February 15, 2023 • 37 mins
In this episode, Cate and Erik sit down (finally) get back down to Infinite Quest business with a very meandering episode. Cate has anxiety about meandering and Erik has *feelings*, and we discuss the pros and cons of drawing genitalia on various planetary bodies and how sometimes being honest can be a bit messy.
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That's weird. There's like music happening
right now. That's that's not usually how
the show goes. I don't, I don't understand.
Well, luckily, I do. So, my microphone has a very
long XLR cable that connects it to my computer, which sometimes
acts like a big ol radio antenna, and it picks up radio
signals. So, you might notice that
throughout this episode, my voice sounds, a little like, it
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was recorded on like a Game Boy,or something like that.
That's because, after recording we noticed that my mic was
picking up the radio the entire time, which I can kind of edit
out. But also like, at its Out a lot
of like vocal quality stuff. So anyways, if you notice that,
my voice sounds different, that's why and I frankly just
thought it was cool. So I decided to tell you that
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happens, it happens a surprisingamount honestly, surprising
amount. We have ferrite rods or ferrite.
What are they called tubes? Or whatever.
That you like clip around the cord.
So I just got to tack on a couple more of those to
hopefully prevent the radio fromgoing on.
Anyways, back to the show, Here Comes theme music by
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I feel like my little ritual before we start recording or
once after we start recording before we actually start is very
like, as the same energy of Bailey, like getting into bed at
night when she like, does like 14 little laps just because
she's gotta, you know, like I'm sitting the same way that I
would have been sitting but I had to adjust it reminds to be
sure of when I was in high school and everybody had their
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like pre-show drama club ritual that they took like very fucking
serious. SLI.
That's what did they used to go?Like her like that.
There's always like warm up. Yeah.
There's like, you know, you do the vocal but then there's those
like, they'll like it. Like the weird like you do like
little dancer. You like touch the spot on the
wall or whatever. It's like that.
It reminds me of that. I think I'm in do it again.
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Seems that space. Just want to let everybody know
that thanks to our friends at Logitech, I'm using a new
microphone. So if you're listening to
podcast you like why does Kate sound different?
It's because our friends a Logitech semi.
From that and this feels really bored in distress.
Smells exactly like the inside of a Best Buy.
It does smell like handling markedly.
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Like I know that's not the point.
Thanks Logitech. But it does smell like a Best
Buy and I just, it's so specificthat it's like, fascinating to
me. I realized, I always thought it
was log attack. You know, like Robert Loggia and
like a logic puzzle, you know, like the rapper Logic.
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Are you fucking with me so worried?
I was like oh shit I couldn't think of other words that have a
low and then a soft G logic. Lodge Lodge.
Oh that's a DJ send us. Your email list of suggestions.
I'd ask it if their Quest podcast.com so everybody,
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welcome back. Finally kind of to any question
any question? Back then the momentum back
after several months of talking about, not a good few more.
Can I just be like real artist? Yeah, one I have been changing.
My antidepressants, it's going better.
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Question, mark. Question, mark question.
It's a weird ellipses. You say ellipses?
Wild sir. Do you have to say, ellipses for
each of the position one? Because that's a one of them is
a period of ellipses in the lips.
He's right. I do three ellipse.
Ellipses ellipse that benign periods.
Anyway, it's an ATM machine not doing what I would call amazing.
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Also Tick Tock is continues to just do that thing.
It does instead that it does andso things aren't great and I'm
sort of in this like I'm pretentiously calling it a
season of change because I'm just sort of like figuring out
more of what I actually want to be doing what that actually
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looks like. Like and so I'm hoping to get
back to more regular content soon, but basically I was not
okay. I was very much not.
Okay and now I am slightly more.Okay?
And so I'm hoping that the upswing is that I will be okay,
but we're all in this together where we are Zac Efron, who see
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it as really good. What hair?
That was as long as well. I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
You know, I love you so much, sweetie.
I like how you always say. I'm sorry, like, you haven't
been next to me every single Every single day that's the
thing is like I feel like this is absolutely not surprised you
know I'm here for you babe but what another thing I think one
of the reasons that it's hard todo a podcast when you're not
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doing well not you specifically when one is not doing well is
because we well I always talk about.
Yeah and I'm being genuine like we're not going to pretend
anything like that's not what wedo.
And so for feeling like shit andshitty and we record then it's
just going to be a podcast aboutfeeling shit in.
Shitty, which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
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But like, you know, we don't want to just we know you you all
have your own lives and what notgoing on and you know you don't
necessarily want to every time listen to a podcast about
somebody else who's also who's like also has their lives who is
doing chitti you know me too. I mean I've also been kind of
going through it lately too. So when I figured boobs is what
about what? If in this episode we
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acknowledge that we feel shitty,okay?
But then we genuinely fuck aboutinstead, you want to fuck about,
you know what I mean? Like, You know, when you really
sad. So things just start being
funny, you know, we're like thatkind of thing so quick.
Another, another name for shelf shelf.
Wally holder boy board strip. Cool.
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Book Library, that's another name for pizzas.
Go round each, he's boys Circle,pepperoni holders, nice.
Sausage. So this is a fun game are
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working. I made up where you just wait
until someone is in the middle of something and then yell, hey,
another word for and then just pick anything and it's very
funny and it's very fun. Every time.
Okay, another word for light bulb, go lightbulb, glowy Global
the book glass glow, orb, or be beans.
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I'm like, yes, this is my answer.
And then the second, I'm like, be funnier.
And then, third one. I'm like, all you fucked it.
I was just like the first one I got and then the second one in
like, I've established a trend. So I realize like my crutch,
like, oh, I say the word, you know, I rely on the shape of the
object too much. And then so I overthink
certainly overthinking. Yeah.
Eric, no other name for hat. Go head.
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Crown. Head sock.
Cranial Dome. That's pretty good.
That's pretty good, that's pretty good cranial.
Do my like that bloom. I think that's actually just
part of your head. Your cranium.
Your well, isn't it? I think it's just called your
cranium. I know it's made up of what is a
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cranial Dome. The cranial Dome is trying to
provide surgeons with reconstructive option for large
cranial defects. I told you it was a thing.
Oh, so it's on a Part of the body, but it's like a it's like,
you know, you have like, you know, when you have
reconstructive surgery on your skull, you know, like in like
the war, they talked about how they had like metal in their
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skull. They put like the little, yeah,
I'm over the. So the brain wasn't in the air,
your brain is in the air all thetime.
Well, side it is it really, and truly is the part of your your
nose that smells stuff is calledthe olfactory receptor cell,
okay? And it is made up of brain.
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It's like brain neurons. So like there's a part of your
brain effectively at all times that's exposed to the outside
air and it's the part of you that smells.
That's why smell memories are sovivid because it doesn't have to
go through any other part of your central nervous system to
get to your brain. It's just literally your brain
itself smells stuff. Pretty cool olfactory receptor
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cell which is also white mucus has nuts.
Good antibacterial properties because your brain is just
exposed to the world all the time and your mucus is one of
the ways that rents getting nasties and stuff.
Let's make a new role where we don't talk about mucus on the
podcast, lots of fun more, but Ijust made a hit another word for
that word. We're not going to say anymore.
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Go, it's not another. It was terrible.
That is true. Yeah, that's a gross one
glasses. Go see holes.
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No. See holes, you one, you win.
That's, that's the end of the game.
Okay, you win for all time. Another word for pants legs.
Gloves to tubes world pass why? Because there's very few places
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in the world. You can go Without pants.
Well yes leg covering World passfor everything else.
There's MasterCard That's good. You should thank you.
You should call Samuel L Jackson.
I was at Capital One, I feel like I shouldn't say the names
of credit card companies on the podcast, unless they're paying
us sponsored by credit card. As I was about to say, I would
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never take a credit card companysponsorship and I feel like the
Always Sunny like title card pops up, and it goes like, Eric
takes a credit card. Don't need to pee like a lot.
So much fucking money. I mean because this one is
(10:30):
things, if they let's like I'm just let's say they go.
Hey, Katie Derek. If you do one mid-roll ad for
you know, Mastercard or something will give you a
hundred million dollars a year, and then I would also be very
transparent would be like, hey, infinite Quest, we have bills,
we're going to take the sponsorship, use it, or don't?
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Well, then you can because MasterCard if you want, but you
don't have to as you could. could I mean, I even survived
like you only need You know point one percent of that 100
million to like just live your life and then you could use the
rest of it to do. Good stuff the Charities.
So then it's like, haha, Master cards are in fact Quest
Foundation what we call the infinite question nation.
(11:12):
In fact, I thought that sounds quest Quest, being of quest,
name stuff, Foundation. I think this is kind of old news
now, but the Oculus Quest is like, working on making their be
like a Minecraft. Thing like in the actual thing
like because right now to play Minecraft on VR you have to like
do a bunch of shit. Yeah.
(11:32):
So they're working on like a version of Minecraft that's
meant to be kind of ER and it's for the Oculus Quest and so
they're calling it Quest Craft. Which is what are ya?
Why? So I hear this Minecraft server
which by the way if you'd like to join email us I need to Quest
crafted now when you search Quest, Craft, all that stuff
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comes up, it used to be that like people's videos and stuff
would come up and was correct. It's just all the know.
It's all Mark Zuckerberg bullshit.
God damn it grinds my gears, whatever.
Shout out to questions, who cares?
That's fine. Also there's a new biome being
introduced in 1.2 ohm. You just told him.
I didn't know. Is it's cherry blossom.
That's cool. It's pretty.
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I bet there's going to be like particles that float down like
the petals. I hope so.
That's gonna be. So nice, very excited about it.
What to make for dinner tonight again?
Oh, happy Valentine's Day. By the way.
Yeah, I already said that to you, but to you dear listener,
if you were person who cares about Valentine's Day then,
Happy Valentine's Day person whodoesn't care about Happy
Valentine's Day. Then fuck Valentine's Day.
It's just a happy Tuesday. And so, the Hallmarks of thing
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that Hallmark uses to sell cards.
Yeah, that's pretty much it and Chocolate, and chocolates and
very, did you give me any chocolate final?
I didn't get to it. That's okay.
I you've told me several times you told me many times that you
don't want to like doing stuff for Valentine's Day.
It's like, don't I still feel kind of bad until you're sure.
But I also know that if I start doing that then there's like
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precedent and it's just going togo try every year.
Exactly. And I don't want you to ever
have to. Thank you.
You know, I know you love me, you don't have to remind me,
why? I mean it's amazing.
Your might be out to a nice dinner.
Yeah, what's the name of the thing you're cooking tonight?
Again? They don't.
I remember watching. Oh, also, there's a new season
of great Pottery Throwdown. Fuck you are.
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Is they got a tick tock account.They got to take, are you going?
Oh my God, one step closer. You can see from the Pod.
I know it's going to happen. So excited and Keith fucking
love. The great potteries or down.
We got it so good we ever do getpottery wheels know or we never
did go back to pottery class. We went once and then we forgot
feel bad. I hope the teacher doesn't think
it was because of that, they were, they were delightful.
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We just, you know, it was not a learning environment in which I
could thrive. Yeah, I mean, I would have
preferred a bit more structure. Yeah, you know, which is where
he's like, fuck around and find out is cool.
But I was like, no, no, no. I need like a syllable.
Like I need there to be like a, here's what you're learning on
day one because Jesus Christ. We are coughing today, are
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coughing, guys. Yo, to be nice.
If it was like, the teacher on the wheel and then like the
students on the wheel and the teacher would be like you thing
that we look at this. What I'm doing, but buddy but
bit about but that was sort of like you'd show up and you'd be
like will you teach me how to whatever which is not a bad
learning environment but it's not what I was looking for in
that. Yeah, instance.
Also the septic tank. I finally came today and he dug
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up a bunch of dirt in the backyard and it's just this
beautiful red clay. And also, I don't know why I'm
so bothered by this. But he told me this.
He's never found a body. Oh yeah, I feel like I stepped
it. I feel like if you're digging
out SEPTA ties all the time. At least once True Crime
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podcast, true credit report, true crampons know and we're
coming for you but I don't know.I feel like if you're burying a
body then it would be wise of you to do it deliberately not
where the septic tank is becausethat's the one spot that you
know for sure is going to add some point yet dig up, you know,
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It's also like right outside thehouse, the septic tank that's
got to be, that's a good one. I want I know this was, it
definitely wasn't my original thought boat.
Somebody said the best ways to very body is underneath a
coffin. So like if there's a grave dug
for a burial, like the next day,like you go, that night was
like, a whole there is some showor like, that was.
I think I was, I was like the mowas it Dexter?
(15:29):
I feel like, Dexter Dexter. Anyway, welcome back to our do
True Crime. Can I try and solve crimes?
Yeah, actually. Okay, so this is, I feel like
his kind of ease in ease and, onin Things episode.
Yeah, that's what we recall. Do we throw it in the garbage?
(15:52):
Throw it in the garbage is podcast.
Oh, no. I don't think you're throwing
garbage. Okay, what do you mean?
Were you do you think we should throw in the garbage can to do
dear listener? email us and tell us if you
think we should throw this episode in the garbage TK
because they couldn't because they're listening to it, than we
didn't. You know, sometimes I worry that
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we're not educational enough andthat people are going to get mad
at us. I mean, I don't that's fine
because like, I mean, being educational is a good thing, you
know, but like I think, We should let the podcast become
what it is. You know what?
(16:34):
You guys are saying that two years.
And you know, and then like onceit becomes what it is.
Then we'll I guess start adding more spices and stuff like that.
Yeah, but I think the tonal coreof it is, you know, is
essential, that's fair. You know I'm saying?
And plus, I mean, I think I wantto make people's lives better
and you can do that by educatingpeople but you can also do that
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by giving them some bullshit to listen to.
Yeah, well they're driving home from work and walk.
I mean, I think we're all the time when I'm like consuming
content of any kind, is it a lotof times?
It will be like, I'll be enjoying it.
Whether it's a YouTube video or podcast, I'll be enjoying it.
And I think, wow, if I made this, I would be like, wow, that
sucks, because I'd be like, judging myself born and be like.
This isn't what I but like here I am in losing the biogas and
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I'm fucking glad they posted it because otherwise I wouldn't
have, you know. what to do rightnow, you know, so feel like you
judge yourself more because of your ADHD Yeah. yeah, I think so
but I also Do the opposite of judging myself more because of
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my HD, you know? No, I don't know.
Well, so, I think my brain is trying to extract Engagement
from everything, okay? From the projects, I'm working
on the things, I'm looking at whatever.
And one way to engage with something is by hating on it
another way to engage or something is by liking it?
Yeah, I think about why it's cool.
So if I'm trying to squeeze as much as I can out of something
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then yes I'm going to judge it more but I'm also going to
praise it more because I'm trying to squeeze all the
thoughts. I possibly can get about of this
thing. I mean I think I judge myself
more than I praise myself but I don't think that's because of my
age. PhD.
And I think I judge myself a lotless now than I did five years
ago because practice Speedy practice that's Fascinating.
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Do you think you judge yourself more because you're ready, G.
I think I just judge myself. Like, I don't know if it's
because of my ADHD or not. But I'm I feel like I'm coming
to realize how like Significantly, the pressure and
expectations, I put on myself and like, maybe they aren't as
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reasonable as I originally like,as I've as I thought.
Well, that's good. Maybe, I don't know.
I mean, I think that's good. I think expecting for yourself
is like, I think a good thing todo, like I expect myself to be
kind and stuff like that. Yeah.
But All the stuff aside from that of like being kind and
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being doing right by the people around you like those things, I
think that's good to expect yourself but things like
expecting a certain I don't knowwhat the word is like a certain
speed on a trajectory you know like I want to be president by
30 whatever it like all that stuff is fine but it's also your
choice to do that, you know? Like you're doing that, not use
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it. But one does that to oneself and
you can do that. Deliberately or you can do that
compulsively. And I think a lot of the people
that I see really struggle with the expect, their expectations
of themselves is because they'renot aware of half of them,
they're just know that they're there and they're know that
they're not good enough, you know?
So the in the, in the AlcoholicsAnonymous program, they talk
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about how everybody's running a program.
It's just, did you write it or was it just written by default
over the course of your life? You know, like your Then season
your habits and your thoughts cycles and your cognitive
dissonance has, like everybody has those things hopefully, as
little cognitive dissonance possible, like everybody has
habits and tendencies and stuff like that.
But to those just emerge, or didyou set them deliberately?
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Which I was, that was really interesting.
When you say program, do you mean like a computer, or do you
mean like, I think like a computer like the program
because I because I also know what's called the program.
Yeah, it's got confused. I mean, I've heard it meant both
ways, but another thing, I learned in therapy from one of
my better therapists. She said, take what you can Li
use in, fuck the rest. I always say leave the rest
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because it's, but she said, FuckThe Rest.
The like which I think about allthe time if you're like in a
workshop and it's like a largelybullshit.
Well yeah, there's probably liketwo or three parts in an art
bullshit. You shouldn't sacrifice those
because the rest of it, I'll take those fuck the rest.
Speaking of water Taco I would feel like I'm being of
workshops. Yeah, you want to do?
You want to tell people? We've had such a weird month.
(21:09):
We have a strange Monty. Yeah, so I would respond my
train. We we are we are on a train and
we were at a workshop that was not mostly bullshit was actually
mostly very very good. I liked it very much a very good
time. Do you want to tell people about
it? No I just talked to a whole time
yours. I mean I'll do it if you want me
to but that's right. You can you can you talk?
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I just talked for an hour or twoAustralia, and I'm tired.
It's true. It's my necklace be tired for
from I know, I had to talk upside down.
Tacos is Australia's up, sit down.
Am I the first person to make that joke?
I think I'm happy. We know.
So we went to the fuck. Are we doing?
Um, there was this Workshop. It was called The Wheel of
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consent. The wheel consent is this
fascinating. System called a model model.
I don't know. It's a thing.
It's a thing that was designed as a woman named Betty Martin,
and it's about discussing desireand wants and needs and how we
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articulate them and how they work, and how they don't work,
and how sometimes they can untilI drew it on the paper.
Also, just for dear listener, you need to know Eric just took
a picture of it and throw it. The floor in front of us.
I was, it was a drawing of it. I'm flattered.
You thought it was fiction, but it was, it was really, it was
(22:34):
really edifying. It was really cool.
We met some very cool people. And yeah, it was, it was good.
I got a lot out of it, but it was interesting because I hadn't
done anything like that in like a minute, like just been in
student brain, you know, like just kind of like, okay, we're
here to learn here, to get out of my comfort zone and like,
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that was amazing. Like that was good.
Yeah, I forgot how much I missedthat.
I know I was like, being in a place in like I'm going to know
a thing is that I don't know. Now, in five hours.
But when I leave here tonight? Yeah.
What do I have to school? I think.
Yeah, I know that I shouldn't, but I really want to go back to
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school. I don't actually want to, I just
want the structures. What do you think you shouldn't?
Because you don't like someone who just wants a structure?
I just I mean because I don't even put those words in your
mouth. It's no secret.
I mean the real truth is like a lot like There are parts of
school that I love and there's parts of school that I hate and
I feel like the reward of learning is something that I
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could do like doing like the free courses on like Harvard or,
you know, like whatever like it doesn't have to be, I don't have
to get another degree to learn, but it doesn't feel like
official. I mean I don't I don't want to
say that you shouldn't go back to school and I mean to imply
(24:01):
that but I want to get my doctorate.
That's pretty cool. Yeah, dr.
Kate, I know it is what? Yeah, I don't know.
I just keep thinking about that like, hey, you know, there was
another famous doctor. I was born if I can Green
Goblin, there was. That's pretty cool.
Yeah, Norman Osborn yeah. Baby fly around on a little ice
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core little segue. Yeah.
Because I mean, I'm not saying Ithink you shoot but you know, I
don't think you shouldn't go back to school.
I think you should do whatever the fuck you want with your
life. Problem is, is that if I did,
whatever the fuck I want to do with my life right now, I would
just go to bed for like three weeks and not do anything else
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about. That's right.
I can't. Why shouldn't you do that?
As I gotta take Bailey for walks.
I gotta feed my dog. That's true.
But I could, I do, you know. I'd help with that.
You have to do, you know? Okay.
So like let's say you just took care of Bailey and lay in bed
all the time. Okay.
Why shouldn't you do that? Because I have stuff to do I've
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like interviews and stuff. Hmm.
Yes I can't come by. I'm a diagnostic you do like I
did today. That's a no.
I mean, I do feel like the idea of like a mental health day
where you just sort of lays around which is very necessary
for a lot of people fucking do it.
Man. I have seen you do it.
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We've had great times lying around building forts.
Yeah. But the real like I think the
thing that I realized is that like I can't do nothing I have
to do something and if it's like, oh, we're going to build a
fort are, you know, whatever. But like I can't not do anything
like that time. I remember when I went to the
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Each. It was like the worst.
I went to California to be go tothe beach ago.
I was no. And you know what?
Yeah, when I went to California for that thing, it was terrible.
I can't go just go to the beach because I was like, I don't have
iy, what am I doing? Like, I did enjoy it harder and
I was just like, okay, so he's like, I have to have like a
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task, no, you know, it was like ball.
So like one of the things that I've realized is that doing
stuff, If around the house makesme really happy.
So like fixing stuff up. Really building like shelves or
whatever. Like that shit makes me so happy
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and then I'm sad because I'm like, I made my content about
like, ADHD and I could have justbeen like, you know, there's a
thousand DIY, YouTube channel there, whatever.
But this is, like, maybe that's my content shift for 2020
threes. Like hey, I'm gonna fix up my
house. Yeah, I think you should.
I I mean, I, you know, I don't, I'm not a huge fan of you
(26:50):
because you talk about ADHD or because you're talking about sex
in order version, I'm a huge fanof you because you're Katie.
I mean, you trying to Katie. Yeah.
I think people would want to seeyou do.
Whatever I would I do. Thanks, you're very welcome.
Also her datings also we are dating.
We had to come up with a better name.
The date was a stupid or data. Scan my boyfriend come.
(27:14):
Yes. Yeah, we're having a poly
Valentine's Day today, probably Valentine's.
I mean it's easy for me because I only have one partner but for
you and Chris you guys have to He's gonna do, you know, I know
throw magic cards out of should do is I should take some of the
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magic cards that he has then I should have wrap them and give
them to him as a gift and see ifhe notices, I don't know why.
I also wonder, like, I don't think you would.
I think I can get away with it for, like, five Christmases.
Yeah, you probably could well more than current.
Like, I wonder how much how often crisp?
Like, how many magic cards wouldyou say?
Chris opens in like a month at least 1,000 using 1000.
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So easy really. Wow, how often do you think he
comes across when he doesn't already have?
I genuinely no idea. I feel like there's at least
like a couple and you know what I mean?
Like I think an in a given packet.
Think it's extremely unlikely that he opened he finds one?
He doesn't already have? Yeah I mean I would say I think
it's like a that's a good question for him.
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I genuinely don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
Because I mean, there's like rare boys, you know?
Because that's what you get all the packs is because you want to
find like rare boy, right? Yeah.
I don't know. We also have a laser cutter now
so we could get the paper and just make, we can make much.
Each other encourage court, so it's a really good idea.
That would be funny as see if wecan get a fake that fools Chris.
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Yeah. That'd be a fun game.
Yeah, I feel bad though, becauselike that's a letdown if we get
him like that. It's a black lotus is like the
super one because he would thinkit was real for at least a
second. You know.
I don't know. I think he'd be like bullshit.
Yeah, I think. Yeah.
No. Yeah, no.
I think he went to, it would be funny to just put like a boner
and it like, every single famousMagic.
The Gathering card. A boner.
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Yeah. This have like a black lotus,
but there's a powder on it. It.
What do you like draw Boehner? Yeah, you know, like okay.
It's like draw a little powder on it.
I think. That'd be really funny.
I'm very mature. Oh yeah.
Did I love drone bonus? It's one of my favorite things
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to do. Eight equal sign D.
Yeah, my my friend shout out to Sarah.
Hi. Sarah.
Sent me a picture, like, two days ago of a notebook that I
made for her, for Christmas. I think what I like, I made a
book and bound it and I gave it to her and I wrote a really nice
note in it just you know, remember anything and then I
drew a dick on the bottom. So she's she said me, she's like
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I just only know I still have this and I was reading it and
yeah there's a dick on it. It was really nice.
That was like you know what. Cool.
All right. That's cool.
I like that myself is being myself, you know.
I think it's important to be genuine and I'm pretty good at
it, too. Being genuine and drawing dicks?
Yeah. Well those things?
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Pretty good. Yeah, I think I drew it in the
snow one time at at Interlockingand boarding school, it would
snow. And there's like this really big
field and so I just like to watch.
I mean, the like practice field was like right outside my dorm
and so I definitely did that at least once in college is like, a
thing is like, we'd all like be like racing out there to be like
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the first person to like put it on the field like really, you
see how you just like look out the window.
Be all these kids like shufflingaround like Coordinate to make,
like a really big one. Like, like, okay, everybody go
over here, the 50-yard line. Like, the whole thing we come
marching band, like yeah, it waslike, it was I saying, I think,
I probably told the story in thepodcast before, but I know for
certain that there is at least one drawing of a dick on Mars
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because I met one of the operators for the Curiosity
Rover. And I was like, hey, so when
you're driving it around like ever, like make a dick out of
the tracks, and I was like, joking and goes, oh yeah.
Like what? And he's like one you do it a
lot. Like it's really slow and we
have to go very far. So like you do it a lot and then
when you get to a place you justneed to take samples from like
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five different locations. In a whatever, whatever radius
was like, it doesn't matter, it will in a lot of cases.
It doesn't matter where in that spot.
Like, it could be any, you just have to go to a different spot.
Always like, yeah, why wouldn't you just like, circle, circle
line, circle, circle line, you know, and so there you go, it
breaks. My heart to know that since
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there's an atmosphere on Mars. It's probably been, like, blown
away. But like, if it were on the
moon, then it would be there forever.
There's also a dick on the moon actually, is it really?
Yeah. How do you know this?
There was a like, it was like a plaque or something or maybe was
like a one of the astronauts brought a picture or something
like that but they wanted signatures from like notable
humans. Okay, one of them was Andy
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Warhol and so Andy Warhol found out a way to make his signature
look as much like a dick as possible and then use that.
Our, which is now in the moment.That's like that's the type of
energy that I would bring into being an astronaut, secondly,
the dicks, can I smuggle the space?
I mean, I can't, but how did your fucking Buzz?
Aldrin and you know Armstrong Neil Armstrong like how do you
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not just like take your foot andyou real quick just like he's a
little bit. Yeah, you know, although the
name of this episode is going tobe dicks on the moon, they
Saloon because we can that's awesome.
But I have anxiety about this episode.
Really? Yeah, I get it so uncomfortable.
Durable when we don't have a structure, which is really funny
because you're always like, nah,man, let it roll.
(32:43):
But like, I feel like that's where we're at odds.
I think that is consistently where we're at odds?
But I think we the middle Zone that we get to is.
Yeah, it's pretty good. You know, you know this is it
you thought in Louisiana on it? He's on back.
Yeah. Should we announced the thing?
We should figure it out with Shawn or I don't know, I don't
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know. Okay.
Is that the thing that you're talking about?
Yeah, okay, okay, yeah, I don't know.
I think we should know to figureout.
Figure out exactly what it's going to be okay because we're
still. Yeah.
But you know. Okay.
I don't know. That's that's what I think.
I'll do you want to know that. We I'm happy to missing.
We definitely, I don't care. Okay, I'm going to say part of
it. Okay.
Okay. Important infinite Quest
(33:25):
announcement that I did sound effects.
You're welcome. It was good.
It was really good, really good.Thank you.
So we are super, super excited. Because after a lot of
discussion and all sorts of coolgood stuff, we are going to be
coffin through the goddamn announcement.
(33:45):
Yeah, you know what are you doing?
We are going to be partnering this coming year with geek
Therapeutics, they're going to become our podcast sponsor for
2023. Hey, you're really excited about
and if you don't know what he care products is there an
incredible organization And theyoffer basically certifications
(34:09):
to, you know, clinicians social workers.
Just people. People humans in general, who
want to use geek therapy to sortof assist their clients in the
people that they work with. So that looks a lot, like using
things like TT RPGs to help people, you know, build social
skills, like that, kind of stuff.
(34:29):
And the work that they do is really super cool.
They're incredibly neurodivergent friendly, and we
actually met them. At PacSun plugs last year and
we've been talking to them ever since and we're super super
excited. So in the coming weeks you're
going to start here, you're going to hear us talk more about
them and the work that they do and we're probably actually
going to do a whole episode justlike talking about them, because
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they're very cool. But we just wanted to give you a
heads-up that that is going to be that's going to be our
sponsor for the year. So we're pretty stoked about it.
And Also my microphone is from Logitech.
Nailed it. My underwear is our from
Maine's. Are they sponsoring, you know,
(35:11):
they know the fuck they aren't. No, they're not, that's true.
Me undies.com. Nice.
There you go whose mothers everylike the underwear and the
sponsors like every type of silver.
Yeah, I'm super it. I mean, I'm yeah, I was like
Casper mattress. Please send me a mattress.
All right. Well, I'm going to wrap up
before strapping I'll be episodes good because they're
(35:32):
cooking dinner but hey, thanks so much for being here and
listening to a very loose loose,loose loose episode.
It's okay. But that's what I had to give
today. International being
compassionate to myself in that sometimes that's okay, I agree
thankfully because then it's like, you know, we're not going
(35:53):
to give something, we don't haveto give, you know what I mean?
So yeah, you know what's important thing?
That's important. But hey, this feels nice to say
again from all. Of us at a request.
Thank you for listening. This episode is brought to you
by geek Therapeutics dot comp. Go check them out.
And again seriously, thanks turbines.
A Logitech, I really appreciate the new bike.
It's awesome of you. It also I forgot it.
(36:18):
I've been fishing before the cantake your meds in some water.
Eat a snack. We got yourself because others I
remember that we love you. I forgot how it started.
It's so embarrassing over to take.
I think it was take your meds. He grabbed the cigarettes,
water, eat a snack. I don't know why I wanted to
take your meds to be like, second, I know, right?
(36:39):
Because that's more like, yeah. It's like could use, like, okay
water. Then you're like, okay, for it.
Like I do, I feel like there's like a thought process to it
that I used to have the Then I forgot it.
I don't know. We should just cancel the
podcast. I would that pause was on
purpose. I was gonna say something.
I was like, I wonder if I just don't say anything.
Or are you just going to let there be silence for the end of
the podcast? Yeah, I'm still all right,
(37:00):
everybody, thank you so much forbeing here.
Happy Valentine's Day. If you give a shit and we'll
talk to you later or maybe this is the last episode, we'll see
what? No, no, no.
We should just cancel the podcast.
I would that pause was on purpose.
I was gonna say something. I was like, I wonder if I just
don't say anything. Or are you just going to let
there be silence for the end of the podcast?
Yeah, I'm still all right, everybody, thank you so much for
being here. Happy Valentine's Day.
If you give a shit and we'll talk to you later or maybe this
is the last episode, we'll see what?
No, no, no.
That's weird. There's like music happening
right now. That's that's not usually how
the show goes. I don't, I don't understand.
Well, luckily, I do. So, my microphone has a very
long XLR cable that connects it to my computer, which sometimes
acts like a big ol radio antenna, and it picks up radio
signals. So, you might notice that
throughout this episode, my voice sounds, a little like, it
(00:25):
was recorded on like a Game Boy,or something like that.
That's because, after recording we noticed that my mic was
picking up the radio the entire time, which I can kind of edit
out. But also like, at its Out a lot
of like vocal quality stuff. So anyways, if you notice that,
my voice sounds different, that's why and I frankly just
thought it was cool. So I decided to tell you that
(00:48):
happens, it happens a surprisingamount honestly, surprising
amount. We have ferrite rods or ferrite.
What are they called tubes? Or whatever.
That you like clip around the cord.
So I just got to tack on a couple more of those to
hopefully prevent the radio fromgoing on.
Anyways, back to the show, Here Comes theme music by
(01:19):
I feel like my little ritual before we start recording or
once after we start recording before we actually start is very
like, as the same energy of Bailey, like getting into bed at
night when she like, does like 14 little laps just because
she's gotta, you know, like I'm sitting the same way that I
would have been sitting but I had to adjust it reminds to be
sure of when I was in high school and everybody had their
(01:43):
like pre-show drama club ritual that they took like very fucking
serious. SLI.
That's what did they used to go?Like her like that.
There's always like warm up. Yeah.
There's like, you know, you do the vocal but then there's those
like, they'll like it. Like the weird like you do like
little dancer. You like touch the spot on the
wall or whatever. It's like that.
It reminds me of that. I think I'm in do it again.
(02:06):
Seems that space. Just want to let everybody know
that thanks to our friends at Logitech, I'm using a new
microphone. So if you're listening to
podcast you like why does Kate sound different?
It's because our friends a Logitech semi.
From that and this feels really bored in distress.
Smells exactly like the inside of a Best Buy.
It does smell like handling markedly.
(02:26):
Like I know that's not the point.
Thanks Logitech. But it does smell like a Best
Buy and I just, it's so specificthat it's like, fascinating to
me. I realized, I always thought it
was log attack. You know, like Robert Loggia and
like a logic puzzle, you know, like the rapper Logic.
(02:49):
Are you fucking with me so worried?
I was like oh shit I couldn't think of other words that have a
low and then a soft G logic. Lodge Lodge.
Oh that's a DJ send us. Your email list of suggestions.
I'd ask it if their Quest podcast.com so everybody,
(03:13):
welcome back. Finally kind of to any question
any question? Back then the momentum back
after several months of talking about, not a good few more.
Can I just be like real artist? Yeah, one I have been changing.
My antidepressants, it's going better.
(03:35):
Question, mark. Question, mark question.
It's a weird ellipses. You say ellipses?
Wild sir. Do you have to say, ellipses for
each of the position one? Because that's a one of them is
a period of ellipses in the lips.
He's right. I do three ellipse.
Ellipses ellipse that benign periods.
Anyway, it's an ATM machine not doing what I would call amazing.
(03:57):
Also Tick Tock is continues to just do that thing.
It does instead that it does andso things aren't great and I'm
sort of in this like I'm pretentiously calling it a
season of change because I'm just sort of like figuring out
more of what I actually want to be doing what that actually
(04:18):
looks like. Like and so I'm hoping to get
back to more regular content soon, but basically I was not
okay. I was very much not.
Okay and now I am slightly more.Okay?
And so I'm hoping that the upswing is that I will be okay,
but we're all in this together where we are Zac Efron, who see
(04:39):
it as really good. What hair?
That was as long as well. I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
You know, I love you so much, sweetie.
I like how you always say. I'm sorry, like, you haven't
been next to me every single Every single day that's the
thing is like I feel like this is absolutely not surprised you
know I'm here for you babe but what another thing I think one
of the reasons that it's hard todo a podcast when you're not
(05:00):
doing well not you specifically when one is not doing well is
because we well I always talk about.
Yeah and I'm being genuine like we're not going to pretend
anything like that's not what wedo.
And so for feeling like shit andshitty and we record then it's
just going to be a podcast aboutfeeling shit in.
Shitty, which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
(05:21):
But like, you know, we don't want to just we know you you all
have your own lives and what notgoing on and you know you don't
necessarily want to every time listen to a podcast about
somebody else who's also who's like also has their lives who is
doing chitti you know me too. I mean I've also been kind of
going through it lately too. So when I figured boobs is what
about what? If in this episode we
(05:41):
acknowledge that we feel shitty,okay?
But then we genuinely fuck aboutinstead, you want to fuck about,
you know what I mean? Like, You know, when you really
sad. So things just start being
funny, you know, we're like thatkind of thing so quick.
Another, another name for shelf shelf.
Wally holder boy board strip. Cool.
(06:04):
Book Library, that's another name for pizzas.
Go round each, he's boys Circle,pepperoni holders, nice.
Sausage. So this is a fun game are
(06:25):
working. I made up where you just wait
until someone is in the middle of something and then yell, hey,
another word for and then just pick anything and it's very
funny and it's very fun. Every time.
Okay, another word for light bulb, go lightbulb, glowy Global
the book glass glow, orb, or be beans.
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I'm like, yes, this is my answer.
And then the second, I'm like, be funnier.
And then, third one. I'm like, all you fucked it.
I was just like the first one I got and then the second one in
like, I've established a trend. So I realize like my crutch,
like, oh, I say the word, you know, I rely on the shape of the
object too much. And then so I overthink
certainly overthinking. Yeah.
Eric, no other name for hat. Go head.
(07:13):
Crown. Head sock.
Cranial Dome. That's pretty good.
That's pretty good, that's pretty good cranial.
Do my like that bloom. I think that's actually just
part of your head. Your cranium.
Your well, isn't it? I think it's just called your
cranium. I know it's made up of what is a
(07:36):
cranial Dome. The cranial Dome is trying to
provide surgeons with reconstructive option for large
cranial defects. I told you it was a thing.
Oh, so it's on a Part of the body, but it's like a it's like,
you know, you have like, you know, when you have
reconstructive surgery on your skull, you know, like in like
the war, they talked about how they had like metal in their
(07:56):
skull. They put like the little, yeah,
I'm over the. So the brain wasn't in the air,
your brain is in the air all thetime.
Well, side it is it really, and truly is the part of your your
nose that smells stuff is calledthe olfactory receptor cell,
okay? And it is made up of brain.
(08:17):
It's like brain neurons. So like there's a part of your
brain effectively at all times that's exposed to the outside
air and it's the part of you that smells.
That's why smell memories are sovivid because it doesn't have to
go through any other part of your central nervous system to
get to your brain. It's just literally your brain
itself smells stuff. Pretty cool olfactory receptor
(08:38):
cell which is also white mucus has nuts.
Good antibacterial properties because your brain is just
exposed to the world all the time and your mucus is one of
the ways that rents getting nasties and stuff.
Let's make a new role where we don't talk about mucus on the
podcast, lots of fun more, but Ijust made a hit another word for
that word. We're not going to say anymore.
(08:58):
Go, it's not another. It was terrible.
That is true. Yeah, that's a gross one
glasses. Go see holes.
(09:24):
No. See holes, you one, you win.
That's, that's the end of the game.
Okay, you win for all time. Another word for pants legs.
Gloves to tubes world pass why? Because there's very few places
(09:45):
in the world. You can go Without pants.
Well yes leg covering World passfor everything else.
There's MasterCard That's good. You should thank you.
You should call Samuel L Jackson.
I was at Capital One, I feel like I shouldn't say the names
of credit card companies on the podcast, unless they're paying
us sponsored by credit card. As I was about to say, I would
(10:09):
never take a credit card companysponsorship and I feel like the
Always Sunny like title card pops up, and it goes like, Eric
takes a credit card. Don't need to pee like a lot.
So much fucking money. I mean because this one is
(10:30):
things, if they let's like I'm just let's say they go.
Hey, Katie Derek. If you do one mid-roll ad for
you know, Mastercard or something will give you a
hundred million dollars a year, and then I would also be very
transparent would be like, hey, infinite Quest, we have bills,
we're going to take the sponsorship, use it, or don't?
(10:51):
Well, then you can because MasterCard if you want, but you
don't have to as you could. could I mean, I even survived
like you only need You know point one percent of that 100
million to like just live your life and then you could use the
rest of it to do. Good stuff the Charities.
So then it's like, haha, Master cards are in fact Quest
Foundation what we call the infinite question nation.
(11:12):
In fact, I thought that sounds quest Quest, being of quest,
name stuff, Foundation. I think this is kind of old news
now, but the Oculus Quest is like, working on making their be
like a Minecraft. Thing like in the actual thing
like because right now to play Minecraft on VR you have to like
do a bunch of shit. Yeah.
(11:32):
So they're working on like a version of Minecraft that's
meant to be kind of ER and it's for the Oculus Quest and so
they're calling it Quest Craft. Which is what are ya?
Why? So I hear this Minecraft server
which by the way if you'd like to join email us I need to Quest
crafted now when you search Quest, Craft, all that stuff
(11:53):
comes up, it used to be that like people's videos and stuff
would come up and was correct. It's just all the know.
It's all Mark Zuckerberg bullshit.
God damn it grinds my gears, whatever.
Shout out to questions, who cares?
That's fine. Also there's a new biome being
introduced in 1.2 ohm. You just told him.
I didn't know. Is it's cherry blossom.
That's cool. It's pretty.
(12:14):
I bet there's going to be like particles that float down like
the petals. I hope so.
That's gonna be. So nice, very excited about it.
What to make for dinner tonight again?
Oh, happy Valentine's Day. By the way.
Yeah, I already said that to you, but to you dear listener,
if you were person who cares about Valentine's Day then,
Happy Valentine's Day person whodoesn't care about Happy
Valentine's Day. Then fuck Valentine's Day.
It's just a happy Tuesday. And so, the Hallmarks of thing
(12:36):
that Hallmark uses to sell cards.
Yeah, that's pretty much it and Chocolate, and chocolates and
very, did you give me any chocolate final?
I didn't get to it. That's okay.
I you've told me several times you told me many times that you
don't want to like doing stuff for Valentine's Day.
It's like, don't I still feel kind of bad until you're sure.
But I also know that if I start doing that then there's like
(12:59):
precedent and it's just going togo try every year.
Exactly. And I don't want you to ever
have to. Thank you.
You know, I know you love me, you don't have to remind me,
why? I mean it's amazing.
Your might be out to a nice dinner.
Yeah, what's the name of the thing you're cooking tonight?
Again? They don't.
I remember watching. Oh, also, there's a new season
of great Pottery Throwdown. Fuck you are.
(13:22):
Is they got a tick tock account.They got to take, are you going?
Oh my God, one step closer. You can see from the Pod.
I know it's going to happen. So excited and Keith fucking
love. The great potteries or down.
We got it so good we ever do getpottery wheels know or we never
did go back to pottery class. We went once and then we forgot
feel bad. I hope the teacher doesn't think
it was because of that, they were, they were delightful.
(13:43):
We just, you know, it was not a learning environment in which I
could thrive. Yeah, I mean, I would have
preferred a bit more structure. Yeah, you know, which is where
he's like, fuck around and find out is cool.
But I was like, no, no, no. I need like a syllable.
Like I need there to be like a, here's what you're learning on
day one because Jesus Christ. We are coughing today, are
(14:04):
coughing, guys. Yo, to be nice.
If it was like, the teacher on the wheel and then like the
students on the wheel and the teacher would be like you thing
that we look at this. What I'm doing, but buddy but
bit about but that was sort of like you'd show up and you'd be
like will you teach me how to whatever which is not a bad
learning environment but it's not what I was looking for in
that. Yeah, instance.
Also the septic tank. I finally came today and he dug
(14:25):
up a bunch of dirt in the backyard and it's just this
beautiful red clay. And also, I don't know why I'm
so bothered by this. But he told me this.
He's never found a body. Oh yeah, I feel like I stepped
it. I feel like if you're digging
out SEPTA ties all the time. At least once True Crime
(14:46):
podcast, true credit report, true crampons know and we're
coming for you but I don't know.I feel like if you're burying a
body then it would be wise of you to do it deliberately not
where the septic tank is becausethat's the one spot that you
know for sure is going to add some point yet dig up, you know,
(15:07):
It's also like right outside thehouse, the septic tank that's
got to be, that's a good one. I want I know this was, it
definitely wasn't my original thought boat.
Somebody said the best ways to very body is underneath a
coffin. So like if there's a grave dug
for a burial, like the next day,like you go, that night was
like, a whole there is some showor like, that was.
I think I was, I was like the mowas it Dexter?
(15:29):
I feel like, Dexter Dexter. Anyway, welcome back to our do
True Crime. Can I try and solve crimes?
Yeah, actually. Okay, so this is, I feel like
his kind of ease in ease and, onin Things episode.
Yeah, that's what we recall. Do we throw it in the garbage?
(15:52):
Throw it in the garbage is podcast.
Oh, no. I don't think you're throwing
garbage. Okay, what do you mean?
Were you do you think we should throw in the garbage can to do
dear listener? email us and tell us if you
think we should throw this episode in the garbage TK
because they couldn't because they're listening to it, than we
didn't. You know, sometimes I worry that
(16:14):
we're not educational enough andthat people are going to get mad
at us. I mean, I don't that's fine
because like, I mean, being educational is a good thing, you
know, but like I think, We should let the podcast become
what it is. You know what?
(16:34):
You guys are saying that two years.
And you know, and then like onceit becomes what it is.
Then we'll I guess start adding more spices and stuff like that.
Yeah, but I think the tonal coreof it is, you know, is
essential, that's fair. You know I'm saying?
And plus, I mean, I think I wantto make people's lives better
and you can do that by educatingpeople but you can also do that
(16:56):
by giving them some bullshit to listen to.
Yeah, well they're driving home from work and walk.
I mean, I think we're all the time when I'm like consuming
content of any kind, is it a lotof times?
It will be like, I'll be enjoying it.
Whether it's a YouTube video or podcast, I'll be enjoying it.
And I think, wow, if I made this, I would be like, wow, that
sucks, because I'd be like, judging myself born and be like.
This isn't what I but like here I am in losing the biogas and
(17:19):
I'm fucking glad they posted it because otherwise I wouldn't
have, you know. what to do rightnow, you know, so feel like you
judge yourself more because of your ADHD Yeah. yeah, I think so
but I also Do the opposite of judging myself more because of
(17:43):
my HD, you know? No, I don't know.
Well, so, I think my brain is trying to extract Engagement
from everything, okay? From the projects, I'm working
on the things, I'm looking at whatever.
And one way to engage with something is by hating on it
another way to engage or something is by liking it?
Yeah, I think about why it's cool.
So if I'm trying to squeeze as much as I can out of something
(18:08):
then yes I'm going to judge it more but I'm also going to
praise it more because I'm trying to squeeze all the
thoughts. I possibly can get about of this
thing. I mean I think I judge myself
more than I praise myself but I don't think that's because of my
age. PhD.
And I think I judge myself a lotless now than I did five years
ago because practice Speedy practice that's Fascinating.
(18:30):
Do you think you judge yourself more because you're ready, G.
I think I just judge myself. Like, I don't know if it's
because of my ADHD or not. But I'm I feel like I'm coming
to realize how like Significantly, the pressure and
expectations, I put on myself and like, maybe they aren't as
(18:53):
reasonable as I originally like,as I've as I thought.
Well, that's good. Maybe, I don't know.
I mean, I think that's good. I think expecting for yourself
is like, I think a good thing todo, like I expect myself to be
kind and stuff like that. Yeah.
But All the stuff aside from that of like being kind and
(19:14):
being doing right by the people around you like those things, I
think that's good to expect yourself but things like
expecting a certain I don't knowwhat the word is like a certain
speed on a trajectory you know like I want to be president by
30 whatever it like all that stuff is fine but it's also your
choice to do that, you know? Like you're doing that, not use
(19:36):
it. But one does that to oneself and
you can do that. Deliberately or you can do that
compulsively. And I think a lot of the people
that I see really struggle with the expect, their expectations
of themselves is because they'renot aware of half of them,
they're just know that they're there and they're know that
they're not good enough, you know?
So the in the, in the AlcoholicsAnonymous program, they talk
(20:02):
about how everybody's running a program.
It's just, did you write it or was it just written by default
over the course of your life? You know, like your Then season
your habits and your thoughts cycles and your cognitive
dissonance has, like everybody has those things hopefully, as
little cognitive dissonance possible, like everybody has
habits and tendencies and stuff like that.
But to those just emerge, or didyou set them deliberately?
(20:26):
Which I was, that was really interesting.
When you say program, do you mean like a computer, or do you
mean like, I think like a computer like the program
because I because I also know what's called the program.
Yeah, it's got confused. I mean, I've heard it meant both
ways, but another thing, I learned in therapy from one of
my better therapists. She said, take what you can Li
use in, fuck the rest. I always say leave the rest
(20:46):
because it's, but she said, FuckThe Rest.
The like which I think about allthe time if you're like in a
workshop and it's like a largelybullshit.
Well yeah, there's probably liketwo or three parts in an art
bullshit. You shouldn't sacrifice those
because the rest of it, I'll take those fuck the rest.
Speaking of water Taco I would feel like I'm being of
workshops. Yeah, you want to do?
You want to tell people? We've had such a weird month.
(21:09):
We have a strange Monty. Yeah, so I would respond my
train. We we are we are on a train and
we were at a workshop that was not mostly bullshit was actually
mostly very very good. I liked it very much a very good
time. Do you want to tell people about
it? No I just talked to a whole time
yours. I mean I'll do it if you want me
to but that's right. You can you can you talk?
(21:31):
I just talked for an hour or twoAustralia, and I'm tired.
It's true. It's my necklace be tired for
from I know, I had to talk upside down.
Tacos is Australia's up, sit down.
Am I the first person to make that joke?
I think I'm happy. We know.
So we went to the fuck. Are we doing?
Um, there was this Workshop. It was called The Wheel of
(21:51):
consent. The wheel consent is this
fascinating. System called a model model.
I don't know. It's a thing.
It's a thing that was designed as a woman named Betty Martin,
and it's about discussing desireand wants and needs and how we
(22:14):
articulate them and how they work, and how they don't work,
and how sometimes they can untilI drew it on the paper.
Also, just for dear listener, you need to know Eric just took
a picture of it and throw it. The floor in front of us.
I was, it was a drawing of it. I'm flattered.
You thought it was fiction, but it was, it was really, it was
(22:34):
really edifying. It was really cool.
We met some very cool people. And yeah, it was, it was good.
I got a lot out of it, but it was interesting because I hadn't
done anything like that in like a minute, like just been in
student brain, you know, like just kind of like, okay, we're
here to learn here, to get out of my comfort zone and like,
(22:55):
that was amazing. Like that was good.
Yeah, I forgot how much I missedthat.
I know I was like, being in a place in like I'm going to know
a thing is that I don't know. Now, in five hours.
But when I leave here tonight? Yeah.
What do I have to school? I think.
Yeah, I know that I shouldn't, but I really want to go back to
(23:15):
school. I don't actually want to, I just
want the structures. What do you think you shouldn't?
Because you don't like someone who just wants a structure?
I just I mean because I don't even put those words in your
mouth. It's no secret.
I mean the real truth is like a lot like There are parts of
school that I love and there's parts of school that I hate and
I feel like the reward of learning is something that I
(23:39):
could do like doing like the free courses on like Harvard or,
you know, like whatever like it doesn't have to be, I don't have
to get another degree to learn, but it doesn't feel like
official. I mean I don't I don't want to
say that you shouldn't go back to school and I mean to imply
(24:01):
that but I want to get my doctorate.
That's pretty cool. Yeah, dr.
Kate, I know it is what? Yeah, I don't know.
I just keep thinking about that like, hey, you know, there was
another famous doctor. I was born if I can Green
Goblin, there was. That's pretty cool.
Yeah, Norman Osborn yeah. Baby fly around on a little ice
(24:21):
core little segue. Yeah.
Because I mean, I'm not saying Ithink you shoot but you know, I
don't think you shouldn't go back to school.
I think you should do whatever the fuck you want with your
life. Problem is, is that if I did,
whatever the fuck I want to do with my life right now, I would
just go to bed for like three weeks and not do anything else
(24:42):
about. That's right.
I can't. Why shouldn't you do that?
As I gotta take Bailey for walks.
I gotta feed my dog. That's true.
But I could, I do, you know. I'd help with that.
You have to do, you know? Okay.
So like let's say you just took care of Bailey and lay in bed
all the time. Okay.
Why shouldn't you do that? Because I have stuff to do I've
(25:05):
like interviews and stuff. Hmm.
Yes I can't come by. I'm a diagnostic you do like I
did today. That's a no.
I mean, I do feel like the idea of like a mental health day
where you just sort of lays around which is very necessary
for a lot of people fucking do it.
Man. I have seen you do it.
(25:26):
We've had great times lying around building forts.
Yeah. But the real like I think the
thing that I realized is that like I can't do nothing I have
to do something and if it's like, oh, we're going to build a
fort are, you know, whatever. But like I can't not do anything
like that time. I remember when I went to the
(25:47):
Each. It was like the worst.
I went to California to be go tothe beach ago.
I was no. And you know what?
Yeah, when I went to California for that thing, it was terrible.
I can't go just go to the beach because I was like, I don't have
iy, what am I doing? Like, I did enjoy it harder and
I was just like, okay, so he's like, I have to have like a
(26:09):
task, no, you know, it was like ball.
So like one of the things that I've realized is that doing
stuff, If around the house makesme really happy.
So like fixing stuff up. Really building like shelves or
whatever. Like that shit makes me so happy
(26:29):
and then I'm sad because I'm like, I made my content about
like, ADHD and I could have justbeen like, you know, there's a
thousand DIY, YouTube channel there, whatever.
But this is, like, maybe that's my content shift for 2020
threes. Like hey, I'm gonna fix up my
house. Yeah, I think you should.
I I mean, I, you know, I don't, I'm not a huge fan of you
(26:50):
because you talk about ADHD or because you're talking about sex
in order version, I'm a huge fanof you because you're Katie.
I mean, you trying to Katie. Yeah.
I think people would want to seeyou do.
Whatever I would I do. Thanks, you're very welcome.
Also her datings also we are dating.
We had to come up with a better name.
The date was a stupid or data. Scan my boyfriend come.
(27:14):
Yes. Yeah, we're having a poly
Valentine's Day today, probably Valentine's.
I mean it's easy for me because I only have one partner but for
you and Chris you guys have to He's gonna do, you know, I know
throw magic cards out of should do is I should take some of the
(27:37):
magic cards that he has then I should have wrap them and give
them to him as a gift and see ifhe notices, I don't know why.
I also wonder, like, I don't think you would.
I think I can get away with it for, like, five Christmases.
Yeah, you probably could well more than current.
Like, I wonder how much how often crisp?
Like, how many magic cards wouldyou say?
Chris opens in like a month at least 1,000 using 1000.
(28:01):
So easy really. Wow, how often do you think he
comes across when he doesn't already have?
I genuinely no idea. I feel like there's at least
like a couple and you know what I mean?
Like I think an in a given packet.
Think it's extremely unlikely that he opened he finds one?
He doesn't already have? Yeah I mean I would say I think
it's like a that's a good question for him.
(28:21):
I genuinely don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
Because I mean, there's like rare boys, you know?
Because that's what you get all the packs is because you want to
find like rare boy, right? Yeah.
I don't know. We also have a laser cutter now
so we could get the paper and just make, we can make much.
Each other encourage court, so it's a really good idea.
That would be funny as see if wecan get a fake that fools Chris.
(28:42):
Yeah. That'd be a fun game.
Yeah, I feel bad though, becauselike that's a letdown if we get
him like that. It's a black lotus is like the
super one because he would thinkit was real for at least a
second. You know.
I don't know. I think he'd be like bullshit.
Yeah, I think. Yeah.
No. Yeah, no.
I think he went to, it would be funny to just put like a boner
and it like, every single famousMagic.
The Gathering card. A boner.
(29:04):
Yeah. This have like a black lotus,
but there's a powder on it. It.
What do you like draw Boehner? Yeah, you know, like okay.
It's like draw a little powder on it.
I think. That'd be really funny.
I'm very mature. Oh yeah.
Did I love drone bonus? It's one of my favorite things
(29:25):
to do. Eight equal sign D.
Yeah, my my friend shout out to Sarah.
Hi. Sarah.
Sent me a picture, like, two days ago of a notebook that I
made for her, for Christmas. I think what I like, I made a
book and bound it and I gave it to her and I wrote a really nice
note in it just you know, remember anything and then I
drew a dick on the bottom. So she's she said me, she's like
(29:46):
I just only know I still have this and I was reading it and
yeah there's a dick on it. It was really nice.
That was like you know what. Cool.
All right. That's cool.
I like that myself is being myself, you know.
I think it's important to be genuine and I'm pretty good at
it, too. Being genuine and drawing dicks?
Yeah. Well those things?
(30:09):
Pretty good. Yeah, I think I drew it in the
snow one time at at Interlockingand boarding school, it would
snow. And there's like this really big
field and so I just like to watch.
I mean, the like practice field was like right outside my dorm
and so I definitely did that at least once in college is like, a
thing is like, we'd all like be like racing out there to be like
(30:31):
the first person to like put it on the field like really, you
see how you just like look out the window.
Be all these kids like shufflingaround like Coordinate to make,
like a really big one. Like, like, okay, everybody go
over here, the 50-yard line. Like, the whole thing we come
marching band, like yeah, it waslike, it was I saying, I think,
I probably told the story in thepodcast before, but I know for
certain that there is at least one drawing of a dick on Mars
(30:57):
because I met one of the operators for the Curiosity
Rover. And I was like, hey, so when
you're driving it around like ever, like make a dick out of
the tracks, and I was like, joking and goes, oh yeah.
Like what? And he's like one you do it a
lot. Like it's really slow and we
have to go very far. So like you do it a lot and then
when you get to a place you justneed to take samples from like
(31:19):
five different locations. In a whatever, whatever radius
was like, it doesn't matter, it will in a lot of cases.
It doesn't matter where in that spot.
Like, it could be any, you just have to go to a different spot.
Always like, yeah, why wouldn't you just like, circle, circle
line, circle, circle line, you know, and so there you go, it
breaks. My heart to know that since
(31:39):
there's an atmosphere on Mars. It's probably been, like, blown
away. But like, if it were on the
moon, then it would be there forever.
There's also a dick on the moon actually, is it really?
Yeah. How do you know this?
There was a like, it was like a plaque or something or maybe was
like a one of the astronauts brought a picture or something
like that but they wanted signatures from like notable
humans. Okay, one of them was Andy
(32:00):
Warhol and so Andy Warhol found out a way to make his signature
look as much like a dick as possible and then use that.
Our, which is now in the moment.That's like that's the type of
energy that I would bring into being an astronaut, secondly,
the dicks, can I smuggle the space?
I mean, I can't, but how did your fucking Buzz?
Aldrin and you know Armstrong Neil Armstrong like how do you
(32:22):
not just like take your foot andyou real quick just like he's a
little bit. Yeah, you know, although the
name of this episode is going tobe dicks on the moon, they
Saloon because we can that's awesome.
But I have anxiety about this episode.
Really? Yeah, I get it so uncomfortable.
Durable when we don't have a structure, which is really funny
because you're always like, nah,man, let it roll.
(32:43):
But like, I feel like that's where we're at odds.
I think that is consistently where we're at odds?
But I think we the middle Zone that we get to is.
Yeah, it's pretty good. You know, you know this is it
you thought in Louisiana on it? He's on back.
Yeah. Should we announced the thing?
We should figure it out with Shawn or I don't know, I don't
(33:05):
know. Okay.
Is that the thing that you're talking about?
Yeah, okay, okay, yeah, I don't know.
I think we should know to figureout.
Figure out exactly what it's going to be okay because we're
still. Yeah.
But you know. Okay.
I don't know. That's that's what I think.
I'll do you want to know that. We I'm happy to missing.
We definitely, I don't care. Okay, I'm going to say part of
it. Okay.
Okay. Important infinite Quest
(33:25):
announcement that I did sound effects.
You're welcome. It was good.
It was really good, really good.Thank you.
So we are super, super excited. Because after a lot of
discussion and all sorts of coolgood stuff, we are going to be
coffin through the goddamn announcement.
(33:45):
Yeah, you know what are you doing?
We are going to be partnering this coming year with geek
Therapeutics, they're going to become our podcast sponsor for
2023. Hey, you're really excited about
and if you don't know what he care products is there an
incredible organization And theyoffer basically certifications
(34:09):
to, you know, clinicians social workers.
Just people. People humans in general, who
want to use geek therapy to sortof assist their clients in the
people that they work with. So that looks a lot, like using
things like TT RPGs to help people, you know, build social
skills, like that, kind of stuff.
(34:29):
And the work that they do is really super cool.
They're incredibly neurodivergent friendly, and we
actually met them. At PacSun plugs last year and
we've been talking to them ever since and we're super super
excited. So in the coming weeks you're
going to start here, you're going to hear us talk more about
them and the work that they do and we're probably actually
going to do a whole episode justlike talking about them, because
(34:51):
they're very cool. But we just wanted to give you a
heads-up that that is going to be that's going to be our
sponsor for the year. So we're pretty stoked about it.
And Also my microphone is from Logitech.
Nailed it. My underwear is our from
Maine's. Are they sponsoring, you know,
(35:11):
they know the fuck they aren't. No, they're not, that's true.
Me undies.com. Nice.
There you go whose mothers everylike the underwear and the
sponsors like every type of silver.
Yeah, I'm super it. I mean, I'm yeah, I was like
Casper mattress. Please send me a mattress.
All right. Well, I'm going to wrap up
before strapping I'll be episodes good because they're
(35:32):
cooking dinner but hey, thanks so much for being here and
listening to a very loose loose,loose loose episode.
It's okay. But that's what I had to give
today. International being
compassionate to myself in that sometimes that's okay, I agree
thankfully because then it's like, you know, we're not going
(35:53):
to give something, we don't haveto give, you know what I mean?
So yeah, you know what's important thing?
That's important. But hey, this feels nice to say
again from all. Of us at a request.
Thank you for listening. This episode is brought to you
by geek Therapeutics dot comp. Go check them out.
And again seriously, thanks turbines.
A Logitech, I really appreciate the new bike.
It's awesome of you. It also I forgot it.
(36:18):
I've been fishing before the cantake your meds in some water.
Eat a snack. We got yourself because others I
remember that we love you. I forgot how it started.
It's so embarrassing over to take.
I think it was take your meds. He grabbed the cigarettes,
water, eat a snack. I don't know why I wanted to
take your meds to be like, second, I know, right?
(36:39):
Because that's more like, yeah. It's like could use, like, okay
water. Then you're like, okay, for it.
Like I do, I feel like there's like a thought process to it
that I used to have the Then I forgot it.
I don't know. We should just cancel the
podcast. I would that pause was on
purpose. I was gonna say something.
I was like, I wonder if I just don't say anything.
Or are you just going to let there be silence for the end of
the podcast? Yeah, I'm still all right,
(37:00):
everybody, thank you so much forbeing here.
Happy Valentine's Day. If you give a shit and we'll
talk to you later or maybe this is the last episode, we'll see
what? No, no, no.
We should just cancel the podcast.
I would that pause was on purpose.
I was gonna say something. I was like, I wonder if I just
don't say anything. Or are you just going to let
there be silence for the end of the podcast?
Yeah, I'm still all right, everybody, thank you so much for
being here. Happy Valentine's Day.
If you give a shit and we'll talk to you later or maybe this
is the last episode, we'll see what?
No, no, no.
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