November 7, 2024 • 47 mins
Have you ever wondered how the simple act of gardening can mirror the journey toward financial independence? Meet Suzette, a writer and farmer whose passion for nurturing plants has led her to profound insights into personal growth and abundance. Together, we explore the emotional connection between self-worth and financial freedom, highlighting the importance of recognizing one's intrinsic value beyond mere monetary wealth. Suzette's insights into the parallels between cultivating a thriving garden and manifesting personal prosperity are not to be missed.
Our conversation shifts to the transformative power of overcoming financial anxiety and its ripple effects on personal well-being and relationships. In sharing a personal journey through chronic financial stress and its impact on health, we unearth the critical role of self-respect and mutual respect in partnerships. With stories of navigating contrasting political views and spiritual growth within marriage, we underscore the necessity of self-love as a foundation for thriving relationships. This chapter is an invitation to rethink financial philosophies and embrace personal growth through candid conversations and evolving perspectives.
We conclude with an exploration of new moon manifestation rituals, offering a guide to harnessing cosmic energies for personal transformation. By sharing a prosperity bowl ritual complete with moon water, bay leaves, and crystals, we aim to inspire listeners to channel their intentions and embrace community support. Join us as we reflect on the power of accountability within our Cosmic Coven community, encouraging personalized growth and transformation. Your journey toward reclaiming personal power and abundance is just a podcast episode away!
Lynn Louise has been helping women all over the world for over a decade. Her Evolution 10X Method combines Energetic Intelligence, Quantum Science and the Brain, and Fundamentals Strategy to help you quiet your mind, uplevel your consciousness, so you can live a life of deeper fulfillment and purpose.
Lynn Louise is a Master Certified Hypnotist, Telepath, Shapeshifter, Multidimensional Traveler, and Coach driven by a powerful mission to help others. Her approach is unlike any other mentor's you have experienced. So, if you are ready to collapse timelines and create the business of your dreams - buckle up!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
look at you all decked out.
Hey, I'm super excited aboutthis y'all.
Suzette is in evolution 10xmastermind.
She's the wealth witch and weare going to have her on very
often to have conversationsabout money and manifesting and
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magic and all those things,because we want to get you
making money to the point thatyou can create that financial
independence.
Now I will say I want everyoneto know that Suzette is not a
coach.
What are you, suzette?
Tell us a little bit aboutyourself and like where your
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passions are and all that kindof stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Well, I love money, but I'm a writer, so I spend my
days doing the things I love,which is writing and spending
time with my family.
Then I also have a farm.
I spend a lot of time on myfarm with my animals.
I'm learning how to grow things, which is kind of fun.
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I've historically been not sogood at it.
Now I have a whole table ofgreenery stuff and it's so
exciting.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
It's like anything in life you have to learn the
process and it's trial and error.
I have studied horticultureright, but, and the thing is is
that it takes more than justknowing how to grow something.
You have to to like, help itfind its right environment, and
it can be a few feet away it'sall about there's always a
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learning curve.
I'm always moving stuff in mygarden every year.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Yeah, I had an aloe plant that was sitting in my
kitchen window and it was finefor like a year, but then it
turned brown and I was like, ohno, my garden of dead is coming
back, cause that's what I usedto call my, my Siddhartha,
because I always it was alwaysdying.
No wonder, right?
But anyway, so.
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So when I, when I started reallyunderstanding manifesting in
fact, I think it was, I think itwas after my first round for
E10X I was like I need to changethat.
If I want to grow things, Ineed to change that.
So I I changed it, um, and, andI was like you know, I think
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that aloe plant needs to bemoved, because I had a spider
plant, was the first plant Iever got that lived longer than
like a month, and so I had thisspider plant and it was thriving
on my altar and I was like I'mjust gonna move the aloe plant
over there because maybe I mean,the energy is better, I like
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the energy better.
Let's just put it over thereand see what happens.
All of a sudden now it's green,it's growing, it's putting out
new shoots, it's so happy andit's been there for probably I
don't know three months now theyhave to be moved.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
They plants don't like.
Plants don't like this.
If they like like the sunlightwhere it is in the winter,
they're not going to like itthere in the summer.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Just like us, we have to find our right environment.
Yeah, I pulled a card for us,ooh.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Because, I love doing that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
And the funny thing is is I started thinking about
the interpretation that peoplehave around certain suits of
cards right, and this is whatwe're told Like, cups means
relationships and love and allthat kind of stuff and I started
thinking about how we can takethat interpretation and we can
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adapt it to the questions thatwe're asking, right?
So today I got the Ace of Cups,which is filled with emotion
and all that, but I startedthinking, okay, Ace of Cups and
the relationship to what we aretalking about, because both of
us are on this earth to helpwomen really create and
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facilitate the financialindependence that they desire,
to create that safe and secureenvironment for them and their
family.
And so I was like, oh, howperfect.
We're talking about therelationship that we have to
money and you know I'm alwaystalking about the relationship
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that we have to oneself, like wehave to recognize on a core
level that we are more importantthan any dollar sign and that's
what's really going to open upthat, that funnel of prosperity.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
But yeah that was something that was super
fundamental is understandingthat your, your worth is, is
more than that dollar sign, andthat your, your dollar signs in
your you know physicalenvironment are directly tied to
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what you intrinsically feel.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Right, and like I think about all these women that
have done so much work and Iwas included in this.
I was so included like, oh, Ilove myself, but there was
always that but, or the thing isis that in my subconscious I
had this deep programming thatmoney was going to be my savior
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and even though I'd done all thework around, like self-love and
all that I didn't recognize howdeeply rooted our belief system
about money being the thingthat is going to create our
financial freedom.
It's going to give me thefinancial freedom when I get my
business to multiple six, thenI'll finally have the financial
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freedom, then I'll have the timefreedom, freedom.
Then I'll have the time freedom,then I'll have all these things
and we're giving our personalpower away to the almighty
dollar, yeah, and then we wantthe almighty dollar and those
that will give it to you right,and I did it for so long and I
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didn't even realize it, like itwas deep stories, because I was
telling myself with my logicalbrain so many other things like
no, I, you know, I'm good, I'msafe, I'm, you know, beautiful,
I love myself.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I definitely love myself I can't tell you how many
like it's.
I did not realize how low myself-worth was because I had
done all that work right.
I've been doing work for yearson myself and I have always said
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that I'm my biggest fan.
But until I really understoodwhat you're talking about, how
that's just so deeply ingrainedin us to think that money is the
savior, and if you say that tosomebody in society, they're
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going to be like no, it's not.
You know, uh, some religiousthing is probably the savior
Right, but, um, because to lovemoney is to is is greedy but,
but, um, it does.
We do say all the time, and I,I've heard coaches say this,
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I've heard um, and I've heardcoaches say this.
I've heard money people saythis.
I've heard all of these peopleyou know, oh well, it's not
greedy to love money, becausethat's when you're going to have
the freedom.
It creates the time freedom, itcreates the free, it creates
this, it creates that, and it'sit's really you that creates
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that.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Oh my God, you're so right and I think that's why I
hate that marketing strategy.
Get your 10K months, your sixfigure years.
I hate marketing strategy thatbases your success on the
almighty dollar and I think it'salways rubbed me a wrong way
and it does.
(08:43):
Recently I've been like, oh,it's like nails on a chalkboard
because it is handing I talkabout reclaiming your personal
power and it's just handing overyour success and gauging your
success on a dollar amount thatdoesn't matter.
I know women in E10X that willsay I'm making less money now
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than I did in my corporate life,but I have more security, I
have more availability in myfunds, I have all this, like you
know, more freedom than I everdid, and I'm like that's because
it's not the amount of money,Like it doesn't, a million
dollars in the bank is not goingto change anything If you don't
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change, if you don't changewhat you believe to be true
about yourself.
I've been there.
I was just doing a liveyesterday in the Facebook group
about how I was.
I caught money terrors girl Ihad.
I was releasing cortisol intomy body 24, seven because money
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was the first thing I thoughtabout.
When I woke up I checked myaccount several times a day, all
of my accounts, from creditcards to savings, to CDs, to my
checking account, whatever.
I was like, obsessed with itand my cortisol levels were so
high for so many years that Ilanded myself in emergency
surgery on a Thanksgiving.
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I literally said to the doctordo you think that I really need
this surgery?
And he was like you're dying,that's why I'm here.
And I went oh fuck, the minuteafter I had that surgery and I
came to, I had this sense of,like, peace and calmness and I
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realized that a lot of my fearand anger was gone because they
removed an organ that holds that.
But it also was the moment thatI realized wow, if I don't
change my shit, if I don't getrid of this, I'm going to die.
I'm literally going to killmyself.
And that was the day thatreally shifted everything for me
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and I started looking at whatam I like, really feeling?
Because I had millions ofdollars in the bank, but I was
in so much terror that I wasliterally killing myself.
And it was you know, and thatthread went through everything,
it went through my relationship.
I had a great relationship butat the same time I didn't.
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I didn't realize how good arelationship could be until I
started doing the inside job.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Yeah, I would say now my best relationship was with
myself, like before it was Idon't.
You can't have a relationshipunless you have a relationship
with yourself.
Relationship unless you have arelationship with yourself.
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Like it's just not possible tohave a healthy relationship with
somebody else unless you have ahealthy relationship with
yourself.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
So I saw this post yesterday online and it's by a
woman I absolutely adore and shewas talking about.
She's not American, she'sCanadian and her boyfriend loves
one of our presidentialcandidates and the musk that is
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attached, attaching to him, headores him, he loves them, her
boyfriend loves these twoindividuals.
And she sat, she was asking foradvice, like how do I grapple,
like, how do I approach this orhow do I reconcile this?
And my first question, I think,was something like does he
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believe that he respects you asa woman?
Right, but I really, like Iwant to talk about this because
for me, like I, I answered aparagraph of questions like like
ask these, like you got tocommunicate, but one of the
biggest things is what do yourequire from your partner?
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Or do you want mutual respect?
Do you want your partner torespect you?
Because if somebody's idolizingsomebody who is a felon and
rapist, if they are idolizingand thinking this person is
amazing, then that is showingthat they don't respect women
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the way they should.
And how is that?
Where do you play?
What part do you play in this?
It's crazy to me.
It's not a lot of women that Ihave worked with end up leaving
their husbands leaving theirpartners, which is not
surprising.
When we start doing this work,do you see a difference in your
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ability to manifest money basedon your relationships Like cause
?
I've been married before, too.
You were married before.
What has changed?
Like and how does that?
How's that evolve for you?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
You mean through relationship?
How has it revolved or evolved?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah, so okay, let me use an example.
So my husband has alwaysrespected me, but he never
respected himself for a longtime.
Right, like he did.
But he didn't get a lot ofconfusion, we both did.
It was like really crazy, likeI didn't realize what self-love
was.
I was I would always say shitlike self-love, yeah, like that
really exists.
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That was me.
I was like you gotta be kiddingme that.
No, it's, it's a facade.
Nobody can have self-love.
I thought it was just a made-upconcept.
So, and he struggled a lotinternally with spirituality and
stuff like that.
I look and reflect on ourrelationship and I'm like, oh,
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how could we even have respectfor each other if we didn't even
have it for ourselves?
Yeah, not that we didn't loveeach other, not that we didn't
know that we were going to staytogether for the rest of our
physical experience and probablybeyond.
But no wonder we were havingsuch challenges with our money.
And what changed and I'm notgoing to go into the story, I
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think I shared the story ontoday's podcast what changed is
a conversation that we had acome to Jesus moment with him,
where I was like you got to geton this train, it's leaving the
station, and if you don't, ourmarriage isn't going to make it
not today, but it's not going tomake it for the long haul, and
so he was like you're absolutelyright, I'm getting on it.
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But when I reflect on that andthen what I see what has
happened.
Now we live together but we aretotally different entities.
Like I know that if he passes Istill will be here and I will
live on Right, I am not attached.
I know that I don't have tomake him happy, but I also know
that I do things because I lovehim but I'm not responsible for
his happiness or his emotions orany of that.
So I see this like mutualrespect, like yeah, you're good,
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you got this, you can doanything that you want.
I'm not responsible for any ofit.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Yeah, no, that's exactly right.
That's exactly how we are Like.
We are completely separateentities and we have a lot of
self-love, but then we also havea lot of love for each other
and respect for each other.
We have different values.
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We have different moneymindsets.
We have like we are completelyin fact and so bringing it to
the money, the money mindsetthing is he has I almost have
the opposite view of his when itcomes to how to grow money and
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manifest money and save money,use money like money in general.
Um, but it's funny because Iheard one time man this was a
long time ago.
I may have still been in thechurch when I heard this, but,
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um, but the number one thingthat couples fight about is
money and finance, and I believethat's true because it's a,
it's an energetically chargedthing.
You know, we've put so muchgoing back to our earlier
conversation, we've put so muchpower and worth into that dollar
sign that it's worth more thanus and it's not, you know, but
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we put that value on it, and soI can see why that would be
something that most couplesfight about.
We, we sit down and we do ourbudgets together, like as a
household.
Um, we also have our own thingthat we do too.
Um, you know, I I go through andI do financial projections and
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such, and then I bring those tothe conversation, um, and then,
I don't know, he does his ownthing too, and then we just
bring everything to theconversation and it could be, um
, a tense situation, it could besomething that is causes
friction in a relationship, butit doesn't.
I think a lot of times my moneyhabits drive him crazy because
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I just know that it's going tobe there and so I don't
necessarily I don't, I don'tnecessarily approach saving, for
example, or spending a largeamount, um, the same way he does
.
I just know it's going to bethere and so I just go and do
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the thing that I want to do orget the thing I want to get.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
You know, and it's so so often, people justify buying
a house but not investing inthemselves.
And this misconception thatbuying a house is an investment.
It is not an investment.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
It is not, it's a liability, it is, it is
literally a liability.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
It's owned by the bank.
You do not own it Until it ispaid off.
You do not own it.
Until it is paid off, you donot own it, and it's like the
worst, you're still payingproperty taxes on it.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
So it goes from being owned by the bank to being
owned by the government.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, and that's a whole different topic, you know
like but it's our perception,like we love owning a home and
we bought a home because wewanted one right.
But so many people think we aretaught that it's an investment.
We're taught from capitalismthat it's an investment.
So when we really stop and slowdown and start looking at how
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we're spending our money and ourbelief systems about what we're
spending it on and what webelieve.
Like there is no return oninvestment in a home.
None, absolutely none.
Like it is not when, 30 yearsfrom now, when you sell your
house, it's going to be worth 3million, because you've probably
laid 3 million into it.
But I really think, like it isthat perception that is totally
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subjective.
What is high ticket?
What is a lot of money?
There was a time when I wouldhave thought $300 in a month was
a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Oh, definitely there was a time yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Right, and now I'm like oh 10K for my cat to go
through the vet for after histrauma.
yeah, right yeah, whatever signthat it's gonna cost us just to
take him in.
It's gonna cost 550, okay, good, done there, it's paid for,
right.
Like our perception, I thinkthat and and I do this within
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the program too is when I say,like, do you think you could
manifest $10 this week?
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,what about a thousand?
Yeah, I probably could.
Okay, what about 10,000?
And people are like that'ssaying that more money is harder
.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
And it's not the same frequency, it's all the same.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Like change your concept of what.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
So, yeah, this is a good story.
Uh, so a long time ago, uh,right after my first divorce
well, my only divorce, um, and Iwas a single mom, I had an
infant, and I remember a mom, Ihad an infant, and I remember at
the time I wasn't reallyworried about the money, but I
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had zero dollars coming in, butI wasn't really worried about
the money.
I just started walking down themanifesting trail and I had
just started self-developmentbecause I realized through my
divorce that I needed to.
I was also kind of on the cuspof Christianity, like I was kind
of walking away from it becauseI grew up in a very, very
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conservative church and so I waskind of walking away from it
and I was just exploring otherthings, right, and I remember
saying, uh, it's okay, I'll findthe dollar, and I, I would, I
would find a dollar on theground every single time I
walked out the door I mean notin my doorway, but you know I'd
be walking my infant son downthe street, cause we'd go for
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walks around the town.
Um, because what else am I goingto do?
I didn't have a job, and so wespent a lot of time outside and
I was like, oh, let's go for awalk so I can find money.
And I totally did, I would.
I would go for a walk and,within you know, before the time
I got back I would, I wouldfind money.
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It was crazy, but I always, Inever thought it was a
possibility to find more thanlike $5.
So I remember one time I founda $10 bill outside of my
insurance office and I was like,oh my God, I found a $10 bill.
That's crazy.
I must have been reallypowerful today.
And it's so funny because thatwhat's the word I'm looking for,
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not conception, yeah, it isconception, whatever it is.
Um, that the $10 was worth moreit was.
It was harder for me to getright, um, because I had only
ever found like a dollar or $2or whatever.
But this leads into when Ifirst joined in E10X and I had
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like what, $4.97 or somethinglike that in my account and we
were talking about yourperception.
That's the word I'm looking forperception.
We were talking about theperception and I was like, no,
my reality is I mean, I couldshow it to you right now there's
$4 and whatever change.
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And you're like, yeah, that's a, that's a story you're telling
yourself, you know, like that'syour perception, did it in there
.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
This is the hardest thing.
Like I think that what we'retalking about now is one of the
hardest thing for women toreally get a grasp of, because
we say, yeah, yeah, yeah, I getthat, but no, it says this in my
bank account and it's like itsays that because that's your
perception, like it's you're,it's never going to get any
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bigger, you like.
But here's the thing that Ireally like to think about
Single mom broke, no job, right,we have been through and I can
honestly say every single personthat is listening to this
podcast has had it harder.
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That is listening to thispodcast has had it harder.
It is never going to be harderthan that time that it was so
freaking hard.
Okay, like, never going to bethat because you've done the
work to help yourself understandthat you're safe.
You're never going to have thathard of a time.
But we always forget.
We remember so many things fromour past but we forget that we
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live through it.
So, like for me, there was atime of my life when I was so
broke that I was like eating outof soup kitchens and like
eating government cheese andshit right, and I got to where I
would hoard canned foods andlike pastas and stuff, because
if I ever didn't have any money,then I would at least have
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something to eat, cause therewere days when I would just eat
rice and I call it rice surprise.
So you'd get rice and thesurprise was another serving of
rice, right.
So I've been in that broke assspot.
I remember being in that brokeass spot and I remember what it
was like and the hardships andall that kind of shit.
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But what my subconscious wasn'ttelling me was, yeah, that's
the hardest it's ever going toever be, the hardest it's ever
been, will ever be.
The hardest it's ever been,will ever be.
And you lived.
You lived.
Yeah, look now.
You have a home, you haveenough money to pay the mortgage
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, you have enough money to paythe electricity, you have food
on the table, you have gas inyour car.
Your life isn't fucking halfbad.
What's the worst case scenarioat this time in your life?
Right, it's not the money,because you've had it harder.
It's not because you're gettingolder and you wouldn't be able
to do the things that you knowyou were able to do back then.
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Bullshit, because I'm nevergoing to be in that position
again.
But it's so funny for us,because we're like I never want
to be that broke again.
Yeah Well, you're never goingto be that broke again because
you're not that person and Ireally want people to think
about that because you're notgoing back, you're never going
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backwards, you're always goingforwards and it's not the money
right Like I've hadextraordinary debt since then.
I paid it off.
I've had a business that made 10K a year.
I grew it Right Like it's socurious to me that we forget
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that we made it because we're sofocused on a future that
doesn't exist.
Oh, I haven't made it yet, Ihaven't created that success yet
.
It's like, yes, you have, Ihaven't created that success yet
.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
It's like, yes, you have, I feel like there's two
extremes, and I feel like mostpeople are on one of them.
They're either focused on thefuture that hasn't happened yet
and the business that they'regoing to create and they'll be
happy then, or they're sofocused on their past that they
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can't move towards the future.
They're so focused on that timethat they were that broke and
they're living in fear thatthey're going to do that again.
Or they're focused on thatdivorce that happened, or that
you know, sexual assault thathappened, or that whatever
traumatizing event that theycan't, or that whatever
traumatizing event that they,they can't.
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They say they want to heal fromit, but all they do is just
continue chasing healingmodalities and they, if you're
stuck in that space, you can'tgrow, you can't heal, because
you're you're still convincingyourself that you need the
healing that you're not tellingyourself exactly, you're not
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telling yourself you're healed.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
You're telling yourself I'm I'm healing and I
need to find that magic elixir.
I see people chasingcertifications, chasing
strategies, chasing all like allthose like Reiki, breath work,
tapping all these things to tryand find healing where they are
great tools to use.
But healing happens when youmake the decision that you are
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healed.
Yep, yeah, and it doesn't haveto be hard or difficult or take
a lot of time.
It doesn't have to be painfulBecause it comes from you like.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
You are the power that's you know whether it's
healing or it's manifesting orit's happiness.
You are your power.
It's all from within, which iswhy that self-love thing is so
important right.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
That's what reclaiming your personal power
is is just like accepting 100%who you are, but then also
knowing that this is only a body.
This is the body, this is thefacilitator of that
manifestation.
You fucking manifested thisbody.
You fought out of all the soulsand incarnations in the
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universe.
You fought to be here for thistime and you won.
You got this body.
So what the fuck are you goingto do with it?
Are you going to sit around andbitch and complain and moan and
groan that you don't have whatyou want?
Are you going to get to workand manifest and live out in
aligned action the work that youcame here to do, because this
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is your only opportunity in thislifetime?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, I'm going to say something controversial If
you're not willing to do thework, you don't get the right to
complain.
We have an election coming up,right, and my thing, my son
asked me because I don't likethe candidates, and he goes well
, are you going to vote?
And I and I was like, of course, it's my, it's my
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responsibility.
And so we were having adiscussion about politics and
government and you know the usand such um, which is great
because I homeschool, sohistory's done, but uh, anyway.
So I was telling him I was likehere, here's what I believe is,
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if I don't vote, I do not havethe right to complain for the
next four years.
Like, regardless of who I votefor, I don't have the right, if
I do not give my voice, tocomplain.
So if I'm not willing to do thework into the healing and
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claiming my personal power, thenI don't have the right to bitch
and complain about mycircumstances.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
And I see a lot of women that are doing the work
still bitching and complainingand whining and groaning and and
that's a learned behavior, yeah, and the self-deprecation it's
all based in so muchself-deprecation and, uh, yeah,
(32:08):
I see it.
So you're a witch.
I'm sure you work with the moon.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
By the time people hear this, the new moon will
have passed, but there will be anew moon coming upon us every
month, a month I've been reallythinking about.
(32:41):
So I strangely enough, I havealways- resonated with Sir Soul.
With the sun, he's always beenmy, like the moon yeah sure, I'm
like, yeah, cool, whatever, andI've worked with the moon
energy but I've kind of beenleaning a little bit more into
the moon lately and I know thatnew moons are wonderful for
manifesting off of what are somelike little tidbits that you
(33:07):
could, or even like ritual hintsor whatever that you like use
to tap into this.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Yeah, so I also love the sun.
I'm with you on that.
Like I am a warm person, I lovesitting in the sun.
In fact, a lot of my best ideascome from just sitting in the
sun.
Um, but there, but there's that, that yang to it, which is the
moon, and um, and I'm really inthe beginning journey of
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astrology and moon work and suchUm, because other than full
moons, let's leave out theastrology part of it.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Okay, let's just talk about your intuition and what
it tells you, because you'resuper so, um, for the new moons.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
It's a great time for manifesting and calling new
things in, so, especially when Iwant to start a new project, I
will try to align it with thenew moon.
Something I'm doing for thisnew moon is, in fact, I'm
actually doing an on-sale wine,but I'm going to create a
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prosperity bowl.
I just did a blog about this.
I posted it yesterday.
Speaker 1 (34:31):
Let's link it, let's link it, let's link it yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
Okay, we'll link it in the show notes.
Okay, cool.
So basically, what I'm going todo is I'm going to take I'm
going to use white, but I don'tcare what color candles.
Like this is about intuition.
Magic is about intuition,spells, rituals.
They're all about yourintention and your intuition.
(34:54):
And that's anothercontroversial thing, because
everybody's like no, you have todo it this way, and if you
don't do the no, it's about yourintention and um, so I'm using
white candles, cause that's whatI have.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I love it.
I have a bunch of um, my Boballow will tell, give me a list
of the candles I need to use forour connecting and dream time.
So I have those.
But then I have a bunch of likespare ones and I'm like, hmm,
today's a yellow day.
Yeah Right, number one alwaysit's about the most powerful
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thing that you have.
The most powerful tool you haveon this earth is intention.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
Absolutely Number one .
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Okay, all right, so I'm going to have a prosperity
bowl.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
I'm making a prosperity bowl.
I'm going to set the candles atthe Cardinal points, so I have
four candles to set them at theCardinal points.
I'm also going to use tealights, but that's because I'm
going to let them burn down andI don't want flames in my house
With all the children For days,with children and dogs and cats
(36:02):
and fire hazards.
Let's use tea lights.
So I'm going to use a glassbowl, but you could also use
some sort of earthy bowl or ametal bowl.
Okay, um, and I'm going to putthe moon water that I made on
the last full moon.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Uh, yay, that was from a blue moon, like last year
in 2023, but I've beenrecharging it for this one.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
So I'm going to use the moon water and I'm going to
put red rose petals in and Ikind of went back and forth on
the color, on the, on the petals, and it's really again your
intention and your.
You know what your intuitionsays.
But I liked the red Formultiple reasons.
(36:52):
It brings in passion, and Idon't remember the other reason.
But I liked the red formultiple reasons.
It brings in passion, and Idon't remember the other reason,
but I chose red.
And then I'm going to use bayleaves and on the bay leaves I'm
going to write the financial orthe money prosperity that I'm
looking to bring in.
I'm going to put them all inthe moon water and then I'm
(37:12):
going to bring in, I'm going toput them all in the moon water
and then I'm going to light thecandles.
Oh, and I'm going to use rose,quartz, pyrite and moldivate.
I'm going to put them aroundthe bowl, inside the candles,
not in the candles, yeah, andthen I'll light the candles and
let them burn out.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
So this particular moon and most moons, but this
one's really special to me.
Maybe I should post this onFriday.
I have them all set up.
That would mean three podcastscome out.
Maybe I will, I don't know.
But this new moon is reallyspecial to me because I
celebrate Dia de los Muertos.
(37:50):
It's my favorite holiday of theyear, when the spirits are most
active.
It also is the beginning toDiwali, which is my.
I was married to a Hindu foryears and I still love a lot of
the mythology and stuff.
So it's the beginning of Diwaliand it's a new moon and this is
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an an intense one.
It's like a no shit.
It's like don't fuck aroundlike this.
The beautiful thing I have foundwith new moons is half of the
ability to manifest is becausethey call you to do the no shit
shadow work.
It's like go deep or go home,like if you want to manifest.
(38:34):
It's not just about like, oh,I'm gonna do the no shit shadow
work.
It's like go deep or go home,like if you want to manifest.
It's not just about like, oh,I'm going to do the light little
stuff and the fancy ritual.
It's like, no, you got toreally look at what's holding
you back and what you want anddo the work.
So, for this particular one,because it's Dia de los Muertos,
I am pulling out my craniums.
(38:57):
I don't know if you can see her, oh, not really, cause Shalia
is back there.
She's my cranium.
That has been programmed to me.
Um, she is a wonderful ancient,so she and I, I, uh, have her.
I have many different elders,so I have some other, I have a
cranium candle and then I havemarigolds, so she will get her
(39:19):
own platter and her own altarand then I'll wrap her in
marigolds.
She loves crowns, so I have tomake her a floral crown and she
likes to have crystals in hereyes, so she always has those.
She's so spoiled, doesn't likebeing super pretty.
She's like me.
She likes being practical andshe likes pretty things, but she
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doesn't like blingy things, butshe's into practical, not
luxury.
But then, yeah, she will havecandles around her, water around
her and, yeah, she will havecandles around her, water around
her.
She will most likely be sittingon a bed of flower petals and
sea salt and all that kind ofstuff.
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I love the ritual aspect of it,of the new moons and the
special occasions and thegateways and the portals and all
that kind of stuff.
But I do believe that peoplesometimes get caught up in that
aspect and forget that they'rethe ones that hold the power.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Yeah, yeah, they forget that it's their power and
they forget about the intentionside of it.
And they think it has to dowith the ritual, and if you
don't do the ritual the way itwas supposed to be done supposed
to then it won't work or you'llcall it something bad like I
(40:50):
think, I think that people Ithink we have been taught that
do the ritual, set the intentionand then leave it.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
But it's like, okay, and I'm calling myself out
because I used to do this allthe time the lazy way out, yeah
well, I set my intention, Ijournaled and I set up my altar.
So why isn't anything coming tome?
Why isn't there a check in mymailbox?
What did you do to create that?
(41:32):
We still have to do shit?
Yeah well, what did you do tocreate that?
We still have to do shit?
Yeah, we just want to hope andwish and pray ourselves into
manifesting more money.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
So I've I have some digital courses out there or
classes that I have done and, uh, one of the things that I I say
is and I got this from a mentoruh, if you want something in
your life to change, you have tochange something in your life.
You cannot and then I expand onit you cannot just hope, wish
(42:04):
and pray and sit on your fuckingcouch watching TV and eating
bonbons and all of a sudden,millions show up in your
freaking bank account.
That's not how that works.
It's good that you have theintention, it's good that you're
showing gratitude, it's goodthat you're, you know, having a
positive attitude.
That's fine and dandy.
(42:25):
But unless you're going toactually take that inspired
action, you are not going tohave millions in your bank
account.
In fact, you won't haveanything in your bank account.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
I love that because one of the things that in E10X
we have the business buildinglike the brainstorming calls,
and today we're having one, andmy first question out of the
gate is going to be what did youdo this week in your business?
What did you do?
Yeah, I know that you and I andon car rows are doing Black
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Friday offers.
Speaker 2 (43:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
Right and it's like, okay, I didn't say I'm going to
do a Black Friday offer and thenjust sit on my ass and do
nothing to create it and hope itcomes to you and creates itself
.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
I just hope it works out.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
You know, I'll just send out a few emails and then
everyone's going to right it'slike no okay, I finished the
sales page, I got the checkoutpages, I'm starting on the
emails for the purchases andthen then I start the work yeah,
the purchases.
(43:37):
And then then I start the work.
Yeah, the work.
That means promoting it andsending out emails to my email
list and all that kind of stuff,like I don't think that it's
magically gonna sell itself yeah, because it won't.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Nobody.
Nobody can buy something theydon't know is available.
Like and I used to.
I used to be guilty of this,like I used to do this a lot.
I would, I would put outsomething and I would put it
only in my group, which was verysmall at the time I mean, it's
(44:14):
still, you know, moderatelysized, but it was pretty small
at this time.
It was like 20 people and Iwould put it in my group.
And then I would wonder and Iwould just do it once because I
didn't want to spam anybody youknow like and then wonder why I
sold nothing.
Yeah, you know, and I'm likewell, this doesn't work, I must
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need a new method.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
And then I used to do this.
I used to be like, uh, I'dpromote it for a few days and
when nobody signed up, then Iwould just be like, oh, I'm not
going to do it.
Speaker 2 (44:46):
Yeah, oh, I guess, I guess.
I guess it's not aligned.
Oh my God, yeah, I guess it'snot aligned.
Oh my God yeah.
Speaker 1 (44:54):
It's not aligned, it just doesn't feel aligned.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
Let me try something different, right it?
Speaker 1 (44:58):
doesn't feel aligned, I'm not going to sell it.
It just doesn't feel rightanymore.
Right, yes, I totally get that,so, okay, so we're getting
ready to sign off for the day.
I want everyone to know thatyou can check the show notes for
Suzette's blog post that shewas talking about earlier.
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We will have a link to ourBlack Friday offers if she has
it done by the time this comesout, which will be probably
close to Black Friday and thenext new moon, so it'll be
closer.
And then, yeah, just stay tuned,because Suzette and I are going
to be on talking aboutmanifesting money and having
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conversations like this to helpgive you more insight to the way
you might be thinking, theperception that you might have
about your own business, yourown ability to manifest and even
like what you believe businessto be.
Because, while Suzette is not acoach, she is definitely a
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business owner because she's anauthor.
That means she has a businessthat she is building as well.
It's just not coaching andguess what she has to do?
The same stuff that she isbuilding as well.
It's just not coaching andguess what she has to do?
The same stuff that any otherbusiness owner does.
Okay, so hopefully come intothe group, come into the Cosmic
(46:24):
Coven and tell us some of yourtakeaways from this.
What has shifted for you, whatyou would like to see change?
Come in and stay accountable.
We'd love to hear from you sothat we can support you and, as
always, thanks again.
Thanks for showing up, suzette.
Speaker 2 (46:42):
Thank you so much.
This has been fun.
look at you all decked out.
Hey, I'm super excited aboutthis y'all.
Suzette is in evolution 10xmastermind.
She's the wealth witch and weare going to have her on very
often to have conversationsabout money and manifesting and
(00:27):
magic and all those things,because we want to get you
making money to the point thatyou can create that financial
independence.
Now I will say I want everyoneto know that Suzette is not a
coach.
What are you, suzette?
Tell us a little bit aboutyourself and like where your
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passions are and all that kindof stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Well, I love money, but I'm a writer, so I spend my
days doing the things I love,which is writing and spending
time with my family.
Then I also have a farm.
I spend a lot of time on myfarm with my animals.
I'm learning how to grow things, which is kind of fun.
(01:17):
I've historically been not sogood at it.
Now I have a whole table ofgreenery stuff and it's so
exciting.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
It's like anything in life you have to learn the
process and it's trial and error.
I have studied horticultureright, but, and the thing is is
that it takes more than justknowing how to grow something.
You have to to like, help itfind its right environment, and
it can be a few feet away it'sall about there's always a
(01:51):
learning curve.
I'm always moving stuff in mygarden every year.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Yeah, I had an aloe plant that was sitting in my
kitchen window and it was finefor like a year, but then it
turned brown and I was like, ohno, my garden of dead is coming
back, cause that's what I usedto call my, my Siddhartha,
because I always it was alwaysdying.
No wonder, right?
But anyway, so.
(02:17):
So when I, when I started reallyunderstanding manifesting in
fact, I think it was, I think itwas after my first round for
E10X I was like I need to changethat.
If I want to grow things, Ineed to change that.
So I I changed it, um, and, andI was like you know, I think
(02:40):
that aloe plant needs to bemoved, because I had a spider
plant, was the first plant Iever got that lived longer than
like a month, and so I had thisspider plant and it was thriving
on my altar and I was like I'mjust gonna move the aloe plant
over there because maybe I mean,the energy is better, I like
(03:04):
the energy better.
Let's just put it over thereand see what happens.
All of a sudden now it's green,it's growing, it's putting out
new shoots, it's so happy andit's been there for probably I
don't know three months now theyhave to be moved.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
They plants don't like.
Plants don't like this.
If they like like the sunlightwhere it is in the winter,
they're not going to like itthere in the summer.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Just like us, we have to find our right environment.
Yeah, I pulled a card for us,ooh.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Because, I love doing that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
And the funny thing is is I started thinking about
the interpretation that peoplehave around certain suits of
cards right, and this is whatwe're told Like, cups means
relationships and love and allthat kind of stuff and I started
thinking about how we can takethat interpretation and we can
(04:10):
adapt it to the questions thatwe're asking, right?
So today I got the Ace of Cups,which is filled with emotion
and all that, but I startedthinking, okay, Ace of Cups and
the relationship to what we aretalking about, because both of
us are on this earth to helpwomen really create and
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facilitate the financialindependence that they desire,
to create that safe and secureenvironment for them and their
family.
And so I was like, oh, howperfect.
We're talking about therelationship that we have to
money and you know I'm alwaystalking about the relationship
(04:55):
that we have to oneself, like wehave to recognize on a core
level that we are more importantthan any dollar sign and that's
what's really going to open upthat, that funnel of prosperity.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
But yeah that was something that was super
fundamental is understandingthat your, your worth is, is
more than that dollar sign, andthat your, your dollar signs in
your you know physicalenvironment are directly tied to
(05:33):
what you intrinsically feel.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Right, and like I think about all these women that
have done so much work and Iwas included in this.
I was so included like, oh, Ilove myself, but there was
always that but, or the thing isis that in my subconscious I
had this deep programming thatmoney was going to be my savior
(05:59):
and even though I'd done all thework around, like self-love and
all that I didn't recognize howdeeply rooted our belief system
about money being the thingthat is going to create our
financial freedom.
It's going to give me thefinancial freedom when I get my
business to multiple six, thenI'll finally have the financial
(06:22):
freedom, then I'll have the timefreedom, freedom.
Then I'll have the time freedom,then I'll have all these things
and we're giving our personalpower away to the almighty
dollar, yeah, and then we wantthe almighty dollar and those
that will give it to you right,and I did it for so long and I
(06:43):
didn't even realize it, like itwas deep stories, because I was
telling myself with my logicalbrain so many other things like
no, I, you know, I'm good, I'msafe, I'm, you know, beautiful,
I love myself.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I definitely love myself I can't tell you how many
like it's.
I did not realize how low myself-worth was because I had
done all that work right.
I've been doing work for yearson myself and I have always said
(07:20):
that I'm my biggest fan.
But until I really understoodwhat you're talking about, how
that's just so deeply ingrainedin us to think that money is the
savior, and if you say that tosomebody in society, they're
(07:41):
going to be like no, it's not.
You know, uh, some religiousthing is probably the savior
Right, but, um, because to lovemoney is to is is greedy but,
but, um, it does.
We do say all the time, and I,I've heard coaches say this,
(08:02):
I've heard um, and I've heardcoaches say this.
I've heard money people saythis.
I've heard all of these peopleyou know, oh well, it's not
greedy to love money, becausethat's when you're going to have
the freedom.
It creates the time freedom, itcreates the free, it creates
this, it creates that, and it'sit's really you that creates
(08:23):
that.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Oh my God, you're so right and I think that's why I
hate that marketing strategy.
Get your 10K months, your sixfigure years.
I hate marketing strategy thatbases your success on the
almighty dollar and I think it'salways rubbed me a wrong way
and it does.
(08:43):
Recently I've been like, oh,it's like nails on a chalkboard
because it is handing I talkabout reclaiming your personal
power and it's just handing overyour success and gauging your
success on a dollar amount thatdoesn't matter.
I know women in E10X that willsay I'm making less money now
(09:07):
than I did in my corporate life,but I have more security, I
have more availability in myfunds, I have all this, like you
know, more freedom than I everdid, and I'm like that's because
it's not the amount of money,Like it doesn't, a million
dollars in the bank is not goingto change anything If you don't
(09:28):
change, if you don't changewhat you believe to be true
about yourself.
I've been there.
I was just doing a liveyesterday in the Facebook group
about how I was.
I caught money terrors girl Ihad.
I was releasing cortisol intomy body 24, seven because money
(09:50):
was the first thing I thoughtabout.
When I woke up I checked myaccount several times a day, all
of my accounts, from creditcards to savings, to CDs, to my
checking account, whatever.
I was like, obsessed with itand my cortisol levels were so
high for so many years that Ilanded myself in emergency
surgery on a Thanksgiving.
(10:10):
I literally said to the doctordo you think that I really need
this surgery?
And he was like you're dying,that's why I'm here.
And I went oh fuck, the minuteafter I had that surgery and I
came to, I had this sense of,like, peace and calmness and I
(10:31):
realized that a lot of my fearand anger was gone because they
removed an organ that holds that.
But it also was the moment thatI realized wow, if I don't
change my shit, if I don't getrid of this, I'm going to die.
I'm literally going to killmyself.
And that was the day thatreally shifted everything for me
(10:55):
and I started looking at whatam I like, really feeling?
Because I had millions ofdollars in the bank, but I was
in so much terror that I wasliterally killing myself.
And it was you know, and thatthread went through everything,
it went through my relationship.
I had a great relationship butat the same time I didn't.
(11:18):
I didn't realize how good arelationship could be until I
started doing the inside job.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Yeah, I would say now my best relationship was with
myself, like before it was Idon't.
You can't have a relationshipunless you have a relationship
with yourself.
Relationship unless you have arelationship with yourself.
(11:50):
Like it's just not possible tohave a healthy relationship with
somebody else unless you have ahealthy relationship with
yourself.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
So I saw this post yesterday online and it's by a
woman I absolutely adore and shewas talking about.
She's not American, she'sCanadian and her boyfriend loves
one of our presidentialcandidates and the musk that is
(12:16):
attached, attaching to him, headores him, he loves them, her
boyfriend loves these twoindividuals.
And she sat, she was asking foradvice, like how do I grapple,
like, how do I approach this orhow do I reconcile this?
And my first question, I think,was something like does he
(12:44):
believe that he respects you asa woman?
Right, but I really, like Iwant to talk about this because
for me, like I, I answered aparagraph of questions like like
ask these, like you got tocommunicate, but one of the
biggest things is what do yourequire from your partner?
(13:05):
Or do you want mutual respect?
Do you want your partner torespect you?
Because if somebody's idolizingsomebody who is a felon and
rapist, if they are idolizingand thinking this person is
amazing, then that is showingthat they don't respect women
(13:29):
the way they should.
And how is that?
Where do you play?
What part do you play in this?
It's crazy to me.
It's not a lot of women that Ihave worked with end up leaving
their husbands leaving theirpartners, which is not
surprising.
When we start doing this work,do you see a difference in your
(13:56):
ability to manifest money basedon your relationships Like cause
?
I've been married before, too.
You were married before.
What has changed?
Like and how does that?
How's that evolve for you?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
You mean through relationship?
How has it revolved or evolved?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah, so okay, let me use an example.
So my husband has alwaysrespected me, but he never
respected himself for a longtime.
Right, like he did.
But he didn't get a lot ofconfusion, we both did.
It was like really crazy, likeI didn't realize what self-love
was.
I was I would always say shitlike self-love, yeah, like that
really exists.
(14:37):
That was me.
I was like you gotta be kiddingme that.
No, it's, it's a facade.
Nobody can have self-love.
I thought it was just a made-upconcept.
So, and he struggled a lotinternally with spirituality and
stuff like that.
I look and reflect on ourrelationship and I'm like, oh,
(15:02):
how could we even have respectfor each other if we didn't even
have it for ourselves?
Yeah, not that we didn't loveeach other, not that we didn't
know that we were going to staytogether for the rest of our
physical experience and probablybeyond.
But no wonder we were havingsuch challenges with our money.
And what changed and I'm notgoing to go into the story, I
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think I shared the story ontoday's podcast what changed is
a conversation that we had acome to Jesus moment with him,
where I was like you got to geton this train, it's leaving the
station, and if you don't, ourmarriage isn't going to make it
not today, but it's not going tomake it for the long haul, and
so he was like you're absolutelyright, I'm getting on it.
(15:52):
But when I reflect on that andthen what I see what has
happened.
Now we live together but we aretotally different entities.
Like I know that if he passes Istill will be here and I will
live on Right, I am not attached.
I know that I don't have tomake him happy, but I also know
that I do things because I lovehim but I'm not responsible for
his happiness or his emotions orany of that.
So I see this like mutualrespect, like yeah, you're good,
(16:16):
you got this, you can doanything that you want.
I'm not responsible for any ofit.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Yeah, no, that's exactly right.
That's exactly how we are Like.
We are completely separateentities and we have a lot of
self-love, but then we also havea lot of love for each other
and respect for each other.
We have different values.
(16:41):
We have different moneymindsets.
We have like we are completelyin fact and so bringing it to
the money, the money mindsetthing is he has I almost have
the opposite view of his when itcomes to how to grow money and
(17:03):
manifest money and save money,use money like money in general.
Um, but it's funny because Iheard one time man this was a
long time ago.
I may have still been in thechurch when I heard this, but,
(17:24):
um, but the number one thingthat couples fight about is
money and finance, and I believethat's true because it's a,
it's an energetically chargedthing.
You know, we've put so muchgoing back to our earlier
conversation, we've put so muchpower and worth into that dollar
sign that it's worth more thanus and it's not, you know, but
(17:48):
we put that value on it, and soI can see why that would be
something that most couplesfight about.
We, we sit down and we do ourbudgets together, like as a
household.
Um, we also have our own thingthat we do too.
Um, you know, I I go through andI do financial projections and
(18:11):
such, and then I bring those tothe conversation, um, and then,
I don't know, he does his ownthing too, and then we just
bring everything to theconversation and it could be, um
, a tense situation, it could besomething that is causes
friction in a relationship, butit doesn't.
I think a lot of times my moneyhabits drive him crazy because
(18:37):
I just know that it's going tobe there and so I don't
necessarily I don't, I don'tnecessarily approach saving, for
example, or spending a largeamount, um, the same way he does
.
I just know it's going to bethere and so I just go and do
(18:59):
the thing that I want to do orget the thing I want to get.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
You know, and it's so so often, people justify buying
a house but not investing inthemselves.
And this misconception thatbuying a house is an investment.
It is not an investment.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
It is not, it's a liability, it is, it is
literally a liability.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
It's owned by the bank.
You do not own it Until it ispaid off.
You do not own it.
Until it is paid off, you donot own it, and it's like the
worst, you're still payingproperty taxes on it.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
So it goes from being owned by the bank to being
owned by the government.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, and that's a whole different topic, you know
like but it's our perception,like we love owning a home and
we bought a home because wewanted one right.
But so many people think we aretaught that it's an investment.
We're taught from capitalismthat it's an investment.
So when we really stop and slowdown and start looking at how
(20:02):
we're spending our money and ourbelief systems about what we're
spending it on and what webelieve.
Like there is no return oninvestment in a home.
None, absolutely none.
Like it is not when, 30 yearsfrom now, when you sell your
house, it's going to be worth 3million, because you've probably
laid 3 million into it.
But I really think, like it isthat perception that is totally
(20:30):
subjective.
What is high ticket?
What is a lot of money?
There was a time when I wouldhave thought $300 in a month was
a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Oh, definitely there was a time yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Right, and now I'm like oh 10K for my cat to go
through the vet for after histrauma.
yeah, right yeah, whatever signthat it's gonna cost us just to
take him in.
It's gonna cost 550, okay, good, done there, it's paid for,
right.
Like our perception, I thinkthat and and I do this within
(21:05):
the program too is when I say,like, do you think you could
manifest $10 this week?
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,what about a thousand?
Yeah, I probably could.
Okay, what about 10,000?
And people are like that'ssaying that more money is harder
.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
And it's not the same frequency, it's all the same.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Like change your concept of what.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
So, yeah, this is a good story.
Uh, so a long time ago, uh,right after my first divorce
well, my only divorce, um, and Iwas a single mom, I had an
infant, and I remember a mom, Ihad an infant, and I remember at
the time I wasn't reallyworried about the money, but I
(21:58):
had zero dollars coming in, butI wasn't really worried about
the money.
I just started walking down themanifesting trail and I had
just started self-developmentbecause I realized through my
divorce that I needed to.
I was also kind of on the cuspof Christianity, like I was kind
of walking away from it becauseI grew up in a very, very
(22:20):
conservative church and so I waskind of walking away from it
and I was just exploring otherthings, right, and I remember
saying, uh, it's okay, I'll findthe dollar, and I, I would, I
would find a dollar on theground every single time I
walked out the door I mean notin my doorway, but you know I'd
be walking my infant son downthe street, cause we'd go for
(22:42):
walks around the town.
Um, because what else am I goingto do?
I didn't have a job, and so wespent a lot of time outside and
I was like, oh, let's go for awalk so I can find money.
And I totally did, I would.
I would go for a walk and,within you know, before the time
I got back I would, I wouldfind money.
(23:03):
It was crazy, but I always, Inever thought it was a
possibility to find more thanlike $5.
So I remember one time I founda $10 bill outside of my
insurance office and I was like,oh my God, I found a $10 bill.
That's crazy.
I must have been reallypowerful today.
And it's so funny because thatwhat's the word I'm looking for,
(23:28):
not conception, yeah, it isconception, whatever it is.
Um, that the $10 was worth moreit was.
It was harder for me to getright, um, because I had only
ever found like a dollar or $2or whatever.
But this leads into when Ifirst joined in E10X and I had
(23:54):
like what, $4.97 or somethinglike that in my account and we
were talking about yourperception.
That's the word I'm looking forperception.
We were talking about theperception and I was like, no,
my reality is I mean, I couldshow it to you right now there's
$4 and whatever change.
(24:15):
And you're like, yeah, that's a, that's a story you're telling
yourself, you know, like that'syour perception, did it in there
.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
This is the hardest thing.
Like I think that what we'retalking about now is one of the
hardest thing for women toreally get a grasp of, because
we say, yeah, yeah, yeah, I getthat, but no, it says this in my
bank account and it's like itsays that because that's your
perception, like it's you're,it's never going to get any
(24:44):
bigger, you like.
But here's the thing that Ireally like to think about
Single mom broke, no job, right,we have been through and I can
honestly say every single personthat is listening to this
podcast has had it harder.
(25:06):
That is listening to thispodcast has had it harder.
It is never going to be harderthan that time that it was so
freaking hard.
Okay, like, never going to bethat because you've done the
work to help yourself understandthat you're safe.
You're never going to have thathard of a time.
But we always forget.
We remember so many things fromour past but we forget that we
(25:29):
live through it.
So, like for me, there was atime of my life when I was so
broke that I was like eating outof soup kitchens and like
eating government cheese andshit right, and I got to where I
would hoard canned foods andlike pastas and stuff, because
if I ever didn't have any money,then I would at least have
(25:52):
something to eat, cause therewere days when I would just eat
rice and I call it rice surprise.
So you'd get rice and thesurprise was another serving of
rice, right.
So I've been in that broke assspot.
I remember being in that brokeass spot and I remember what it
was like and the hardships andall that kind of shit.
(26:14):
But what my subconscious wasn'ttelling me was, yeah, that's
the hardest it's ever going toever be, the hardest it's ever
been, will ever be.
The hardest it's ever been,will ever be.
And you lived.
You lived.
Yeah, look now.
You have a home, you haveenough money to pay the mortgage
(26:36):
, you have enough money to paythe electricity, you have food
on the table, you have gas inyour car.
Your life isn't fucking halfbad.
What's the worst case scenarioat this time in your life?
Right, it's not the money,because you've had it harder.
It's not because you're gettingolder and you wouldn't be able
to do the things that you knowyou were able to do back then.
(26:57):
Bullshit, because I'm nevergoing to be in that position
again.
But it's so funny for us,because we're like I never want
to be that broke again.
Yeah Well, you're never goingto be that broke again because
you're not that person and Ireally want people to think
about that because you're notgoing back, you're never going
(27:17):
backwards, you're always goingforwards and it's not the money
right Like I've hadextraordinary debt since then.
I paid it off.
I've had a business that made 10K a year.
I grew it Right Like it's socurious to me that we forget
(27:41):
that we made it because we're sofocused on a future that
doesn't exist.
Oh, I haven't made it yet, Ihaven't created that success yet
.
It's like, yes, you have, Ihaven't created that success yet
.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
It's like, yes, you have, I feel like there's two
extremes, and I feel like mostpeople are on one of them.
They're either focused on thefuture that hasn't happened yet
and the business that they'regoing to create and they'll be
happy then, or they're sofocused on their past that they
(28:12):
can't move towards the future.
They're so focused on that timethat they were that broke and
they're living in fear thatthey're going to do that again.
Or they're focused on thatdivorce that happened, or that
you know, sexual assault thathappened, or that whatever
traumatizing event that theycan't, or that whatever
traumatizing event that they,they can't.
(28:34):
They say they want to heal fromit, but all they do is just
continue chasing healingmodalities and they, if you're
stuck in that space, you can'tgrow, you can't heal, because
you're you're still convincingyourself that you need the
healing that you're not tellingyourself exactly, you're not
(28:54):
telling yourself you're healed.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
You're telling yourself I'm I'm healing and I
need to find that magic elixir.
I see people chasingcertifications, chasing
strategies, chasing all like allthose like Reiki, breath work,
tapping all these things to tryand find healing where they are
great tools to use.
But healing happens when youmake the decision that you are
(29:19):
healed.
Yep, yeah, and it doesn't haveto be hard or difficult or take
a lot of time.
It doesn't have to be painfulBecause it comes from you like.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
You are the power that's you know whether it's
healing or it's manifesting orit's happiness.
You are your power.
It's all from within, which iswhy that self-love thing is so
important right.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
That's what reclaiming your personal power
is is just like accepting 100%who you are, but then also
knowing that this is only a body.
This is the body, this is thefacilitator of that
manifestation.
You fucking manifested thisbody.
You fought out of all the soulsand incarnations in the
(30:11):
universe.
You fought to be here for thistime and you won.
You got this body.
So what the fuck are you goingto do with it?
Are you going to sit around andbitch and complain and moan and
groan that you don't have whatyou want?
Are you going to get to workand manifest and live out in
aligned action the work that youcame here to do, because this
(30:32):
is your only opportunity in thislifetime?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Yeah, I'm going to say something controversial If
you're not willing to do thework, you don't get the right to
complain.
We have an election coming up,right, and my thing, my son
asked me because I don't likethe candidates, and he goes well
, are you going to vote?
And I and I was like, of course, it's my, it's my
(30:55):
responsibility.
And so we were having adiscussion about politics and
government and you know the usand such um, which is great
because I homeschool, sohistory's done, but uh, anyway.
So I was telling him I was likehere, here's what I believe is,
(31:15):
if I don't vote, I do not havethe right to complain for the
next four years.
Like, regardless of who I votefor, I don't have the right, if
I do not give my voice, tocomplain.
So if I'm not willing to do thework into the healing and
(31:40):
claiming my personal power, thenI don't have the right to bitch
and complain about mycircumstances.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
And I see a lot of women that are doing the work
still bitching and complainingand whining and groaning and and
that's a learned behavior, yeah, and the self-deprecation it's
all based in so muchself-deprecation and, uh, yeah,
(32:08):
I see it.
So you're a witch.
I'm sure you work with the moon.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
By the time people hear this, the new moon will
have passed, but there will be anew moon coming upon us every
month, a month I've been reallythinking about.
(32:41):
So I strangely enough, I havealways- resonated with Sir Soul.
With the sun, he's always beenmy, like the moon yeah sure, I'm
like, yeah, cool, whatever, andI've worked with the moon
energy but I've kind of beenleaning a little bit more into
the moon lately and I know thatnew moons are wonderful for
manifesting off of what are somelike little tidbits that you
(33:07):
could, or even like ritual hintsor whatever that you like use
to tap into this.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Yeah, so I also love the sun.
I'm with you on that.
Like I am a warm person, I lovesitting in the sun.
In fact, a lot of my best ideascome from just sitting in the
sun.
Um, but there, but there's that, that yang to it, which is the
moon, and um, and I'm really inthe beginning journey of
(33:44):
astrology and moon work and suchUm, because other than full
moons, let's leave out theastrology part of it.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Okay, let's just talk about your intuition and what
it tells you, because you'resuper so, um, for the new moons.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
It's a great time for manifesting and calling new
things in, so, especially when Iwant to start a new project, I
will try to align it with thenew moon.
Something I'm doing for thisnew moon is, in fact, I'm
actually doing an on-sale wine,but I'm going to create a
(34:27):
prosperity bowl.
I just did a blog about this.
I posted it yesterday.
Speaker 1 (34:31):
Let's link it, let's link it, let's link it yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
Okay, we'll link it in the show notes.
Okay, cool.
So basically, what I'm going todo is I'm going to take I'm
going to use white, but I don'tcare what color candles.
Like this is about intuition.
Magic is about intuition,spells, rituals.
They're all about yourintention and your intuition.
(34:54):
And that's anothercontroversial thing, because
everybody's like no, you have todo it this way, and if you
don't do the no, it's about yourintention and um, so I'm using
white candles, cause that's whatI have.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I love it.
I have a bunch of um, my Boballow will tell, give me a list
of the candles I need to use forour connecting and dream time.
So I have those.
But then I have a bunch of likespare ones and I'm like, hmm,
today's a yellow day.
Yeah Right, number one alwaysit's about the most powerful
(35:31):
thing that you have.
The most powerful tool you haveon this earth is intention.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
Absolutely Number one .
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Okay, all right, so I'm going to have a prosperity
bowl.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
I'm making a prosperity bowl.
I'm going to set the candles atthe Cardinal points, so I have
four candles to set them at theCardinal points.
I'm also going to use tealights, but that's because I'm
going to let them burn down andI don't want flames in my house
With all the children For days,with children and dogs and cats
(36:02):
and fire hazards.
Let's use tea lights.
So I'm going to use a glassbowl, but you could also use
some sort of earthy bowl or ametal bowl.
Okay, um, and I'm going to putthe moon water that I made on
the last full moon.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Uh, yay, that was from a blue moon, like last year
in 2023, but I've beenrecharging it for this one.
Speaker 2 (36:31):
So I'm going to use the moon water and I'm going to
put red rose petals in and Ikind of went back and forth on
the color, on the, on the petals, and it's really again your
intention and your.
You know what your intuitionsays.
But I liked the red Formultiple reasons.
(36:52):
It brings in passion, and Idon't remember the other reason.
But I liked the red formultiple reasons.
It brings in passion, and Idon't remember the other reason,
but I chose red.
And then I'm going to use bayleaves and on the bay leaves I'm
going to write the financial orthe money prosperity that I'm
looking to bring in.
I'm going to put them all inthe moon water and then I'm
(37:12):
going to bring in, I'm going toput them all in the moon water
and then I'm going to light thecandles.
Oh, and I'm going to use rose,quartz, pyrite and moldivate.
I'm going to put them aroundthe bowl, inside the candles,
not in the candles, yeah, andthen I'll light the candles and
let them burn out.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
So this particular moon and most moons, but this
one's really special to me.
Maybe I should post this onFriday.
I have them all set up.
That would mean three podcastscome out.
Maybe I will, I don't know.
But this new moon is reallyspecial to me because I
celebrate Dia de los Muertos.
(37:50):
It's my favorite holiday of theyear, when the spirits are most
active.
It also is the beginning toDiwali, which is my.
I was married to a Hindu foryears and I still love a lot of
the mythology and stuff.
So it's the beginning of Diwaliand it's a new moon and this is
(38:14):
an an intense one.
It's like a no shit.
It's like don't fuck aroundlike this.
The beautiful thing I have foundwith new moons is half of the
ability to manifest is becausethey call you to do the no shit
shadow work.
It's like go deep or go home,like if you want to manifest.
(38:34):
It's not just about like, oh,I'm gonna do the no shit shadow
work.
It's like go deep or go home,like if you want to manifest.
It's not just about like, oh,I'm going to do the light little
stuff and the fancy ritual.
It's like, no, you got toreally look at what's holding
you back and what you want anddo the work.
So, for this particular one,because it's Dia de los Muertos,
I am pulling out my craniums.
(38:57):
I don't know if you can see her, oh, not really, cause Shalia
is back there.
She's my cranium.
That has been programmed to me.
Um, she is a wonderful ancient,so she and I, I, uh, have her.
I have many different elders,so I have some other, I have a
cranium candle and then I havemarigolds, so she will get her
(39:19):
own platter and her own altarand then I'll wrap her in
marigolds.
She loves crowns, so I have tomake her a floral crown and she
likes to have crystals in hereyes, so she always has those.
She's so spoiled, doesn't likebeing super pretty.
She's like me.
She likes being practical andshe likes pretty things, but she
(39:42):
doesn't like blingy things, butshe's into practical, not
luxury.
But then, yeah, she will havecandles around her, water around
her and, yeah, she will havecandles around her, water around
her.
She will most likely be sittingon a bed of flower petals and
sea salt and all that kind ofstuff.
(40:04):
I love the ritual aspect of it,of the new moons and the
special occasions and thegateways and the portals and all
that kind of stuff.
But I do believe that peoplesometimes get caught up in that
aspect and forget that they'rethe ones that hold the power.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Yeah, yeah, they forget that it's their power and
they forget about the intentionside of it.
And they think it has to dowith the ritual, and if you
don't do the ritual the way itwas supposed to be done supposed
to then it won't work or you'llcall it something bad like I
(40:50):
think, I think that people Ithink we have been taught that
do the ritual, set the intentionand then leave it.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
But it's like, okay, and I'm calling myself out
because I used to do this allthe time the lazy way out, yeah
well, I set my intention, Ijournaled and I set up my altar.
So why isn't anything coming tome?
Why isn't there a check in mymailbox?
What did you do to create that?
(41:32):
We still have to do shit?
Yeah well, what did you do tocreate that?
We still have to do shit?
Yeah, we just want to hope andwish and pray ourselves into
manifesting more money.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
So I've I have some digital courses out there or
classes that I have done and, uh, one of the things that I I say
is and I got this from a mentoruh, if you want something in
your life to change, you have tochange something in your life.
You cannot and then I expand onit you cannot just hope, wish
(42:04):
and pray and sit on your fuckingcouch watching TV and eating
bonbons and all of a sudden,millions show up in your
freaking bank account.
That's not how that works.
It's good that you have theintention, it's good that you're
showing gratitude, it's goodthat you're, you know, having a
positive attitude.
That's fine and dandy.
(42:25):
But unless you're going toactually take that inspired
action, you are not going tohave millions in your bank
account.
In fact, you won't haveanything in your bank account.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
I love that because one of the things that in E10X
we have the business buildinglike the brainstorming calls,
and today we're having one, andmy first question out of the
gate is going to be what did youdo this week in your business?
What did you do?
Yeah, I know that you and I andon car rows are doing Black
(43:04):
Friday offers.
Speaker 2 (43:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
Right and it's like, okay, I didn't say I'm going to
do a Black Friday offer and thenjust sit on my ass and do
nothing to create it and hope itcomes to you and creates itself
.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
I just hope it works out.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
You know, I'll just send out a few emails and then
everyone's going to right it'slike no okay, I finished the
sales page, I got the checkoutpages, I'm starting on the
emails for the purchases andthen then I start the work yeah,
the purchases.
(43:37):
And then then I start the work.
Yeah, the work.
That means promoting it andsending out emails to my email
list and all that kind of stuff,like I don't think that it's
magically gonna sell itself yeah, because it won't.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Nobody.
Nobody can buy something theydon't know is available.
Like and I used to.
I used to be guilty of this,like I used to do this a lot.
I would, I would put outsomething and I would put it
only in my group, which was verysmall at the time I mean, it's
(44:14):
still, you know, moderatelysized, but it was pretty small
at this time.
It was like 20 people and Iwould put it in my group.
And then I would wonder and Iwould just do it once because I
didn't want to spam anybody youknow like and then wonder why I
sold nothing.
Yeah, you know, and I'm likewell, this doesn't work, I must
(44:35):
need a new method.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
And then I used to do this.
I used to be like, uh, I'dpromote it for a few days and
when nobody signed up, then Iwould just be like, oh, I'm not
going to do it.
Speaker 2 (44:46):
Yeah, oh, I guess, I guess.
I guess it's not aligned.
Oh my God, yeah, I guess it'snot aligned.
Oh my God yeah.
Speaker 1 (44:54):
It's not aligned, it just doesn't feel aligned.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
Let me try something different, right it?
Speaker 1 (44:58):
doesn't feel aligned, I'm not going to sell it.
It just doesn't feel rightanymore.
Right, yes, I totally get that,so, okay, so we're getting
ready to sign off for the day.
I want everyone to know thatyou can check the show notes for
Suzette's blog post that shewas talking about earlier.
(45:20):
We will have a link to ourBlack Friday offers if she has
it done by the time this comesout, which will be probably
close to Black Friday and thenext new moon, so it'll be
closer.
And then, yeah, just stay tuned,because Suzette and I are going
to be on talking aboutmanifesting money and having
(45:43):
conversations like this to helpgive you more insight to the way
you might be thinking, theperception that you might have
about your own business, yourown ability to manifest and even
like what you believe businessto be.
Because, while Suzette is not acoach, she is definitely a
(46:04):
business owner because she's anauthor.
That means she has a businessthat she is building as well.
It's just not coaching andguess what she has to do?
The same stuff that she isbuilding as well.
It's just not coaching andguess what she has to do?
The same stuff that any otherbusiness owner does.
Okay, so hopefully come intothe group, come into the Cosmic
(46:24):
Coven and tell us some of yourtakeaways from this.
What has shifted for you, whatyou would like to see change?
Come in and stay accountable.
We'd love to hear from you sothat we can support you and, as
always, thanks again.
Thanks for showing up, suzette.
Speaker 2 (46:42):
Thank you so much.
This has been fun.
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
Dateline NBC
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