do. Crazy.
I was going to say. Which is crazy because how do
you control when you got a fart?I know someone who does she can

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control when she farts and queefs, and I told her I was
like, girl, you need to you needto get on Cam because yes,
that'll make you bank for me. I have to like, bend over and
I'll just like, you know, puckermy cheeks, you know, do the
little, you know, make it. And then I'm just like, and

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sometimes it works and sometimesit doesn't.
Sometimes I'm just like, well, yeah, I'm out of gas, literally.
So what is one of your favorite things to do on Cam?
My favorite thing are Spanx. They are so simple and they're a

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classic. Really, what's the most amount
of times that you spanked yourself?
Oh my. Like, hundreds of times in one
show. Yes, hundreds if not thousands
in one show, because that's how popular they are.
Really. Yeah.

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So I'm so wait, wait, wait. Yeah, I'm just curious.
So like when like what they theysay spank yourself and you just
start spanking. Yourself like I get up and I
put. You on all fours?
Yeah. And then I spank my ass however
many times they've tipped to seeme do it.
Wait a minute. Can we see you do it right now?
Can you show us what this looks like?

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Because my butt is out. I know, I'm sorry.
Didn't I tell you bottoms were required for this interview?
You got Oh my. God bottoms on, but it's so
short that my butt is out. I have a little skirt on.
Listen. I'm going live later, you know
the hustle never stops. True.

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Well thank you for stopping longenough to give us the interview
for the Cam Girl Diaries, but we'll save that for another
time. If you want to see Anita get her
Spanx, you're going to have to go see her Cam show, which I
recommend on SIM Party. SIM Party is my favorite site.
It's new, it's still in beta, but they are super performer

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friendly, inclusive and supportive to our community.
So go check out Sin party.com. So my next question is, how did
you come up with the name Anita Valentina?
So my government name is very boring to me, very plain, very
American. Which I'd never.
I'd never recommend using your legal name anyways, but go

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ahead. Yeah, no, no, no.
And I don't like it. I've always wanted something
more unique. So then I was like, I really
like the name Anita. And like to me that sounds like
very Latina, very in the zone, you know, like Anita.
I just, it rhymes. It rhymes in my head like what I

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want to sound like, you know? It's a good name, sounds.
Good in my head. I love.
It and Valentina, it like flows good with Anita.
That's why, that's why I got Valentina there.
Hey. Nina Valentina.
I fucking like that shit. It just, yeah, like I said, it
rolls. Yeah, good job.

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And matter of fact, when we did the podcast, the episode that
just went up Friday, I talked about how your the name that you
choose for yourself is so it's important for your branding and
how having a name that flows, that rhymes, that's a knock off
from something that's really popular is it's really important
or just something that stands out.

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And having a regular name is something that I regret not
doing. Like having Platinum Pussy as a
name was immensely great for marketing and unique and people
remember that, but it was not good for social media.
And I wished I had to come up with a name that was both the
the same status as Platinum PE, but had a regular sound to it so

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it could actually look like it'smy real name.
Because we all know that my parents did not name me Platinum
Pussy. Yeah, Although they might have
'cause you know, my dad, that. Could have been badass though.
You know, I'm kind of regret. Maybe I should legally change my
name? Solve all your problems right
there. Yeah, except for when I go to

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apply for something and or if I met with the doctor and they're
like platinum pussy or you know what I'm saying?
Like, yeah, no, we will not be changing our name.
So let me ask you this. When you're camming, what really
turns you on and gets you into the Cam show, aside from the

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obvious, which is the tokens andbeing tipped and getting the
money? Like what is something that a
that a fan could say or do that really just excites you and gets
you super involved into your Camshow?
When I can have like an actual conversation with my fans, you
know, like, like just about everyday stuff like that really

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tunes me into my sight and like it focuses me a lot.
And it just really like gets me in the mind space because I'm
like, oh, these people like they're like they're normal
people, you know, they're just, they're everyday people.
Like they're just like you and me, you know, they're so simple.
It's like less robotic to me andthey're obviously.

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Treating me like a human. Yeah, absolutely.
They're treating you like a human versus coming in and
barking orders and expecting youto be a puppet.
And, you know, especially for me, who's Dom, which something
that makes our dynamic so uniqueis that Anita is more submissive
and I'm more dominant. So we work very well together.

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But in your Cam shows, you're very dominant because it seems
like you get a lot of submissives in there.
Is that true? Not in my Cam shows, more like
in my videos. OK.
Well, I do like a lot of SPH forcustoms and that's not something
I really thought people would want to come to me because like

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in my Cam shows, I'm more of like a brat than anything in the
yeah. I can.
I can attest to that. Yeah, so like in the Cam shows
that's like, I'm more like, I'm more like being a brat to them
than anything. And they seem to love that
though, which is good because itdoesn't stray far from my

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natural personality so. Show us what it's like to be a
brat. Like let's let's pretend we're
on a Cam show and be the biggestbrat that you can be right now.
Go. The biggest brat that I can be
right now. I don't care that you just sent
me 10,000 tokens, I want 10 morebecause I want this.

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Oh you fucking bitch, that's what the hell.
I gave you 10,000 tokens. I got to give you more.
Yes. Fuck this.
What do you give you? For the 10,000 tokens, this
sucks. Look at him.
That's like 10,000 and I know what.
You like it? You're here for.
It do I? Yes, you love it.

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You. Act like you love it.
I do. That doesn't make any sense.
How the fuck would I like that? That seems stupid.
You love it, It's motivational. I don't think I think you guys
are lying to me. No.
I I don't like this. I think you are.
I'm going somewhere else. No.

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See, that could backfire on you.OK, no, if if they tell me if if
out of their mouth comes, well, I'll just go somewhere else.
I'm like, OK, go. You're in my chat room because
you want something from me. So if you want to go get it from
somebody else, then get out and go get it from there.
You're here because you want something from me.

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So don't get it twisted, becauseno.
No, all right, that makes sense because like there's guys that
like that shit, they like you being in control and I just get
confused. So that's I'm not good.
For that, that's OK. I'll help keep you not confused,
I promise. My God give you like 10,000
tokens for it. That's no, no.

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We'll start with five. All right, that's the Oh, see,
you just tricked me. You made it sound like a deal.
That's still a lot of tokens. That's good, though.
You can't. Afford it then.
Maybe you're shopping in the wrong store.
Maybe you can't afford. That's more in your budget
range. Are you fucking mean I'm getting
out of here? Go to the cheap, bitches.

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What's the cheap? Ones.
Yeah, you better go to the dollar store.
I need, yeah, I need some dollarstore bitches.
Oh my God. So let me ask you this, Anita.
What does the typical day look like for you?
A typical day, So I stream at night because I found that's
when my audience is most active.So my typical day is usually

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when I wake up, I shower and as you can see I have curly hair so
that takes forever to deal with.And then I start my day after I
shower by going live and doing my makeup on.
Where do you go live before you go on camera?

(24:17):
Oh, Instagram. OK, Yeah.
So like it's this is my promotion live.
So I'll be live later on these sites or like these are like
where I'm gaining followers for Instagram and stuff and I'm like
growing my Instagram. And then when I'm done with my
makeup and stuff, I take my dogsout, come back in and then I

(24:37):
like shoot some content hopefully.
Or I edit some content or schedule some stuff.
And then I do that for a few hours and then and then it's
like I have a few free hours before I start camming at 9:00
and then I Cam anywhere from 9:00 to midnight to like 2-3,

(24:59):
four in the morning. Wow.
Yeah, it just depends. So how do you transition from
going live on social media to going live on sites where you're
less censored and you have that direct interaction with
potential paying customers? Well, on social media, you get a

(25:21):
lot of guys who want you to do the same stuff that you do in
your campsites. Show bobs.
Yeah, show bobs, twerk, do also this stuff.
And I'm like, this is social media.
We can't do that here. If you want to see me do that,
go here. And that's what I tell them.
Gotcha. And then I transition to like,
my naughtier lives. Then like sometimes I'll even

(25:43):
like go live on Instagram and I will point my camera at the wall
and in the description will say I'm live on this site come find.
Wow. Does that work for you?
Yeah. Just on Instagram.
Yeah. Like like even though it like
like the stuff you say doesn't get you like banned or anything.

(26:06):
No, because I'll mute myself. Oh, you just mute it.
And yeah. Yeah, you mute it and you point
it to the wall. I have a trick for you.
OK, there's a little, there's a little clip that you can buy for
your webcam that literally covers up the lens.
And so you don't even have to topoint it to the wall.

(26:29):
So I suggest if I don't point itat the wall, I point it at my
spin wheel so they can watch it spin and then they get mad.
That's smart. That's smart.
I like that, yeah. That is smart because I, I, I
would do that for TikTok for my Pete stuff and I would like like
within 5 minutes I'd get fuckingbanned on TikTok because of the

(26:52):
words I'm saying. I would do the wall thing but I
don't mute it. That's yeah, you got to mute it.
Got to mute it, mute it, mute it.
To saving everything on social media.
So what is the most wildest or funniest thing that's happened
while you're alive? Let me give you an example of

(27:12):
something I've been through. So I was on live and I love to
Cam in my office area because then I can multitask, I can be
live and then I can build websites and do graphics and all
that kind of stuff. I'm not good at just
disconnecting from the computer and doing live stuff.
So on this particular day, I knew my office chair was not the

(27:37):
best. We'll say that it had seen
better days. We'll put it that way.
And I'm live in the in the the customer keeps tipping and he's
like, you know, show me this, show me that.
So I throw my legs on the desk and I lean back and the wheel
cracks and I literally flipped back legs in the air.

(27:59):
I'm on the ground and you see the leg, like I wish it was
being recorded, but you see the wheel, like the whole chair, the
wheels are just like popping offbecause they're cracking, right?
Because they can't sustain me being like I'm on top of it.
One wheel broke. So like the whole support is
done and you just see the legs. I mean the wheels just like,

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meanwhile you see my feet up in the air and I'm just back there
like, 'cause I hit my head on the back of the table like it
was a whole fiasco, right? So I jumped back up and I'm
trying to like get myself back on Cam 'cause I'm like, you
know, he's we're in a private orwe're in a show, right?
So then I'm like the chairs all leaning.

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I'm trying to adjust the camera.Meanwhile I'm like laughing and
crying at the same time. He ends up tipping me a whole
bunch of tokens and then he sends me an e-mail and he was
like, that was hilarious. And I'm just sitting there
thinking like, that was not funny at all.
I'm over here traumatized. But you know, I fixed that chair

(29:07):
or got another one and got rightback on Cam because I'm a
gangster like that. But that was a moment that was
pretty embarrassing for me. What about you?
A pretty embarrassing moment. Or.
Wild. Or just, you know, funny.
A really funny one is I was liveone night and you know, like

(29:29):
when you go live you always havethe people who don't spend money
saying crazy things. Yes.
I had one guy one time insistingthat he knew me and I was like,
yeah, I get that a lot actually.I get people that are like, I
know who you are. I know who you are, but they
never are spending money. And I'm like, OK, so I'm like

(29:52):
prove it. I said how would you know me?
And then and then they're like, well, you have to DM me.
And I said I'm not doing that. And then he was like, he was
like, because I also told him I was like, you need to pay for me
to DM you. And then he was like, why would

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I pay to do that when you're just some ugly whore that I
don't even know. And I, I was like, but I thought
you just said that you knew me. I was like mine bro.
Yeah, I was like, do you know meor do you not know me?
And I was like, that's coming from you.
You came into my camera room to try to get something for free,

(30:36):
right? And now you're mad that I won't
give you said free item? Wow.
So yeah. I always think those.
I always think those interactions are hilarious
because I'm like, of course, youwho are not spending any money
on the site trying to get free things, think you can say
something crazy and then that's going to, that's going to, I'm

(30:59):
going to jump at that crazy. Thing, but you have to think
about how often it probably works because there's a lot of
girls that are like, Oh my God, maybe he does know me.
So I guess, but I I would hope it's not.
It's kind of dangerous though, because like, because like if
you're like, if they do know youand they're trying to fucking
like, you know, blackmail you orsome shit and you're doing that

(31:20):
in like open chat, like that could go bad, you know?
I've had people that actually doknow me in my chat room so.
No, me too. Me too.
Like I've had to send people when I first started camming and
everything I sent everybody I used to date or hook up with.
I sent them my only fans and letme tell you how many of them

(31:43):
subscribed. All of them, OK, they all did,
so I don't care. I was like, whatever.
You got you have good exes because they actually they
actually subscribed. Mine are cheap.
A couple of them for like a month or so, but like.
I won't even do that. They send me messages and
they're like well why would I pay for it when I've already

(32:04):
gotten it for free? What that was then this is now,
bro plus it's got it only gets better.
Let me just pretty my exes that are out there watching as I age
with time. I'm like fine wine and I just
get much better. So somebody's getting these

(32:25):
goodies, but it won't be you period, period.
Oh man, what is your best Cam show?
Like one of those memorable moments where it was so good you
got to enjoy yourself, your cut,your client or your fan got to

(32:46):
enjoy himself. Like what was it like?
Just take us through that momentof what that Cam show was like
where you just had a good time and it just was a lot of fun.
So one. Time I went live while I was
baking an apple pie, American Pie was in the flesh.

(33:08):
Yes, to this day that was the best Cam show of my entire
career. And I do not know why I don't
bake more on Cam. Because the audience.
I must have just had the right audience that day or something.
But they were like seeing a woman do just traditional things

(33:31):
in the kitchen right now. They were like, that is such a
turn on. I'd have to agree.
Paid to and I also have a lush. I I had a lush at the time too,
so you know, I was getting buzzed while I was baking.
It was a great day. Did you wear an apron?

(33:53):
Yes, I did. That's hot.
Yeah, that's hot. Yeah.
I'm so glad to hear that. Why don't you?
Would you? Well, for instance, I probably
shouldn't even fucking give thisaway, but fuck, I don't give a
shit. I'm going to do exactly that
with someone. They're going to because they
they say they're a real good cook.

(34:14):
So I was like, all right, let's fucking do that shit live.
We'll fucking we'll watch you cook and just, you know, do it
live and fucking bullshit, whatever.
Why not do more of that? Or just cooking a pain in the
ass 'cause I I hate cooking. So it's I'm not in the same
location I was when I did that at and it was easier in that

(34:37):
other kitchen, my kitchen now there's really nowhere to like
for me to set up my camera. So I'd have to figure out a way
to set up the camera in the kitchen now.
Yeah. But I think I might.
Because that was a religious thing.
Thinking about it like that was a great show.
I'd watch I love apple pie it. Was so good.

(34:59):
Oh my God, it was so good. That is good.
I, I definitely can attest to like when I would have my
lesson. And I think I said this in the
episode with him where I talked about like when I was doing mega
MILF and I would be in the bed with my partner who didn't know
that's what I was doing. And I would be like, I'd be

(35:21):
like, Oh my God, please don't tip me right now.
He's going to. And then they'd be like Ting
Ting, Ting Ting. And I'd be like, and he'd be
like, what's wrong with you? And I'm like, oh, I'm playing
slots you. Know.
Because he'd be like, what's that noise?
Why are you making that face? And I'd just be like, you know,
because the lush goes off or whatever.

(35:41):
And they would just tip like crazy.
And I remember like that was, that was exciting for me.
But my best show, I'd have to say my best show, was when I
first got my fuck machine. Oh.
And I let someone control it andit was, it was hot because they

(36:06):
were kind of a tease. So I really didn't know what to
expect. I thought it was just going to
be like. Boom boom boom boom boom.
But he wasn't. He was like, he let up and then
it would be like. Zoom, zoom, zoom, zoom.
He was mixing it up on. You he was mixing it up and for
me that element of surprise, even though I'm, you know a Dom,

(36:27):
sometimes I like it to be not predictable.
You know, it's it's it's not, you know, always want to be in
control most of the time, but inthis particular instance, this
was somebody had that had been aregular for a long time.
And so, you know, he did what hedid and I came so hard.
I had to like I had to get off Cam.

(36:48):
I was exhausted. Like I felt like I had literally
had a a real life intimate encounter.
And he also I could see what he was doing and he had a
flashlight and I was just immensely turned on.
Like not to not to mention he did have a very beautiful

(37:10):
member. We love that, we love that, we
love that. So look at him.
He's over here like. I don't want to talk about
wieners. Well, you have one, don't you?
Yeah, you want. You like your?
Wiener. No, I mean.
Show us your Wiener. Show us your Wiener.
I'll show you my Wiener. Yeah, You fucking like it.

(37:33):
That That's that's what I. Is that ballpark?
No, actually it's a fake one. I I used to use a real one
because that's why I deal with the P and I used to use a real
one. It was so much better, but I'm
like, it stinks. It's fucking slimy.
It's gross. So I got a fake one.
Nobody. They're everyone's like get a
real, get the go back to the real.
Ones that's fucking fake. For half a second I thought you

(37:56):
were really going to try to pullout your Wiener.
I was like, I was like, this. No, certainly cannot be allowed.
No, no, that's. You never.
Do such a thing? But, gentlemen.
We don't like fake wieners. Sorry.
Yeah. Not my audience then.
What the fuck? Yeah, you should go back to the
room audience. I'd have to agree with that.

(38:19):
Well, yeah, my, my, my audience is like, fucking like little
kids, apparently. So I found that.
I found that out later. I didn't realize.
So that was the whole thing. I apologize.
Go ahead. No, it's all good.
I do have a question though, what is something most people
don't understand about being a Cam girl?

(38:44):
That you're not looking to be saved or you're not looking for
a boyfriend on you're not, no. Can you believe that?
Oh my goodness, neither am I. I'd have to agree that is
something that happens a lot, like I don't need to be saved.
I need to be. Paid, that's what I need.

(39:06):
I'm here because I want to be paid for me, It's that just
because I'm on doesn't mean I'm always on.
And so a lot of people will reach out on social media or
when you're not live and think that those are, you know, times
that they can just be like, I want you to do this or I want
you to do that. And it's like.

(39:28):
Do I really want to do that? If the price is right, yeah.
If the price is right and I don't have to go through the
bullshit to get the money, then I'm cool.
But, you know, even in those times, there have been times
that I've had to be like, that would be really good right now,
but I'm not feeling that, you know, we're not just 24/7 horn

(39:50):
dogs running around waiting for someone to say, I'll pay you for
this. Like there are times that I'm
just like thanks but no thanks. No, like we're real people.
What? Say that again for the people in
the back I. Know we are real people.
Well, yeah. Well, with that like, of course,

(40:13):
like your biggest, I don't know,your biggest tippers, your your
top clients or whatever. Like they, they usually treat
you like a person, right. I mean, it's not like or or, am
I? Wrong.
Not always. No, you're my biggest client.
Always, always randomly messagesme go live right now, Go live

(40:36):
right now. And I'm like, relax, no, how
about I'm not going live right now.
Like it'll be so weird. And I'm like, or, or like, how
about send me a tip and be like,can you go live right now?
Maybe, maybe I will be enticed to go live.
But mine did that while I was onthe plane coming to Chicago.

(41:00):
And I was like, I can't. And he was like, well, when can
you do it? And I'm like, I don't know.
I have a freaking full day of flying today.
All you're on the airplane, go in the bathroom.
I was like. You know how big the airplane
bathroom is? Right.
I could barely fit in that bitchas is where am I going to put

(41:21):
the camera? And then you get a little
turbulence. Not that I haven't tried because
I've been on many of flights throughout my career and I've
tried, but it just is not. And not only that, but then, you
know, other it's rude. Other people need to use the
restroom. I'm in there trying to, you
know, spread and do all the things.
And then I accidentally hit the thing.

(41:42):
I almost lost my phone and the the toilet where it sucks it.
I'm like Oh my God no forget it.Could you imagine me having to
explain how I lost my phone? Oh my God.
That shit is powerful. I don't know if anybody has been
in the airplane bathroom and youhit the flesh thing.

(42:02):
That shit is like. Yeah, no, it is.
Yeah. And I was like, Oh my God,
please no. And my, my phone was literally
on the edge and almost. And I caught it and I was like,
oh, my God. Thank God.
I can't even imagine how that would have been.
But yeah, I get a client. I get clients that are like that
all the time where they think that like, I'm supposed to drop
what I'm doing and go live. And it's like, you know, no,

(42:30):
even if they pay a lot of money sometimes, like being in the
airport or be on an airplane, it's just not.
I'm not capable. Yeah, so.
Well, when you say like, like you know they're your big
clients, like what exactly are they paying?
Like are they like, is it subscription based or they're
like when, when they fucking hityou up and they're like go live

(42:51):
right now, are they paying you that moment or like.
Sometimes, but not normally, No.Normally they, they have time
available or they're lonely or they're in the moment and they
want you to go live at that moment because that's just what
they have available. And oftentimes it's not
accompanied with a a tip, It's not accompanied with anything

(43:14):
more than a demand for you to golive in that moment hoping that
you'll be like, OK. No and like the times I have
said yes I make him go private. I don't even do a right either
live. So then he's paying by minute
because right, OK, you got me fucked up trying to Get Me Out

(43:35):
here immediately and then you'renot paying me immediately.
No way. Yeah.
Yeah. That that that sounds fucking
insane to me that you know, likethey're demanding you to do
something you may or may not getpaid is like, the fuck are you
doing it for then, right? I mean.
Exactly. So Anita, tell us about your

(43:59):
best Cam day, whether it was youmade the most amount of money or
you know, you were able to be successful on multiple sites or
you met your best fan client, whatever you want to call it.
Like tell us about a day that you remember being your absolute
best Cam day and and what made it your best Cam day.

(44:21):
So actually. Not too long ago, I met one of
my biggest spenders in a live stream to this date.
So like, that's so it's like very quickly, he spent a lot of
money and he's still around, thankfully.

(44:43):
Because, you know, sometimes they come, they drop a lot of
money, then they disappear and then they come back and stuff.
But I really thought it was going to be a slow day.
I kind of hopped on with a like,oh, like maybe I'll make some
money. Maybe it's just exposure right
now. Like it's just seemed like a
slow time. And like 45 minutes later

(45:05):
somebody comes in my, my tip thing goes off a couple times
and I'm like, oh, OK, so this person is serious.
So then they keep they keep going.
And then they're like, I want you to do this.
How much is it going to cost me?And I tell them and they just

(45:27):
send it like, those are great days to me.
I love when they don't, they don't try to argue because I'm
like, I'm not going to change the price for you.
It costs what it costs. So stop asking, you know, and it
just, it just was fantastic because he just every time he he

(45:47):
was like, I want you to do this or I want you to do this.
And I was like, OK, it's going to cost you this much or this
much. And he was like, OK, and that
was it. No.
Arguing. So that brings me to a point for
those that are watching that might be either interested in
getting into Cam or currently incams and you're having a slow

(46:09):
day. You never know when a whale,
which is what we call people that are big spenders, will come
into your room and bless you and, and make your day and, and
make make it to be a very lucrative day.
You just never know when those days are going to be and you
can't even really base it off ofother people that are having

(46:30):
good or bad days because I mightbe having a bad day, but you
could have a good day and vice versa.
So and I made that mistake earlyin my Cam years thinking that if
so and so was on live and they were making good money, that's
when I would go on and then say,you know, vice versa.
They would be like, yeah, today's not really a busy day.
And so I'd be like, oh, I'm not going to get on.

(46:50):
And you know, who knows what I missed out on, but it just does
seem like the days that I was kind of less worried about
whether I was going to make money or not.
And like you said, the other point that you made was you
didn't know if it was going to be just exposure.
Sometimes going live is great exposure and you may not get
your will that day, but you've now crossed there in TikTok

(47:15):
terms, FYP page, you've now entered their radar and their
vision. And you know, hopefully you do
something or say something that makes you memorable.
And so they come back, they follow you.
They, you know, take the initialsteps to stay in touch with you
and then eventually they see youin another show and you know,
sometimes you got to work up to it.
Some people are like this guy who just came in and started

(47:38):
being generous from the jump. That's always nice.
But sometimes you have to remember that your your fans are
watching. They're always watching whether
they're watching you on social media, whether they're watching
you live on social media, whether they're watching you on
Cam shows. So you just never know when
you're going to be in a situation where that big spender
comes in and and blesses you with, you know, lots and lots of

(48:02):
money. So.
Yeah, you got to be prepared foreverything.
And you got to also take into account that when you're
camming, yes, it's great to makemoney.
Money is obviously the ultimate goal.
But sometimes, like we've talkedabout and we've done this where
we've just cammed for social media followers, we've Cam to

(48:22):
promote ourselves, whether it beon some of the other campsites
or what have you. Like sometimes you just have to
go go at it with a more simplistic and a more realistic
approach. And those things will lead to
bigger money down the line. My problem is inconsistency.
Yeah, I hate I. Hate getting on Cam and this one

(48:44):
right here is always like come on girl let's go get on Cam
just. For a little bit.
Just for a little bit and I you.Never know.
So do you guys like like you cantogether?
Yeah, so some of the sites like OF loyal fans, you can Co stream

(49:08):
together. Excuse me.
We also go live on social media.So you can have up to 4 excuse
me, four people on Instagram. You can do Twitter, you can do
Facebook, YouTube, all those places, TikTok.
So sometimes we'll go live together on social media, but on
Cam sites there's really not unless we use a a site like this

(49:33):
and we use the arts, arts MTP factor where we are able to come
into this and then we can together.
And then it streams to both of our campsites, which is
something I don't really do a lot of because the campsites
don't like it. They're not big fans of it
because sometimes they unless you have the other performer

(49:55):
verified through your website. So like CB does it send party.
I think they're working on it and a couple of other sites
they're working on making it more simple to add another
already verified performer on the site added to your account
because they have to verify thatthe people that are in your your

(50:16):
feed or in your live stream are of age, yes.
Such bullshit. It's so fucking.
That pisses me off too with likehow like X video and all this
shit. Fucking like, you need to have
fucking paperwork, you know, yougotta have them fucking fill out
shit Yeah, I mean, I get it, of course, absolutely, it's

(50:37):
important. But like with Chatterbait, like
Anita, you you still like Chatterbait, unlike some people.
So you. But all right, I'm sorry.
It's. Way to call me out bro.
No, no, I'm just saying. I'm just saying.
I like Chatterbait for the money.
As soon as it stops making me money I'll start hating it.

(50:58):
I'll hate it too but I'm just curious because like I thought
Chaturbate was like really easy to like Co stream is that true
or or no? No, I.
Don't think. I think the dog said it for us.
Oh, I thought, all right, that was a misconception that I
thought someone said that's really easy.
I mean, you can they all you have to do is go into your age

(51:21):
verification page and now all you have to do is put in the
name of the performer that's already registered on
Chatterbait and age verified. And then they'll get a
notification that says Platinum Pussy is trying to add you to
her. You know, her broadcaster page.
And then Anita will say yes, it'll add add her and we can Cam

(51:43):
together now, but it's not. So you have to either be in the
same room together or figure outthe software logistics.
And it's just, it's, we haven't gotten that far.
A lot of the campsites haven't really worked it out to where it

(52:04):
was popular during the pandemic.But it it since then, you know,
no one's really working on software to allow to live
streams. I like doing that because I like
to run contests and like, you know, tip wars and all that kind
of stuff. But yeah, it's not, I don't know

(52:24):
of any software. If you have software or know of
any software where these things are possible, please let us
know. We'd love to.
Yeah, check it out. That reminds me of the you said
tip wars because I've seen thesedouche bags on TikTok that
TikTok. I hate TikTok.
Those are. So you talking about the
battles? Yeah, those fucking battles for
no reason, they do absolutely nothing.

(52:46):
They offered. No, like, you know, they're just
like, come on, guys, just come on, let's fucking win.
Come on, guys. Like they're doing nothing.
Like what the fuck? And people are like yeah, yeah,
he's my favorite, So what the fuck?
This is garbage. Who gives a shit?
I'm sorry You're. So emotional about it.

(53:06):
It's so like, it's stupid. I don't, I don't participate.
I don't do the the TikTok battlewars.
I think the same thing. Like I think they're stupid.
They're just let me prove who has more chatters or more fans
in the room. And it's like, for me, I'm not
on TikTok like that, so I'm going to lose.
I already know. So it's like, why am I even

(53:27):
doing this? And I was no go ahead.
Even still, like even if I had like 5 people in there, they're
not going to pay me. Right, Like like because I I was
like something like that, like if you're doing that on
Chatterbait or something, or even TikTok or slushy, if they
had that fucking feature, like it's the Cam girl versus Cam

(53:48):
girl and you're fucking doing something like that would be
fucking like that would be fun. You know what I mean?
Like you're fucking flicking your bean or playing with your
whatever you guys do, you know? It's like, what was it called
the cooter? Your cooter Bop, you know,
playing with your cooter bop or whatever, whatever, something
like, you know. Twerking.
Spreading cheeks. Anything.

(54:11):
Anything. You know, Like talk.
You're just yelling at people. Yeah, just come on, guys, come.
On Yeah. I do that on TikTok.
Sometimes no, but sometimes theysend me money for no reason.
That I, that's what pisses me off.
It's not the the people that aredoing it.

(54:33):
Like, hey, if people are fuckinglike they're actually giving you
money or fucking liking your shit, that that's who I'm
fucking, that's what pisses me off.
It's like, what the fuck? What are you retarded?
Like you could, you know, they're not doing anything to
earn it, you know, like earn your shit.
Yeah, I mean status wars, I guess I'm not into that stuff.

(54:55):
Like I don't care how many followers people have, I do it
to. Gain followers to try to grow my
TikTok. Yeah.
No, no. I.
Sometimes I get other followers from the other person.
Really. Yeah.
Don't get me wrong. It's not the performers I'm
talking about. Like, whatever works, you have
to do it. It's that people are so fucking

(55:17):
stupid and just dumb. It's like, you ever see that
movie Idiocracy from 2006, Mike Judge?
Like how the world evolves into stupidity.
We're in Idiocracy where people are just stupid.
And that that's who I'm talking about.
It's not the performers. Like do whatever you have to do
to get likes and follows and people subscribe.

(55:40):
Like definitely, that's what yougot to do what you got to do.
It's the people that are just sostupid.
Yeah, let it out, let it out. Thank you for joining us at Cam
Girl Diary Therapy, where you too can let everything off your
chest. No, no.

(56:01):
Whatever you got to, whatever you got to do, you do, you know,
whatever works, you do. It's like with Youtubers, like,
you know, all YouTube, you know,the biggest thing is, you know,
always say like, comment and subscribe.
I refuse to do that because to me, I mean, I understand it.
You have to tell people what to do.

(56:22):
But to me it's like fucking like, no, I'm not fucking
telling you what to do. If you enjoy my content, you'll,
you know, support it. You know, it's just I'm, I'm, I
think I'm the retard. I'm sorry for.
Getting but not everybody knows what's expected.
You know, some people just consume the content and don't
really know the terminology or what is expected of them.

(56:45):
So these things remind them if you're here, you know, you're
showing support by liking, commenting, sharing,
subscribing, doing all the things that you know, make it
worthwhile. Like for me, I love being in a
live Cam show and people chatting, even if they're not
tipping, if they're, if they're having, like Anita said earlier,

(57:08):
regular conversation. I appreciate that.
Yeah, me too. Yeah, like I like talking to
you. I know.
Oh. OK, he's we can't.
Hear. You no, I'm just saying I'm the

(57:29):
retard here. I just, you know, like I'm
against, like I'm against growthand fucking, you know, doing
what's necessary to, you know, actually fucking grow your shit
apparently. So just disregard everything I
just said. No, it's all good, it's all
good. Anita, what advice would you
give to someone thinking about entering into the camming
industry? If you're not going to be

(57:53):
consistent, don't do it. Like entering, you have to be
consistent. I feel so-called out.
And you have to stream for long hours.
Like you can't just stream for an hour and be like, Oh well, I

(58:13):
didn't make anything. Sometimes you have to be there
for like 2-3, four hours before it starts to pop off.
So you really have to stick withit, be consistent, do something
to occupy yourself while you're streaming, you know, like do
something else. That's why you're not just.
Sitting there, my advice is to film and take pictures and

(58:38):
selfies when it's slow. That way if you don't accomplish
anything else throughout your time on Cam, you at least have
content. And if you have content, then
you can either post it to the campsite or your fan site or
your social media or whatever the case may be.
But yeah, that's that's something that I do frequently
when I do inconsistently Cam 'cause I mean, it's just.

(59:06):
Easier to build an audience whenyou are consistently doing it.
But even if you only want to Camone day a week, Cam your one day
a week. But like, post it somewhere that
you're going to only Cam on Thursdays from 9:00 PM to
whenever you decide you want to Cam from, you know, let your

(59:26):
audience know your schedule so it's not just like you randomly
popping on. Right.
And if you keep it the same day and the same time every week,
it's like ATV show, you can count on it.
And yeah, I'm just one of those people that sometimes I feel
like it and sometimes I don't. More often than not, I don't

(59:47):
feel like camming because I guess I've been around for so
long and I've been doing this for so long that I'm like burned
out. But.
I do enjoy spending. Time with my fans, so maybe.
I'll get the Anita bug. And.
Start camming with Anita again. Yeah, it'll be great.

(01:00:10):
It will be great. Another question, if you could
go back and give yourself one piece of advice at the start of
your journey, what would it be? Pop that pussy baby pop.
Pop that pussy confident you know and not to second guess.
Yourself and pop that pussy. Always pop that pussy, yeah?

(01:00:35):
But be confident and not. To let and like go with your
gut, you know, and don't let anybody push you past your
boundaries. You know, like when I first.
Started. It was.
Very hard for me to enforce my boundaries, you know, like like
a fan was like, oh, I want you to touch your toes.
But I'm like, oh, I don't like I'm not comfortable doing that.

(01:00:58):
Don't let them try to. Like talk you?
Into it just because that's whatthey want.
Like if you have a boundary, don't let them cross that
boundary. Yeah, it's OK to say no.
It is. What is an Anita?
Valentina Cam playlist sound like and what is a song What is

(01:01:19):
one song that makes you want to pop your pussy the song.
Area codes. Do you know that?
It's like. It's by Allie.
No, it's like, Oh my God, I'm blinking.
No, I know how it goes. It goes got my point.

(01:01:42):
My Rasta. He be feeding me pasta and
lobster. He just he just hit me up on
Tuesday. Like what's doing baby, let me
take you shopping. I told mom a little busy.
You know that song? Yes, yes, that's not.
The area codes that I thought itwas, I thought it was Blueprint.
That's very good, homes I. Got homes in different area

(01:02:02):
code. Area code this is like this is
like the new. Generation version of that song.
Gotcha, gotcha eating. Pasta.
I forget that Anita is considerable.
Anita is half my age, so the stuff that she thinks is like

(01:02:24):
popping and, you know, pussy popping is very different.
I come from the age of like Trick Daddy and Trina.
Little Kim. Yeah.
Luke. Yeah.
You know. What I'm saying but I still.
Love them. But like, that's what gets me
going. Like real like.

(01:02:48):
You know, yeah, you know the. Oldies.
But you know, it's they're the oldies.
Those are still the ones becauseI.
Remember being in the clubs and really popping my pop that pussy
baby pop pop. That.
Pussy, the kind of stuff that my.
Mom would be. Like what is?
What are you listening to? Like, OK, I'm from, well, not

(01:03:10):
from, but I lived in Florida when I was in my latter teens,
right? And there was this group called
10 cans and 10 Cans. Had a song.
Called Dick in your life and it would be like you need some Dick
and you need some Dick and you need some Dick Dick in your
life. And I had that tape in my
Walkman and my mom heard me and she was like, what are you

(01:03:32):
listening to? So she puts the headphones on.
She immediately hit eject on thetape on the tape player, pulled
the tape out. RIP the damn tape apart 'cause
you know anybody that knows about.
No. Anybody that knows about.
Cassette tape. You just took the.
Little piece of tape and you just, you know, cut it or
whatever. And it was.
Done that. Was it Tape ruined?

(01:03:54):
Yeah. And I was so upset because I did
not have Dick in my life anymore.
Yeah. In fact, my.
Partner now makes I told him that story when we first got
together and the things that people remember will surprise
you. And he remembers that.

(01:04:16):
And so when he's messing with me, sometimes it'll be like,
yeah, Dick in your life. He'll play it on the on the
YouTube he'll. Pull it up and he'll be like
Dick in your life and you need some big and you need some big.
And I'm like, really? Is is that what we're doing this
morning? I.
Also. Like 9 Inch Nails closer, that's

(01:04:37):
like my stripper song, which is totally different than any of
the other music that I listen to.
Not expected from me at all because I'm a big hip hop head.
But yeah, I love closer. I just feel so I.
Feel so, you know, loose. What's the song that makes you
feel sexy? Makes you want to.

(01:04:58):
Strip. Oh well.
Oh, you're talking to? Her.
Never mind. No.
What's yours? Go ahead.
No, though. Tell her we want to.
Hear yours? No, I didn't have anything.
I'm sorry, I I should have used Kevin.
Oh my God. I don't have anything.
I'm sorry. So bamboozled.
Right now. Easy nuts on your chin.
Oh, that's no homo. That definitely.

(01:05:21):
Oh yeah. That definitely so now.
It's OK picking your life. Show us your.
Dance. We want to see her.
Dance. The GTA sexy stripper.
Dance. Yeah, you got to do the dance,
yes. You.
Why are you looking all crazy talking to her, right?
No, he's talking. To you I don't want.
It no you got. The dance tenders.
On you. Got that?

(01:05:42):
Yeah, no. I don't fucking dance.
I don't dance no more all we. Do I'm keeping my mouth?
Shut. It just gets me in.
Fucking trouble. I love it.
I love it the. Dynamic is amazing so Anita
what's your make me feel sexy dance song my make me feel sexy
dance. Song I don't know if I have one

(01:06:07):
Beyoncé partition. Oh, that's a good one, yeah.
Let's see your dance. Aside from don't bend over.
Aside from don't bend over. I would do the sexy GTA dance
where they're like this. Oh yeah, yeah, I like this.
Oh my God. Yeah, that's what I'm talking

(01:06:27):
about. That's the way to get them
token. That's going to be my that's I'm
going to be famous for this dance.
I'm telling you just this, I want to see the TikTok.
I want to. I will.
I'll make the TikTok. Ironically, that was my best.
Selling poster at Exotica was the GTA poster.
Yeah, so. Yeah, he's like, what?
Can we? Oh yeah, can.

(01:06:48):
We show it like you. Have it like.
I can, I don't. I'm sold out now.
Well. Do you have a picture of it
where I could put it like? In like right now so you can see
it. Yeah, you do.
I'll show it. In here.
Oh, no, no. No, it's posted.
Already, people. Are looking at it as we say it.
What this video? Yeah, it'll be.
Up in the video, yeah. Oh oh oh oh, like in editing.

(01:07:09):
You know I'll. Throw it in there so people can
see it. Yeah, Yeah, 'cause I'm curious.
I want to see it. Hold on, let me take the.
There we go. Let me see if that'll work.
I forget that the brightness makes it hard to see, but here
we go. Yeah, I like that.

(01:07:34):
I. Like how that I like the.
Excuse me? So yeah.
I'm. All out, I need to order more
now. I didn't think they were going
to be that. Popular The Princess.
Leia ones are usually the hot sellers.
But I think you. Have more GTA fans this time?
Yeah, I have more GTA fans I guess.

(01:07:55):
I don't know. Guess I like the.
Do do you sign your posters and.Everything.
Oh yeah, Yeah. Oh yeah.
Yeah, they they went like hotcakes.
What about you, Anita? Do you?
Do you? Do posters and shit.
I don't have posters yet. Yet, because I will, but I do

(01:08:16):
prints and I signed them at Exotica.
Oh, OK. She also had Puerto Rico.
Flags, yes, which? Were a huge hit.
Yes, they love the Puerto Rico flags.
Like an actual flag? Yeah.
Ain't that illegal or some? Shit like you can't like deface.
No, no, no, no, no. It's like the little.
Handheld. Oh, oh, that's nice, Yeah.

(01:08:37):
I don't. I don't have any up here with
me. Yeah, but they were like little
handheld flags and yeah. Yeah, yeah, everyone.
Was loving. Those that's.
Cool, right? Have you ever been to an
exotica, Mr. Pete? No, I didn't.
I didn't even know about it until I guess a few weeks ago
since I I started following you.I was like, well what the fuck

(01:08:59):
is this? Oh, you should go.
There's one in Jersey. Chuck E Cheese Chuck E Cheese
for. Adults, Yeah.
Oh shit, that's what it is. Oh, it's even.
Better. Oh that sounds great as.
A matter of fact, Anita, tell him what?
You did in Chicago in the dungeon area.
Oh, I got suspended. Which is really.

(01:09:23):
Why explain to? Him what that is?
Because I don't think. He understands what you mean by
you guys suspended. OK, so to be suspended?
Is like you're tied up in rope and then you're suspended in the
rope, so you're hanging by the rope in mid air.

(01:09:46):
Yeah, at the place like you did that.
Yeah, I. Was like so I have I have a
whole video. Of it.
Oh shit, I want to see that. I'm trying to look it up.
I think it's Kabuki Kin Baki studio.
Kin Baku Kimbaku Studio. Yeah, Kimbaku.
Studio. In Virginia.

(01:10:07):
Oh shit. Oh.
When you said suspended, I thought you got like kicked out
or some shit. I didn't know.
Oh no, no, no. Did you show him the picture?
No, no, send. Yeah, if you could.
Send it to me, I could. Put it up in here so people can
see it. That sounds fucking yeah.
Make sure you got out. Kimbaku Studio.
It's KINBAKU Studio, they're theones that did the.

(01:10:33):
Bondage and. Suspension.
Really, really nice people. Really, really nice people.
They came by the booth and said hi.
So like you were just like suspended?
There. And, like, how long were you,
like, suspended? It was a while.
Just for a few minutes. Oh, good.
Yeah. I was like, oh shit, that.
How did it feel? It felt it.
Was totally painless. I know, but did you have like

(01:10:56):
any? I felt like I was lying.
No, I was so. Excited.
I felt like I was flying. It was so cool.
Sounds fun. No, it was a lot.
Of fun I definitely recommend. It 10 out of 10 recommend, Yeah.
And the thing that makes? Kim Baku.
Special is that they, they, I don't want to say specialize,

(01:11:20):
but they do a lot of bigger bodies.
And you'll find in the king community there are people that
don't want to do bondage or suspension or use the furniture
with bigger bodies. And so that's what makes Kim
Baku so amazing is that they, those things don't exist with
them. Like they're.

(01:11:42):
Yeah, it's cool and we love that.
We love. That with them.
Because it's really frustrating when you're in a space where you
want to feel included and then people are like, well, you're
too big for that. Or you know.
What I mean like in and in some cases, I get it.
I get that some furniture can't sustain certain weight, you

(01:12:04):
know, they have certain weight limits.
But yeah, some things it's more.Discriminatory.
Unfortunately, so I'm glad you guys suspended any of that was
that was really cool. She is excited.
That was really cool. Well.
What? Is next.
For Anita Valentina, any new? Projects or goals?

(01:12:25):
For you new projects. I have some riding lawnmower.
And like what? I.
Said riding lawnmower. Yes, yes, yeah, we have a lot of
cool ideas. That we need to make come to
life. I have some cool, exciting
collabs coming up. Expis Miami is right around the

(01:12:48):
corner, yes, so I'm super. Pumped for that.
What are? We going to ask over there?
Pete, wait. Riding lawn mower like is.
That like, you know, like cutting your grass naked.
Or is that some, like, insider speak or what?
What's riding a lawn mower? Like a real lawn mower?
Yeah. Real lawn mower and real grass.

(01:13:09):
Naked or to be? To be determined you'll.
See. Can't share it all right here.
It's a top secret. Project what we can.
Think is riding lawn mower? Yeah, I'm fucking yeah.
I want to know what this? Is man stay?
Tuned I will 'cause we're about to.

(01:13:30):
Mow this. Motherfucker down, Yes.
I'm so curious. Now what is something that you?
Haven't. Done yet?
Anita and I. Haven't done.
That. You'd like to.
Do you want some? What?
What in the butt that's I want to?

(01:13:52):
Do that and enjoy it. You got to let me do it.
Are you guys talking about anal?Yeah.
Or is this 'cause? I don't know what's like, I
don't know. We just like we didn't know what
what? Is it cootie boot Cooter, Bob?
Yeah. What?
What in the butt? Is is short for anal?

(01:14:14):
Yeah, or Long. For anal we.
Should say anal hasn't. Gotten.
Anita hasn't gotten a pleasurable what what the bud
experience, so I would like to give her still.
Enjoy. Yeah.
Can we watch it like? Live or something?
Maybe, maybe we'll stream. It.

(01:14:35):
Yeah, and film it at least. Yeah, minimum, yeah, minimum.
Maybe we'll work that to a live show.
Maybe if we get. Enough tokens maybe we could set
up like a pre show and let them tip for it and if they reach the
tip then they can watch as I groom and prepare the the nice

(01:14:58):
little flower. Yes.
Holy. Shit, that sounds dirty.
Aw man, just like the riding lawn mower.
I'm telling you, we. Got a lot of good.
Stuff in the work. So curious so.
So what are some other? Events and things that you plan

(01:15:19):
to do in the near future besidesex biz exotica the.
Next one, Miami also, we're going to have a.
Content. Shoot house in Miami we're going
to be doing Oh yeah, strip poker.
Pantilist pool meaning a pool table.
Where we're. Shooting pool with no panties.

(01:15:42):
What else? Do we have?
We're going to a bike wash a. Bike from.
Well, let me rephrase that. A motorcycle from the Rough
Riders, and we're going to wash the bike.
Yeah, and it's going to get. Wet.
Is that it's going to get real wet.
And slippery are you guys? Talking about is this.

(01:16:03):
All innuendo or are you talking about?
No, we're talking about watchinga bike.
We're going to. Really like a real.
Bike. Yeah.
A real bike from the Rough Riders.
Oh, no shit. Yeah.
Oh, shit. All right, He he's still talking
in. Code we're I don't.
Yeah, I, I like. I have.
What the fuck? I have a friend.
That has the content. House in.

(01:16:24):
Miami. And she is the queen of Rough
Riders, Jaji the queen. That's how she says her
neighborhood. And we're shooting.
Some some. Footage at her house in May.
And we're putting some themes together.
And one of the themes is washingthe bike.
And we'll probably have, like, bikinis and or maybe we'll do

(01:16:46):
like, T-shirts, just, you know, white panties and a white
T-shirt so that when it gets wet, you know, you can see.
And we've got the strip poker night.
Well, it's Panulus Poll. Yeah.
So this content house thing. Like how does that work?
Can you say or like where, wherecan you watch or I don't know

(01:17:09):
that we're going to stream it live?
Maybe we'll put together like a,a, a goal, and if we reach the
goal then we'll set up the live cams.
It's a lot of work technically, logistically, so I, I don't know
it, it would really depend on ifwe raise enough money for that.
But ultimately what happens is it's a primary location.

(01:17:30):
She has a bunch of different, she has a throne chair, a big,
huge tub. So we'll probably all climb into
the tub and, you know, get bubbly with it.
She's got all these different things like the pool table and
the poker table. And we're going to put a bed out
on the on the gazebo. So we're going to like wrap it
with sheer curtains. So it looks like, you know, like

(01:17:51):
the beach that has the bed on it.
It's going to have that kind of feel to it.
So bourgeois. And you know, we'll be outdoors,
we'll be watching the bike and all that kind of stuff.
And so the way that the content house works is like we all pitch
in, we pay the staff. So there'll be a couple of
photographers, a couple of videographers and we supply the

(01:18:14):
food. And.
Everyone just gets there in the morning.
We, you know, network, get familiar with each other, kind
of go over the itinerary for theday, which most of that is
already pretty much communicatedlong before we all get there.
So we can bring the right outfits and, you know, have an
idea of what order things are going to happen because we want
to do the wet stuff last. Yeah.

(01:18:36):
Because you know. Obviously it's going to get.
Wet and messy, but yeah, so we, you know, we all meet up and
then we start filming and because we're doing, you know,
group shots and groups, you know, everything's going to go
from like 1:00. We'll start at 1:00 and then
we'll finish up with there and then we'll all change outfits
real quick. And then we'll go to the next
scene and the next set. Which in this case, I'm not

(01:18:58):
really sure how we're going to do it yet 'cause I'm not sure if
I want to do the poker in the day or if I want to do the poker
in the night, but whatever. Logistics, we'll figure that out
later. But we go from scene to scene
and then after we've done a couple of scenes or a couple of
scenes, which are include what they call pretty girls, which
are photos, we'll, you know, take a break for lunch or

(01:19:20):
dinner, whatever part of the dayit is, have some food.
And then we'll get ready for thenext set of videos and, and
photos. And then we'll do those.
And then we finish up we, you know, make sure everybody gets a
copy of the footage. And that's, that's a content
house. Now, the difference between
normal content houses and this one is that this is her primary

(01:19:42):
residence, so it can be rented pretty much anytime, where
normally people rent an Airbnb or someone else's location and,
you know, it's only good for that day.
So we're doing this to help, youknow, promote that she does have
the house and for other people that want to rent it, they can.

(01:20:03):
Yeah, yeah. So I know.
Yeah, so like. Only me and tech nerds care
about this part. So like with the the footage,
like although is someone people are recording all the footage
and then like they basically like give it all to you guys and
you guys just, you know, take what you want, you know, cut
whatever you want and everyone and everyone.

(01:20:24):
Edits their own. Everyone gets a copy of the same
footage unedited. Sometimes.
In this case, we'll have a full professional edit done, which is
basically like a, a real, like alike a trailer.
So he'll take a little bit of each of the scenes and then put

(01:20:47):
it in together as one longer video.
So it'll be like a a reel on Instagram or whatever.
But ultimately everyone will getthe raw footage and then they
edit it how they want to and youknow, in this.
Case I will. Definitely have a set of terms
and conditions as far as like what's the cheapest that can be

(01:21:10):
sold for where it can be posted,when it can be posted.
Like I I put together some parameters because some people
like to give the shit away and it's like what you know, makes
it really hard for. Other people to sell.
It if they're giving it away, sothere will be some parameters in
place, but ultimately, you know,hard.

(01:21:31):
Wow, that's fucking smart. Yeah, well, and not only.
That, but I don't want the footage.
To be on sites that we don't approve of.
You know what I mean? Yeah.
Or also in the in the forms whenwe do the model release forms
and the content forms and all that.
I also have a list of of websites or producers who can't
buy the the content. The content cannot be put on

(01:21:53):
certain producers websites because sometimes what happens
is the producers will hit up some of the talent that go to
these content houses and they'lloffer to buy the content for
super cheap and then put it on their website.
And it could be someone like me who may not want to shoot with
that producer and doesn't want to be on their website.

(01:22:14):
And so now I am by proxy and I'mnot OK with that so.
Yeah. Shady.
Shit that happens in this business that.
It's, you know, I get it, it's business.
But at the same time, it's like,if I know that you don't want to
be on my website, then I wouldn't want you to be on my
website, you know what I mean? Sure.
Yeah, absolutely. So.

(01:22:36):
Those things we will work out in.
The legal stuff that will happenbefore anyone even gets in front
of the camera so that if. There's any?
Well, we'll have that. Worked out before they even
agree to be at the place becauselike I do a preliminary e-mail
that says this is how we're working things.
If you're not in agreeance with these terms and conditions, then

(01:22:57):
this isn't the. The content like this isn't the
right situation for you if you're not willing to sign the.
The the. Agreement prior to, you know,
signing up. I won't.
Even take any money from. You like, it's, you got to agree
to this, this, this, that and the 3rd.
And, you know, some of the things that we also talked about
are like who can be on set? Because people like to invite

(01:23:19):
other people. And it's like we're trying to
keep this real low key, real small, you know, even sometimes
not I don't know about in this particular case because we
haven't gotten that far yet, butin some cases we don't even have
partners on set. When you're in a small space and
you're trying to to film, you know, those things are
distractions. If someone gets into an argument

(01:23:41):
or you know what I mean, or you know the, the point is that
we're. Going to be shooting.
Together, and when you add too many outside elements, they
become distractions and then it doesn't create a cohesive
environment on camera. So right makes.
Sense Anita, you're going to be there.

(01:24:01):
Yes, I will be there. Nice.
She ain't got no choice. Well, she's.
Not being held. Hostage.
There actually no, no. I'm just kidding.
She can choose to participate. Or not.
Participate. But of course she's going to be
there. Yeah.
Wait a minute. Hold up is.
Is Platinum your pimp? Hell no.

(01:24:22):
No. Oh.
I'm sorry, I don't know what thehell.
I don't know shit, I'm just asking questions.
I'm her wife. Big difference.
Is it? Big difference.
Yes, it is a. Big difference.
A pimp. A pimp gets a felony charge.
Oh yeah. Misdemeanor.
I'm the wife. And in my in my particular

(01:24:43):
relationships, she has all the wherewithal to decline or accept
if she if she so chooses, yes. But if she does.
You know, refuse. Do you like, hit her with a wire
hanger or? Oh, absolutely not.
Absolutely not. All right, all right, good.
Yeah. Sorry, I just know shit from.

(01:25:04):
Like the 70s? Pimps.
I don't know how it works. Now you hear the bikes in the
back. Oh yeah, it's bikes, Yeah.
Bikes and. 4 Wheelers. So they have this thing in in
Baltimore called the 12:00. Boys, there's a documentary

(01:25:26):
about it. That's them.
Yeah, I. Don't know nothing about that.
Really rude. I'm in the middle of a podcast.
Well, they don't know. They're just doing their thing,
having fun on their. Bikes and stuff, you're right.
I'm just being an old lady. A miserable old lady.

(01:25:49):
Turn that down. Oh, that's why I want to.
I know this is completely. Off topic, but I did want to ask
you, did you have a beeper back in the day?
Yes. Yeah, Yeah, right.
That's why I think it's funny that people say.
Three O 4 because that was code for hoe and remember I love you
was 1 what was. What's the numbers on here hold?

(01:26:14):
On No, I never fucking. I never did that shit.
I'm just. Beeping my boys to go fucking,
you know you had a beeper. Fuck yeah, I had mad.
Beepers, man, we. Fucking like we, you know, say
bitches. Yeah, you know.
No, no, that's how we. No, that's how we talked when
we. Were kids I know.
I'm kidding. Like, Oh yeah, we so it was. 1.

(01:26:36):
Because, you know, I'm just beeping my friends.
And shit. Beeping my boys.
I'm not saying I love you. I'm not gay.
Or just hit him up with 911. You, you, you fucking beep
someone with 911 and it's not important.
They get mad at you. Like what the fuck?
It's not important. What are you beeping me 911 for?
Nobody cares about Bieber talk except old people.
I do yeah, I'm old too. I.

(01:26:57):
Fucking love. Hold on.
Anita don't know what the. Fuck, we're talking about she's.
Like a beeper, she's. Like, you know, I never.
Had one but I know what it. Is. 1.3 Anita, I love you. 1.
4/3. Anita, how old were you when you
first got your first got a cell phone?
I was, I don't. Know how old I was, but I was

(01:27:18):
in. The 5th grade, holy shit you're
young. Yeah, I only got it.
Because I was active in sports and I needed one for like when
my dad would drop me off becausemy mom doesn't drive.
So my dad had to chauffeur 4 kids around.
Yeah, he must have. Fucking hated you.

(01:27:40):
Guys. Fuck, I got to what the fuck?
All this shit. And I'm kidding.
I don't, you know. Yeah.
No, there were four. Those were little menaces.
Yeah, he still is a. Menace.
I'm just hotter. Now, OK, so this is funny. 3.
O 4 was ho ho ho I'm. Dying, I love you.

(01:28:05):
Was 143 and then I. Love you forever.
Was 1437 I don't love you Was 1443 I love you too was. 1432.
I didn't even know all this. I.
Didn't use all of those. When I was.

(01:28:26):
Younger, like girls didn't. Have Bieber's like yeah, like it
was always, always guys. I had a beeper for a long ass
time in. Fact.
I. Remember when I got my first
Nextel? Do you remember Nextel?
Nextel was the first. The intercom.
Oh yeah, those were fucking great, man.

(01:28:47):
No, they weren't. I got almost got.
Fired from my job. Because I had.
I had the intercom on and someone was like, Karen, what
are you doing you? Suck a Dick right now and I'm
like. Oh my God, I had to learn how to
turn it off. Because I was at work and.
People would would forget what they call it Chirp.
It was called the. Chirp.
It would chirp you. Yeah, yeah.

(01:29:08):
Those were fucking awesome. You remember.
Chirp, Anita. No.
I used to have it on. Boost too when Nextel.
Had they offered the chirp on boost?
If you guys are watching out there, let us know in the
comments if you've ever owned a beeper for one and two, if
you've ever had a Nextel or a boost chirp phone where it had

(01:29:32):
the intercom or you could just talk to people without actually
having to call them. And I remember why chirping was
so important, because that was during the time when you had to
pay for your minutes and textingand you would have.
A plan where? You had to wait till after 7
when it was free to call. I remember that.

(01:29:53):
My first. Cell phone 19. 97500 minutes no
text for $50.00 a month. 500 minutes.
Wow. Real fast it wasn't.
Even texting, I'd be fucked if it was texting because.
I I've always been a texter, butI'm also an old school like I

(01:30:13):
remember I so I'm a computer geek.
OK, I had a Tandy, I had an Apple two EI had a Commodore 64
and a Commodore 128. Now, these are computers that
were literally the like the floppy disk, the keyboard, and
it connected to a regular TV. This is before computers had

(01:30:34):
their own separate monitor. So yeah.
Let's take it back. Take it back, Take it back.
We're taking it back. Let us know what your first
computer was. Let let us know in the comments.
We want to know about your your cell phone beeper chirping and
computers. Let's age you and see how far

(01:30:54):
back you go. You remember when you couldn't
be on the Internet? And on the phone at the same
time stop it when you used to get the.
The wait a minute when? You used to get the disk in the
mail for free 90 days. Yeah, on AOL.
And when you would. Connect.
It was called dial up and you would get on and you nobody else

(01:31:15):
could be on the phone otherwise it knocked you off but you would
get on and it would be like. Dial up was great man.
My first thing was. I had web TV shut the fuck up,
so did I. Did you?

(01:31:35):
Yeah, I had web TV. And it came.
With like a little keyboard. Yeah, yeah, I had web TV.
Oh my gosh, I used to play the game, remember?
OK. There was a game on the computer
on the PC and it was something like the Olympics, I don't
remember. If there was also one called

(01:31:56):
Henry's. House.
I don't know if anybody remembers that one, but there
was one called OK Old PC game Summer Olympic.
I didn't. Play games on.
That shit, I just went into chat.
Rooms and fucked with people. Just be like, I did that too.
You see people trying to like. Fucking hook up and shit.
Like, ah, yeah, fucking I used to like play like you remember
Oz, the TV show HBO and I'm at abusy and I'm, you know, I'm

(01:32:21):
like, I'm going to RIP you, you know, fucking all that bullshit.
I don't know, stupid, but like just fucking with people in chat
rooms and people be all serious and shit.
That's how I came up with my my stage name.
From. Oz No from AOL chat rooms.
So I used to go into these chat rooms.
There was one called Florida interracial.

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There was a whole bunch of States and then the state had a
bunch of different ones underneath it.
And the one that I would go intowas the interracial 1.
And so I would go in there and Iwould chit chat or.
Whatever. But the girls that were in there
were extremely insecure and super territorial.
And so sometimes the guys would be like, hey, what's up girl?
You know, under my regular name.And so there was this time where

(01:33:04):
I guess one of the guys that wasreally popular was like trying
to hook up with me in the publicchat.
And so the girls all turned on me and then they started calling
me a hoe and all these differentthings or whatever.
And so I left the chat room and I was like heartbroken.
I was like, damn, I didn't even do nothing.
But then I got mad because I'm an Aquarius and I'm just like,

(01:33:25):
Nah, you're not going to not like I enjoyed being in that
chat room. So I'm hanging out with the
homies one time. And, you know, at the time we
used to hang out with a bunch ofguys and the conversation came
about on if you could be a porn star, what would be your porn
name? And of course, they're going
through the typical you use yourFirst Street with your dog or

(01:33:45):
cat or whatever, you come up with the name.
Yeah, that shit, right? Yeah, yeah.
So they're coming. Up with these like.
Crazy names or whatever. And I'm like, that's not going
to work for me. Mine was some ridiculous like
shit and I was like, that's not.Going to work for me.
I need a name. That's like really going to draw
people in. And so one of the guys is like,

(01:34:06):
and he, you know who's, he and Iwere pretty close, he says
Platinum pussy. And the whole group stopped and
I said Yep. That's the one.
So I created an AOL screen name because at the time you get out
of five created an AOL screen name, went into the chat room
and literally they were all jumping in my DMS.

(01:34:28):
The girls were pissed. The dudes were hopping on it
like a sale at Walmart. And so I was like, oh, OK, this
is a name that definitely draws attention.
People want to know who is platinum pussy and.
So this. Was long before I got into the
industry. But when I got into the industry
initially, I was on a phone siteand I had some random identity.

(01:34:52):
And then when a, a, a call came in and he was like, describe
yourself. And I'm like, yeah, I'm 250 lbs
and click hangs up and I'm like,oh shit, what just happened?
And so she's like, well, we do use somebody else's pictures and
name and blah, blah, blah, blah,blah.
So I was like, well, we might aswell use mine because I'm not
going to be good at trying to. I'm going to always describe who

(01:35:14):
I really AM. And that was she says, what is
your screen like your stage namegoing to be?
And I was like platinum pussy. She was like, oh, that's good.
Yeah, I like that. And the rest of the history.
Poor Anita. She's.
Like you fucking old. Motherfuckers, guys, so.

(01:35:35):
You. All my because I'm all into.
I'm like. Yeah, fucking AOL chat room.
And she, yeah, she's. Like you all, I was just too
young. For them you.
Know I was good my parents were like you are not going in those
things good you did sports and shit that's.
Good. That's good.
Your parents. My sister got pregnant at. 16 So
my parents like locked it down with me and my other sister.

(01:35:59):
Good, good. That's good.
Chastity, is that what they did?They put you in a.
Chastity belt. Like Nah, bitch, they were like
you're going to be so. Busy you can't do.
Anything that's a good. Good plan, Did, yeah.
Did it? Did it work for you?
It worked. Yeah, it's pretty still.
That's good. Yeah, that's great.

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Congratulations, Round of applause.
Yay round of. Applause round.
So let me ask you a question do.You are there.
Plans for little Anita juniors? I don't.
Know I'm kind of just if it. Happens.

(01:36:41):
It happens, you know? Yeah.
How will that? Change.
How will that change? Your family, but I like haven't.
Taken steps to have them yet so I think I'm more of like if it
happens it happens yeah good, good.
Let me. Give you some advice, do.
Not have kids, all right? No.

(01:37:03):
Not I, you know I. Got two kids.
I fucking love them to death. And they're, you know, I love
every moment. Not every moment, you know what
I mean? It's great, but it's so fucking,
it's stressful. And to bring them, bring them up
in this fucking world, it, it's fucking scary.
It's so scary and fucking stressful.
It's great. But it's, it's, it's so

(01:37:26):
stressful, you know? Yeah.
I agree I got. Grandkids so.
Grandkids. Yeah, I have.
Grandkids, I'm. 50. I old.
I am an old fuck. But I'm I could have.
Good, I'm good. I could have grandkids.

(01:37:46):
So it's. Fucking depressing.
No it's not. It is you.
Don't want to be old, Who wants to be?
Old I do, let me tell you. Let me tell you what aging
brings me. Aging brings me peace,
happiness, clarity, stability, and then I don't give a fuck
attitude that is so unbreakable.It's amazing to let me put it

(01:38:11):
like this. When we were at Exotica, there
were situations and scenarios where people were doing
everything they could to get my attention and to break my smile.
And if I could have? AT shirt that said.
Unbothered. That would have explained my
attitude for the whole weekend. Am I right, Anita?
Yeah, I was. I was.

(01:38:31):
I was definitely aware of my surroundings, but completely
unbothered. Aging does that.
If that would have been a few years ago, I probably would have
succumbed to the attention getting and put myself in a
situation where I would have felt the need to confront things
and it just would have been unnecessary drama for no fucking

(01:38:51):
reason. But to be in a space where
you're mature, you don't give a fuck, and you can just do what
you do, knowing that I'm not there for those people, I don't
care. They're not even on my radar.
You know what I mean? Like, no, no offense, no hate,
no, I wish everybody the best. Like that's where I'm at in my
life to to feed into that energy.

(01:39:14):
But you know, when you're younger, you feel the need to
respond to everything. If somebody makes an accusation,
you feel like you got to defend it.
If someone sends attention your way, you feel like you got to
reciprocate it. I'm reciprocating energy if you
speak to me. I speak to you if you come at
me. Whack, I'm.
Probably just going to ignore you and keep it pushing.
Like that is what aging has donefor me.

(01:39:36):
So if that means I'm going to beold and miserable, then I'll
just be old and miserable. Even though I'm not miserable,
I'm the happiest I've ever been in my whole life.
Like the peace that I feel in this space is undeniably worth
everything that I fucking went through to get here.
So cheers, cheers. Oh, I'm.

(01:39:57):
Mentally stable? Why you got?
Brag about it. Some of us aren't.
I didn't say nothing about beingmentally stable.
No, no. No, I'm kidding.
No, no. Seriously though, you're, you're
totally right. Age does fucking like it.
It's amazing. Like, you know, like remember
when you were younger and like people tell, like older people
tell you like, you know, like, you know, they try to give you
advice and shit and you're like,shut up.

(01:40:18):
I don't fucking want to hear that, you know?
And it's like, and then you get old and it's like, holy shit,
they were so fucking right. I wish I'd listened to them.
And then you start fucking telling younger people and they
and it's the same. It's a cycle.
Nobody fucking listens. And it's the things that used to
bring me stress. When I was younger, don't even
fucking phase me anymore. You know, I used to panic at

(01:40:41):
just every little thing. And you know, one of the things
that I've learned as I've gottenolder is that you don't control
anything, but you can also control what controls you.
So while you may not control. Anything you.
Can control what controls you and nothing controls me like I
do what I want, when I want, howI want, and I give in to the

(01:41:02):
situations that I want to give in to.
And as of late, there's just notthat many situations that I'm
willing to give my attention to.And that's fucking amazing, man.
It's so freeing and such a a great space to be in.
So I welcome to the to this to this side of life where, you
know, having kids is stressful. You know, I have a 33 year old

(01:41:25):
daughter and a 29 year old son. So I get it and I have
grandkids. So the future for them, the way
that things are looking. Looks very grim.
Our. Current political climate.
Sucks you got to stop I'm. Getting fucking you're making me
depressed. OK, come back, come back good.

(01:41:47):
Juju, let me send some good jujuyour way.
Come on. No, because I had to go through.
Because just yesterday I had to go through my daughter's.
I had to go through her, her shit, you know, from like
elementary school and shit. And I'm looking at it.
She's 20 now and I'm looking at it.
It's making me so fucking sad. I'm like, Oh my God, I want to
fucking cry like a bitch and it was just horrible so but why?

(01:42:10):
It's amazing. Yeah, one let me.
Say this. Don't be sad when you have a
relationship with your daughter,do you not?
Oh yeah, we have a great relationship.
Pat yourself on the back for that.
Pat yourself on the. Back for that, there's a bunch
of men out there. I could only want to say men
listen, I could have done so. No, I, I.

(01:42:31):
I I did my best. I could have done so much
better. You were there.
I had custody. Yeah.
I had custody of her since she was four.
And I've raised her. And I could.
I did my best, but I could have done so much better, you know?
But you. But you were there.
Yeah. Do you know how many stories of
absent fathers and fathers who don't give a shit about their

(01:42:52):
kids? Yeah, yeah.
So please. Pat yourself on the.
Back 'cause that. Girl enough though, it is it.
It it. Everybody can do better.
Nobody's the perfect. Parent I, myself included, trust
me. But the fact that you are there,
especially in today's world where a lot of people like to

(01:43:14):
drop the seed and then disappearand not have any involvement in
their children's lives. Like, you know, to me, I love
hearing about especially a single dad that had custody of
his kid. Like that's not common.
So don't beat yourself up because you know how it is as a

(01:43:35):
parent. You know what?
I'm changing my mind, Anita. You know what do have kids?
Because because I'm remembering like those fucking early days
with my daughter because I also have an 8 year old son and I'm
trying to take in as much of it as I can.
But yeah, I mean, those early fucking days were so fucking
amazing, you know what I mean? Like I wish are though you go
and play Roblox with. Them.
And yeah, yeah, Oh yeah. And with him.

(01:43:56):
But I'm thinking. About about my daughter right
now. And it's like, you know, like
those time like, yeah, it's fucking great right now because
because I'm getting a do it again, you know, do it over and
shit. But yeah, like the those early
days. But this is when she needs you.
Fucking great. This is when she'll.
Have you? It's have.
One, though, don't have more than.
One. This is when she needs you
though. For real.

(01:44:17):
Because now she is what, what isshe in a relationship or no, no,
no, OK, this is when she needs you.
Because now she's going to startmeeting people that are going to
want to, you know, and with having her dad and her life and
having her dad, that's. Close to her in.
Her life, she has somebody that she can go to and have these

(01:44:38):
conversations with that you're going to, you know, you're going
to detect the bullshit from a mile away.
More so than even a mom, you know what I'm saying?
Because you're a guy. So, you know, the things that
guys say to let the the woman's guard down, you know, the games
that they play. And so I can say I wasn't close

(01:44:59):
with my dad. I wished I would have been
because he probably would have been there to be like that
dude's a douche, get far the fuck away from him.
And I didn't have anybody in my mom.
She's very non confrontational. So she was not as open to
telling me somebody was full of shit till I already knew they
were all full of shit. So it was, like, too late.

(01:45:19):
Good job. But that's not her fault.
You know, my mom's just not thatkind of person.
She sees the good in everyone. So.
Yeah, so. That's a great relationship.
To have with your daughter, especially now in her formidable
dating years and you know, hopefully she'll pick a good
partner and you know. How'd this get to a fucking

(01:45:41):
therapy session for? Me, this is on.
I don't know, Anita's a fucking thing.
Yeah. Look at her, she's over there.
Like damn. No, I'm looking through therapy.
This is so. Healing.
She's like, really like you old fox.
Like what? Are you doing, is it healing,
Anita? Yes.
It's very healing. It's good to see you listen if

(01:46:02):
you do. Have have one.
Kid, that's it. But if you do have that kid
fucking take every month like try your back because you know
like it just with everything in life like fucking you know, you
have your hard days and hard times and all that shit.
It goes by quick, yes. It goes by.
Quick and try your best to just fucking like enjoy every moment.

(01:46:23):
You know it does. It goes by so quick.
So have one kid but that's it and just enjoy it.
That's my advice. I love that.
Talk to me tomorrow my. Vice might.
Change and say no, don't have kids.
The world sucks, you know? Yeah, welcome to the Cam Girl
diary. Therapy session if you have any.

(01:46:46):
Questions. Or anything you'd like to share
with with us? Need some advice?
Leave it in the comments. We'd love to, you know, give you
our unsolicited advice Platinum.Does I shouldn't give advice?
Yes, you should. You can speak from your.
Experience and it could help somebody out there.

(01:47:06):
You know, I'm, I'm getting more comfortable speaking about my
fuck ups. It's difficult, but I'm doing
it. You know, taking.
Accountability and responsibility for the shit that
I've done in my past. Not easy, but now that I'm going
through my healing era, it's much easier now than it was when

(01:47:27):
I was still hiding from everything and and just off.
Of that like. Taking responsibility and just
owning your own shit is so fucking helpful to yourself
because when you start like masking shit and like, you know,
making excuses for yourself, it only fucking hurts you.
It it fucking it, it takes you back.
It doesn't fucking help in any way.

(01:47:48):
Just fucking who cares? We all fuck up, Everyone fucks
up. Nobody does anything, you know,
100% correct. Like it helps you know it does.
Because I feel like the. Energy that you put.
Into masking the truth it OK so let's look at it like this.
When you lie about something, you spend so much time and
energy protecting the lie that when the truth comes out, it's

(01:48:11):
like a relief because you're like fuck, I don't have to
fucking. Put all this energy.
Into lying on top of lying on top of lying on top of Because
like masking the truth means yougot to you got to you.
Got to keep coming up with. Creative ways to like, keep
people from finding things out but you know one thing for sure,

(01:48:32):
two things for certain the truthalways reveals itself one way or
another, whether. It's now.
Whether it's five years from now, whether it's 10 years from
now, it's eventually going to reveal.
Itself so. The best thing that you can do
is get underneath it. Get in front of it and just be

(01:48:53):
fucking honest. About the fact.
That, you know, whatever it is, and sometimes you'll find that
it's not even as as deep as yourbrain makes it out to be.
Like, you get in front of it, you face it, you take
responsibility, and then it's like, oh, OK, And what?
It's not even that deep like. Yeah.

(01:49:14):
So, yeah. And we're talking to you, Anita,
because. You're a youngin, so yeah,
that's for you, Boo. That's for you.
I don't. You know.
I don't know, I'm sorry. No, we're just, we're just just
fucking with you. So when's your next Cam show?
Oh, now it's 9:00 around. Like after Oh, OK, OK, so you're

(01:49:36):
enjoying you're. Enjoying the podcast?
Yes, I am. See the first half.
I was just a viewer now. You're a viewer.
I I apologize. That should not happen.
No, that shouldn't. Happen.
You're the fucking. Great life advice, long as you.
I don't know you use. It or something, I don't know.

(01:49:59):
Life sucks, that's all I know. No, it doesn't life.
It does life. Sucks it only.
Sucks if you let it enter your mouth.
Whoa, whoa. Whoa, no homo.
I don't know what you're. Talking about gay shit?
Fuck, it depends on what you're putting.
In your mouth, you took that. All wrong.

(01:50:19):
It could be some some cooter bop.
What's that? Yeah.
Fucking what was that? That's what I'm saying.
Remember. Remember.
Akin Yell? Was it Akin Yelli put it in your
mouth. Akanelli.
Akanelli. Yeah.
That was my jacket. Yeah.

(01:50:40):
That. Was the jam old people shit?
Yeah, that. Is shit do you?
Know about Akinelli? No, I don't.
Well, you're gonna. Know 'cause you fucking.
Send her some shit. You got to hit up that old
school shit. Old school shit.
All right? No, never mind.
I take that back. Old school shit is old school
shit. It's like whatever you like, you
like, you know? So, yeah, disregard that.

(01:51:03):
No, she would. Like.
It. Definitely check it out.
We'll finish the lyrics. You ready to live Crew Richard?
Cheese. Anyone know Richard Cheese?
Who the look Richard Cheese. Richard.
Cheese is she's so good. You get it, Richard Cheese, Dick
cheese. So Oh yes, yes, so he.
Yeah, he does like. He does his own, like he does

(01:51:27):
not spoofs, but like he does like, you know, like fucking God
damn it. Like creep, Radiohead, creep,
Snoop Dogg, gin and juice, a bunch of shit, like old, a lot
of older shit, but also some newshit.
But he does it in like a lounge singer style.
It's so fucking good. He's.
So fucking good it sounds gay. Like a lounge singer.

(01:51:51):
That's fucking gay. Why would I want to hear fucking
gay at all? Stop.
I don't. Know I fucking love it I
fucking. I told my wife about she's like,
oh, that sounds gay. She started listening to it.
She's like, Oh my God, I love it.
She fucking she can't get enoughof Richard.
Who said that? My wife, she.
Likes oh hi wife you. Know.
She don't. Watch this shit.

(01:52:12):
She don't know what. The fuck she's fucking.
What are you doing? Fucking nonsense.
Everything I do is nonsense. I I get that even though.
She was a fan. Of my that's How I Met.
Her from perver Pete that's she was a fan of my stop it tell us
tell us about. How you met your?
Wife. We need to know so she.

(01:52:34):
So she was just about because you know, like, I mean, you guys
know, like when you have a fucking fan base and followers
and all that shit, like they fucking, you know, there's some
people that fucking, you know, like want to fucking hook up,
you know, that kind of shit. And I always fucking just
disregard that shit. You know, I get DMS girls, you
know, sending me their tits, allthat bullshit, and I just

(01:52:54):
disregard that because it was a fucking like, I don't care.
I don't fucking pay attention tothat shit.
I just wait. It was a fucking business.
I'm fucking hooking shit up likethat and that but she was just
like, out of all of those types of girls, she was the most
fucking persistent and just keptfucking like kept on me and we
just, you know, we were. Just we.
Just. Started talking more and more

(01:53:16):
and more and it just went from there.
So how long did you? Date before you got married?
A couple years maybe. A year?
How did you propose? I got.
Off the. Train or the Yeah, the train,
because I went out, because she lived in Maine.

(01:53:37):
I lived in Pennsylvania. So I got off the train and
outside the train station. I had AI had a rose and a ring
on it. I had it in my bag.
I stuffed it in my pants in the back.
I was like, oh shit, I got to tie my shoe.
You know, I started tying my shoe and then I fucking busted
it out. That's so sweet.

(01:53:59):
Gay you. Gay.
How did you meet your partner Anita?
On Tinder. Stop it.
Slayer. Hose at a restaurant.
At dinner, how long were you guys dating like?
A year and a half. OK, I met mine on.

(01:54:23):
Plenty of fish. No shit.
Yeah. I.
Tried to over, yeah, I tried to make him pay and he was like
fuck no. And that was pretty much all she

(01:54:43):
wrote was. That was 11 years ago, so.
Wow. Yeah, yeah.
That's amazing. I like hearing about like.
Partner stories because everyonehas such a different experience
and so I love. That Anita met.
Hers on Tinder because like mine, I'm sure that nobody knew

(01:55:06):
that it was going to go where itwent like yours.
You met her in your DM, she was just a fan.
And look at you now. How long you guys been married
now? Since 20.
So 9. Years.
Oh wow. Congratulations.
And you, Anita, we'll be together.
Five and we're married 2. Nice.

(01:55:33):
So let this be a. Testament If you are a Cam
person and considering or concerned about not being able
to be in a healthy long lasting relationship or even being in
the adult industry at all, or being a YouTube channel
personality, you can have healthy relationships regardless

(01:55:53):
of what you do in this world. It is not only possible but
plausible. Except our relationship is.
Not far, it's very it's not healthy.
So that's not in a bad way, but just it's just weird.
But regardless that I just wanted to fucking throw that in.
But you're not a Cam girl, so. Oh yeah, I'm sorry, I forgot

(01:56:16):
where. We're at.
It's all good. It's wait a minute.
Wait, so Anita, you were already?
Were you? No.
You said five years, right? So you weren't.
You started camming after you met your partner.
Yes. Fun.
Fact, it was his idea for me to get into the industry.

(01:56:37):
Wait a minute, did you start camming?
1st or were. You creating content?
I did. Both like at the same time.
OK, so how does he bring this up?
To you like 1. Day you're just like eating
dinner and he's like, hey, I think you should be a a porn
star, a Cam girl. Like how did how did that
conversation go? So I was tired.

(01:57:00):
Of my vanilla job at the time, Iwas so sick of it.
It was bad for my mental health.I was like having breakdowns all
the time. And then he was like, well, why
don't you try this? Because I think you'd be good at
it. And then I started doing that.

(01:57:21):
And then decided to quit my vanilla job like 2.
What were you doing at your vanilla?
Job I was working for a call center.
Tell like. Let's hear your call center
voice, do I? Have to oh please.
Please. Yeah.
Can we role play? Real quick, what?

(01:57:42):
What was the call center? Do I?
I'll do. I'll do mine if you do yours.
OK, so at the time I worked. For Spectrum.
So my call center voice was like, thank you for calling
Spectrum. My name is Anita.
How can I help you? Yeah, my fucking Internet is
out. Sir, have you tried unplugging
it? And plugging it back.
In Yeah, what? Am I retarded?

(01:58:04):
Of course I did. That was what we had to ask
people. Yeah, no, don't keep playing,
please. Like.
Let's just fucking do this. Like yeah, my fucking internet's
out blowing. Into the.
Box. I'd like to blow in your box,
but it's. A fucking different story.
What? We'll.

(01:58:24):
Send you a technician, Sir. Don't worry you.
They can come out in two weeks. Two weeks?
I got to fuck out. How am I going to look?
At porn what? What am I supposed to do?
What should I go to? Sorry about your porn Sir.
Where I got to? Go to 711 and get a.
Fucking old school porn. This is bullshit.
Give me a fucking credit. I want credit.
I'll send you to my manager for the credit.

(01:58:46):
Don't you worry. Oh my God, spectrum sucks.
Fuck you. So do you.
Oh. You bitch.
I'm here, you God damn it mine. Was all right.
We'll just use AT&T as a as a a filler.

(01:59:11):
Thank you for calling AT and. T This is Carrie.
How can I help you? Oh damn, Carrie, you sound kind
of hot. I forgot why I was calling.
I don't know what is this AT&T? It is AT&T.
What can I do for you today? What's your name, Sir?
My name? My name's Gary.
Why do you need my name? Who cares?
Well, if I'm going to look up your account Gary and be of.

(01:59:32):
The utmost best service to you. I'm going to need to know who
you are. Oh, shit.
Good point. All right, all right.
I apologize. Wait, AT&T what the what?
Like the phone company or yes? Are you calling?
About your home service. Internet, cellular service or
TV? Fuck, I don't know.
Now. You, you confused me.

(01:59:54):
My, my TV. It's not working.
Probably not that hard, Gary, but let's stay.
On that focus. Oh, oh, I thought you were
role-playing. Oh fuck.
All right, so. So yeah, my TV, it's not
working. Your TV is not working.
Is it plugged? In Sir, what am I?
What again, what am I? Retarded.
Of course it's plugged in. Sounds that way.
It's really exciting to. Appear that way.

(02:00:15):
How dare you. How fucking dare.
You. Where's your manager?
I want to talk to your man. I'm pulling a carrot on your
ass. Where's your manager?
OK, Karen, I am the manager. Fuck.
Stop. Working.
Yeah, I'd like your TV and if. You don't get your.
Shit together Sir, your TV is never going to work.
Did you say your light bill? No, I fucking wait till the

(02:00:39):
last. Minute to pay?
Who cares? You're supposed to say this
ain't the same. Carry like my voice changed.
I got aggressive. See Reciprocating energy.
That's what happens when you turn 15.
This is. Why I couldn't work for AT&T?
Did you get fired? You should have no.
No, I left. I didn't work.
For AT and TI worked for anothercompany.

(02:01:00):
But let's just say that I started working in this industry
while I was still working at this company and my Co worker
knew what I was doing and decided to share that
information with other people that I worked with who were
competitively trying to get me removed from my position.

(02:01:24):
And so they told the boss. And when the boss pulled me in,
I was like, it can't be a conflict of interest.
The type of job that we work in,we do not identify ourselves
with our actual names. We use fake ident like I worked
in a collection agency. So you don't use your real name
because people will hunt you down.

(02:01:45):
And so I was like, how is it a conflict of interest?
First of all, nobody knows what I look like.
They don't know my real name. That's your beeper.
That was your GoPro. Are you filming right now?
Yeah. Busted.
Wait, what? Are you filming me?

(02:02:08):
Oh, sorry, I don't know. What's going on?
Yeah, she's been overheated. She's about to show them
titties. Oh shit.
All right. Don't do it here because that's
right. You can't do that here.
Yeah, well, you can technically because.
We could blur. It I did that, I did another
interview some girls she just busted out or Beaver and was

(02:02:28):
like, oh, all right, I didn't know that we're going there.
That's good. So I just I'm just blurring it.
Look at our face. Because we're both like, what?
Yeah, she busted out. She did.
That for free Beaver. Yeah.
Hold up. Yeah, her hair.
Whatever. Is.
That. Whatever.
Oh. I have one too, where did it go?

(02:02:51):
Yeah, it's a TikTok. They.
Do this thing with like. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
I got my feet on the ground. I fucking hate TikTok.
But I've learned how to do the. Fan thing, now it's.
Hot in here but anyways I workedfor the collection agency and my
boss who I was very I'm a. Very outspoken.

(02:03:13):
Person and very. I call bullshit and I don't care
if I'm my boss or not. And he hated that.
He felt like I was an inferior employee.
I should respect elders, respectmanagement, yada yada yada.
And I'm like listen, if your fucking shit is bullshit, then

(02:03:34):
it's bullshit and I'm a call it.But anyways, he pulls me into
the office and he's like Carrie.So it's been brought to my
attention that you are naked on the Internet.
And I didn't respond. I didn't.
Give him a yes or no. Didn't deny, didn't confirm and
I said why is this your business?

(02:03:54):
I'm just curious about why we'rehaving this conversation.
Because this has nothing to do with my job, correct?
Do I do my job properly when? I'm here.
I do OK Am I getting naked on your on your floor?
No Am I filming content at your job?
No. So if in fact this was something
that. I was doing.
How does it affect my job? It doesn't OK.

(02:04:16):
So again, back. To the point, why am I here?
And let's just. Say that when?
You have a boss that doesn't like you and doesn't like when
you call them out on their bullshit.
They make your job very difficult and so I was making
more money. On Cam.
And online. Then I was at my job so I was

(02:04:37):
like fuck this shit, I'm out andI haven't worked since.
Well, in. A office environment or, you
know, I've worked independently in this industry, freelance
since then, Yeah. But you're working harder.
Now than you ever have. Oh sure, but you enjoy.

(02:04:58):
It I do is. That fair to say, right?
Yeah. Lady like you.
Too. Like you fucking like.
You love what you do, right, Anita?
Like, yeah, it's well. Like anything.
That you do in life there's. Going to be pros and cons.
The cons of this job is that we are one of the most ripped apart
judged people on the face of this planet.

(02:05:21):
Doing sex work makes it a targetfor serial killers, serial
rappers, the law enforcement, you know, people who love to
judge scorned wives, rejected husbands and men.
Like there's a lot of people that just hate sex workers for a
multitude of reasons. So there's that.

(02:05:43):
So like Anita said, you have to have tough skin.
But there are a lot of pros, andthose pros are one we get to
make our. Own schedule.
We get up when we want to get up, we go to bed when we want to
go to bed, and we can travel abroad as we see fit because our
job can be done from anywhere inthe world.

(02:06:04):
Although we are getting ready todo a seminar talking about
things that you should and should not do if you are
traveling the world because there are some laws in some.
Other. Countries that you can go to
prison for having porn on your phone, but that's not the point
in this conversation. So being able to travel abroad
is fantastic. Secondly, you are in charge of

(02:06:25):
how much money you make. No one tells you you make $10.00
an hour. You make as much or as little as
you want. One of the cons would also be
that it does cause conflict withfamily members sometimes.
My advice for that is I don't let my family dictate what I do
in my life anyway. So take it or leave it.

(02:06:45):
You can love me unconditionally or you can kindly fuck off.
So that works really well. For me and I, you know.
I don't care if anyone accepts what I do or don't do.
Another con is if you're workingwith other people and you're not
getting tested or not working with safe people that are also
getting tested and you're doing fluid exchange or sexual acts,

(02:07:11):
whether it be on Cam or in film or just in general, it can be
risky and dangerous. So I definitely recommend being
selective and careful and getting tested and working with
tested partners in this industry.
Or you know in this. Line of work and even outside of
this work, like I definitely recommend if you're having sex,

(02:07:33):
you should be getting tested period and being safe.
What are some other pros, Anita?Some of the people.
That you need cool people. Look at that.
That's How I Met Anita. Yeah.

(02:07:53):
And I. Love her long time.
Love you long time. Love you long time.
Cuz me so. Honey.
Yeah, sucky. Sucky, that's.
What I'm talking? Hold on.
It's not working. Hold on.
Oh, wrong. Side I was on the wrong side.

(02:08:16):
Whoa, whoa. Whoa, whoa.
I got my OK. Cooter Bop.
I will say one of the. Other pros for me?
Was finding my confidence, building my self esteem, and
learning a bunch of skills that give me the ability to freelance
and work independently for the rest of my life whether I'm in

(02:08:38):
this industry or not. Another seminar that we're going
to work on is like building yourresume and taking the things
that you learn from this industry and developing those
skills and talents into things that can make you money forever.
Yeah. I overcame.

(02:08:58):
My fear of public speaking. And now I get on stage in front
of thousands and thousands of people to host the the fashion
show. And I do seminars and you know,
I can, I can be. The Entertainer.
That I want to be. Pro.

(02:09:18):
There's lots of pros. There's more.
Pros and cons I think. I think so.
I also think that. It it makes a big difference
when you go about things and look for the positives instead
of always micro focusing on negatives because if you want to
find a negative that's easy finding negatives in situations.
Is always. Easy.

(02:09:39):
But it's, you know, finding the positives and then expanding on
those positives and, you know, I've been in situations where I
could have certainly been like, oh, I'm done.
This was, you know, not the bestsituation, but well, I also.
As a pro for. As an outsider, I think one of

(02:10:00):
the pros for you guys is like, you know, like with your, you
know, like building your confidence and all that stuff.
Like you could, like if you stoptoday doing everything you guys
are doing, you could, you could probably easily get into some
other business, you know what I mean?
Because like you're you, you guys are like, you know, you're
obviously entrepreneurs and you're fucking like, like Anita,

(02:10:23):
like you were saying like in thebeginning, like, you know,
you're a fucking Rook and you know, you're, you're all passive
and shit, right. But like, then you found your
fucking confidence and you were fucking telling people like it
is and shit. And you know, you know what I'm
trying to say. Yeah, yeah.
It's it's. Very.
It's. Very freeing and empowering is

(02:10:47):
the right word empowering to know that one, this business is
not going anywhere So if you diddecide, OK, I don't want to do
this anymore I'm going to venture off into nine to five
world. If that didn't work out, which
one of the cons I? Will say.
OK, so there's a couple more cons that I thought about.

(02:11:08):
One of the cons is once you're on the Internet, you're forever
on the Internet. So going back out into nine to
five world means you run the risk of someone finding your
past escapades and could use that against you.
Some some jobs that you get, consider that to be a conflict
of interest. So bear that in mind if you
haven't started in this industry, definitely be aware of

(02:11:32):
that before you get into this business, because once you
spread it and put it on the Internet, your cooter bop is on
there forever. There's this thing called
Wayback Machine, and no matter how much you control alt delete
and try to get rid of that shit,it's on the Internet somewhere.
So yeah, you can go because I use the Wayback.

(02:11:53):
Machine for a lot of stuff you can still find like on the
Wayback machine like it, it it there's a website like even
adult. Stuff.
There is a website. That hasn't been active since
2011, no. 2009. That if you dig deep enough on

(02:12:14):
the way back machine you can find my old website.
And we're talking 15 years. So.
For me, I don't. Give a shit.
I've already come to the terms that my cooterbop is everywhere.
In fact, that's my name. Platinum Cooterbop.

(02:12:38):
Just like that so. So what you're saying is?
If we use the Wayback machine, we could see your younger beef
brisket. Well, you can just ask.
Me, I have copies. But I'm saying yes, there is an
old version of an old website from when I first started.

(02:12:59):
Like content that is so fucking old.
Let me. Remember when the North.
Carolina. Tar Heels were popular.
I had a a set. In a jersey.
From the Carolina Tar Heels or when the Oakland A's.
Were big and. Popular or even back when hockey
jerseys in the 90s were super popular.

(02:13:20):
I've got a set in an old hockey jersey 'cause you know, that was
my my cross colors. Benetton, all that stuff was,
you know, back from my time. Yeah, I've got some really old
content. So old that the backdrop wasn't
even ironed. I didn't even know to iron the
backdrop. The backdrop or the background
was not clean. I didn't.

(02:13:41):
Those were things I didn't thinkof at the time because I was so
wet behind the ears in this business.
I love that saying. Yeah, I have some.
Very. Very, very old content.
In fact, my very first scene wasyou couldn't even see my face.
I literally like, it was one of those old school cameras.

(02:14:03):
You can get it at Walgreens. You put 4 AA batteries in it.
The tripod was literally like this.
The camera was super small and it had like maybe 12 minutes of
battery life. So it was an 8 minute video of
me and this guy in front of the fireplace.
The fire was going super hot. Extra poor lighting.

(02:14:27):
Because I didn't know. You know, extra poor lighting.
All you see is my bump and him behind me.
I'm wearing heels. He.
His name was Midnight. You can.
Probably imagine why didn't go great with bad lighting.
But you could see the. Fire crackling in the backside,
my fireplace going and I had it set to changing faces.

(02:14:47):
Do you mind if I stroke you up? No shit.
Now I don't know if. I have that video I.
May or may not be able to find it.
I would like to in fact, that's going to encourage me to go on
my hard drive and see if I have it.
But that was my very first hardcore video and it just.
Went from there. That's how old school.

(02:15:09):
It is OK. Long before I don't even think
this was 64480 like this might have been 220 by 4.
Something like. It's so pixelated in fact.
I have a guy on my. Website right now I put up an
old video and he sent me this long manifesto e-mail.

(02:15:30):
If you're watching this, I really appreciate that you're a
fan of my site. However, you have to understand
some of that content is so fucking old.
There's not a program on the face of this planet that can
make it better quality. But he sends me this e-mail and
he tells me, oh, do you have a better high quality version?
Da da da da. I'm like dude this is from 2006.

(02:15:53):
Take it back at look at go look.At what cameras were available
at this time? Like for real, not a lot this
is. Before cell phones, even.
Existed and damn sure before cell phones have cameras.
Like yeah, so take it back. Take it.
Back take. It back, Take it back.

(02:16:14):
Yo, you're you're so. You're so.
Old that you were banging to like music that had like
interludes, remember, like a lotnot like Shaw and fucking like R
Kelly, like they had like, you know, like in the middle of the
song that they had an interlude.You had to fucking, you know,
take a break. You know this is when you're.
So gay they didn't even just have interludes.

(02:16:35):
They had like. Long beginnings, OK, like.
The song itself. Like even the the beginning, the
middle and the end were like long.
Periods the. Actual song itself wasn't.
Very long, but the beginning would be like.

(02:17:00):
They build you up. For it right and.
Then they start playing song like it's so dramatic.
Right then you get to the middle.
Part where it's like you said, the the intermission,
intermission, yes, I think that's what they.
Said the interlude was the beginning.
And then the intermission is themiddle part where you're like

(02:17:22):
break for a minute, let's go into an intermission.
And then it's like. No.
No, no, no. You ready?
To come back. Now it's like they.
Really. Made music for you to Make Love
and gave you break towels, bitch, right?
You know. Yeah, break, just in case you
needed to get a drink. You need a break?

(02:17:43):
Yeah, smoke a cigarette, come back and then get back there.
That ass. And then be like.
And. Then it's like just hilarious
and then they would like. Fade away.
So it was like letting you know it's time to stop now.
OK, stop humping. We're we're going to cool.

(02:18:04):
It's almost like remember the. Old fashioned exercise videos
like the one with John Travolta and Olivia Newton.
John. And they would have that cool
off period at the end of. The.
Exercising. You need a cool off.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, they'd be. Like cool off man.
Let's cool off that's. How they did those songs?
Back then, so that you know, youget done fucking and then you'd

(02:18:24):
have some a moment to like, you know.
Cool off and then the song wouldbe.
Over and then the. Next song.
Would come on and it would be like a fast song.
Remember Keith Sweat? Oh.

(02:18:45):
You know. Sorry, Anita's like.
What the? Fuck are y'all talking about?
Yeah, no. You got to check that shit.
Out I need a baby. Face and fucking shot, boy.
Even boys to men. Come on, R Kelly, I know.
Boys to men. Yeah, right.
Right. I saw.
Boys to men in. Concert boys to men, LL Cool J
and sweet Sensation in concert. This is during LL.

(02:19:08):
Cool, J's Mama said knock you out when he took his shit off
and he was all but he'd be like I.
Said knock you out. Mama said knock you out.
I loved him when I was younger. I still do.
Like I. Love him.
Yeah, me too. No homo, but yeah.
That she'll psych you up, man, like I like before I get like I

(02:19:31):
do my Peach shit, like I, you know, I listen to certain shit
like Tupac and fucking, you know, LL Cool J like shit that
fucking hypes me up And yeah, Mama said knock you out.
One of the best hype. Songs.
Yeah, you know, Yeah. And then, boys.
To men. At that time, that's when they
had just came out and they were like Motown, Phillies back
again. Hell yeah, wearing those gay ass

(02:19:55):
fucking matching. Fucking sweaters.
Yeah. Yeah.
They were so. Gay, but like it's like, yeah,
fucking if you're a guy, you gotlike that shit on the down low
because if you like that, you know that's gay.
Come on. No, it's not Stop it.
It was. Sexy and and and fashionable and
swag, but I wasn't there for that.

(02:20:16):
I wanted to see LL Cool J with his shirt off.
And let me tell you, I think I felt a couple drops of sweat and
was like, Oh my God, I can go now.
I can go. Dude.
He was so fucking deed up. Like that shit fucking hype you
up if you no homo again, but like he was so fucking deed up
during that like that was, but that's because when he first

(02:20:36):
came out he. Was kind of lanky, you know what
I'm saying? Going back to Cali, Going back
to Cali, he was a. Fucking lanky little dork.
I need love. When I'm alone in my.
Room. Sometimes I stare at the wall.
That was so they. Made fun of him.
He was like I. Got you motherfuckers.

(02:20:57):
He went in the gym and was like never again.
Never again. Grew into his little body.
Yeah, back. In the let me tell you.
I wouldn't give up being Gen. X for nothing in my life.
Like I feel like we are the lastof a of a dying breed.
Like before there was social media, before there was cell

(02:21:22):
phones and reality TVI mean, come on now you can't tell me.
Nothing. Being growing up when we did, we
got the best of the 80s even though we were too young to
really participate, but we were at that cusp when hip hop came
out and you know, rap became a thing in the late 80s, early 90s

(02:21:45):
Like, come on, what a fabulous time to be alive Anita I'd.
Love to take you back there. And let you experience it.
This is all a. Yeah, yeah, this is all a.
Learning experience for you, youshould, you know, check out that
history because it was such a fucking it was a fun time, you
know, it was Yeah, like there was no.

(02:22:08):
Worrying about. Fucking.
Hurting anyone's feelings. It wasn't about hurting
feelings. It was just, oh God, you know,
having fun and just. Popping.
Shit, you know if you were different, you just stayed.
In your. Little group or like in your in
your. Space.
And you know, like now everyone's sensitive, everyone
is self diagnosed with all kindsof shit.

(02:22:31):
Everyone's on the spectrum like,and I get it, some people really
are. You know, I'm not saying that
people aren't. I'm just saying that like it's
unless you've been diagnosed by a doctor, you know?
Let Let's get official. Doctor diagnosis and even
sometimes when the doctor diagnosis things, in my opinion,

(02:22:52):
I feel like a lot of it is geared towards making people buy
prescriptions like big pharma. Is a big thing.
And you know, they're the thing that bothers me about that whole
whole thing in life is that I feel like a lot of people get
misdiagnosed or self diagnosed and you know it.
There are people. Out there that really have

(02:23:13):
these. Conditions and it's like I'm not
here to challenge you if you sayyou have it, by all means you
know who am I but you know for me, I want to hear three doctors
tell me what I. Have like when they try to
diagnose. Me with diabetes, which turns
out I have it. I'm type 2 diabetic.
I needed three doctors to confirm that I was type 2

(02:23:36):
diabetic because I didn't want to just be buying prescriptions
or paying for prescriptions or putting medicine in my body
unless I knew that I really needed it because they tried to
put me on Zoloft. They tried to put me on Xanax.
They tried to put me on all these things and it was simple
things like I went in and said Iwas having mood swings.
Turns out I was going through menopause.

(02:23:56):
They wanted to give me Zoloft. You look at the symptoms of
salt, the the side effects of Zoloft and they're like thoughts
of suicide. You.
Think mood swings was bad Thoughts.
Of suicide is worse. I'll take mood swings.
For 1000. Alex, thank you.
Well, I mean, look at it. All the commercials, I mean.

(02:24:17):
You know, like all the side effects for any drug are fucking
crazy, man. You, you, you know, it's like,
some of them are like trade off.It's a trade off.
Yeah, some of them are like. You.
You may have suicidal. Thoughts.
No thank you. No, thank you.
Sometimes, you know, and you know, and for me, I just feel

(02:24:40):
like I want to save that stuff for the people who actually need
it. And do I need type 2 diabetes
medication? I 100% do.
Do I need Zoloft? I 100% do not.
Oh, OK. Are you saying I need Zoloft?
No, I. Don't know, fuck.
I'm just. Saying I don't fucking know what

(02:25:00):
about I'm not a doctor, althoughI am pretty good at diagnosing
people with certain fucking conditions.
Like that's besides the point. I don't know.
Like, you know, you have a superpower.
No, I don't. Got a superpower?
I'm just. I don't know, never mind forget
I said anything. But I, I'm bipolar, so I take
Celexa and Quentinopream or someshit.

(02:25:21):
What do you take, Anita? What do you think I take a
laundry? List.
Of drugs a laundry list prescription or like yeah
prescription I am also bipolar Itake.
Abilify. And era.
Peripheral bipolar one or two? The one where I'm more.

(02:25:46):
Manic, I think it's. One SO.
But. I know.
Bipolar one is the bad one. Bipolar 2 is like the softer
one. I'm bipolar 2, so I'm more,
yeah, I'm more manic. OK, then maybe it's two.
Yeah. Yeah, cuz bipolar 1.
Is the people that like. You know, like, no matter what,

(02:26:08):
they cannot fucking get out of bed.
Like it's really fucking yeah, Yeah, that's yeah.
That's sad, I do. Have.
Anxiety but I don't take. Anything for it I I've.
I mean, I guess I've had some debilitating.
Episodes, but through time I've been able to work through them

(02:26:29):
and not that I think that I'm better than anyone else.
This is in no way shape, form orfashion saying that I shouldn't
be taking medications. I'm just saying, you know, for
me, if I get to a point where like I become completely life
dysfunctional, then I'll be willing to take a prescription.
But it for me, I just don't takeprescriptions because my mom's a

(02:26:49):
hippie and so she never gave us anything as kids.
And so I just kind of grew up not wanting to.
Take any types. Of pills, even when I get my
teeth done, it takes a lot for me to take a pain pill.
Like they'll prescribe Percocets, Darvocets,
Oxycontins, all that kind of stuff.
And I'm like, Nah, I'm not goingto take it unless I'm so much in

(02:27:10):
pain that I can't sleep or function.
But, and that's just me being stubborn.
It has nothing to do with, you know, I don't believe in
prescriptions. I just.
I feel like it it's got to be extreme circumstances for me
because I don't like putting foreign substances in my body.
Now food on the other hand, Oh OK, I'll eat that shit all day.

(02:27:33):
Those are the only. Foreign substances I like to put
in my in my body food. I'm an I'm an addict and and
dude spunk. You like it, right?
That too, I definitely. Like to swallow?
Yeah, She swallowed it, Yeah. What about you, Anita?
Are you a spitter? Or a swallower.

(02:27:53):
You're a swallower, Swallower. Nice, good, good.
One of the things. That my that I love doing with.
My partner is being like pull itout and cum in my mouth.
And. He goes.
Bananas. He loves it.
He's like, no one really does that.
And I'm like, Oh yeah, I love itwhen you come in the.

(02:28:22):
Mouth. That's the way to make a room
quiet. I've got a confession to make
church. I like come in my mouth and I
don't. Yeah, especially, you know, I
was talking to my mom today. My mom's religious.
She's going to eat. To church tomorrow for Easter.
Like I should go and be like. I like big jizz and I cannot.

(02:28:49):
Lie. Yeah.
Such fucking dirty birds, you. Guys are we are, but we're
having so much fun. Unfortunately, we've been at
this for 2 1/2 hours. Anita has a shift to get to yes.
I know. I know sometimes I.

(02:29:11):
Sometimes I don't want to go. But I force myself.
At least you don't have to drivethrough traffic.
That's another thing. Another pro to working from home
and working this type of job is that there's no like you don't
have to have a car, you don't have to have insurance You don't
have. Like I know for me, it used to
drive me insane that I had to have a car, had to have

(02:29:32):
insurance, had to keep gas in it, rush to get to work on time.
And Lord knows I got a couple oftickets along the way because I
love to wait to leave to the last minute, run into a little
bit of traffic. And it's like, shit, if I'm late
again, I'm going to lose my job.So I'd be like.
Yeah, so pro. We should do a long list.

(02:29:55):
Anita, we should do all the. Pros and cons?
Let's make a list, yeah? And check it twice.
Yeah, that would. Hey, not everything lands, even
for. Dave Chappelle, Come on, man.
No, it's all right. It's all I thought about it

(02:30:15):
after the fact, like. I was mid, mid sentence or mid,
you know, mid song. And I was like, maybe not a good
idea. But.
Anyways, thank you so much for being with us Anita we loved
having you on the Cam Girl Diary.
This is the first time that we've done a Co hosting together
and I did not give him. Any information about you?

(02:30:37):
Prior, how did that work out foryou?
For me, yeah. Oh, I liked it because it was.
Almost like I was. A viewer like learning about
Anita and shit, so it was kind of fun.
Yeah. You know, I was like learning
along with the viewers and shit.So yeah, I like, yeah, I just
came in and took over. You know, like the.
Like the controlling boss bitch that I am stole the show at

(02:31:02):
gunpoint. I'm such.
A bitch God. No, you're not.
I'm a bitch. But.
It was fun, you know, I got to learn about Anita and shit so
for sure. But thank you so much for.
Joining us, Anita, let everybodyknow where they can find you.
On socials you can find me. Everywhere at Anita ex Valentina

(02:31:25):
on everything make it nice and simple.
For you. Now that is pretty simple and
that's. How it should?
Be Yeah, I wish it. Was I've lost some of the
accounts? I've got the queen of BBW,
Platinum PUZZY, the number one. Yeah, I got a bunch of shit.
Carrie's Closet X like, yeah. So just look at Platinum PUZZY

(02:31:48):
on Google. You'll find me many, many pages.
You might even find my old video.
Do you mind if I stroke you up? Don't.
Mind. So I just wanted to say thank
you so much for everybody. Who's watching?
It's a pleasure to bring you allthis wonderful Cam girl diary,

(02:32:11):
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right? Yeah, that's a whole.
Fucking thing. No, it's.

(02:32:31):
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