You're Not Overreacting: Gaslighting, Betrayal, and the Right to Feel Safe

Have you ever felt dismissed or minimized in your relationship? Have you been made to feel as though your concerns are crazy or unimportant? If so, keep listening! This week Amie continues the conversation around gaslighting in relationships. 

Listen in as she relates a powerful analogy between a neighborhood dispute and gaslighting tactics often seen in toxic relationships. Through this example she unpacks methods of gaslighting and empowers betrayed partners to trust their instincts and set healthy boundaries.

Listen to learn:

• Different forms of gaslighting

• The impact gaslighting has on your sense of safety

• How to reclaim your truth and healing

Listen to last week’s episode: Gaslighting (DARVO)

Resources from Sarah Morales about gaslighting can be found at her website.

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