When was the last time you got what you wanted? Having a hard time thinking about it? Me too! As women, we’ve been conditioned to settle for less and not even take what’s given to us. But guess what- you CAN get what you want and you WILL get what you want after you finish listening to this episode.
I loved the conversation that I had with my guest in this episode, Cindy Watson. Cindy is the founder of Women on Purpose and the creator of the Art of Feminine Negotiation™ and HERsuasion™ programs. She is also the founder and managing partner of Watson Palmer Law. Cindy has specialized in social justice law for 30 years. She is a TEDx international speaker, award-winning author, master negotiator, and consultant known for her passion, commitment, and ability to inspire. As a world-class women’s empowerment coach, Cindy has a proven track record of motivating women to negotiate their best life. Her new book, The Art of Feminine Negotiation: How to Get What You Want from the Boardroom to the Bedroom, is a Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestseller. Doesn’t she sound great? I can’t wait for you to meet her!
Cindy and I talked about how to figure out what you want, and how to get what you want using your Feminine Energy. Seriously, y’all this episode is packed with so many good tips, so I hope you take notes!
In this episode of the Contagious Confidence Podcast, we talk about:
- Why getting what you want is really clarity in the process and determining what relationship outcome that you want
- The difference between what you really want and what you've been conditioned to want.
- Tips for how to tap into your intuition
- Expectations of women being martyrs and giving up
- How to dig into your value
- Redefining compromise
- What is feminine energy?
- How to use your feminine energy to get what you want
- How to negotiate the salary
- Tips for interviews and negotiations
- How to use our feminine to boost confidence
Resources:
How to Brag About Yourself with Dr. Winefred Bragg Episode
A ssertiveness
R apport building
E mpathy
F lexibility
I ntuition
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5 W's: Who, what, where, when, and why
Where to Find Cindy:
- Book: The Art of Feminine Negation
- Free resource: artoffemininenegotiationbook.com
- Social media: @womenonpurposecoaching
- Website: womenonpurpose.ca
- Podcast: ART of Feminine Negation
Stay Connected:
- Katie’s IG: @katieehawkes
- Podcast’s IG: @contagiousconfidencepodcast
- Email: contagiousconfidencepodcast@gmail.com
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