Pros and Cons Of Being a Cam Girl: Is The Money Worth It?

Ever wondered about the realities of being a cam girl? Beyond the flashing lights and online personas, what does life in front of the webcam truly entail? In this tell-all episode, we're joined by the candid and insightful Anita Valentina and Platinum Puzzy for a deep dive into the world of camming. We're asking the tough questions and getting brutally honest answers about the pros, the cons, and the all-important bottom line: is the money really worth it?

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Episode Transcript

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If you haven't started in this industry, definitely be aware of
that before you get into this business because once you spread
it and put it on the Internet, your cooter bop is on there
forever. Like anything that you do in
life, there's going to be pros and cons.

(00:20):
The cons of this job is that we are one of the most ripped
apart, judged people on the faces planet.
Doing sex work makes it a targetfor serial killers, serial
rappers, the law enforcement, you know, people who love to
judge scorned wives, rejected husbands and men.

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Like there's a lot of people that just hate sex workers for a
multitude of reasons. So there's that.
So like Anita said, you have to have tough skin.
But there are a lot of pros and those pros are one we get to
make our own schedule. We get up when we want to get
up, we go to bed when we want togo to bed, and we can travel

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abroad as we see fit because ourjob can be done from anywhere in
the world. Although we are getting ready to
do a seminar talking about things that you should and
should not do if you are traveling the world because
there are some laws in some other countries that you can go
to prison for having porn on your phone.
But that's not the point in thisconversation.
So being able to travel abroad is fantastic.

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Secondly, you are in charge of how much money you make.
No one tells you you make $10.00an hour.
You make as much or as little asyou want.
One of the cons would also be that it does cause conflict with
family members sometimes. My advice for that is I don't
let my family dictate what I do in my life anyway.
So take it or leave it. You can love me unconditionally

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or you can kindly fuck off. So that works really well for me
and I, you know, I don't care ifanyone accepts what I do or
don't do. Another con is if you're working
with other people and you're notgetting tested or not working
with safe people that are also getting tested and you're doing

(02:16):
fluid exchange or sexual acts, whether it be on Cam or in film
or just in general, it can be risky and dangerous.
So I definitely recommend being selective and careful and
getting tested and working with tested partners in this industry
or, you know, in this line of work and even outside of this

(02:38):
work. Like I definitely recommend if
you're having sex, you should begetting tested, period, and
being safe. What are some other pros, Anita?
Some of the people that you needcool people.
Look at that. That's How I Met Anita.

(02:59):
Yeah. And I love her.
Long time, love you long time. Love you long time, 'cause me
Soho. Nay, yeah.
Sookie. Sookie, that's what.
I'm talking hold on, it's not working.
Hold on. Oh, wrong side.

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I was on the wrong side. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
I got my OK cooter bop. I will say one of the other pros
for me was finding my confidence, building my self
esteem, and learning a bunch of skills that give me the ability

(03:43):
to freelance and work independently for the rest of my
life, whether I'm in this industry or not.
Another seminar that we're goingto work on is like building your
resume and taking the things that you learn from this
industry and developing those skills and talents into things
that can make you money forever.Yeah, I overcame my fear of

(04:08):
public speaking and now I get onstage in front of thousands and
thousands of people to host the the fashion show.
And I do seminars and, you know,I can, I can be the entertainer
that I want to be pro. There's lots of pros.

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There's more pros and cons, I think.
I think so I also think that it it makes a big difference when
you go about things and look forthe positives instead of always
micro focusing on negatives. Because if you want to find a
negative, that's easy. Finding negatives in situations
is always easy. But it's, you know, finding the

(04:48):
positives and then expanding on those positives.
And you know, I've been in situations where I could have
certainly been like, oh, I'm done.
This was, you know, not the bestsituation, but.
Well, I also as a pro for, as anoutsider, I think one of the
pros for you guys is like, you know, like with your, you know,

(05:12):
like building your confidence and all that stuff.
Like you could like if you stop today doing everything you guys
are doing, you could probably, you could probably easily get
into some other business. You know what I mean?
Because like, you're, you guys are like, you know, you're
obviously entrepreneurs and you're fucking like, like Anita,
like you were saying, like in the beginning, like, you know,

(05:33):
you're a fucking Rook and you know, you're, you're all passive
and shit, right? But like, then you found your
fucking confidence and you were fucking telling people like it
is and shit. And you know, you know what I'm
trying to say. Yeah.
It's, it's very, it's very freeing and empowering is the

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right word, empowering to know that one, this business is not
going anywhere. So if you did decide, OK, I
don't want to do this anymore, I'm going to venture off into
nine to five world. If that didn't work out, which
one of the cons I will say, OK, so there's a couple more cons
that I thought about. One of the cons is once you're

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on the Internet, you're forever on the Internet.
So going back out into nine to five world means you run the
risk of someone finding your past escapades and could use
that against you. Some some jobs that you get,
consider that to be a conflict of interest.
So bear that in mind if you haven't started in this
industry, definitely be aware ofthat before you get into this

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business because once you spreadit and put it on the Internet,
your cooter bop is on there forever.
There's a thing called Wayback Machine, and no matter how much
you control alt delete and try to get rid of that shit, it's on
the Internet somewhere. Thanks for watching, be sure to
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