Too Black For This, Too White For That: Being Biracial in a Divided World

In this episode of Come To The Table, host Kendyll pulls back the curtain on what it means to exist as a biracial Black and White woman in a society that often demands you pick a side. Through deeply personal storytelling, honest critique, and compassionate insight, Kendyll, Anna, and Sam explore racial fluidity, the pressures of identity, and the complexity of belonging when the world feels divided.

From conversations about microaggressions and the weight of being “racially ambiguous,” to cultural gatekeeping and the pervasive image of white Jesus—this episode is as layered as the identity it represents. Kendyll also speaks directly to those raising children of a different race, offering perspective, cautions, and heartfelt advice for parents navigating this often-unspoken terrain.

A few themes explored:

🌊 Racial fluidity and how identity can shift depending on context (yes, Kamala Harris gets a mention)

💥 The isolating tension of being “too much” or “not enough” for either side

🗺️ Navigating faith and race—yes, we talk about white Jesus (with love and honesty)

🚨 Microaggressions, code-switching, and subtle ways racism shows up

🤌🏻 Advice for parents raising Black or multiracial children

This episode centers Kendyll’s lived experience—not a monolith, but a meaningful lens for reflection and growth. Whether you identify personally or you're showing up to listen and learn, you’re welcome at the table.

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