In this episode, we’re digging into something a lot of people struggle with after a breakup. I'm talking about how to make your ex actually feel the loss. Not out of spite, not to play games, but because deep down, you know they took you for granted. Maybe they assumed you’d always be there. Maybe they expected you to fall apart or chase them the moment they walked away. And maybe… that’s exactly why they left in the first place.
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But when you pull back—when you truly let go and stop showing up in ways they’ve grown used to—that’s when something unexpected happens. They start to feel it. Not right away, maybe not even consciously at first, but the absence settles in. And it’s different than silence. It’s strength. It’s peace. It’s self-respect.
In this episode, I walk you through the reasons people tend to come back once you let go. You’ll learn why chasing only delays their regret, why your calm detachment shifts the entire dynamic, and how to carry yourself in a way that rewrites their memory of the breakup. If you’ve ever felt invisible after giving your best to someone, this episode is for you.
We’re not talking about pretending to be okay—we’re talking about actually getting to a place where you are. And when that happens, you won’t need them to regret losing you. But ironically, that’s when they usually do.
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