Coach Lee

Don't Fix What They Broke

Podcast with Coach Lee

When a breakup leaves you reeling, there’s a strong temptation to rush in and patch things up—especially if you didn’t want the relationship to end. You might feel like if you can just fix it, explain yourself better, or show them how much you care, everything will fall back into place. But here’s something most people overlook: if they were the one who broke it, fixing it for them...

They didn’t think it would matter.

When they let you go, they figured they’d be fine. Maybe even better off. In their mind, you’d be easy to replace. Someone else would come along and fill the space. They believed they could move on without consequence, without even looking back.

But people like you don’t come around every day. And that’s something they never truly considered—until the silence set in. Until the conversations weren...

They don’t come back when you chase. They come back when you let go.

In this video, Coach Lee explains why letting someone go often has a more powerful impact than trying to convince them to stay. If you're wondering why your ex suddenly comes back after you've stopped reaching out or walked away, this video will help you understand the psychology behind it.

Letting go creates mystery, space, and the contrast they didn’t expect to...

In this episode, we’re digging into something a lot of people struggle with after a breakup. I'm talking about how to make your ex actually feel the loss. Not out of spite, not to play games, but because deep down, you know they took you for granted. Maybe they assumed you’d always be there. Maybe they expected you to fall apart or chase them the moment they walked away. And maybe… that’s exactly why they left in the first place.

...

In this episode, we’re talking about something that hits deep: what it feels like when someone walks away—but expects you to wait. Maybe you’ve been there. You gave your heart, your time, your consistency… and in return, they gave confusion. Silence dressed up as “space.” Excuses instead of effort. And yet, part of you still held the door open, hoping they’d come back. This conversation is for the ones who waited—out of love, out ...

Breakups are messy—even for the one who ends it.

In this episode, I walk you through the timeline of what usually happens after someone breaks up with you. Not right away, but in the weeks and months that follow, there’s often a shift they didn’t expect. The relief fades. Doubt creeps in. And if you’ve gone quiet, that silence starts to get loud.

We’ll talk about the common phases dumpers go through, why they sometimes reach out e...

 

What really causes someone to regret the breakup?

In this episode, I walk you through five real moments that often shift the mindset of someone who left you. These aren’t guesses or vague ideas—they’re specific turning points. Internal realizations. Psychological cracks. The kind of things that don’t always show up on the surface, but mean everything when you're trying to understand what’s going on behind the silence.

Coach Lee'...

They thought you’d wait forever.

They thought you’d stay in place.

That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared.

That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind.

And for a while… maybe they were right.

But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s ...

They walked away. But somehow, they still feel in control. That ends now.

In this video, I’m going to walk you through how to take your ex’s power away. Not by playing games, but by showing them—subtly and clearly—that they don’t hold emotional control over you anymore.

Get Coach Lee's $7 Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back! See ReunionBlueprint.com! 

So many people give their ex power without realizing it. Every little reacti...

Body

$7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com You think they’ve moved on. They’re silent. Distant. Maybe even cold. But behind that silence, something else is happening—and they don’t even realize it. In this video, I’ll reveal five hidden ways your ex is subconsciously testing you after the breakup. Not because they’re playing games… But because they’re trying to protect their pride, their narrative, and the version...

Your ex might seem calm, distant, or completely fine after the breakup.

Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com.

Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Maybe they’re silent. Maybe they’re posting like life has never been better.

Maybe they’ve even convinced themselves that they’re at peace.

But here’s the truth—they’re struggling more than they’ll ever adm...

Right now, it might seem like your ex is completely certain about their decision. They’re acting distant, cold, and unbothered—like you never really mattered to them. But here’s the truth… they’re more confused than you think.

Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprint" for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com

Book a private session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/

Breakups don’t bring instant clarity. I...

Your ex may seem unaffected by the breakup, but that’s likely not the full story. There are several reasons why they appear to feel nothing—at least, for now.

Get Coach Lee's $7 "Reunion Blueprint" at https://ReunionBlueprint.com. 

If you are in a troubled marriage, get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://MarriageRadio.com/marriagehelp 

1. Dopamine and the Relief Stage

When your ex decided to break ...

Your ex may act fine after the breakup, but deep down, they’re feeling emotions they won’t admit to anyone—including themselves. In this podcast episode, Coach Lee reveals the hidden pain your ex experiences as time passes and why they might start to regret leaving you.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The Pain of Uncertainty: Why they start questioning if breaking up was a mistake.

• The Emotional Crash: How their initial...

At first, it might seem like your ex is doing just fine after the breakup—maybe even relieved. But that feeling won’t last forever. In this episode, Coach Lee dives deep into why your ex actually feels worse as time goes on and how their emotions shift in ways they never expected.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your ex’s emotions are delayed after the breakup – Understanding the psychological timeline that makes them...

The Impact of Radio Silence on Your Ex

Radio silence is one of the most effective strategies after a breakup, particularly if your ex was the one who ended the relationship. It works hand in hand with no contact but has its own unique impact. By removing yourself from your ex’s life completely—no texting, no social media updates, no interaction—you create a noticeable absence that forces them to feel the consequences of their deci...

Does No Contact Work with a Borderline Personality Disorder Ex?

Breaking up with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) presents unique challenges, leading many to question whether the no-contact rule is effective in this situation.

In this audio/video, Coach Lee explores how no contact impacts individuals with BPD, the reactions you might encounter, and whether this approach fosters healing, clarity, and even recon...

Why Your Ex Misses You Later (And What You Can Do About It)

Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back!

After a breakup, you may find yourself missing your ex almost immediately, but they often take longer to feel that same sense of loss. This delay happens for a reason, and understanding why can help you handle the situation in a way that increases your chances of getting them back. Here’s what happens in your ex’s mi...

One of the most surprising ways to get your ex back is to genuinely move on. It sounds counterintuitive, but detaching from the relationship and focusing on your own growth can actually make your ex reconsider their decision. In this video, Coach Lee explains why shifting your mindset away from desperation and toward self-improvement increases your attractiveness and draws your ex back toward you.

Get Coach Lee's "Reunion Blueprin...